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Taking off the Hijab

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    nsws1988
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    It can be offensive to talk about women as girls in a way that one wouldn't talk about men as boys. Something about being condescending.

    It can be offensive to refer to a girl as a woman too

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      Kukumber
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      Peace all.

      Haha. I think the issue is mostly one of a double standard. Its ok to call a thirty year old woman a girl, but not a thirty year old man.

      Also there is an issue in the media of women being referred to as mothers and grandmothers. Like a local small-town newspaper headline may say "67 year old grandmother obtains college degree" or "67 year old man obtains college degree", but never "67 year old grandfather".

      It is basically defining that a woman's primary role is mothering/grandmothering, but not a man's. Another double standard. Does not bode over well where we live in a diverse world, where women and men should have the freedom to define their own roles.

      Kukumber

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        nsws1988
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        Peace all.

        Haha. I think the issue is mostly one of a double standard. Its ok to call a thirty year old woman a girl, but not a thirty year old man.

        Why would you call a thirty year old man a girl? confused

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          Kukumber
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          Guess I should have been clearer, but I think you know what I meant. Its ok to call a thirty year old woman, a girl, but not a thirty year old man, a boy. Hence Double standard

          Peace.

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            FAR
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            If you spoke to these girls like the respectful girls that they are then maybe I won't have to 'block' your arrogance and disrespect.

            If they were muslimahs, then of course they wouldn't block me. Quran 801-8, 971

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              FAR
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              Women, not girls ;D

              Mashallah, well said.

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                FAR
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                What's the difference between a young women and a girl?

                Rights of property, marriage, etc etc... driving license... etc etc.

                A girl does not have rights to her property until she has been tried for the age.

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                  FAR
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                  Peace all.

                  Haha. I think the issue is mostly one of a double standard. Its ok to call a thirty year old woman a girl, but not a thirty year old man.

                  Also there is an issue in the media of women being referred to as mothers and grandmothers. Like a local small-town newspaper headline may say "67 year old grandmother obtains college degree" or "67 year old man obtains college degree", but never "67 year old grandfather".

                  It is basically defining that a woman's primary role is mothering/grandmothering, but not a man's. Another double standard. Does not bode over well where we live in a diverse world, where women and men should have the freedom to define their own roles.

                  Kukumber

                  Yes you are absolutely correct. This naming doublespeak is almost like a back door into destroying women's rights, by calling them girls, and thus denying them the rights as if they were women.

                  Women and men having freedom to define their roles is all good and well, only if it's about themselves defining themselves is what I can accept. Not about people messing with words.

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                    If they were muslimahs, then of course they wouldn't block me. Quran 801-8, 971

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                      Sirius
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                      I just wanted to say 'Girl Power!' to the Sisters here for representing

                      Hehehehe

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                        nsws1988
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                        I just wanted to say 'Girl Power!' to the Sisters here for representing )

                        Hehehehe P

                        bravo

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                          FAR
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                          I just wanted to say 'Girl Power!' to the Sisters here for representing )

                          Hehehehe P

                          Well I believe in muslimahs... not girls trying to over power allah.

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                            nsws1988
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                            Well I believe in muslimahs... not girls trying to over power allah.

                            That's what we believe too. No one can overpower Allah as God is the greatest.

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                              That's what we believe too. No one can overpower Allah as God is the greatest.

                              Then give me a quran verse in regards to that.

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                                nsws1988
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                                Then give me a quran verse in regards to that.

                                In regards to what? That God is the greatest? It's obvious. God created everything. Nothing can be greater. Common sense.

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                                  FAR
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                                  In regards to what? That God is the greatest? It's obvious. God created everything. Nothing can be greater. Common sense.

                                  Any bloody thing. I don't come here to socialize (which should be obvious by now).

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                                    nsws1988
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                                    Any bloody thing. I don't come here to socialize (which should be obvious by now).

                                    mmmm ok confused

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                                      FAR
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                                      mmmm ok confused

                                      Woman problems, resolved now.

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                                        Woman problems, resolved now.

                                        phew!

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                                          I just wanted to say 'Girl Power!' to the Sisters here for representing )
                                          Hehehehe P

                                          Power without knowledge is like fire without light.

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