Forbidden for you in marriage are?
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Jankren if your one of those weird people that think cousin marriages are ok (Or even worse If you have married your cousin) then ignore what I have just said.
According to a report by the Journal of Genetic Counseling in 2002, the potential risk of birth defects in a child born of first cousins was not particularly higher than the risk associated with a non-cousin couple. Therefore I believe this matter is purely cultural and I'm personally neutral on this issue.
By the way, I dont mind if you think Im weird due to my stance on this issue because in other parts of the world people also think that western people are weird for condoning homosexual relationship.
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JK- the only reason you hate homosexuals so much is because you can?t confront your own feelings. P
Jankren cousin marriages do cause a lot of problems, and cost the British tax payer a lot of money since those kids need special education and other needs provided for them, I remember discussing this with a politician in London, he said the only reason it can?t be banned is because people will assume it?s racist. Of cause many non-western Muslims think we are weird for condoning homosexuality, but we find their customs weird too (forced marriages, honour killings, sexism, and the fact that they don?t want to leave the 8th century).
Nabi that is just gross.
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Of cause many non-western Muslims think we are weird for condoning homosexuality, but we find their customs weird too (forced marriages, honour killings, sexism, and the fact that they dont want to leave the 8th century).
That is exactly my point in my previous post that we find each other's weird. Westerners are irked by Eastern customs as you mentioned such as arranged marriages, honor killingsm sexism and backwardness while on the other hand Easterners also feel the same way toward Western culture which condones homosexuality, swinging lifestyle, lack of respect toward the elders, pre-marital sex which produces rampant teen pregnancy, STD, AIDS, abortion, and so forth.
Jankren cousin marriages do cause a lot of problems, and cost the British tax payer a lot of money since those kids need special education and other needs provided for them,
As I also said earlier according to research the chance of birth defects in children from cousin couple is not much higher than non-cousin couple. So I guess those British Pakistanis who gave birth to retarded children are PROBABLY more than cousins ...
I will change my neutral view toward cousin couple issue once I see a thorough research report which says that such marriage indeed has high potential to produce mentally retarded kids.
Peace,
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Nabi I wasn?t trying to offend you! I shouldn?t have said it like that, what I mean is that cousin marriages is not something I find appealing. peace But then again if you had my cousins you wouldn't either ;D
Jankren Dubai has one of the highest rates of STD?s in the world even though pre-marital sex is harshly punished, so those arrogant gits in the Muslim world have no right to look down at England for our high STD statistics. And there is plenty of fornication/adultery/prostitution all over the Muslim world, but just because it happens behind closed doors people assume it happens a lot less, but that is debatable.
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nabi even if they were hot i wouldn't give them a second glance nope.
i remember watching a talk show about 7 years ago, their was a 13 year old girl who married a 65 year old man, and they were very happy with a successful marriage, what on earth does a 13 year old have in common with a 65 year old confused confused....
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Nabi I wasnt trying to offend you! I shouldnt have said it like that, what I mean is that cousin marriages is not something I find appealing. peace But then again if you had my cousins you wouldn't either ;D
Jankren Dubai has one of the highest rates of STDs in the world even though pre-marital sex is harshly punished, so those arrogant gits in the Muslim world have no right to look down at England for our high STD statistics. And there is plenty of fornication/adultery/prostitution all over the Muslim world, but just because it happens behind closed doors people assume it happens a lot less, but that is debatable.
Oh yes those things such as fornication, adultery and prostitution definitely exist in the East but they are definitely a lot less IF COMPARED to the West because in Eastern society such things are looked down upon and not condoned. The same thing goes with other side. Issues such as sexism also exists in the West yet they are not widespread as in the hierarchic society of the East because such things are looked down upon in Western society and not condoned.
Peace,
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Peace "angel",
JK- the only reason you hate homosexuals so much is because you can?t confront your own feelings. P
JK- I find tht offensive not because of the remark in general but coz u havnt understood me at all otherwise youd know tht I DONT HATE HOMOSEXUALS IN GENERAL but i hate criminals who deliberately go on with there ways DESPITE THEIR KNOWLEDGE THT IT CAN HARM SOCIETY WHETHER IN THE SHORT OR LONG RUN. If theres any male hs out there who knows hes doing bad to the society but doesnt care and yet indulges in anal sex then ofcourse ill have a strong dislike for tht person and anyone would. And ofcourse ive strong evidence inside my brain which ive processed thoroghly and it indicates male hs is dangerous for society in the long run and i think theres reason to beleive tht the male hs ELITE, NOT the common ppl, know off this danger. This is wht i want to get clarified and i have a right to my opinion in this regard.
Last but not least i dont have any significant male sexual orientation which i cld be worried abt. Rather i had more towards dolphins but tht too has gone. My body, including the psyche, seems to be functioning perfectly normal GW and ill continue to check on it, dont worry.
You further stated...but we find their(probably sectarian Muslims) customs weird too (forced marriages, honour killings, sexism, and the fact that they don?t want to leave the 8th century).
JK- And we agree with you on tht fully but NOT on cousin marriages if both parties are in love with each other. Who says cousin marriages always need to be forced? GOD Bless!
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Peace "angel",
JK thusfar no convincing evidence has been presented to me about homosexuality being harmful to society.
as for anal sex, many heterosexual couples indulge in it too...
JK- 1st of all tht hetrero couples who engage in anal sex are as bad as the male hs IMHO. Moreover it is ok u can have ur opinion and so do i have mine and i and many others here have seen absolutely ZERO evidence tht cousin marriage is any amount significantly more harmful than non cousin marriages. So there you go. GOD Bless!
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Peace Johnny
Sometimes females enjoy taking it in the arse and there are even some who find it easier to do than regular sex. I doubt that makes them like homos so how does that make males like homos? Are you sure all male homosexuals engage in anal sex?
Joe
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Peace "thenabi",
Peace Johnny
Sometimes females enjoy taking it in the arse and there are even some who find it easier to do than regular sex. I doubt that makes them like homos so how does that make males like homos? Are you sure all male homosexuals engage in anal sex?
Joe
JK- Whether one enjoys it or not does not decrease the harm associated with it. I do not uptil now understand tht if aint the anal sex issue in male hs, why GOD wouldve punished them so harshly. If you know of anything else, plz tell me. GOD Bless!
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423 Forbidden for you are your mothers, and your daughters, and your sisters, and your fathers' sisters, and your mothers' sisters, and the daughters of your brother, and the daughters of your sister, and your foster mothers who suckled you, and your sisters from suckling, and the mothers of your wives, and your step-daughters residing in your homes from your wives which you have already consummated the marriage with; if you have not consummated the marriage then there is no sin upon you; and the wives of your sons that are from your seed, and that you join between two sisters except what has already been done. God is Forgiving, Merciful.
424 And the already married from the women, except those who become widowed; God's scripture is over you; and permitted for you is what is beyond this, if you are seeking with your money to be protected and not for illicit sex. As for those whom you have already had joy with them, then you shall give them their wage as an obligation. There is no sin upon you for what you agree to after the obligation. God is Knowledgeable, Wise.
Why is ?grandmother? not forbidden in marriage?
So if a man in an Islamic state said he wanted to marry his grandma and said that it is not prohibited in the Quran would he be allowed to marry her?
I know it sounds silly but something like that is possible.
Salam.
First of all, no human being has ever said he would like to marry his grandma.
I think you might be the first human to ever open such a question.Peace.
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Creepy. Someone has most certainly been reading Freud.
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i've read more wierder things in psychology books rotfl
agree.
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totally off-topic but i thought i'd share my traumatic experience
i was watching "the inside story of COPS" and they had like the weirdest clips that came out of that show. Anyways there was this one call that came in and the police arrived. They found this guy stabbed in the hand and bleeding. They asked what happened and he said his mother stabbed him for violating a restaining order and coming near his wife.
The police felt like there was more to the story it didn't really make sense for the guy's mom to stab her own son for trying to see his wife. It turns out the reason why they were separated was because the guy's mom was having a sexual relationship with his wife! so he flipped out on the wife and the wife filed a restraining order. and then he came in and found them getting busy again so his mother stabbed him.
now tell me that isn't traumatizing i wish i never watched that show i'm all messed up now (