underage brides
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salam
well I have just read that from newspapers too..Its terible..
Infact let alone marriage..they are even sexually abuse,,their 'so-callled' husbands promised that they wont touch them until attaining puberty age..yet it happens..
the only reason the parents have is due to poverty,,Ya Allah..Have Mercy on them
Fee Amanillah,
SorayaSalam,
Yes, it's awful but what came up in my mind was how could these men who married with this young girls thinking?
I mean are all of them pedophiles?
A normal man would only be sexual aroused of a full grown woman who have got curves etc.
I also wonders if these men not have sisters?Maria
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Salam
This is a sort of child abuse voodoo, which is prevelant in the third world, and especially in the the claimed to be islamic countries >.
Forced marriage is unhumman in any age, so what about in this helplees chidhood age.
But as the subject is opened, starting from what age a female can get married, considering she is fully approving the marriage, meaning , no enforcement in it??
Peace
Salam,
A female should not get married before the age of 18 because it's her right to finish school and become full grown in her body.
Maria
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salam
well I have just read that from newspapers too..Its terible..
Infact let alone marriage..they are even sexually abuse,,their 'so-callled' husbands promised that they wont touch them until attaining puberty age..yet it happens..
the only reason the parents have is due to poverty,,Ya Allah..Have Mercy on them
Fee Amanillah,
Sorayahttp//www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/07/15/yemen.childbride/index.html
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http//www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/07/15/yemen.childbride/index.html
Peace,
This young and brave girl have become famous now.
She nearly looks like my 10 year old daughter Nuraini and if someone just touched my daughter he had to run for his life voodooMaria
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Is she carrying a gun? ;D
;D no, but maybe I jedi
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Mashah Allah sister Maria
I never knew you had a 10 year old daughter..wow
hmm give the Angel a big kiss for me
MuahThanks sister Soraya,
You could also be my daughter because my first daughter is 17, then a son 15, daughter 12, daughter 10 and a son 7.
I love all of them so very much but all lives with their father and his new wife '(.Peace
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ya am 18
well if I were 17 and wud be with my father, once I reached 18 i'll fight to live with you certainly!!
Anyway I make duahs that they are happy Inshah AllahI live in a one room appartment and they live in a big house, that is one of the problems.
I am trying to find something bigger but I am not employed now so it's a money issue too.Do you have many brothers and sisters?
Peace
Maria -
I have two sisters..22 and 24
both not married yet,,despite the pressure by parents..lol
But Alhamdulilah we live happily together..
Money used to be an issue at my place once..but 4now we can say we are much better..
Allah always tests us..and we shud give the best out of uu -
I have two sisters..22 and 24
both not married yet,,despite the pressure by parents..lol
But Alhamdulilah we live happily together..
Money used to be an issue at my place once..but 4now we can say we are much better..
Allah always tests us..and we shud give the best out of uuNice sun
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Peace,
Respectfully.I'm totally against men marrying children and calling it Islamic just makes me angry.
The Quran is very clear that we must make sure that even money is given to the fully mature individuals so you can conclude how strong The Quran stands on marrying someone.Glory be to our God and may God have Mercy on all.
I'm sure God will punish men who sexually abuse kids.Peace.
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Salam,
A female should not get married before the age of 18 because it's her right to finish school and become full grown in her body.
Maria
Peace. Why shouldn't a female get married before 18? Do you say that because it's the law? If there was a law that said reading the Quran was illegal, would you agree with that law just because it's the law? In my opinion, males and females should be allowed to marry once they reach puberty. I don't recommend marrying so early, but it should be allowed. Puberty is the dividing point between childhood and the next level. However, forced marriage should never be allowed and that is what is wrong and disgusting.
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Peace. Why shouldn't a female get married before 18? Do you say that because it's the law? If there was a law that said reading the Quran was illegal, would you agree with that law just because it's the law? In my opinion, males and females should be allowed to marry once they reach puberty. I don't recommend marrying so early, but it should be allowed. Puberty is the dividing point between childhood and the next level. However, forced marriage should never be allowed and that is what is wrong and disgusting.
yeahThat is my opinon too, so far the marraige is with the own free will.
Not necessary a female get married in the start of puberty, but she can if she wants.
peace
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Peace. Why shouldn't a female get married before 18? Do you say that because it's the law? If there was a law that said reading the Quran was illegal, would you agree with that law just because it's the law? In my opinion, males and females should be allowed to marry once they reach puberty. I don't recommend marrying so early, but it should be allowed. Puberty is the dividing point between childhood and the next level. However, forced marriage should never be allowed and that is what is wrong and disgusting.
Peace,
No, it's not because any laws but it would be better if both genders wait and not get married too early.
Of course if someone really wanted earlier they could but I think there had to be some checks up if the marriage really is manageable.Maria