Proof: Men Were Created For Women And Vice-Versa.
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Attraction depends on the eyes of the beholder.
Lust isn't hard at all to controll, seeing an "attractive" woman and feeling hot/getting an erection/perspirating slightly more is an natural reaction to what your eyes see, that here is a woman you want to have sex with, and by having sex you'll hopefully impregnate her - and your genes, including the ones that code for attraction and more, will have moved on to the next generation and spread a little more.
This can be reversed as well, the woman making herself attractive, not in order to attract all men with the intention of sleepng with them all, but in order to easier chose between potential mates, and chosing the one with the best traits (strength, intelligence, beauty even) so that her offspring will become as succesful at surviving and reproducing her/himself.This is of course all not thought about in most of the cases, but instead show itself as our biological urges and feelings and instincts.
But thanks to our big brains we can controll our big cocks (objectivily our cock is the biggest among all the great apes) and shut down emotions and urges selectivily, that's usually what happens in wars - we shut down empathy and compassion, letting only rage and bloodlust through.
And in your case, you got your woman, your desires are fulfilled and your urges taken care of even perhaps
And your child will have two loving and stabile parents raising him or her, making sure he'll be successful and get children of him or her own. -
Attraction depends on the eyes of the beholder.
Lust isn't hard at all to controll, seeing an "attractive" woman and feeling hot/getting an erection/perspirating slightly more is an natural reaction to what your eyes see, that here is a woman you want to have sex with, and by having sex you'll hopefully impregnate her - and your genes, including the ones that code for attraction and more, will have moved on to the next generation and spread a little more.
This can be reversed as well, the woman making herself attractive, not in order to attract all men with the intention of sleepng with them all, but in order to easier chose between potential mates, and chosing the one with the best traits (strength, intelligence, beauty even) so that her offspring will become as succesful at surviving and reproducing her/himself.This is of course all not thought about in most of the cases, but instead show itself as our biological urges and feelings and instincts.
But thanks to our big brains we can controll our big cocks (objectivily our cock is the biggest among all the great apes) and shut down emotions and urges selectivily, that's usually what happens in wars - we shut down empathy and compassion, letting only rage and bloodlust through.
And in your case, you got your woman, your desires are fulfilled and your urges taken care of even perhaps
And your child will have two loving and stabile parents raising him or her, making sure he'll be successful and get children of him or her own.It's how nature works, and I don't see why these natural urges have to be fought against. They merely have to be channeled into a socially acceptable relationship that preferably leads to a successful marriage and partnership.
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Peace,
Respectfully.I've been thinking about this for the past few weeks. I've noticed that it is possible to look at a woman without lust. Why? It all depends on your present situation. For example, i was hungry and the only thing that i was thinking, was the food. I kept thinking what to eat, should i buy this food or that or should i eat in a restaurant or at the local's cheapest place. As i was thinking about food, i'd notice men and women around me and i'd look at women but there was no lust. I looked at a woman and my first thought was, is it possible that there is something wrong with me, afterall, men look at women with lust. But i felt nothing and even now when i look at these women around me, i don't feel attarcted to them.
I have come to one reality this doesn't mean that there's something wrong with me as a man, this is just a proof that men were created for women and women were created for men. Because i've noticed that women around me always, i mean all the time, are making sure that they look attractive, they correct their make up, they touch their hair and so on. This is proof that men are created for women and women for men.
Now, this concluded, this is in our minds. We feel naturally attarcted to the opposite gender but then satan the rejected one uses and abuses this moment and starts suggesting those thoughts that we call lustful thoughts. We are naturally atarcated to women (speaking for the guys) but we feel nothing at first because they are strangers and you can't all of a sudden look at a woman on the street and say, i love her. You simply look at her and that is all. But satan the cursed one suggests that you go to step two interaction.
Thank God The Most Merciful Who has given me The MOST Beautiful woman in my life and i'm always Grateful to The Exalted God The Most High, The Most Powerful for allowing me to be part of her life. Thank God, Hvala Bogu, AlhamdilAllah.
Glory be to our God.
Peace.Each individual is different and has different reactions to different situations. You, Alen, are in love, and as such you will have a different reaction when you see another woman than a guy that has no one. On the other hand, attraction is a strange thing, what attracts you in a woman may well not attract me, or some other guy.
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Each individual is different and has different reactions to different situations. You, Alen, are in love, and as such you will have a different reaction when you see another woman than a guy that has no one. On the other hand, attraction is a strange thing, what attracts you in a woman may well not attract me, or some other guy.
I agree handshake
PEACE
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Each individual is different and has different reactions to different situations. You, Alen, are in love, and as such you will have a different reaction when you see another woman than a guy that has no one. On the other hand, attraction is a strange thing, what attracts you in a woman may well not attract me, or some other guy.
It is so true. Romantic love is such that one doesn't find other people attractive as one is focused on the person who is loved.
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Yes, that is true.
I think I have romantic love with cars -*
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Peace all,
Man or women are driven to have the Good Hormones (Dopamine) travels in their Blood Streams.
When sensing an object that stimulates this hormone in the blood veins, He or She becomes attracted to this Object--Man or a Woman, or cars in the case of Munzir Ali.
This is Love...Love for the Hormone, and therefore, for the object that stimulate the Hormone (The opposite-sex-object is the one that stimulates the bigger dose of Hormones)
But ones this object starts to stimulate the Bad Hormones (Soretinen), we will start to hate this object, simply because we were created to not tolerate this Hormone. All Humans' Souls are created to Seek the Pleasure Hormones and Escape from the Stressful ones.
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Peace,
Respectfully.Reading The Quran every single day, can make you powerful enough to resist danger hormones, God willing.
Praying keeps you balanced and fasting makes you and keeps you even more firm and strong, spiritually.
Thank God for guinding us.Peace.
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Peace,
Respectfully.Reading The Quran every single day, can make you powerful enough to resist danger hormones, God willing.
Praying keeps you balanced and fasting makes you and keeps you even more firm and strong, spiritually.
Thank God for guinding us.Peace.
Peace,
As I said before, as much as Humans run after the Pleasure Hormones, as much as they RUN AWAY from the Negative ones (Stressful ones).
Therefore, Believers RUN AWAY from the Stressful Hormones that would be stimulated if they Harm their relationship with GOD. Believer will give up the Pleasure Hormones as a PRICE to not GET the Stressful Ones--Stress Escapers.
Moreover, Your Love of your wife (Source of Pleasure Hormones) will be in danger if you cheated on her. Thus, you would give up the pleasure that would be obtained from illegal Sex in order to not loose the existed pleasure (e.g., love of God and Love of your wife), which if you loose will cause the stressful ones to be stimulated...In other words, You are still a Pleasure Seeker and Stress escaper.Peace