Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Users
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Free Minds Forum Icon
  1. Home
  2. Family Issues
  3. Marriage & Divorce
  4. Second or third Marriege ?

Second or third Marriege ?

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Marriage & Divorce
67 Posts 11 Posters 2.4k Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • R Offline
    R Offline
    Rev_John
    wrote on last edited by
    #2

    peace

    would you ever consider a second or third marriege to someone in Pakistan to a lady with a child, whom you could support with say ?600.00 per year, and of course have a jolly time now and then but no kids.

    Anyone? and would your wife , here, allow such a thing.

    You would certainly be taking part in the education of the child with the above sum, make an educated person in the world as a way of charity wouldn't you? could you ever?

    hypno

    Interesting thought, but why no kids?

    1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • U Offline
      U Offline
      unknownuser
      wrote on last edited by
      #3

      Interesting thought, but why no kids?

      Hi John,

      Well its all to lighten a burden, rather then increasing it for the lady, but if there is no chance of increasing the burden for the lady then by all means, kids or no kids is irrespect.......

      peace

      1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • R Offline
        R Offline
        Rev_John
        wrote on last edited by
        #4

        Hi John,

        Well its all to lighten a burden, rather then increasing it for the lady, but if there is no chance of increasing the burden for the lady then by all means, kids or no kids is irrespect.......

        peace

        I'm a little confused, so you marry the lady in Pakistan and leave her there?

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • U Offline
          U Offline
          unknownuser
          wrote on last edited by
          #5

          I'm a little confused, so you marry the lady in Pakistan and leave her there?

          The ladies live with their parents so they are safe, and it's not to increase anybodies burdens - not even yours but eleviate burdens. If you can do more then there is no harm.

          peace

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • U Offline
            U Offline
            unknownuser
            wrote on last edited by
            #6

            peace

            would you ever consider a second or third marriege to someone in Pakistan to a lady with a child, whom you could support with say ?600.00 per year, and of course have a jolly time now and then but no kids.

            Anyone? and would your wife , here, allow such a thing.

            You would certainly be taking part in the education of the child with the above sum, make an educated person in the world as a way of charity wouldn't you? could you ever?

            hypno

            if thats to support, can women also marry those women with children to support them? if yes ----> bravo if not -----> why not?

            1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • U Offline
              U Offline
              unknownuser
              wrote on last edited by
              #7

              if thats to support, can women also marry those women with children to support them? if yes ----> bravo if not -----> why not?

              It is simple, The People of Pakistan don't undertake such heinous acts, If they ever do then no doubt you could.

              wow

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • U Offline
                U Offline
                unknownuser
                wrote on last edited by
                #8

                It is simple, The People of Pakistan don't undertake such heinous acts, If they ever do then no doubt you could.

                wow

                women are not allowed to have intimate relationships with other women. if sex is not involved why can't a woman marry to other woman to support her and her kids?

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • U Offline
                  U Offline
                  unknownuser
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #9

                  women are not allowed to have intimate relationships with other women. if sex is not involved why can't a woman marry to other woman to support her and her kids?

                  I think sex is always a tool in a marriege if one chooses to use it or not ,but of-course there is no harm women sponsoring other women to support them or something.

                  peace

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • J Offline
                    J Offline
                    Jack
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #10

                    I'm a little confused, so you marry the lady in Pakistan and leave her there?

                    It's quiet common actually...

                    peace

                    would you ever consider a second or third marriege to someone in Pakistan to a lady with a child, whom you could support with say ?600.00 per year, and of course have a jolly time now and then but no kids.

                    Anyone? and would your wife , here, allow such a thing.

                    You would certainly be taking part in the education of the child with the above sum, make an educated person in the world as a way of charity wouldn't you? could you ever?

                    hypno

                    Umm...why marry them? Why not just send money for support? Why do you HAVE to marry them to support them, in another words?

                    I don't get it.

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • U Offline
                      U Offline
                      unknownuser
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #11

                      It's quiet common actually...

                      Umm...why marry them? Why not just send money for support? Why do you HAVE to marry them to support them, in another words?

                      I don't get it.

                      Of course that is okay, but isn't a marriege more of a security a longer lasting sort of support, just to send money is okay but a person can stop anytime like that you aren't tied in somehow.

                      A marriege is a more of a permanent support and in return obviously a man has the offer of being fulfilled as well to a certain degree- some men might be more tempted by it and take the offer and continue the support for a much longer term-maybe!

                      Wouldn't the woman feel more secure by way of marriege? and feel it a longer lasting thing?

                      peace

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • S Offline
                        S Offline
                        SarahY
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #12

                        I don't think many women would like the idea of their man having 2, 3, 4 wives...

                        People need support everywhere.. 'marriage' could be more of a permanent support depending on how you perceive it but it could also turn differently.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        0
                        • A Offline
                          A Offline
                          afridi220
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #13

                          Of course that is okay, but isn't a marriege more of a security a longer lasting sort of support, just to send money is okay but a person can stop anytime like that you aren't tied in somehow.

                          A marriege is a more of a permanent support and in return obviously a man has the offer of being fulfilled as well to a certain degree- some men might be more tempted by it and take the offer and continue the support for a much longer term-maybe!

                          Wouldn't the woman feel more secure by way of marriege? and feel it a longer lasting thing?

                          peace

                          What kind of support is that 600 $ a year ??? that is Not enough for one month man brickwall

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • S Offline
                            S Offline
                            sarah2505
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #14

                            What kind of support is that 600 $ a year ??? that is Not enough for one month man brickwall

                            think of PPP exchange rates, it's a lot in Pakistani currency

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • R Offline
                              R Offline
                              Rev_John
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #15

                              think of PPP exchange rates, it's a lot in Pakistani currency

                              Maybe we should all get together to support someone

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • A Offline
                                A Offline
                                afridi220
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #16

                                think of PPP exchange rates, it's a lot in Pakistani currency

                                That is around 50000 Pak Rupees and that is not enough for an average family for two months, do you sagest that she should marry more than one husband,

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • S Offline
                                  S Offline
                                  SarahY
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #17

                                  how is she living now? if she is getting support and gets extra support she might be ok

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • A Offline
                                    A Offline
                                    afridi220
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #18

                                    how is she living now? if she is getting support and gets extra support she might be ok

                                    By marrying 2nd and 3rd right handshake

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • U Offline
                                      U Offline
                                      unknownuser
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #19

                                      What kind of support is that 600 $ a year ??? that is Not enough for one month man brickwall

                                      It is actualy 600 British pounds which is about 80000 Rupees of Pakistan currency.

                                      As the ladies live with their parents, that is more then enough to educate a child in an english school and for their everyday expenses.

                                      peace

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • R Offline
                                        R Offline
                                        Rev_John
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #20

                                        It is actualy 600 British pounds which is about 80000 Rupees of Pakistan currency.

                                        As the ladies live with their parents, that is more then enough to educate a child in an english school and for their everyday expenses.

                                        peace

                                        About $1000 US

                                        1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • A Offline
                                          A Offline
                                          aynur
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #21

                                          peace

                                          would you ever consider a second or third marriege to someone in Pakistan to a lady with a child, whom you could support with say ?600.00 per year, and of course have a jolly time now and then but no kids.

                                          Anyone? and would your wife , here, allow such a thing.

                                          You would certainly be taking part in the education of the child with the above sum, make an educated person in the world as a way of charity wouldn't you? could you ever?

                                          hypno

                                          I would talk to your wife, and decide from there.

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Users