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Men Sura 4:34 states 'No Beating of Women' in anyway, shape, form or fashion

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    Assalaam Aalaikum

    I would like to share my perceptions regarding the common mis-perception and mis-interpretation of Sura Nisa 434 that Allah suggests that Women can be physically, spiritually and mentally abused.

    From that time We have written over the children of Israel that surely who kills that soul / which is without soul or is without causing corruption on the earth then surely it is like the one who has killed all mankind And who gives life to her (soul) then surely it is like the one who has given life to all mankind / .

    Allah is indicating that harming an 'innocent soul' is equivalent to harming all humankind, and any who gives life to humanity, contributes to humanity.

    O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord, who created you from a single soul/ created of like nature, its mate, and from that soul created countless men and women;- reverence Allah, through whom you demand your mutual (rights), AND REVERENCE THE WOMBS (AL-Arhama)/ . for Allah ever watches over you.

    Arhama (noun, plural) wombs;Rahim merciful;Rahima his mercy and love
    Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 206 (rahima)

    Its obvious that Allah is illustrating the close association with Allah and female creation in Sura 4.1, and even makes it clear that Allah is at all times 'watching'

    What is Allah 'watching'?

    answer.....

    Alrrijalu qawwamoona AAala alnnisa-i bima faddala Allahu baAAdahum AAala baAAdin wabima anfaqoo min amwalihim fa alssalihatu qanitatun hafithatun lil ghaybi bima hafitha Allahu / wa allatee takhafoona nushoozahunna faAAithoohunna waohjuroohunna fee almadajiAAi WA I?DRIBOOHUNNA fa-in ataAAnakum fala tabghoo AAalayhinna sabeelan inna Allaha kana AAaliyyan kabeeran

    Allah is watching and guarding Salihatu (active participle, female, plural) the righteous woman

    There is no soul / nafsin (feminine) but has a protector over it / AAalayha (feminine) hafithun.


    Lets focus on this part of the ayah, which for some reason has been GROSSLY mistranslated....

    Sura 4.34...... takhafoona nushoozahunna fa AAithoohunna waohjuroohunna fee almadajiAAi WA I?DRIBOOHUNNA /

    Takhafoona = If YOU Fear nushoozahunna fa AAithoohunna = treating someone cruel and UNMANLY wa ohjuroohunna = Avoid associating or acting irrational fee = like those/among those Al-MadajiAAi = A MAN WHO BEATS OR STRIKES PAINFULLY WA I?DRIBOOHUNNA = AVOID ANY CONFRONTATION

    Takhafoona(imperfect, 2nd person, singular) If YOU fear; Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 168 (khafa)
    Nushoozahunna (plural) treat injustly, be unkind, be cruel and evil companion;Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 564 (nashaza)
    faAAithoohunna to be rough, rude, hardhearted, harsh, UNMANLY, severe;Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 430 (fazza)

    It this point, Allah is instructing Men as to their behavior

    Ohjuroohunna AVOID talking nonsense, talking irrationally, foolishilly and deliriously, FOUL, evil; Lanes Lexicon page 2879-2881 Part 8 (hajara); Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 586 (hajara)
    Fee among those, in the company of;Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 438 (Fi)

    Al-MadajiAAi (Noun) A MAN WHO BEATS OR STRIKES PAINFULLY, Cause others to suffer or experience pain from YOUR speech, event or affair, Cause others to distress their hearts with grief, INSENSITIVE TO THE WOMAN WHERE A SMALL WORD PAINS HER, INSENSITIVE TO THE WOMAN WHERE SMALL THINGS HURT OR ANNOY HER; Lanes Lexicon PAGE 2719 ? 2720 Part 7

    I?DRIBU-HUNNA (Passive Imperfect, Feminine verb) "TO NEGLECT, IGNORE, AVOID, TURN AWAY FROM STRIFE, DISCORD, ANIMOSITY BETWEEN OR AMONG PEOPLE" ;Lanes Lexicon PAGE 1779 Left Column & 1780 Middle Column Part 5

    Allah is instructing Men NOT to behave like Men who have no regard or respect for their mates by abusing them. There is no 'rights' being given to Men to admonish or punish women in the ayah.

    Those Men who believe they can beat and abuse women will have to deal with Allah.

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      Assalaam Aalaikum

      I would like to share my perceptions regarding the common mis-perception and mis-interpretation of Sura Nisa 434 that Allah suggests that Women can be physically, spiritually and mentally abused.

      From that time We have written over the children of Israel that surely who kills that soul / which is without soul or is without causing corruption on the earth then surely it is like the one who has killed all mankind And who gives life to her (soul) then surely it is like the one who has given life to all mankind / .

      Allah is indicating that harming an 'innocent soul' is equivalent to harming all humankind, and any who gives life to humanity, contributes to humanity.

      O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord, who created you from a single soul/ created of like nature, its mate, and from that soul created countless men and women;- reverence Allah, through whom you demand your mutual (rights), AND REVERENCE THE WOMBS (AL-Arhama)/ . for Allah ever watches over you.

      Arhama (noun, plural) wombs;Rahim merciful;Rahima his mercy and love
      Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 206 (rahima)

      Its obvious that Allah is illustrating the close association with Allah and female creation in Sura 4.1, and even makes it clear that Allah is at all times 'watching'

      What is Allah 'watching'?

      answer.....

      Alrrijalu qawwamoona AAala alnnisa-i bima faddala Allahu baAAdahum AAala baAAdin wabima anfaqoo min amwalihim fa alssalihatu qanitatun hafithatun lil ghaybi bima hafitha Allahu / wa allatee takhafoona nushoozahunna faAAithoohunna waohjuroohunna fee almadajiAAi WA I?DRIBOOHUNNA fa-in ataAAnakum fala tabghoo AAalayhinna sabeelan inna Allaha kana AAaliyyan kabeeran

      Allah is watching and guarding Salihatu (active participle, female, plural) the righteous woman

      There is no soul / nafsin (feminine) but has a protector over it / AAalayha (feminine) hafithun.


      Lets focus on this part of the ayah, which for some reason has been GROSSLY mistranslated....

      Sura 4.34...... takhafoona nushoozahunna fa AAithoohunna waohjuroohunna fee almadajiAAi WA I?DRIBOOHUNNA /

      Takhafoona = If YOU Fear nushoozahunna fa AAithoohunna = treating someone cruel and UNMANLY wa ohjuroohunna = Avoid associating or acting irrational fee = like those/among those Al-MadajiAAi = A MAN WHO BEATS OR STRIKES PAINFULLY WA I?DRIBOOHUNNA = AVOID ANY CONFRONTATION

      Takhafoona(imperfect, 2nd person, singular) If YOU fear; Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 168 (khafa)
      Nushoozahunna (plural) treat injustly, be unkind, be cruel and evil companion;Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 564 (nashaza)
      faAAithoohunna to be rough, rude, hardhearted, harsh, UNMANLY, severe;Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 430 (fazza)

      It this point, Allah is instructing Men as to their behavior

      Ohjuroohunna AVOID talking nonsense, talking irrationally, foolishilly and deliriously, FOUL, evil; Lanes Lexicon page 2879-2881 Part 8 (hajara); Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 586 (hajara)
      Fee among those, in the company of;Dictionary of the Holy Quran page 438 (Fi)

      Al-MadajiAAi (Noun) A MAN WHO BEATS OR STRIKES PAINFULLY, Cause others to suffer or experience pain from YOUR speech, event or affair, Cause others to distress their hearts with grief, INSENSITIVE TO THE WOMAN WHERE A SMALL WORD PAINS HER, INSENSITIVE TO THE WOMAN WHERE SMALL THINGS HURT OR ANNOY HER; Lanes Lexicon PAGE 2719 ? 2720 Part 7

      I?DRIBU-HUNNA (Passive Imperfect, Feminine verb) "TO NEGLECT, IGNORE, AVOID, TURN AWAY FROM STRIFE, DISCORD, ANIMOSITY BETWEEN OR AMONG PEOPLE" ;Lanes Lexicon PAGE 1779 Left Column & 1780 Middle Column Part 5

      Allah is instructing Men NOT to behave like Men who have no regard or respect for their mates by abusing them. There is no 'rights' being given to Men to admonish or punish women in the ayah.

      Those Men who believe they can beat and abuse women will have to deal with Allah.

      Salaam
      I am glad that you have looked at the root meaining above, as the issue here is self control to be exercised by one who is full of rage. I have always believed this Surah deals with the issue of Domestic violence, which always occurs due to a sudden loss of self control. This verse simply stops a man from losing that vital self control.
      The first two steps admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds,.. are vital steps in exercising the important aspects of cooling anger. If men were to follow this procedure the cases of domestic violence would not happen at all.
      I would ask alll those men, guilty of violence aganist women, if they follwed even one of the above steps before raising a hand???
      No way this is a permission to hit a woman; rather the opposite.

      Best regards
      Farida

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        Assalaam Alaikum @ Farida

        Alhumdillah

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