Being patient
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Nice thread!
does it have to be in +/- lists? i'm not in the mood for lists right now, maybe later.
i just want to share this, i hold myself from getting something i badly want but don't really need atm, because of 5710-11
5711 Who is it that will lend unto Allah a goodly loan that He may increase it manifold, and his may be a generous reward?
well, it takes patience to believe in the "increase/generous reward", i guess, because it's not coming instantly nor in the way you'd expect... you have to believe it to be able to "re-channel" your lust. the point is, sort of better knowledge/perspective really helps with patience
worst minus points for me avoiding some responsibilities / procrastination / self-imposed distractions / over-indulgence / over-planning etc -[ it's like lingering on while your soul is being sucked dry slowly
- Baking. Banana Bread.
oh, so you're the one who gave Wakas the recipe? He's getting addicted to it you know... i have yet to join a QC chat where he doesn't mention it
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Peace,
Respect.Reading Qur'an,
Planning for the better future,
Hanging around and with positive people,
Working,
Reading Books,
Watching movies,
hikes in the forest or park,
....If you're not concerned about anything, then there are no problems to be concerned over, right?
Peace.
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i just want to share this, i hold myself from getting something i badly want but don't really need atm, because of 5710-11
5711 Who is it that will lend unto Allah a goodly loan that He may increase it manifold, and his may be a generous reward?
well, it takes patience to believe in the "increase/generous reward", i guess, because it's not coming instantly nor in the way you'd expect... you have to believe it to be able to "re-channel" your lust. the point is, sort of better knowledge/perspective really helps with patience
Sounds like my daily experience. Trying hard not to buy new clothes/shoes/bags because I know I don't need them. Which is hard because lately I keep seeing big big discounts. Oh well, it's hard being a woman and having this type of lust lol.
oh, so you're the one who gave Wakas the recipe? He's getting addicted to it you know... i have yet to join a QC chat where he doesn't mention it
Nah, wasn't me. My banana bread is of a secret recipe, passed from my boss to me (haha). Wait 'til you try it, you'll be addicted . Though my specialty is Apple and Blueberry strudel (yum).
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Love this thread!
Goodness
-Reading the Qur'an
-Praying (I could do that all day sometimes) pr
-Listening to music
-Going on Forums/Blogs online
-Reading books
-Watching films
-Cooking (badly)
-Listening to French radio stations (I live in the UK, this is just a random past time I have)
-Ashtanga Yoga (both relaxing and exhausting for my body!)
-Being around my (extended) family
-Being around my friends
-Meditating (links with my prayer, really)
-Looking after my hair (I've just started growing locs, which is a real experience in terms of my patience, so every hair appointment will help me see how far I've come).Badness
-Being around people who say offensive things, in terms of religion, race, gender, ability...
-Arguing, especially with my family (this is partly because I can get angry easily and am very stubborn and... it's stressfull for everyone).
-Stress- my body doesn't react well to it.
-Being around people who've been drinking and/or smoking (a lot).
-Feeling seperated from God (this is usually my own doing, i.e. not praying often, but it definitely affects me).
-Boredom!
-Lack of sleep (she says as she's writing this at 1.30 in the morning! confusedpeace
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This is my list.
Positives
• Waking up early
• Going to bed early
• Regular day at work
• Finding something inspirational in the Qur'an
• Fashioning a sound argument using the Qur'an, logic, and science
• Translating
• Getting new knowledge from translating
• Talking to people I want to talk to
• Getting things on schedule
• Walking home from the train station
• Having a nice meal
• Solitude
What makes me impatient is,
• Things going not by the schedule
• Derailed plans
• Too much socializing @_@
• Not being able to contact people I want to contact
• Late hours at the office
• Conversation noise
• 'Holier than thou' people
• Prices of things I think I want--they seem to be just above my grasp
• Too many unexpected events
• Unwanted social contact
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Peace all,
You guys really inspired me.
Took lots of notes--many points here ring true to my past intentions, plus quite some new points to boot. I will abstain from posting on FM (except what i must respond to personally), until i establish these things in my life. Thanks guys and take care )
Peace!
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Great thread! I love the lists
I must question whether 'patience' vs 'impatience' is simply a state of your psyche. We believe xyz makes us patient/impatient, ergo it does. Isn't it more about NOT letting xyz affect us..negatively?
I agree....Goosfrabba
Best thing in life After months at sea, it is time to set course for home and in only a few hours I will see my family again.
Worst thing in life Every second of those few hours feel like an eternity.Best thing in life can also be the worst....hmmm
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Great thread! I love the lists
I must question whether 'patience' vs 'impatience' is simply a state of your psyche. We believe xyz makes us patient/impatient, ergo it does. Isn't it more about NOT letting xyz affect us..negatively?
Very true.. I try to remind myself this when impatience finds me...
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Very true.. I try to remind myself this when impatience finds me...
Peace,
Respect.Don't be impatient.....you are a young person, exercise.
This Saturday I started exercising again and I can assure you that 95% of the problems and troubles leave my head and I just run around the park, make 110 sit-ups and 15 push-ups. Thank God, I use to do more but got a little depressed lately ....Anyway, my message to you - exercise, sister, exercise. E v e r y d a y.
God bless you,
Peace. -
sleeping
Me too...or rather the thought that I can now go to sleep if I want to. The end of each day usually, I am most grateful and content.
But overall, if I have a decent book to read, some good music, perhaps a movie that takes me away from reality for a couple of hours, that is great. Spending time with my family also good. I love my walk time. When I am doing my breathing/meditation (which I am still getting used to), I find my levels of patience increase immensely.
Being impatient - usually PMS sets me off
Otherwise, its all good )
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I'm going on "30-day trials" to build up new habits!
Not sure if i should take too much at the same time, but to put it all into perspective, i'm only integrating what i've learned from AQ so far.
All blended into a single "habit", it becomes much like "swimming/floating" (s-b-H), to always keep it afloat and never to drown.
Peace and best wishes to y'all!
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I'm going on "30-day trials" to build up new habits! )
Not sure if i should take too much at the same time, but to put it all into perspective, i'm only integrating what i've learned from AQ so far.
All blended into a single "habit", it becomes much like "swimming/floating" (s-b-H), to always keep it afloat and never to drown.
Peace and best wishes to y'all!
sounds like an adventure!
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I'm going on "30-day trials" to build up new habits! )
Not sure if i should take too much at the same time, but to put it all into perspective, i'm only integrating what i've learned from AQ so far.
All blended into a single "habit", it becomes much like "swimming/floating" (s-b-H), to always keep it afloat and never to drown.
Peace and best wishes to y'all!
Good luck, Bro. And keep me updated. God willing, what was forsaken, can be continued sometimes in the future )
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... I will abstain from posting on FM (except what i must respond to personally), until i establish these things in my life. ...
Seems that i have broken my own words, enough for some part of me to keep calling meself a fickle. a flipping liar. In retrospection, i found the all-or-nothing abstain pointless. So i will revise it
I will only post in the "high" mood on FM. No soul or self-killing, period. Only spirit lift-ups and positives. (and occasional symbiotic trolololism)
Alright, enough hijacking from me. You guys rock my universe.