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    Samia
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    Salaam Angel

    I do personally feel that a few of the reasons for an abortion could be justified, (incest, rape, lack of money, abnormal fetus).

    From the four reasons you quoted, I think one, two and four depend on individual circumstances. Lack of money is the one reason God does not accept

    6151 "....kill not your children because of poverty, We provide sustenance for you and for them".

    Threat for the life of the mother is a legitimate reason in my understanding for "a soul for a soul" self defence.
    So, apart from poverty, I think one cannot say this or that reason are not accepted.

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      Angel
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      Peace Samia,

      6151 "....kill not your children because of poverty, We provide sustenance for you and for them".

      Do you believe in predestination?

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        Samia
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        Peace Samia,
        Do you believe in predestination?

        Not really

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          almarh0m
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          Salaam Samia

          Sister . does verse 1731 talk about Abortion ? What is your understanding of that verse please ?

          Cheers

          almarh0m

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            Samia
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            Salaam Samia

            Sister . does verse 1731 talk about Abortion ? What is your understanding of that verse please ?

            Cheers

            almarh0m

            Also 6151.

            I think so. Otherwise, it would mean "you may kill your born children for other reasons according to circumstances, but not for poverty"

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              jankren
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              If people stop having sex outside marriage abortion rate could be reduced GREATLY though not completely. Instead of debating over the legalization of abortion I think we should find the solutions to stop the causes of the need of abortion.

              Anyway, I think we went through this topic in other thread already.

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                Alen
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                Salam.

                Has it come to that?
                Are we really talking about this?

                May Allah SWT helps us all.

                Peace.

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                  Samia
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                  Salaam jankren

                  If people stop having sex outside marriage abortion rate could be reduced GREATLY though not completely. Instead of debating over the legalization of abortion I think we should find the solutions to stop the causes of the need of abortion.

                  Anyway, I think we went through this topic in other thread already.

                  From the list provided by angel, only "unmarried" does not apply to married women.
                  And we are not debating about legalization of abortion. Where did you get that from?

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                    jankren
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                    Salaam jankren

                    From the list provided by angel, only "unmarried" does not apply to married women.
                    And we are not debating about legalization of abortion. Where did you get that from?

                    Yeah but most of the listed reasons MOSTLY ocurred to unmarried couples such as too young to have a kid. I could understand women who consider abortion due to rape though.

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                      jonny_k
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                      Peace all,
                      Abortion if the child's heart and brain have start functioning should be prohibited since then it is a NEW CREATURE, A HUMAN BEING. At that stage ther can be no more excuse. In the picture this seems to be the case. If however the embryo is at a stage where heart hasnt even developed and neither have the brain neurons started forming a network and interacting with one another, then one can still abort. Most women do it in those early embryonic stages. Why would a raped woman wait for months before she aborts her child? In that case she will have no excuse. GOD Bless!

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                        siki
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                        Angel

                        could you please remove (or get it removed) that horrible/disgusting picture?

                        siki

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                          Angel
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                          Peace Siki,

                          I was actually gonna put that picture in the trash section, but coz I?ve been told in PM not to post legitimate threads in the trash section I decided to post this in the main section.

                          The pic was suppose to incite a reaction, but it is a daft thing to do since I would assume most members of the forum are against abortion - Mods please remove the pic.

                          Thanks.

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                            Elke
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                            Peace angel,

                            guess you'll have to pm the mods...they don't read it all.

                            elke

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                              Angel
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                              It?s removed now.

                              Has it come to that?
                              Are we really talking about this?

                              Not sure what you mean bro Alen.

                              Abortion has been around for a very long time?.

                              In Paki land they don?t have the surgical equipment like we do so they get a lady to use her hands to get the baby out (apparently).

                              About 8 years ago I read in a pro-life leaflet that since abortions have been practiced in the UK 2 million babies have been aborted in this country; the number has obviously gone up now.

                              In places were abortion is illegal, it?s practiced at a higher rate, but without using surgical equipment by qualified people it damages the health of the pregnant woman, it may even kill her if not practiced properly.

                              Most women that have abortions end up suffering from psychological problems (chronic guilt/depression and some even contemplate/commit suicide). Women need to be made well aware of the facts before they undergo the procedure.

                              salaam
                              peace

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                                Katara
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                                Salam,

                                Threat for the life of the mother is a legitimate reason in my understanding for "a soul for a soul" self defence.
                                So, apart from poverty, I think one cannot say this or that reason are not accepted.

                                A soul for a soul... but the thing is that, it is not guranteed that the mother would die if she continues to have the baby.. The law of equality/ fair retribution doesnt apply here since the mother is not murdered.

                                On self-defense... Adam's son said
                                528 Even if thou stretch out thy hand against me to kill me, I shall not stretch out my hand against thee to kill thee, lo! I fear Allah, the Lord of the Worlds.


                                1733 And slay not the life which Allah hath forbidden save with right. Whoso is slain wrongfully, We have given power unto his heir, but let him not commit excess in slaying. Lo! he will be helped.

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                                  TheNabi
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                                  Peace

                                  I do personally feel that a few of the reasons for an abortion could be justified,

                                  I do not.

                                  incest

                                  So punish the child for the faults of the parents?

                                  rape

                                  Punish the child for the crimes of an agressor?

                                  lack of money

                                  Ever hear of adoption?

                                  abnormal fetus

                                  Punishment for being different?

                                  Joe

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                                    Ghulam_Rasool
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                                    Assalamo alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

                                    The reason women opt for an abortion include
                                    -rape

                                    This is all the more reason NOT to have an abortion. A couple has already sinned gravely by committing this adultery or rape, and now they seek to have an innocent unborn human being pay the price for their wicked crime. Rape is not an excuse to have an abortion.

                                    -incest

                                    Same as rape, it is a shameful deed, and having to bear an "unwanted" child should be the punishment of such stupid people who engage in incest, rather than punishing an innocent unborn child for the irresponsibility of his or her parents.

                                    -mother has health problems

                                    If giving birth to the child will put the mother's life in jeopardy, this is valid grounds to have an abortion.

                                    -possible fetal health problems

                                    This is not a valid grounds to have an abortion. Just because a child may be deformed or suffer terminal illness throughout his life doesn't mean he loses his right to live.

                                    -unready

                                    Then why would they get pregnent if they are unready? This is the flimsy excuse to have an abortion.

                                    -is too immature or young to have child

                                    If you are biologically able to get pregnant and bear a child, then you are not too "young" or "immature", but the way Western society is, 13 and 14 year olds are still treated like "children", whereas in a normal society (i.e. an Islamic society) they should be treated as adults and have the same responsibilities as adults.

                                    -woman's parents want her to have abortion

                                    And if the woman's parents want her to kill an innocent person, that is a valid reason to do it? But that is exactly what abortion is

                                    -has problems with relationship or wants to avoid single parenthood

                                    Then why did she get pregnant in the first place? Why should innocent human beings pay the ultimate price for the stupidity of some women?

                                    -husband or partner wants her to have abortion

                                    Same with the parents' issue.

                                    -has all the children she wanted or all children are grown

                                    So that gives her the right to abortion?

                                    -can't afford baby now

                                    This is due to not having faith in Allah Taala, who is Ar-Razzaq, (The Provider), and none should despair of His provision for them

                                    KILL NOT YOUR CHILDREN FOR FEAR OF WANT WE SHALL PROVIDE SUSTENANCE FOR THEM AS WELL AS FOR YOU. VERILY, THE KILLING OF THEM IS A GREAT SIN. (1731)

                                    -unmarried

                                    This is why unmarried people should not engage in sex, and why it is a sin in Islam for them to do so. But if they wish to defy the command of Allah, why should they be allowed to not shoulder the consequences for doing so?

                                    -student or planning to study

                                    This is also due to financial worry, a worry which has been addressed by Allah in the above cited ayat.

                                    The rest of the reasons are all "ditto".

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                                      Elke
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                                      This is all the more reason NOT to have an abortion. A couple has already sinned gravely by committing this adultery or rape,

                                      yeah sure, she must have been looking for it... just like the killer and the killed, both committed the crime, didn't they ?

                                      having to bear an "unwanted" child should be the punishment of such stupid people who engage in incest,

                                      when a young girl got raped by her father or uncle, which incest is often about, this stupid girl should be punished for sure, isn't that so yusha ?

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                                      now yusha, don't get me wrong, i'm not pro abortion, even though i doubt of your ability to make the difference

                                      elke

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                                        Ghulam_Rasool
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                                        yeah sure, she must have been looking for it... just like the killer and the killed, both committed the crime, didn't they ?

                                        Comparing rape to killing is not plausible. In murder, most often than not, there is a perpetrator and a victim. Rape is a severe form of adultery, but it is adultery none the less. The woman is raped against her will, but she was still asking for it, otherwise she would not have been raped. Therefore, justice demands she also suffer the consequences for the rape, which is an abomination against the morality which Allah Taala has enjoined upon humanity

                                        Soon will the wicked be overtaken by humiliation before Allah, and a severe punishment, for all their plots (6124)

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                                          Elke
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                                          The woman is raped against her will, but she was still asking for it, otherwise she would not have been raped.

                                          ??? you even are able to contradict yourself in such a short sentence , absolutely incredible, and not even taking into consideration the abominations that you profer

                                          Soon will the wicked be overtaken by humiliation before Allah, and a severe punishment, for all their plots (6124)

                                          so you just take care...

                                          lk

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