Muslims use hijab and mehram as an excuse not to adopt children!!!
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This makes me so mad!!
I'm not sure what the general consensus is although all the Quran focused pure islam websites I've been through agreed hijab should not be FORCED as it is not MANDATORY!
Still, even if you think it's mandatory, to use this as an excuse not to adopt kids is absurd! By the time your kid reaches puberty you'll be 30 or 40 something. Even if you're the type of person who thinks you'll go to hell for not covering your head infronto of a kid!
And the mehram issue, firstly the idea of completely segregating males and females is contrived from hadith (something about shaitaan being the one between a man and woman alone).
I feel so sad to think of all the little orphans who aren't finding homes because muslims have these fallacies.
I understand that you can't give them your name, that makes sense since its not fair to the biological parents, but this idea that once they reach puberty alienate them and seperate them completely from their siblings is stupid and not based on faith.
It's just important we don't give them a false lineage, that's all the Quran specifies. Plus brothers and sisters don't hug or touch each other anyway once they reach puberty rotfl
Let's all be welcoming to orphans sun sun
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Dirty obsessions. What is funnyis that for some muslims, obsesseions seem to be a duty, not a burden. If you are a tru Muslim youmust be obssessed by sex, that is if you are a male. If you are a female you must be obssessed by male obssessions.
That reminds me of the Lut ayas, was it really meant by Lut to oint to sex, the gender segregation or was it meant in general, and he was disaraging the gender segregtion of the debouchering males of his people? which by the way certain Muslims copy religiously.
Salaam