Adultery
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Peace AM,
- Since when is Zina = Public Sex and who defined this ?
It is defined in 244. According to 244, even if intercourse occured but you only have three witnesses, the 3 witnesses would be LIARS. This can only be true if the requirement of 4 witnesses is built into the definition of "zina". Given the prohibition against spying and the sanctity of the home in the great reading, this means that "zina" is public sex/pornography.
- What constitute a Public sex ? ( Does a Spouse catching his/her partner having sex with another constitute a Public Sex ? ) .
This is a special case addressed by 246-9. The spouse's testimony is equivalent to 4 testimonies, but the accused partner's testimony is equivalent to 5. So the spouse must testify and the partner must admit to the act for it to be classified as "zina".
- Why do you categorize Adultery/ Infidelity as a Legal Issue ? ( It may be a legal Issue where you are , but not in other Countries . In fact , in many countries Adultery is Strictly a Moral issue only devoid of Legal Implications . Adultery has not been a Ground for Divorce in many Jurisdictions for ages now and anyone can File for divorce On a No fault Basis ) .
I said adultery/infidelity is a moral issue. Divorce is a legal issue. So when a couple decided to get a divorce becaus one is cheating, this becomes a legal issue. One can file a divorce with or without cause but there are laws that guide the process for divorce (waiting periods, etc.).
- why did you believe that only the Father is responsible for a child born out of a liason and not the Mother ? . ( The Child Support Acts hold both the Father and the Mother of the child responsible for the child's maintenance , although the Responsibilty lies largely with the Non-Custodial Parent ) .
Both the father and the mother are responsibile for the child. The great reading gives the preference for custody in the early years of a child's live to the mother and maintains that the father must give the mother a wage for taking care of the child.
5)Since when does a Pornography recorded by a Couple , married or not for their own Private Viewing , is a Legal Issue ?
This is not pornography. It would become pornography/"zina" if the married couple deliberately distribute for profit or not for profit the tape for public viewing. Then it is "zina" and if four people see the tape and bear witness agains the married couple, they would be punished.
Peace,
Ayman
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Peace JK,
JK- Oh common what if the intention was to stimulate sex between married couples and only those are watching it? Its a moral issue.
No it is not. Everyone, including married couples should not approach pronography. It may seem harmless initially, but the god clearly says that "zina"/pornography is a "fahisha"/gross sin and a "saa sabila"/bad path. This is because the god knows where that path will lead to. If the married couple do not avoid pronography, they will become more focused on the wrong things and in the long term this will negatively affect the love between them.
What I am saying is not amazing or special. ALL SOCIETIES, including liberal ones have laws against pornography so that people (including children) who don't want to see such things do not.
Peace,
Ayman
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Peace Ayman
If we take 244 to be the defining verse for Zina can we still support the theory of ?Liars?
since the word occurs only in 2413 unless you connect the 2 verses. 2411 and 12 both build up the matter mentioned as a ?lie? from the beginning.Why do you think only women are mentioned in both verses ( in 244 specifically MoHsanati) and not men.
Do you find a connection between verses 242 and 244 with verse 425 in which half the punishment of MohSanat is recommended for married Ma Malakat Aymanakum committing Fahisha
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Dear Warner
Case of 24-4, mentioning only women for false accusation charges, is an important understanding . The reasons, which you mentioned in an earlier post, could be valid. yes
Appreciate your keen observation , and judgment, bravo keep up the good work.
peace
siki
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Dear Warner
Case of 24-4, mentioning only women for false accusation charges, is an important understanding . The reasons, which you mentioned in an earlier post, could be valid. yes
Appreciate your keen observation , and judgment, bravo keep up the good work.
peace
siki
Salaam siki
I have comented on this very understanding earlier on this thread. Quraan has its own sociolinguistics regarding the generic female. Not every mention of "nisaa", "mu7sanaat" or "mu'minaat" makes these words specific to the feminine gender. The very fact that the quraan addresses both genders calls for that, and there is proof of the generic feminine in the quraan. -
Dear Brother Tanveer
The words Mohsinnat , and NIssa are used for women in verses 24-4 and 4-15 respectively, if you study/evaluate the subject verses carefully , you would find that, MY understanding of Mohsinnat (which we debated in Mohsinnat thread) again fitting in perfectly.
peace
siki
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Peace Brother Siki
Your post above is not very clear for me.
Your theory on Mohsanat can not be correct because of,
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You did not take in to account the Wa/And at the start of 424 (which should link 424 with 423)
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"What beyond/besides that" is referring not to Ma Malakat Aymanakum but to all the categories mentioned in 422 to 424.
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In 424,
Thus hath Allah ordained (prohibitions) against you except for these all others are lawful
Has been neglected in your translation.
Please re check the verses with the above info.
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Peace "ayman",
Peace JK,
No it is not. Everyone, including married couples should not approach pronography. It may seem harmless initially, but the god clearly says that "zina"/pornography is a "fahisha"/gross sin and a "saa sabila"/bad path. This is because the god knows where that path will lead to. If the married couple do not avoid pronography, they will become more focused on the wrong things and in the long term this will negatively affect the love between them.
What I am saying is not amazing or special. ALL SOCIETIES, including liberal ones have laws against pornography so that people (including children) who don't want to see such things do not.
Peace,
Ayman
JK- So basically according to you even if a married person secretly has sex with another one, tht is not adultery and shldnt be punished, whilst a mere display of sex on the tv by a married couple/one which has a legal contract assuming responsibility should be punished as to be whipped by 100 lashes??!! Does tht make any sense at all? Moreover the Quran also states tht GOD doesnt want SECRET LOVERS. THTS WHT CORRUPTS SOCIETIES "SECRET LOVERS". If you wanna have sex let the community know, not how and where, but tht ur gonna do it n ur assuming responsibility. Man this really lacked any rationaility whtsoever IMHO. GOD Bless!
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Peace JK,
JK- So basically according to you even if a married person secretly has sex with another one, tht is not adultery and shldnt be punished, whilst a mere display of sex on the tv by a married couple/one which has a legal contract assuming responsibility should be punished as to be whipped by 100 lashes??!! Does tht make any sense at all? Moreover the Quran also states tht GOD doesnt want SECRET LOVERS. THTS WHT CORRUPTS SOCIETIES "SECRET LOVERS". If you wanna have sex let the community know, not how and where, but tht ur gonna do it n ur assuming responsibility. Man this really lacked any rationaility whtsoever IMHO. GOD Bless!
I don't get what you are saying. Are you saying that it is OK for a married couple to have sex on TV and a million people watches them? Are you saying that it is OK for a married couple to go on the street and have sex in front of everyone? I am saying that it is not OK because it is pornography/"zena".
If you are talking about a married couple taping themselves and not sharing the tape, then you didn't read my response to AM above carefully. Here is what I said about this situation
This is not pornography. It would become pornography/"zina" if the married couple deliberately distribute for profit or not for profit the tape for public viewing.
Peace,
Ayman
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Peace "ayman",
Apparently you didnt get it so lemme rephrase down below ur comments.Peace JK,
I don't get what you are saying. Are you saying that it is OK for a married couple to have sex on TV and a million people watches them? Are you saying that it is OK for a married couple to go on the street and have sex in front of everyone? I am saying that it is not OK because it is pornography/"zena".
JK- 1st of all NO im not saying tht its ok for a married couple to show theselves having sex to the world BUT tht is a moral issue and if they do so we cant just lash them but perhaps give them a small fine which could gradually increase if repeated and the issue is settled. NOW on to wht i meant. I wanted to ask you dear ayman "Do you imply that married couples making a display of sex in public is a worse crime than a couple who doesnt have a legal contract and yet indulge in sex secretly? Do you consider the 1st one as zina whilst the 2nd one is not?" Simple. GOD Bless!
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Salaam JK
If you just go back in this thread to the 2nd of April you will find that "simple" had the same misunderstanding.
We are not talking about "allowed" or "OK". It s about "punishable" and "proved". Is it OK to kill someone in secret? If there is no evidence, how are you going to punish the murderer in this world?
Morever, there are many "not OK" things that, even if done in public, are not punishable in this world.
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Peace
Can you kindly comment whether the following contributes to zina.
A husband and wife sex video or image stolen by someone and released to the public viewing.
If 4 police officers break in for a routine check up and find a prostitute with her client.
4 DEA officers break in to a house on a drug bust and witness a man and a woman having sex.
Man walks in to his house with 3 friends and finds wife in a compromising situation with another man.
4 window cleaners see couple having sex in side the house.
(All examples are courtesy of Hollywood prime time)
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Peace Warner,
Can you kindly comment whether the following contributes to zina.
A husband and wife sex video or image stolen by someone and released to the public viewing.Since they didn't deliberatly release the tape to the public, this is not "zena" (even if they were not married). It is also not "zena" if someone placed a hidden camera in a married (or unmarried) couple's bedroom without their knowledge.
If 4 police officers break in for a routine check up and find a prostitute with her client.
No, it is not "zena". The evidence is inadmissible because it violates the following laws
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YUSUFALI O ye who believe! enter not houses other than your own, until ye have asked permission and saluted those in them that is best for you, in order that ye may heed (what is seemly).
PICKTHAL O ye who believe! Enter not houses other than your own without first announcing your presence and invoking peace upon the folk thereof. That is better for you, that ye may be heedful.
SHAKIR O you who believe! Do not enter houses other than your own houses until you have asked permission and saluted their inmates; this is better for you, that you may be mindful.
KHALIFA O you who believe, do not enter homes other than yours without permission from their inhabitants, and without greeting them. This is better for you, that you may take heed.
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YUSUFALI If ye find no one in the house, enter not until permission is given to you if ye are asked to go back, go back that makes for greater purity for yourselves and Allah knows well all that ye do.
PICKTHAL And if ye find no-one therein, still enter not until permission hath been given. And if it be said unto you Go away again, then go away, for it is purer for you. Allah knoweth what ye do.
SHAKIR But if you do not find any one therein, then do not enter them until permission is given to you; and if it is said to you Go back, then go back; this is purer for you; and Allah is Cognizant of what you do.
KHALIFA If you find no one in them, do not enter them until you obtain permission. If you are told, "Go back," you must go back. This is purer for you. GOD is fully aware of everything you do.4 DEA officers break in to a house on a drug bust and witness a man and a woman having sex.
See 2427-28 above.
Man walks in to his house with 3 friends and finds wife in a compromising situation with another man.
This would be "zena" since the man entered his own house and thus the evidence is admissible because it doesn't violate the law in 2427-28.
4 window cleaners see couple having sex in side the house.
Whether the couple is married or not, this is not "zena". The evidence is inadmissible because it violates the law against spying in 4912.
Peace,
Ayman
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Peace "samia",
Salaam JK
If you just go back in this thread to the 2nd of April you will find that "simple" had the same misunderstanding.
We are not talking about "allowed" or "OK". It s about "punishable" and "proved". Is it OK to kill someone in secret? If there is no evidence, how are you going to punish the murderer in this world?
JK- Who says wer to punish without evidence? Ofcourse the adulterer/adulteress would only be ounished if there secret relationship somehow comes to light which it almost always does at one point or another and if there is legal punishment for engaing in secret loving, which is the root cause of all probs, then no one or very few ignorant ppl would engage in such activities and even those few who do will quit over time. I dont think this is too difficult to understand or is it?
Morever, there are many "not OK" things that, even if done in public, are not punishable in this world.
JK- Thts right like idolatry for example or the freedom of expression even if it be somewhat offensive without the use of foul language which is banned in many societies too. GOD Bless!