General Question
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Assalamun Alykum all.
I just got curious about dating in general. I realised since we are rare people (Submitters who follow the Qur'an only) and when they are willing to date Submitters, where do they actually go to? hmm I mean, is there any website for those kind of people to date or there's none? I would appreciate it if anyone tells me about it. Thank you for your time.
Allah bless you all, always.
Peace.P.s. I didn't mean to embarrassed anyone in here and I apologised if anyone find my post offensive.
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Assalamun Alykum all.
I just got curious about dating in general. I realised since we are rare people (Submitters who follow the Qur'an only) and when they are willing to date Submitters, where do they actually go to? hmm I mean, is there any website for those kind of people to date or there's none? I would appreciate it if anyone tells me about it. Thank you for your time.
Allah bless you all, always.
Peace.P.s. I didn't mean to embarrassed anyone in here and I apologised if anyone find my post offensive.
Why would your post be offensive. Its actually pretty normal that people want to date people of their own persuasion. But I think marriage is about two individuals. Anyways Koranist are a small minority and the marriage market might be challenging. laugh A moderate Muslim or moderate Christian might be a good idea. Just make sure that they know what they are getting into from the very start so as not to cause confusion later on. I am not aware of any Koranist matrimonial services. Yahoo has quite an amount of Koranist there but most are very young. But if there is anywhere to find Koranist its in the net.
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Peace,
I personally don't worry too much about finding another Quranist. I think being a knowledgeable Quranist makes it easier to meet a potential spouse that may be a God-fearing person of another religion, because it makes the case of Islam as strong as it can be (with Quran alone). I feel that I can make my case strong enough to the point where if they don't agree, we'd simply not get along logically. I often wonder how traditional "Muslims" end up with people who were originally another religion, or even meet within their own faith considering all of the numerous contradicting hadith they have to deal with.
With true Islam, it's just the Quran VS whatever book they believe in. Meet the person, study their religion, make your case, and if things don't work then it's a good sign that they are not on your level of logic anyway. But I think we'd be surprised how many people are resting on flimsy faith and occasionally need somebody like a Quranist to just tip them.
Peace.
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Why would your post be offensive. Its actually pretty normal that people want to date people of their own persuasion. But I think marriage is about two individuals. Anyways Koranist are a small minority and the marriage market might be challenging. laugh A moderate Muslim or moderate Christian might be a good idea. Just make sure that they know what they are getting into from the very start so as not to cause confusion later on. I am not aware of any Koranist matrimonial services. Yahoo has quite an amount of Koranist there but most are very young. But if there is anywhere to find Koranist its in the net.
Salaam to you. )
Lol laugh challenging you say but, I am not quite ready to take a challenge for that yet. We could say it is and will be hard to find a Submitter like us in reality and easy to find them on the internet. But, still, we could always meet them in anywhere at any place if Allah wills it of course because it's so easy for Him and less complicated.
Yahoo seems awkward to me! Their chatrooms are scary.....I use it only to speak with friends though.
Thanks for your reply ) and may Allah make it easy for me to find my prince who is a Submitter and loves Allah more than anyone and anything else.
Peace!
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Salam,
There is a section on this forum "matrimony" which seeks to help like minded people get together.
I was pleasantly surprised to learn that that section (or this forum at least) has helped bring at least one like minded couple together
Salaam!
Thanks for your reply and I will perhaps try this one (but too scared to do it lol). I hope it works out, God Willing. I will be posting there soon.
Thanks again.
Peace.
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Peace,
I personally don't worry too much about finding another Quranist. I think being a knowledgeable Quranist makes it easier to meet a potential spouse that may be a God-fearing person of another religion, because it makes the case of Islam as strong as it can be (with Quran alone). I feel that I can make my case strong enough to the point where if they don't agree, we'd simply not get along logically. I often wonder how traditional "Muslims" end up with people who were originally another religion, or even meet within their own faith considering all of the numerous contradicting hadith they have to deal with.
With true Islam, it's just the Quran VS whatever book they believe in. Meet the person, study their religion, make your case, and if things don't work then it's a good sign that they are not on your level of logic anyway. But I think we'd be surprised how many people are resting on flimsy faith and occasionally need somebody like a Quranist to just tip them.
Peace.
Salaam!
To be honest, it is essential for me who to date or to marry for that matter. By dating and marrying someone who is a Muslim and worships Allah alone and follows the Qur'an only and fears Allah is more than enough for me and it would be less complicated and would make things seems to be beautiful by working together and worshipping Allah alone together. Just imagine this, you get married to a Sunni Muslim and they would say "Hey, stop listening to music, HARAM", "Cut your nails short, jinns lives under them" (lol) or "Sleep on the right side" Or even perhaps argue about who is right and who is wrong in their positions of having their own beliefs. -shrugs- I don't think I would prefer something like that to be honest. I would like to have a simple life as possible in the future (inshallah) hence at the present life I am in now. Would prefer a Submitter fearing His Lord, waking me up to pray and devoting to absolutely to Allah alone, sticking with the Laws of Allah and telling me to be patient with life "together". As Allah said in the Qur'an "believing men is for believing women". God Willing, He will direct me to the place where to find that prince and I know in my inner that Allah knows what's the best for me. Hope and patience is the answer to life!
Peace. )
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Would prefer a Submitter fearing His Lord, waking me up to pray and devoting to absolutely to Allah alone, sticking with the Laws of Allah and telling me to be patient with life "together". As Allah said in the Qur'an "believing men is for believing women". God Willing, He will direct me to the place where to find that prince and I know in my inner that Allah knows what's the best for me. Hope and patience is the answer to life!
Peace be with you,
Add in 'someone who marries not only for this life, but for the Hereafter as well' and you have my perfect mate.
Keep striving. Allah will bring a believer into your life. Just be patient and turn to Him.
Peace and blessings.
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Salaam!
To be honest, it is essential for me who to date or to marry for that matter. By dating and marrying someone who is a Muslim and worships Allah alone and follows the Qur'an only and fears Allah is more than enough for me and it would be less complicated and would make things seems to be beautiful by working together and worshipping Allah alone together. Just imagine this, you get married to a Sunni Muslim and they would say "Hey, stop listening to music, HARAM", "Cut your nails short, jinns lives under them" (lol) or "Sleep on the right side" Or even perhaps argue about who is right and who is wrong in their positions of having their own beliefs. -shrugs- I don't think I would prefer something like that to be honest. I would like to have a simple life as possible in the future (inshallah) hence at the present life I am in now. Would prefer a Submitter fearing His Lord, waking me up to pray and devoting to absolutely to Allah alone, sticking with the Laws of Allah and telling me to be patient with life "together". As Allah said in the Qur'an "believing men is for believing women". God Willing, He will direct me to the place where to find that prince and I know in my inner that Allah knows what's the best for me. Hope and patience is the answer to life!
Peace.
Peace,
lol Reading my earlier post, I realized that I wasn't particularly clear in expressing my point. My intention was to indicate being able to meet a potential spouse from any other faith, and being able to convince them of Quran-alone, ie. converting them. Once they are a Quran-alone Muslim, then you would marry them and live a prosperous life together, God willing.
May peace be with you.
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Peace be with you,
Add in 'someone who marries not only for this life, but for the Hereafter as well' and you have my perfect mate.
Keep striving. Allah will bring a believer into your life. Just be patient and turn to Him.
Peace and blessings.
Salaamun-Alaykum! )
You're right! Thanks for reminding me that, I appreciate it.
God Willing He will. Thanks again for the Du'a. D
Peace.
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Peace,
lol Reading my earlier post, I realized that I wasn't particularly clear in expressing my point. My intention was to indicate being able to meet a potential spouse from any other faith, and being able to convince them of Quran-alone, ie. converting them. ) Once they are a Quran-alone Muslim, then you would marry them and live a prosperous life together, God willing. )
May peace be with you.
Peace. )
It's all good. Do not worry. I understood what you meant by it before. But, that is not my thing though, it would take lots of work to do that (lol)! Allah is indeed the Guider over people.
May Peace be with You too.
