Aqeekah for newborns
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Everyone has a culture and there is no wrong in that.
Not sure about the chanting stuff but having a get together celebrating, donating/charity, cutting hair is no big deal.
The Quran is a guidance it?s open to different cultures. There?s no recommendations to do such rituals from the Quran.
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I too recently had a son Adam (1-11-11) and we have not had his Aqeekah, because we can't afford the 2 sheep to slaughter, so it is on hold (I live in PA, USA). I don't think it was God's intention to put such a financial burden on yourself and I too can't find it in the Qur'an.
I also told my husband he shaves my baby's head he will have to deal with one ticked off mommy and Christian In-Laws who would see it as cruel and unnecessary. (He does not want to cut some hair, no he wants to SHAVE it with clippers.) I don't need him quoting a hadith either, my family loves to dance on how silly some of our beliefs are. Of course, the ones that our silly are those hadiths.
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Salam Brothers and Sisters,
I recently had a baby boy and as usual (as always around here) everybody is asking when I will hold the Aqeekah ceremony. For those of you who don't know, Aqeekah is the ritual for newborns (boys and girls), where a sheep/goat/cow is slaughtered and distributed to the poor and needy. Since I've been reading free-minds for quite some time now, I can't help but ask Is this ritual or any aspect of it permissible according to the Quran? There's chanting,hair cutting, gold/silver, feasting and slaughtering and I need to know whether all this is some old arab/semetic tradition or is there some basis in the Quran.
I would really appreciate some help here.
Peace..Aqeekah is a cultural practice. The Quran says absolutely nothing about it. Personally if I were in your position I won't do it at all since it is an empty ritual preformed by people who follow the hadith, also it opens the door to ignorance since the people who perform this ceremony believe they will somehow bring "blessings upon the baby" when in fact it really doesn't do anything of the sort. It's just an empty ritual. Most likely a tradition passed down by pagans.
Btw, Congratulations on your baby boy ;D . Live long and prosper peace
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Aqeeqa, including all the related rites, is a pagan tradition. It is also an expression of prejudice and gender discrimination that the organized Islam borrowed from pagan Arabic culture; in aqeeqa one goat is slaughtered for female babies, and two for male babies, and then it is attributed to 'sunnat'. And since the slaughter of animals is dedicated, in essence, to "sunnat" ... a phony idol, it comes under the commandment of this verse
....or what is corruptly dedicated to other than God
In my understanding, aqeeqa slaughter is a classic example of sacrifice dedicated to other than God.
In sub-Continent, aqeeqa is traditionally associated with "circumcision", another pagan ritual.
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Salam Brothers and Sisters,
I recently had a baby boy and as usual (as always around here) everybody is asking when I will hold the Aqeekah ceremony. For those of you who don't know, Aqeekah is the ritual for newborns (boys and girls), where a sheep/goat/cow is slaughtered and distributed to the poor and needy. Since I've been reading free-minds for quite some time now, I can't help but ask Is this ritual or any aspect of it permissible according to the Quran? There's chanting,hair cutting, gold/silver, feasting and slaughtering and I need to know whether all this is some old arab/semetic tradition or is there some basis in the Quran.
I would really appreciate some help here.
Peace..Aqeeqah (Part 2)
It is related by Aa'ishah radhiyallahu anhaa "During the age of perversion, the custom was that when people performed the Aqeeqah of a newly born child, they dipped a piece of cotton-wool in the blood of the sacrificed animal, and when the head of the child was shaved, it was placed on its head. (Since it was an uncivilised custom), the Apostle of Allah sallallahu alayhi wasallam remarked 'Do not apply blood on the child's head. Apply Khalooq on its place.'"
Saheeh Ibne Hibbaan
Commentary
In olden days, a preparation was used for scenting which included saffron, and it was called Khalooq. From the aforementioned narratives of Buraydah radhiyallahu anhu and Aa'ishah radhiyallahu anhaa, it appears that
Aqeeqah was common among the Arabs during the age of ignorance too. Since, it served a useful purpose in many ways, and intrinsically was also in keeping with the spirit of Islaam, and perhaps, like the rituals of the Hajj , it was among the remaining practices of Millat-e-Ibraaheemee (the community of Prophet Ibraaheem alayhis salaam ), the holy Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam preserved the reality of Aqeeqah, but corrected the perverse practices that had got associated with it.We moreover learn from Bayhaqi that the Aqeeqah ceremony was also observed among the Jews, but they sacrificed an animal only in case of a male child, which probably was indicative of the lesser value that was generally placed on the girls in the pre-Islaamic times. The holy Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam corrected this too, and enjoined that the Aqeeqah of the girls
should also be performed like that of the boys. However, keeping in mind the
natural difference between the two sexes which has been given a due regard in
inheritance and law of evidence, etc., as well, the holy Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam laid down that while one goat was to be sacrificed in the Aqeeqah of a female child, two should be sacrificed in the Aqeeqah of a male child, provided that one's financial condition allowed it.Umme Kurz radhiyallahu anhaa narrates that she heard the Apostle of Allah sallallahu alayhi wasallam saying about Aqeeqah "Two goats should be sacrificed on behalf of a male child, and one on behalf of a female child, and it does not matter whether the animal was male or female."
Tirmizi, Nasa'ee
It is related by Abdullah Ibne Amr Ibne Aas radhiyallahu anhumaa that the Apostle of Allah sallallahu alayhi wasallam said "To whom soever a child is born, and he wants to perform the sacrifice of Aqeeqah on behalf of it, he should sacrifice two goats for a boy and one goat for a girl."
Aboo Daawood, Nasa'ee
Commentary
This Tradition shows that Aqeeqah is not obligatory, but it belongs to the category of Istihbaab, i.e., acts that are commendable in Islaam, but not binding or compulsory. In the same way, it is not necessary to sacrifice two goats for a male child. It, of course, is better to sacrifice two goats provided that one can afford it, otherwise one is enough.In the next Tradition, it is explicitly stated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam sacrificed only one goat in the Aqeeqah ceremonies of Hasan and Husayn radhiyallahu anhumaa.
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Salam and Peace!
Aqeekah is not a Commandment of Allah. It is not in Al-Quran.
So, doing it with a faith that it is commanded in Allah's Deen, by Allah or by the Prophet,-----such a faith (which is found in man-made books of ahadith) is Shirk.People who take it as a cultural practice, then it is not a good practice. Since one only shows off his wealth or status.
If someone have this extra money, the best use is to give it out in the way of Allah,------to poor, needy and hungry people.
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Salam and Peace!
wow you're so bias.
no one is saying it is a "commandment"
aqeeqa is given to the poor and family, giving to your family is fine! so no it's not about "showing off wealth or status"
Anything not forbidden by Allah is fine.
peace.
I am not bias.
Since it is said that it is in Islam, so I am supposed to go for my Allah's Book of Islam.
I don't find such thing there.
It is cultural. How it became Deen and obligaroty?If someone does it, I am not to judge his action.
I am only responsible for myself. And after that I can only clarify to people that it is not in Al-Quran (Islam). -
who said its obligatory?
salam.
In Pakistan, India and Bangladesh, as such, it is considered to be Deen, and it is said that you must do it.
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Salam,
I'm originally from an arabic country.I know what you are speaking about.It's a tradition and not in the Quran so you can leave it.
No other God beside God.
Peace.
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You are free to do what you think is right.
If any body forces you to take part in a cultural or religious tradition you tell then that they do not really understand what their real obligations should be. To mind their own business.
I find that People who treat these customs as obligations do not really understand what their real obligation should be.
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it has nothing to do with QURAAN, but if u have money there is no harm to distribute meat and food items to poor, needy and your family members including your neighbors.