Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Users
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Free Minds Forum Icon
  1. Home
  2. General Issues / Questions
  3. Questions/Comments on the Quran
  4. women/ females/ orphans in Surah Nisa, 4:3

women/ females/ orphans in Surah Nisa, 4:3

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Questions/Comments on the Quran
112 Posts 7 Posters 5.4k Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • S Offline
    S Offline
    sarah2505
    wrote on last edited by
    #36

    and this one.
    http//ucatlas.ucsc.edu/gender/gender_india.html

    India Large Differences between North and South

    India has one of the worst female mortality rates in the world, with a gender ratio of 0.97. That is, there are only 97 women alive for every 100 men, well below the 105 women in North America and Europe. But these aggregate numbers hide the inequality within India. For example, the southern state of Kerala has a ratio of 1.04. The northern states have extremely low numbers Utter Pradesh has 0.89 and Punjab?s is 0.87.

    Amartya Sen studied this regional inequality and found a distinct split based on geography. States in the Northern and Western region of India have higher ratios of female mortality than states in the South and East. In fact, he asserted that with only a couple minor exceptions, every state in the North and East has lower female ratios than every state in the South and West. Sen noted ?a social and cultural divide across India, splitting the country? in half, with respect to female mortality and gender bias before birth (Sen 2001).

    The map (above) shows this geographical split. It measures the ratio of girls to boys, reflecting not only the mortality rates of early childhood, but also the sex bias before birth which can result in sex-selective abortions.

    Kerala Success due to Progressive Social Programs

    The southern state of Kerala has had the greatest success. Its demographics are more typical of a middle-income country, with a female-male ratio of 1.05, similar to Europe and North America. Kerala is notable in India for its progressive social programs, such as accessible health care, educational opportunities, land reform and many others. This has resulted in increased opportunities for women. The female literacy rate is higher than the rest of India. Women have more opportunism to work outside the home. Property ownership and inheritance among women is higher too; in some areas of Kerala, property ownership is usually passed through women. The factors increase women?s agency, which improves female mortality.

    Economic Growth No automatic key to success

    By economics measurements, some states in the north and west of India could be considered the most successful. Punjab and Harayana are among the richest in the country; Gujarat and Maharashtra are among those with the fastest economic growth. However, their gender ratios were as low as states in the region with no or slow economic growth. Therefore, economic resources, prosperity and GNP growth do not appear to be major factors in reducing female mortality. Higher income appears to improve overall mortality, but does not improve the female ratio. In other words, overall mortality decreases, but boys benefit more than girls.

    The north and western states are varied in terms of economic conditions and growth. However, Sen found that one common characteristic among the states in this region is that they have ?given much more room to religion-based sectarian politics than have the east or the south, where religion-center parties have had very little success? (Sen 2001).

    Some Factors Hard to Predict

    With some factors, it is hard to predict whether they will improve female mortality. For example, Murthi studied access to health care to see if scarcity exacerbates the gender bias, due to boys receiving preferential access to resources over girls. Conversely, when opportunities increase (through increase parental literacy or high per-capita income) it is not always clear whether these advantages are shared evenly throughout families, or if the benefits are distributed mainly to the boy children.

    However, Murthi found that increased female literary, education and labor force participation increased women?s empowerment and reduced gender mortality bias. He found that increased literacy can have the most powerful influence and can affect change more quickly than other social factors.

    Case Study Lessons in Development

    As a case study, India shows that economic growth is not a predicator of improved female mortality. Female literacy and education can help empower women not only in their lives, but in their opportunity to live. Female labor force participation and property ownership can be key contributors, too. There is some debate about the degree to which each factor contributes to the issue of gender bias in mortality. However, there is agreement among scholars that empowerment of women improves their agency and reduces gender biased mortality.

    References

    Chasin, Barbara, Franke, Richard W., (1991) ?The Kerala Difference,? New York Review of Books, October 24, 1991.

    Murthi, Mamta, et al, Mortality, (1995) ?Fertility and Gender Bias in India A District Level Analysis?, June 1995.

    Sen, A. (2001), ?Many Faces of Gender Inequality?, The Frontline, October 27, 2001.

    Sen, A. (1990). "More Than 100 Million Women Are Missing" New York Review of Books (12/20/90) 61-66.

    1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • F Offline
      F Offline
      Fawzia
      wrote on last edited by
      #37

      PS, in mentioning about global sex ratios, I don't mean to hurt Muslim sentiments.

      I also said that this happens in non Muslim India, China etc as well.

      However, I do think all these societies, Muslim or non Muslim, need to introspect & make women's lives better, so that their total populations have more women than men.

      After all, if Sri Lanka can have more women than men in their total population, & women outliving men, why shouldn't Bangladesh as well?

      Both are South Asian, so its nothing against South Asians, if one South Asian naton can have more women, another can too. peace

      Also, if Portugal can have more women than men in their population, then Turkey should too.

      Both are slightly poorer nations by European standards & still have illiteracy.

      Surely its not European bashing to mention Turkey or South Asian bashing to mention Sri Lanka? peace

      Iran has more men than women, the Iran, Iraq war killed many men, still it has more men.

      I would like my birthplace Iran to have more women too, to stop all the hideous ill treatment of women.

      I think constructive criticism always runs the risk of being blocked by terma like racist or South Asian bashing.

      Sri Lanka is in South Asia too, it has more women & women are reasonably well off in Buddhist Sri Lanka.

      1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • S Offline
        S Offline
        sarah2505
        wrote on last edited by
        #38

        http//books.google.com/books?id=XRudk_NcA7cC&pg=PA24&lpg=PA24&dq=sex+ratio+in+Europe%3F&source=bl&ots=ybeyiITTbD&sig=H1hnn9uv5FS9zLOH0GoUPh2RvTU&hl=en&ei=Zzb1Srn7Loyf8AaRpoT0CQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=9&ved=0CCsQ6AEwCA#v=onepage&q=sex%20ratio%20in%20Europe%3F&f=false

        a sex ratio of 1.2-1.3 in Europe in the Middle Ages?

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • S Offline
          S Offline
          san
          wrote on last edited by
          #39

          I know I know, first you didn't understand demographics, then you will ridicule me & then give up.

          All I spoke of were facts.

          Why such huge sizes? I too want to help women, I don't think the Quran does enough on that front.

          I would like Muslims to be more like nations like Sweden or Norway, which promote women's rights,NOT from the Bible, but from modern ethics.

          I think the best help for Muslims, like other people everywhere, isn't to turn back to what God says, but try to find their own meaningful lives, thinking out of the book.

          How else can i get your attention?

          Thank you for the open words, now we know what your intention is. You wanted to help women. That's noble.

          That is your right to think out of the book. And we can do as you do, while at another time also think inside the book--for maybe it is the other 'muslims' interpretation that are wrong?

          You already feel that the modern ethics is better than their interpretation, than why don't you work with us?

          Without all the not-so-useful speech.

          Why don't we compete in presenting our views, in a more systematic manner? Academical is good.

          So let's show what is it in our minds in a positive manner.

          You can see that we are not on their side, so why keep it on us?

          You want some more appropriate place for you to express your anger on the injustice? I'll find some other forums for you. There are a lot of 'muslims' forum still justifying their misinterpretations. And from Clerics too. You could give them some hard blows, definitely. That would be funny for us too.

          But why here? When we are trying to deal with the very same subjects as you are?

          Can you be more fair to us?

          Can you be more fair to yourself?

          Please answer, i know you're an intelligent person.

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • F Offline
            F Offline
            Fawzia
            wrote on last edited by
            #40

            and this one.
            ......

            Read my posts Sarah, I CLEARLY mentioned India & China as well.

            I mentioned India too, however, not being Indian, it didn't perturb you.

            I'm not Indian too.

            However, if I DARE mention Pakistan or Bangladesh, I'm termed racist?

            Isn't it racist if you mention Indian witches or ratios?

            Or is it all right to mention India as its Hindu majority, but not Muslim nations? ???

            I'm not an ex Hindu, if I was I'd be turning my attention to that one, I'm ex Muslim.

            I know my ex religion & culture.

            Now tell me Sarah, having indulged in India bashing, why do millions of Bangladeshi illegal immigrants go to settle there?

            Bangladesh too is a poor nation like India, both were colonized by the British, so you can't use the colony excuse?

            If Hindu India is such a baaad, baaaad, place, why do Bangladeshi illegal immigrants go to settle there in millions?

            Why flee their Muslim homeland for such a bad nation?

            Having indulged in the bashing of one South Asian nation, surely you can answer about the millions of Bangladeshi illegal immigrants in India? Why this attraction for a non Muslim neighbouring, fellow colonized country? ???

            I have nothing against South Asia, I did praise Buddhist Sri Lanka,

            Why would I do this?

            In any case, blaming India is like tu quoque logical fallacy.

            Instead of blaming other nations, try to learn from the better ones, for example try to learn from Sri Lanka. peace

            1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • S Offline
              S Offline
              sarah2505
              wrote on last edited by
              #41

              http//www.demogr.mpg.de/Papers/Books/Monograph1/sexratio.htm

              This is a particularly interesting article.

              The highest levels of excess male mortality in old age are now found in Northwestern Europe and Australia as shown in Table 15

              http//www.demogr.mpg.de/Papers/Books/Monograph1/table15.htm

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • S Offline
                S Offline
                sarah2505
                wrote on last edited by
                #42
                1. Sex ratio and sex differential of mortality

                The greater longevity of the human female is most clearly manifest in the life of the elderly and translates virtually without exception into a sex ratio of mortality (male rate per female rate) higher than unity. With increasing age, however, this ratio likewise almost universally -declines and this has often led to the mistaken conclusion that at high ages death rates for the two sexes tend to converge and may eventually intersect.

                Actually, the declining ratio is nothing more than an inevitable result of arithmetic at young ages the ratio may reach, and often does, values of 2 or 3 but such ratios become increasingly unlikely and finally impossible as mortality reaches higher levels in old age. If, instead of the ratio, we look at the differential of the rates, the picture changes completely instead of converging, the rates maintain their distance.

                These two structural features of old age mortality - sex ratio declining but sex differential fairly constant with advancing age - have persisted through the recent momentous development which has been much more beneficial to women than men.

                An examination of the sex ratio based on age-standardized death rates at ages 80-99 in the 28 countries with acceptable data (Annex Table 10) confirms, first of all, that the males are subject to considerably higher mortality than the females and that this difference has lately been increasing. The male excess mortality which at these ages in 1960-64 varied between countries from 10 to 33 percent, had by 1985-89 grown to an excess of 24 to 48 percent while the mean had grown from 20 to 36 percent.

                The highest levels of excess male mortality in old age are now found in Northwestern Europe and Australia as shown in Table 15 and the lowest generally in Eastern and Central Europe. The very low ratio for Spain is probably due to age overstatement by males whose death rate therefore has a downward bias.

                The increase in the sex ratio during this last quarter century, also shown in Table 15, has been remarkably sharp in the Low Countries and Scandinavia where improvement in the mortality of old men has been slight. Although this has not been the case in Switzerland and Finland, the gains were in these countries much larger for women. At the other extreme, the sex ratio has increased only moderately in the former East bloc. The apparent decline in Spain is most likely an artifact. The development is illustrated by age group in Figure 9 which is composed of only the most reliable data. In it an aggregate of eleven Western European countries is compared with a group of three Eastern European countries and with Japan. The actual ratios are given in Annex Table 11.

                In both European groups the decline of the sex ratio of mortality with advancing age was very moderate in the 1950s, after which the gradually increasing female advantage has translated into ever steeper slopes as the upper end of the life span has not kept pace with the rapid changes among octogenarians. In Japan the slope was very straight and stable for three decades and approached the European pattern only in the 1980s when it also confirmed the existence of a mortality difference between male and female centenarians.

                When, instead of sex ratio, we look at the sex differential in Figure 10, we note its nearly constant size by age. In the European curves there is a tendency for a slow increase of the differential over age which belies the assumption of convergence. As the female advantage has grown over time, the curves have been moving to higher levels while roughly maintaining their slowly ascending form.

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • S Offline
                  S Offline
                  sarah2505
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #43

                  Some things never change, sigh...

                  http//news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/7123753.stm

                  UK Indian women 'aborting girls'
                  Indian girls in at slum in Bangalore
                  Female infanticide is highest in some of India's wealthiest districts
                  A study suggests Indian women in the UK are aborting unborn daughters so they can have more boys, the BBC's Asian Network has learned.

                  The Oxford University study suggests 1,500 girls are "missing" from the birth statistics in England and Wales from 1990 to 2005.

                  It shows the proportion of boys compared with girls born to Indian-born mothers has increased since the 1970s.

                  Dr Sylvie Dubuc said this could be due to "sex selective abortion".

                  See sex-ratio of births to Indian born women

                  Dr Dubuc, who studied birth rates of different ethnic groups in England and Wales, found that in the 1970s 103 boys were born for every 100 girls.

                  Between 2000 and 2005, the proportion of boys over girls had increased abnormally to 114 boys for every 100 girls, she said.

                  Unfortunately it was another girl - my husband and I thought the burden would probably be too much
                  Unnamed British woman

                  Britain's unwanted girls

                  Figures showed 26,662 babies were born to Indian-born women in England and Wales from 1990 to 2005, excluding the first or second child.

                  "According to my calculation around 1,500 girls are missing... it's significant compared to the total number of births," Dr Dubuc said.

                  She said the most probable explanation seemed to be sex selective abortion by a minority of mothers born in India.

                  Reconstruction 'Meena' is an actress
                  Reconstruction 'Meena' went to India to abort her daughter

                  Full interview

                  One British woman, who spoke to the BBC anonymously, said she had an abortion after a doctor in India found she was to have a fourth daughter.

                  "Unfortunately it was another girl. My husband and I thought the burden would probably be too much and the pressure when I got back home. So we decided to terminate," she said.

                  In Indian culture, the preference for boys over girls is well known.

                  Getting rid of baby girls is a practice that is so widespread in some parts of India that it has skewed dramatically the ratio of males to females.

                  Female foeticide, as it is known, has been illegal in India since the early 1980s.

                  It is also illegal to offer scans to find out the sex of a baby - but the law is regularly flouted.

                  Undercover filming

                  To see how difficult it is to find a doctor willing to carry out the service, the BBC sent a British couple to one of Delhi's top gynaecologists, Dr Mangala Telang - a doctor recommended by the British High Commission.

                  Dr Telang, an IVF treatment specialist, has practised in some of Delhi's top hospitals and has actually campaigned against female foeticide calling it an "evil" crime.

                  The BBC had heard that her clinic would offer ultrasound scans to determine the sex of a baby - even though a sign in the waiting room clearly said it was illegal.

                  FACTS AND FIGURES
                  Female infanticide occurs in 80% of Indian states
                  Worst-affected states include wealthiest areas
                  927 girls born for every 1,000 boys
                  Infant mortality rate 60/1,000
                  Source Unicef

                  Secret filming shows that within minutes Dr Telang agreed to perform the scan. She warns the couple not to tell anyone about what they were doing as it is illegal.

                  The couple also ask whether, if the unborn child is a girl and they decide to abort the baby, she could recommend someone to carry out a termination.

                  Dr Telang says "Yes, I can recommend someone."

                  In the ultrasound room, another doctor tells the couple the "good" news that it is a boy. Both doctors had broken several laws.

                  When the BBC told the doctors about the evidence, they denied doing anything wrong.

                  Dr Telang said she was not in the room when the scan was carried out. But she is clearly seen in the room congratulating the couple.

                  Cultural pressures

                  An estimated seven million girls have gone missing from India's population over the last 25 years.

                  Some of them will have been killed after they were born, or allowed to die within their first few days. But most of them will have been aborted.

                  Selective abortion is happening all over India as ultrasound machines - which carry out the scan - have become cheaper, but it has always been worst in Punjab and Gujarat.

                  It is impossible to say how many British women are travelling to India for terminations.

                  But the UK has a substantial community with strong links to, and often the same pressures as, families in India.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • F Offline
                    F Offline
                    Fawzia
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #44

                    http//books.google.com/books?id=XRudk_NcA7cC&pg=PA24&lpg=PA24&dq=sex+ratio+in+Europe%3F&source=bl&ots=ybeyiITTbD&sig=H1hnn9uv5FS9zLOH0GoUPh2RvTU&hl=en&ei=Zzb1Srn7Loyf8AaRpoT0CQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=9&ved=0CCsQ6AEwCA#v=onepage&q=sex%20ratio%20in%20Europe%3F&f=false

                    a sex ratio of 1.2-1.3 in Europe in the Middle Ages?

                    Do you have reading & learning difficulty Sarah?

                    Still having trouble reading?

                    Didn't I mention maternal mortality reducing numbers of women?

                    The book portion mentions that there were more men but fails to pin the causal factor.

                    It mentions that there were more men because in the crucial years of teens & twenties, women died in large numbers in childbirth.

                    That would ostensibly happen in Muhammad's time as well, so with women dying in childbirth, if the Muslim claim was true, then there surely Muhammad couldn't be polygamous with his daughter in law or with little Ayesha! ;D

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • M Offline
                      M Offline
                      Mazhar
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #45

                      http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9597268.msg181548#msg181548
                      First
                      The Quran , in the original Arabic text, does NOT use the word "female" . There is no "female" anywhere in the text of verse 4127.

                      Here is the text in Arabic

                      The word . (Nisa'a). This word means "WOMEN", not "females". For your info, the Arabic word for "female" is . "Untha".

                      The opposite of "untha" is "zhakar"

                      Hence

                      "untah" = female
                      "zhakar" = male.

                      While

                      "nisa'a" = women
                      "rijal" = men

                      Now you will ask of course So what? What is the diference between "untha" and "nisa'a"? Are they not synonymous?

                      NO, they are NOT synonymous. Anyone who claims they are synonymous is

                      1- Ignorant in Arabic.
                      2- Unaware of the Quran's precision
                      3- Corrupting the message.

                      Even in English, FEMALE and WOMAN are not necessarily the same. To rephrase that Every woman is a female. But not every female is a woman. , age of marriage according to Qur'aan, ]

                      A female could be a dog, sheep, horse, plant, or a three-year old child.
                      A woman is a grown adult human, passed the age of orphanage

                      If you can't see this difference, and stubbornly insist on ignoring it, then stop reading further. God is precise in using His words. Your scholars are apparently incapable of grasping this accuracy.

                      http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/004.%20An%20Nisa/temp%2014%20%204.127c.gif
                      And they seek confirmation/strengthened verdict about women from you, the Messenger;
                      http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/004.%20An%20Nisa/temp%2014%20%204.127d.gif
                      You tell them; " Allah gives you the verdict regarding their matter, i.e. what is being narrated to you word by word from the Book,
                      http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/004.%20An%20Nisa/temp%2014%20%204.127e.gif
                      about orphan lonely women whom you do not give what is written for them and you desire that you may take them into Nikah ;

                      http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/004.%20An%20Nisa/004.%20An%20Nisa%2002.htm

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • S Offline
                        S Offline
                        sarah2505
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #46

                        http//mobile.france24.com/en/20080423-diet-influence-child-sex-britain-maternity-health

                        This is just plain weird.

                        Oysters may excite the libido, but there is nothing like a hearty breakfast laced with sugar to boost a woman's chances of conceiving a son, according to a study released Wednesday.

                        Likewise, a low-energy diet that skimps on calories, minerals and nutrients is more likely to yield a female of the human species, says the study, published in Proceedings of the Royal Society B Biological Sciences, Britain's de facto academy of sciences.

                        Fiona Mathews of the University of Exeter in Britain and colleagues wanted to find out if a woman's diet has an impact on the sex of her offspring.

                        So they asked 740 first-time mothers who did not know if their unborn foetuses were male or female to provide detailed records of eating habits before and after they became pregnant. The women were split into three groups according to the number calories they consumed per day around the time of conception.

                        Fifty-six percent of the women in the group with the highest energy intake had sons, compared to 45 percent in the least-well fed cohort.

                        Beside racking up a higher calorie count, the group who produced more males were also more likely to have eaten a wider range of nutrients, including potassium, calcium and vitamins C, E and B12.

                        The odds of an XY, or male outcome to a pregnancy also went up sharply "for women who consumed at least one bowl of breakfast cereal daily compared with those who ate less than or equal to one bowl of week," the study reported.

                        These surprising findings are consistent with a very gradual shift in favor of girls over the last four decades in the sex ratio of newborns, according to the researchers.

                        Previous research has shown -- despite the rising epidemic in obesity -- a reduction in the average energy uptake in advanced economies. The number of adults who skip breakfast has also increased substantially.

                        "This research may help to explain why in developed countries, where many young women choose low calorie diets, the proportion of boys is falling," Mathews said.

                        The study's findings, she added, could point to a "natural mechanism" for gender selection.

                        The link between a rich diet and male children may have an evolutionary explanation.

                        For most species, the number of offspring a male can father exceeds the number a female can give birth to. But only if conditions are favorable -- poor quality male specimens may fail to breed at all, whereas females reproduce more consistently.

                        "If a mother has plentiful resources, then it can make sense to invest in producing a son because he is likely to produce more grandchildren than would a daughter," thus contributing to the survival of the species, explains Mathews.

                        "However, in leaner times having a daughter is a safer bet."

                        While the mechanism is not yet understood, it is known from in vitro fertilisation research that higher levels of glucose, or sugar, encourage the growth and development of male embryos while inhibiting female embryos.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        0
                        • F Offline
                          F Offline
                          Fawzia
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #47

                          .....

                          Excellent Sarah! bravo bravo bravo

                          Thanks for showing your true colors!

                          I was accused of racism or South Asian bashing if I dared mention Bangladesh or Pakistan, however, you freely mention India!

                          Isn't that the biggest chunk of South Asia?

                          So "South Asian bashing" is to be avoided if it hurts Muslim sentiments right?

                          Or its allright?

                          I face the same when I dare speak agaainst Palestinians, it becomes Muslim bashing, however then the Muslim person follows with Jew bashing! ;D

                          Will criticizing India make your Bangladesh perfect?

                          Nope, so why not learn from Sri Lanka?

                          AND why migrate in millions from Bangladesh to India, if its so bad? ???

                          I would've bashed Hindus had I been born that, as it happens, I'm not.

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • F Offline
                            F Offline
                            Fawzia
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #48
                            1. Sex ratio and sex differential of mortality

                            The greater longevity of the human female is most clearly manifest in the life of the elderly and translates virtually without exception into a sex ratio of mortality (male rate per female rate) higher than unity. With increasing age, however, this ratio likewise almost universally -declines and this has often led to the mistaken conclusion that at high ages death rates for the two sexes tend to converge and may eventually intersect.

                            Actually, the declining ratio is nothing more than an inevitable result of arithmetic at young ages the ratio may reach, and often does, values of 2 or 3 but such ratios become increasingly unlikely and finally impossible as mortality reaches higher levels in old age. If, instead of the ratio, we look at the differential of the rates, the picture changes completely instead of converging, the rates maintain their distance.

                            These two structural features of old age mortality - sex ratio declining but sex differential fairly constant with advancing age - have persisted through the recent momentous development which has been much more beneficial to women than men.

                            An examination of the sex ratio based on age-standardized death rates at ages 80-99 in the 28 countries with acceptable data (Annex Table 10) confirms, first of all, that the males are subject to considerably higher mortality than the females and that this difference has lately been increasing. The male excess mortality which at these ages in 1960-64 varied between countries from 10 to 33 percent, had by 1985-89 grown to an excess of 24 to 48 percent while the mean had grown from 20 to 36 percent.

                            The highest levels of excess male mortality in old age are now found in Northwestern Europe and Australia as shown in Table 15 and the lowest generally in Eastern and Central Europe. The very low ratio for Spain is probably due to age overstatement by males whose death rate therefore has a downward bias.

                            The increase in the sex ratio during this last quarter century, also shown in Table 15, has been remarkably sharp in the Low Countries and Scandinavia where improvement in the mortality of old men has been slight. Although this has not been the case in Switzerland and Finland, the gains were in these countries much larger for women. At the other extreme, the sex ratio has increased only moderately in the former East bloc. The apparent decline in Spain is most likely an artifact. The development is illustrated by age group in Figure 9 which is composed of only the most reliable data. In it an aggregate of eleven Western European countries is compared with a group of three Eastern European countries and with Japan. The actual ratios are given in Annex Table 11.

                            In both European groups the decline of the sex ratio of mortality with advancing age was very moderate in the 1950s, after which the gradually increasing female advantage has translated into ever steeper slopes as the upper end of the life span has not kept pace with the rapid changes among octogenarians. In Japan the slope was very straight and stable for three decades and approached the European pattern only in the 1980s when it also confirmed the existence of a mortality difference between male and female centenarians.

                            When, instead of sex ratio, we look at the sex differential in Figure 10, we note its nearly constant size by age. In the European curves there is a tendency for a slow increase of the differential over age which belies the assumption of convergence. As the female advantage has grown over time, the curves have been moving to higher levels while roughly maintaining their slowly ascending form.

                            Exactly what I was telling you.

                            Why & how many populations have more women.

                            Anyway, thanks for this discussion, I learn more about Quranist Muslims like this.

                            So all the charges of racism only come out if it concerns Muslims, or charges of South Asian bashing, otherwise bashing's fine? bravo

                            AND Bangladeshi Muslims will freely immigrate to India in millions, after telling people how bad it is?

                            Like many Muslims in Europe I know, who'll go on & on about how bad Europe is, then say that they're trying to immigrate there! )

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • S Offline
                              S Offline
                              san
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #49

                              Mazhar, thank you for pointing out the different term used in 4127. Clearly there it is yataman-nisa, as opposed to only yataman on the 43, thus this is enough as a warning for those who want to abuse 43.

                              4127 They ask thy instruction concerning the women say Allah doth instruct you about them And (remember) what hath been rehearsed unto you in the Book, concerning the orphans of women to whom ye give not the portions prescribed, and yet whom ye desire to marry, as also concerning the children who are weak and oppressed that ye stand firm for justice to orphans. There is not a good deed which ye do, but Allah is well-acquainted therewith.

                              4128 If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best; even though men's souls are swayed by greed. But if ye do good and practise self-restraint, Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do.

                              4129 Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self-restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • S Offline
                                S Offline
                                sarah2505
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #50

                                Mazhar, thank you for pointing out the different term used in 4127. Clearly there it is yataman-nisa, as opposed to only yataman on the 43, thus this is enough as a warning for those who want to abuse 43.

                                so yataman nisa means orphaned girls and
                                yataman means orphan of either sex?

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • S Offline
                                  S Offline
                                  san
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #51

                                  Fawzia, answer honestly about 48-10 and 4127-129

                                  Are you going to cover it?

                                  Are you going to be like those who abuse the Quran? They use their ego. Are you using your ego now to not comment about them?

                                  Or are you going to get back to the same old story, the greedy "muslims" men... it's even there right on the 4128 "men's souls are swayed by greed"!

                                  It's already there! SAME OLD STORY INDEED!

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • F Offline
                                    F Offline
                                    Fawzia
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #52

                                    Mazhar, thank you for pointing out the different term used in 4127. Clearly there it is yataman-nisa, as opposed to only yataman on the 43, thus this is enough as a warning for those who want to abuse 43.

                                    4127 They ask thy instruction concerning the women say Allah doth instruct you about them And (remember) what hath been rehearsed unto you in the Book, concerning the orphans of women to whom ye give not the portions prescribed, and yet whom ye desire to marry, as also concerning the children who are weak and oppressed that ye stand firm for justice to orphans. There is not a good deed which ye do, but Allah is well-acquainted therewith.

                                    4128 If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best; even though men's souls are swayed by greed. But if ye do good and practise self-restraint, Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do.

                                    4129 Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self-restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.

                                    Good enough san, but I feel that it'd have been better had Allah mentioned that men who don't marry war widows & mothers of orphans but just taken on a second wife do a grave wrong?

                                    There are all sorts of men & women. If a door is left even a little open, people would want to go in.

                                    Allah prohibits polytheism, idolatry etc in no uncertain terms, why not also prohibit men taking on a second or more wives if there are no poor, incapable mothers of orphans whom they have to look after in equally strong terms too? ???

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • S Offline
                                      S Offline
                                      san
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #53

                                      so yataman nisa means orphaned girls and
                                      yataman means orphan of either sex?

                                      Sarah, i didn't check and i haven't commented about 4127.

                                      I'm going to give an example

                                      "Am I more than a human messenger (Basharan Rasoula)" 1793

                                      Notice, " a human messenger" and NOT "a messenger human (Rasoulan Bashara)."

                                      The reason is that not every Bashar (human) is a Rasoul (messenger) while every Rasoul (messenger) from among us is a Bashar (human).

                                      The analogy might not be straightforward, because in this case, not every nisaa' is a yataama.

                                      However in this case, the yatama that is addressed are those of yataman-nisaa'

                                      This is literally different from that of 43.

                                      Peace

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • F Offline
                                        F Offline
                                        Fawzia
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #54

                                        Fawzia, answer honestly about 48-10 and 4127-129

                                        Are you going to cover it?

                                        Are you going to be like those who abuse the Quran? They use their ego. Are you using your ego now to not comment about them?

                                        Or are you going to get back to the same old story, the greedy "muslims" men... it's even there right on the 4128 "men's souls are swayed by greed"!

                                        It's already there! SAME OLD STORY INDEED!

                                        Yes san sure, I understand that we can use alternate verses to show that polygamy is not encouraged, however, as I said it is permitted.

                                        Every human being, man or woman isn't noble, sacrificing as even the Quran says.

                                        If a door is left open even a little bit, there's a leeway.

                                        Under most conditions, polygamy is abusive to women.

                                        So why didn't Allah say, after that orphans & widows, that if there're no numerous war widows all desperate for protection from men, marry one?

                                        This is how even Indonesian men are mis using the law

                                        http//www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/10/24/ap/asia/main5418276.shtml

                                        1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • S Offline
                                          S Offline
                                          sarah2505
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #55

                                          @san, so what does yataman mean? It doesn't mean orphan (either sex)?

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Users