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Is it meant to be? Or not yet? Or never?

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    Rev_John
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    i'd say none of them, but rather a mix like
    only if it's meant to be will it happen
    so be patient and work on it and don't lose hope
    if it's not meant to be, you'll come to understand it in time and you'll let go

    good luck !

    I tend to agree with this. It could be any one of a, b, or c, or it could be a mixture of any two or all three. Maybe, instead of praying to God for the result you want, perhaps you should pray for his guidance to understand what result God wants for you.

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      nsws1988
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      Salaam, nsws1988,

      Despite the last post above D -- any update?

      Not really ( we're still together though )

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        afridi220
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        Not really we're still together though

        REMAIN STEADFAST pr

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          nsws1988
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          REMAIN STEADFAST pr

          will do, thanks )

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            Bosnian_Thinker
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            will do, thanks )

            the answer is a

            just give up

            giveup

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              nsws1988
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              the answer is a

              just give up

              giveup

              '(

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                afridi220
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                '(

                Dont listen to him muscle

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                  Wakas
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                  peace,

                  It is perhaps impossible to know if something is meant to be or not. It is an unknown. So, in such a situation, what is one to do?

                  For me it is a bit like being on a journey, and walking this journey, taking steps...... and often, you cannot be certain you will complete the journey or you will end up where you want to be or how close you are to the destination, but the most important part of the process in determining what happens is taking those steps, because with every step we get closer to finding out. Without taking those steps, it is unlikely you will find out either way.

                  So, it is a combination of (b) and (c) in your original post. The only thing I would add is continue to 'push the positive', what I mean by that is generate positivity with your thoughts/behaviour/deeds, for surely, it will be returned manifold to you. This is God's promise, and when it comes to unknowns, I keep on walking and put my trust in Him.

                  I am reminded of the wisdom "Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action."

                  )

                  All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                    san
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                    we're still together though )

                    That's good news

                    When it finally happens (the W word), send us your invitation e-card, we'll send you our attendance e-card. D

                    2432 And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.

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                      sarah2505
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                      the answer is a

                      just give up

                      giveup

                      why, might I know?
                      are you trying to poach

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                        afridi220
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                        why, might I know?
                        are you trying to poach

                        I thought the same thing. laugh

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                          nsws1988
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                          why, might I know?
                          are you trying to poach

                          He's jealous because he wants me

                          For me it is a bit like being on a journey, and walking this journey, taking steps...... and often, you cannot be certain you will complete the journey or you will end up where you want to be or how close you are to the destination, but the most important part of the process in determining what happens is taking those steps, because with every step we get closer to finding out. Without taking those steps, it is unlikely you will find out either way.

                          Do you know if God would get in the way of what people try to achieve. I know he is able to do so, but does He actually do that?

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                            afridi220
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                            He's jealous because he wants me

                            So you are aware of that. laugh

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                              Wakas
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                              Do you know if God would get in the way of what people try to achieve. I know he is able to do so, but does He actually do that?

                              Even if He did or did not, it is unlikely you would know it for certain. God doesn't really work for/against us, He works through us.

                              All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                Bosnian_Thinker
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                                the answer is below

                                giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup O0 giveup giveup giveup giveup

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                                  nsws1988
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                                  God doesn't really work for/against us, He works through us.

                                  Hmm... that's an interesting thought

                                  the answer is below

                                  giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup giveup O0 giveup giveup giveup giveup

                                  afro? ???

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                                    Bosnian_Thinker
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                                    Hmm... that's an interesting thought

                                    afro? ???

                                    yes, you should look for a guy with an afro...

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                                      nsws1988
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                                      yes, you should look for a guy with an afro...

                                      i think u shud

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                                        Bosnian_Thinker
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                                        i think u shud

                                        yuck

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                                          sarah2505
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                                          yes, you should look for a guy with an afro...

                                          but why? do you have an afro? hmm

                                          (self promotion? anyone?)

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