Why don't we have mosques?
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Because mosques cost money that need a community to run it possibly by government grants. once you get a community we can start complaining and demanding otherwise you're walking on broken legs.
furthermore not all mosques are on and on about Mohammed, most of the time the mosques are empty only during pray time or specific times they do 'classes' in which you will find crowds.
i'm sure you could go in a less frequent time with a bunch of friends otherwise you can learn through many resources out there to gain insight. of course it would be common courtesy to follow the mosque etiquettes if you went otherwise you're just asking for trouble.
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Thnx Mushu, wat u rote made alot of sense. Alhumdullia!
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Yea I dnt think u no wat I'm saying... The fact that nearly every single mosque in the whole world either talk about Muhammed more then God, write Muhammeds name nxt to Gods, quote Hadith more than Quran, talk all this crap from jihad through to women.... Dosnt this make u think y not one mosque has the whole Quran alone idea?
Nope I don't think so... I ask you again do you really understand what is a 'mosque'?
Does it need to be a building with arabic architecture, letterings or arabic name in it?
Or more over does it need to be a building?Don't go to that kind of building where people talk 'craps'.. or more precisely don't meet that kind of people..
Find somebody else... whoever whenever wherever..
And you shall understand that you don't need a building named mosque in the first place..Salam / People
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Hi All,
I just wanted to add that I do not visit mosques in Manchester for two reasons 1)The fact that Quran isnt relied upon brickwall and 2) women are very rarley occuping the nice areas of a mosque -X (hehe just remembered a time when I wandered into the wrong entrance of a mosque as it was soooo lovely but HARAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMM I was ushered out by the men into a small damp room where the toilets were unfinished and damp had set in.........welcome to the womens room........ nope
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To Jafar, I understand wat u r saying. I guess I just want to find a mosque for support though. N I want to belong to something other than the embarrassing Sunni n Shia communities (no offense n e 1).
To Imaani1, Lol I fully follow ur 2 reasons y u dnt go to mosques. Men get the beautiful enterances, n women get... Wel nothing.
Thnx every1 4 ur replies. It helps heaps knowing there r others out there who share my beliefs.
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A Muslim told me how can I be right, (following just Quran) as there is no mosques that support this view.
Another illogical argument! Maybe Muslims don't get sick because I haven't seen a Muslim hospital in my town.
I would love to have a mosque to go to where I feel comfortable as well, but I think it's more of a numbers thing. At my mosque it's segregated and most things are in another language. It's pretty uncomfortable and my guess is that if I start going again and do my prayer differently it will cause a stir. Not really worth it.
Imaani1 - our womens bathroom has nothing for the women to wash there feet. You have to lift your feet up into the basin where you also wash your hands. Of course the men have plenty of places to wash. ???
PS I don't own a bicycle...that must mean I can't ride one. laugh
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Salaam,
Well, you do not need a specific building to feel closer or have discussions about God. You can do it anywhere. Anyway, this reminds me of what a friend of mine told me back then when I was still a traditional muslim. I lamented that there was no mosque close to my area and he said something along the line that every inch of the earth would be our mosque, as long as we God inside our hearts.
That being said, it does not matter where you are. Online "mosque" (read Free Minds) is not that bad. If it can make you feel at home and that sense of belonging, so be it.
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Hi Everyone,
I see the argument for and against having a separate mosque. If you have a separate mosque then sunnis and shia won't interact with you and see how good of muslims you actually are. I also understand the need for a place of refuge and comfort to pray.
This is very evident in the Jewish community as well. If you go to an Orthodox synagogue then women sit in a separate area than men, women are not required to pray and the entire experience is in Hebrew. Many reform or progressive Jews can't stand to go to an Orthodox congregation. Hence they go to a reform or progressive congregation. Is there a separation? Yes, but most people mingle at the Jewish Community Center so we sort of have our own space to pray and then a common area as well. Also, Jews mingle alot across many congregations for various celebrations, weddings, bar/bat mitzvahs so they see each other.
I think it is difficult to deny that some people would be more comfortable in a group of like minded people while others can live with out it. What I would propose is a dual system similar to what the Jewish community has. a private place to worship as well as a common place of gathering. So your home could be the private place of worship. Invite a few friends over and have Quran study. Then have a public presence as well. This could be as simple as going to a local uni and holding a Quran study. You could also create a small group who do good works in the community. That is one area where the muslim community is lacking (at least in the USA). Go out and work with other organizations to feed homeless people or help elderly people or tutor kids. If people see you doing good works motivated by faith they will be more open to what you have to say.
Also if you are going to go to a shia or sunni mosque why not go as a group. I think that will also help make you feel more included. Let them see your faith shine through. Also if you get involved with Muslim student associations at uni you will feel more included as unis tend to be more open minded.
The point is.... work out a system where you can feel comfortable but still have a public presence.
Just my thoughts...
Shalom, Salam, Peace,
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Because mosques cost money that need a community to run it possibly by government grants. once you get a community we can start complaining and demanding otherwise you're walking on broken legs.
furthermore not all mosques are on and on about Mohammed, most of the time the mosques are empty only during pray time or specific times they do 'classes' in which you will find crowds.
i'm sure you could go in a less frequent time with a bunch of friends otherwise you can learn through many resources out there to gain insight. of course it would be common courtesy to follow the mosque etiquettes if you went otherwise you're just asking for trouble.
I agree.
I have never been in a mosque in the country I live in. And I will probably never visit one neither. My house is enough for me. I can pray at home. However, It would be nice to have an Islamic temple (a place where likeminded people meet to discuss islam and study the Quran) in my town. Unfortunately such a temple don't exist and probably never will. It will cost too much.