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Discussion on 4:3 and meaning of nisa

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    Mazhar
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    Peace Mazhar,

    Nevermind, I've got them here

    Here is what Damon wrote

    Salaam Brother Badar,

    I know certain people here are stuck in there N2I ways of thinking. My efforts in this thread are not for their benefit. It's for the benefit of the honest and sincere people who are willing to question the religious status quo and exercise logic and basic common sense.

    Part of the problem is these people rush to rejection because they are assuming that all of the verses mentioning Nisaa are speaking of women and that they all have some sort of feminine context. I think the simplest thing to do (which is what I am trying to do here) is look at a couple of ayaat with Nisaa as the subject and see how it DOES NOT and CANNOT mean women. 4/3, 3/14 and 24/31 are just three such verses. Once We Ascertain That Nisaa Does Not Mean Women we are then forced to re-examine and reinterpret every verse that mentions this word. We are also forced to re-examine and re-interpret every word that is included in those same verses. It has become all too apparent that some people are strictly averse to doing any of this. I can only feel sorry for them. They were all born with brains but forsake using them. Honesty and the willingness to question things can carry us a long way.

    No worries brother, you are doing very hard work in correcting the N2I nonsense that has been heaped on top of The Quran. You and I and our Quranic circles are planting the seeds right now. Due to dishonesty and stupidity it is only logical that some weeds will be present in the garden that you and I will eventually grow for humanity.

    Now, with 4.3 there is the grammatical issue. With 3.14 and 2431 there is the issue of homosexuality? love the desire of women in 3.14? or the part of "their women" in 2431..I don't understand that either. I'm not sure if I fit into that boat at all..or ever for that matter. No offense, of course, to any woman here that does. group

    Modify
    There is also the issue of 4911 and what qawm actually mean..whether contexual or specific to one precise meaning.

    All I'm saying is that I'm open to other explanations to this stuff other than random anomalies and traditional understanding.

    Sorry for delay, net service was disturbed in my area.

    We take one by one the Ayah where the word An-Nisa, if translated as Women, allegedly seems..

    Firstly 43

    Its context is

    are addressed and their attention is sought. The Noun is -- - Noun Definite ; Plural; Masculine; nominative. Since it is not disputed we need not study about its formation. It signifies collectively men, women, children belonging to species Human, whether intelligent, and sane, or insane, lunatics, of whatever age.
    However, when as second person are addressees by call and attention particle it denotes only intelligent and sane mature men and women.

    addresses are informed He the Exalted has created you people-men and women. Pronoun here keeps men and women combined.
    Mature man and a woman in marriage becomes a couple. signifies spouse, thus it will relatively mean husband or wife in context. They reproduce. Result

    And He the Exalted emerged-separated and spread majority of men, and all women from that couple-First Man and First Woman.

    One couple yielded men qualified by adjective negating that ALL men are not from the couple. One exception we know, son of Maryam.

    = =it now comprises Men, and . We have no option but to believe that means nothing but Women.

    Man and Woman join to make a couple and that which declares them as Husband and Wife is called . Thereby a woman is identified as of Mr. so and so; also described by another possessive phrase like -?The Wife of Imran?. This gives a relative description of a single woman in time and space. However, she remains permanently the member of that part of human species collectively named .

    . It is permission, authorization document legally allowing a Man to have sexual intercourse with a woman who is now referred or identified as his . Essentially the two ?ingredients-constituent parts? of are a Man and a Woman.

    This couple produces children. Man dies. Wife becomes member of feminine community of human species denoted by and children are given a new classification bereaved children of died father and husband of their mother.

    Thereby, in response to the mentioned circumstance, you people are directed to do what is called . Imperative Verb; second person; masculine; plural with subject pronoun denoting only and exclusively the addressee who are masculine segment of . The other essential part for execution of act which is the verbal Noun of the said verb is none but Women.

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      Mazhar,

      I can't read the Arabic parts.

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        Mazhar
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        Mazhar,

        I can't read the Arabic parts.

        Peace,

        I did not know that you cannot read Arabic words of Qur'aan. However, explanation of context might indicate that Nisaa is but women and nothing else but women. When this word is part of a Possessive Phrase it will denote those women who are at that point in time wives of the Person mentioned as second noun of Phrase.

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          Peace,

          Okay, that's not really an explanation if I can't understand your earlier explanation. I didn't understand your earlier post because of the Arabic. I'm sorry if some people think I'm lazy or something because I can't read Arabic, but time is not on my side at present. I really wanted to learn it when I was younger, but my parents forbade me from it. Anyway, the context has to make sense everywhere where Nisa is used. Also, nisa does not always appear to refer to wives, but also 'women' in many places. Anyway, I'm not throwing out anyone's argument, I just want to fully understand why I'm not seeing what you are seeing.

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            Also, nisa does not always appear to refer to wives, but also 'women' in many places.

            AnNisa becomes "wives" only when she is coupled with a man. And this relationship in Arabic is shown by a Possessive Phrase.

            An Nisa means only Women and there is not a single use and occurrence of this word both in Qur'aan and all other Arabic literature where it could denote anything else.

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              Peace,

              I did not know that you cannot read Arabic words of Qur'aan. However, explanation of context might indicate that Nisaa is but women and nothing else but women. When this word is part of a Possessive Phrase it will denote those women who are at that point in time wives of the Person mentioned as second noun of Phrase.

              Sure, anything, like in 24.31?

              And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women (of the believing women), or the slaves whom their right hands possess...

              Those women are the wives of the believing women?

              This looks like a funny attempt at making it look as if women and wives was the same thing, because it is something so straightforward that the word has different meanings, that the only way out is to say that man and husband are the same thing, provided it comes in a possessive frase. Like the king's men are in fact the kings husbands.

              ?I love this! It is getting more and more exciting!

              Salaam, dear wives of mine in this forum. And salaam to the husbands of the forum. If there is a man who is not married to the forum, that is his problem. He should not be here.

              Salaam, salaam

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                Possessor and the possessed are both feminine definine plural nouns. Both refer to women. Women are told not to expse their bossoms to women except women of theirs, ladies of their own family before whom they can lay off the additional sheets on their chest.

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                  Possessor and the possessed are both feminine definine plural nouns. Both refer to women. Women are told not to expse their bossoms to women except women of theirs, ladies of their own family before whom they can lay off the additional sheets on their chest.

                  You said what you said, and now you unsay what you said and direct the question to something else which is not what you said.

                  Other than that, yes, sure, mafiaman and man also refer to men, so they are the same thing, oh yes. And oxen and men are both males, of course they are the same thing. And fireman and man, everything is the same, why bother. My God.

                  I thought you would come up with something that showed your splendid knowledge of Arabic grammar with some morphology. I still expect it, but now in some other way, because if it is as funny as this, I am sure to enjoy it.

                  Salaam

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                    LOL.... rotfl rotfl rotfl

                    This is pathetic and yet funny at the same time. The Quran certainly CAN and DOES make it quite clear if a woman or any female is a member of another person's family or household establishes a clear familial relationship of mother and child in 28/7 just as the next verse (28/ does with . 24/31 establishes no such thing between Al-Momenaat and Nisaa'eheen. Because no such established familial relationship exists AND going by the ridiculous explanation that was given about Nisaa' WOMEN and WIVES, then 24/31 is talking about the WOMEN or WIVES of other females. This is just outright ridiculous!! The lack of willingness to let go of the traditional concepts and hold on to them at all costs is what forces people to come up with ridiculous explanations and make fools of themselves.

                    For the record, I believe it is unjustifiably arbitrary (and somewhat dishonest) to lay an unrightful claim that rijaal in 4/1 means men and thus Nisaa' MUST mean women. The question that the readers of such an explanation should be asking themselves is if there is a 3rd sex other than MEN and WOMEN? I'd say NO there is no 3rd sex, so the announcement of spreading out many men and women is nonsensical due to the fact that human beings are obviously men and women. The world is NOT populated by ONLY men and women. It is populated by PEOPLE; People who are of different genders, intellectual capacities, physical capabilities, dreams and desires, moral appetites and the drive to do what is just or to do what is unjust. These MANY different TYPES OF PEOPLE coupled with the existence of Politics Between People are what create the conditions that will dictate that Some People (male and female) will be a strong group of people who are able to move about and affect society and the course of history. These are the Rijaal. These TYPES OF PEOPLE couples with the existence of Politics Between People will ALSO create the conditions that will affect another group of people who are NOT able to move about to affect any change in their own conditions or the course of history. They are ignored, forsaken and dismissed by many people who are considered to be among the Rijaal. This group of people (male and female) are the Nisaa'.

                    And by the way, if a certain somewhere wishes to claim that hermaphrodites are that 3rd gender then that person should know this argument itself would invalidate the traditional translation of 4/1 that says God spread many MEN and WOMEN (and forgot to mention this 3rd gender).

                    If 4/1 wanted to send the message of populating the earth with two types of sex genders, then it would have been clearer ann better to DISTINGUISH between the two sexes by way of gender classification, so it would have (or at least should have) used the terms (Dhukoor) and (Inaath) for "Males" and "Females" respectively. That way it would have covered BOTH GENDERS VERY CLEARLY AND it would have covered the many different AGES of these two genders. Men and women don't do that. It paints the picture of only ADULTS. So to hang on to the traditional translation of 4/1 is akin to saying that Allah had spread from those two Many ADULT men and women. If some people wish to use that kind of logic just to hold onto a traditional interpretation, by all means knock yourself out.

                    Another thing, the word Qawwum DOES NOT mean boss or maintainer of a person. Al Qawwumoon are those who are better established than the group of people that are used as an antonym against them. This is the case in 4/34 as well as 49/11. The word Qawwum comes from the same root as the word Aqimoo. "Aqimoo" Salaat means to ESTABLISH the salaat somewhere on earth. Qawwumoon are those who are ESTABLISHED in society. They have managed to establish themselves where as the Nisaa' have not been able to do the same.

                    Guys, it's well past time that we STOP translating The Quran as a book telling us how much better and capable men are compared to women and REALIZE that are many capable men AND WOMEN just as there are many INCAPABLE women AND MEN. It is time to interpret The Quran's message as it should be interpreted and that is a "Social Ideology" outlining and mandating a "Social Constitution" that Benefits ALL Human Beings and establishes Equality and Balance across the board. But this message is continually lost under the translations of Gender Inequality and Imbalance between the genders. It's time to stop this nonsense people, seriously.

                    DEAR HURUF,

                    You are not asking too much of me at all. These are good questions that must be tackled. As of now, I am quite settled on the root of Nisaa' being Nun-Siin-Yaa unless and until something is pointed out to me to force me to re-evaluate my understanding (which I have no problem doing if there is clear evidence which will force me to do so).

                    As for the morphology of this word, I look at it like this....

                    Nun-Siin-Yaa is a Defective Verb and so when this root word is morphed into nouns, participles or any other construct, the last letter Yaa is replaced by an elongated Alif sounding vowel. Hence my deduction of the root word NaSiYa morphed into the noun Nisaa'. My continued dialogue in this thread is due to the fact that just like you I TOO wish to come to grips with the exact possible morphology of this root word into the collective noun. Thanks to the traditionalists and their corruption, you and I have to find out the morphology of this word for ourselves. I don't believe that they want us doing this. But whatever it is that THEY do not want us doing is obviously something WE have to do to find out why.

                    Also, the issue of the plural feminine pronouns used for this word, I want to explain a little more just to add to my last explanation.

                    Collective Nouns are what they call Grammatically Feminine by virtue of the type of noun it is. Just to make it clear, even if the collective noun isn't Intrinsically Feminine, it will still be attached to or referrenced by the feminine plural pronoun. In America (and American English) we have different sayings with the word "People" in it; "We The People", "The People Have Spoken", "Republic of The People, By The People and For The People", etc. The word People in these contexts are not pointing to mankind or human beings in general. In this context it is used as a Political Term that is used in Socio-Political Contexts. This word "People" (in this context) would be considered as a "Collective Noun" if English functioned in the same manner as Arabic does. However, Arabic DOES have a word that means People in the socio-political sense and that word is meaning people (in a social or political context discussion). There is a also a Plural Form of this word which is (which would best be translated as peoples in English). Sha'ab is the singular form of this collective noun and Sh'oob is the plural form but they BOTH take the feminine pronoun in the plural from the simple fact that they are collective nouns.

                    The Feminine SINGULAR is not used for collective nouns that designate a title of or the name of a group of people. The Feminine SINGULAR is generally reserved for plural things that are Non-Human. So the plural word for books (kutub), although plural, it is non human (inanimate) and so takes the feminine SINGULAR pronoun. The words Sha'ab and Sha'oob are plural nouns referring to Humans and so they take the feminine PLURAL pronoun.

                    Now, I am sure what Wakas is getting confused about is that I had pointed out how the masculine singular VERB is used for a group of people who are mixed male and female (as long as the verb itself comes BEFORE the subject-doer of the verb). He somehow cooked up the idea in his head that I am contradicting myself which is far from the case. The PRONOUNS and VERBS are NOT the same things at all. Pronouns are pronouns and Verbs are verbs. If he had read my posts closely and paid attention to what I was saying he would have caught that. Instead he is still looking at my posts and looking for something by which he can prove me wrong and win an argument.

                    So, to be clear and to make sure I am understood, the gender of the VERBS performed by a group of people is determined by the gender make up of the people. The verb will be a feminine verb ONLY if the entire group of people are all females. If the group of people is either all males or a mixed group of males and females then the verb will always be masculine. But, the PRONOUNS will be feminine pronouns if the group of people is going by a "collective/group name" even if the collective noun is "intrinsically" all male. "Grammatically" all collective nouns (whether they be intrinsically masculine or intrinsically feminine) will be referred to with the feminine plural pronouns. It will always be plural and never singular (based on my studies of Arabic). The Singular plural is used for plural words that refer to non human things. This is what I meant when I said in a couple of my earlier posts that An-Nisaa is Collective/Group of people and I made it a point to emphasize "Collective" and the "Group" aspect of it and I did say that this was important and that it will be expounded upon later in my discussion I was having with Wakas.

                    Even though he ducked and dodged many of my questions (which all can see just be re-reading this thread from the beginning) I believe I still accomplished the things that I wanted to accomplish. I showed that he is hanging on to a traditional idea merely because of some sort of emotional or sentimental attachment to that view. I exposed his debating style and his tactics for all to see. I showed that he holds on to views and beliefs that he cannot linguistically validate (and him dodging certain questions was his attempt at keeping this from being exposed). I also showed that he does not know even half of what he thinks he knows of The Quran but some people may think he knows because of him always dismissing other peoples arguments as (oh God, do I even want to say it?) "Logical Fallacies" (I think I'm going to puke now >( ). I hope I have also shown you guys that he may appear to know The Quran because most people debating with him tire of his shenanigans and leave the debate altogether giving him the image of winning a debate. I'm wondering if some people here are also intimidated and/or impressed with him being a moderator (which means absolutely nothing to me). And I also hope that it is realized that he holds an illogical, dishonest and linguistically invalid understanding of 4/3 (and even 4/34) and he probably does so because he still views women as being ideologically inferior to men and men have all of the perks of Islamic practice. I do believe that it takes a chauvinist attitude to believe his view of 4/3 especially when it is being revealed to him more and more that his views are just...Plain...WRONG!!!

                    Huruf, if you are anxious to have an understanding of the morphology of Nisaa' from NaSiYa, may I humbly suggest that you contact Dr. Qamar Zaman to get his understanding and breakdown of this word? Or you can ask about it at the Aastana Blog and I'm sure he will be all too happy to reply to you there. I think Dr. QZ has an excellent command of Arabic Grammar and he has a very, very sharp eye too. He is able to catch and explain things in The Quran that has been escaping people for years now. It was only a matter of time before someone came along to do the work that he is doing now. It can only get better from here. I think it's really sad that some people unjustifiably mock and criticize him out of jealousy and the nonappreciation of having their traditional ideology challenged.

                    Salaam,
                    Damon.

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                      These MANY different TYPES OF PEOPLE coupled with the existence of Politics Between People are what create the conditions that will dictate that Some People (male and female) will be a strong group of people who are able to move about and affect society and the course of history. These are the Rijaal. These TYPES OF PEOPLE couples with the existence of Politics Between People will ALSO create the conditions that will affect another group of people who are NOT able to move about to affect any change in their own conditions or the course of history. They are ignored, forsaken and dismissed by many people who are considered to be among the Rijaal. This group of people (male and female) are the Nisaa'.

                      This is just idiotic jugglery of words.

                      If somebody is weak, opressed, it will not change his or her genitals. Sex will remain the same, men and women.

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                        Peace All,

                        As an onlooker from the West with very little understanding of Arabic I am becoming increasingly depressed about what I understand about Islam. This thread and a couple of others on the same theme, have served to demonstrate that what we believers have been basing our lives upon is, in effect, nothing but a faux Koran. How can we even begin to say that we know the Koran when goodness only knows how much of it might be completely incorrect.

                        It was only recently that we re-translated and realised that men do not 'beat' women, rather, they go away from them.

                        Being a linguist myself, having studied several European languages, this whole thing makes me want to throw myself into a massive translation of the Koran - if only I had the language.

                        One thing I have thought recently though is that German grammar, for example, would have left no room for confusion on the 4,3 issue. Yet, we are told the Koran is written in Arabic so that we can understand. Maybe this has been mis-translated or the meaning God intended is one that we have misunderstood.

                        Anyway, it is very exciting to be a part of a group of people who have the courage, knowledge and inclination to challenge.

                        Dawn.

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                          laugh laugh laugh LOL!!

                          Well it is painfully obvious that one of the posters here totally miscomprehended my post. ;D Either he has a Reading problem or a Comprehension problem. Or BOTH!! D And it's amazing how he totally mixed up being "WEAK" with being "IGNORED/DISMISSED". O0

                          And this show of stupidity by someone who tries to impress others with his makeshift Harvard Language. laugh

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                            Salaam Dawn,

                            I don't think that I can agree the 4/3 issue would have been clear had it been written in German or any other human Language. The problem we are facing with the 4/3 issue and The Quran in general is not because of The Arabic Language, it is because of "Human Beings" who took it upon themselves to TELL THE WORLD what 4/3 and the rest of The Quran says. Add to this the general intellectual laziness of many human beings, the sheeple mentality and unjust Blasphemy Laws to prevent other interpretations from coming to light and we have a sure fire recipe for disaster. Especially the sheeple mentality. I have come to learn that I cannot underestimate the sheeple mentality and the human being's love of and need for "religion"; rituals, religious scholars, a holy day of the week and all.

                            Please do not give up, lose hope or allow yourself to drown in depression. You and I are witnessing the beginning of an innocent person finally being freed from years of an unjust prison term that he was serving (if you can understand the metaphor I am using).

                            Something I am going to keep saying over and over is that we as Believers of The Quran really, really, REALY need to START ALL OVER...FROM SCRATCH!!! From the very beginning, all the way to the very end. From the Bismillah of Al-Fatiha to the Min Al-Jinnati Wa-Nnaas of Surah An-Naas and every word of every verse in between. This MUST be done!! This is the ONLY WAY to finally free that innocent prisoner from years and years of false imprisonment. I had come to this conclusion even while I was still a traditional muslim myself. And Dr. QZ and a couple of other people that I know realized the importance of doing such a thing and is doing just that. Dr. QZ is that Lawyer working very hard to release that innocent prisoner. This movement to Free Al-Quran could always use honest and dedicated supporters. Please do not go by what others have to say about Dr. QZ or Aastana, please research him and Aastana for yourself and judge for yourself. Even if you come to disagree with Dr. QZ and the Aastana Mission And Vision, at least you will be disagreeing based on your own research and not according to people who feel threatened by him and his research.

                            And please do not mind my last post that I made above. I had finally learned that I have to make such posts towards and about certain people. If you monitored this thread from the beginning then you understand why.

                            Salaam,
                            Damon.

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                              Now, I am sure what Wakas is getting confused about is that I had pointed out how the masculine singular VERB is used for a group of people who are mixed male and female (as long as the verb itself comes BEFORE the subject-doer of the verb). He somehow cooked up the idea in his head that I am contradicting myself which is far from the case. The PRONOUNS and VERBS are NOT the same things at all. Pronouns are pronouns and Verbs are verbs. If he had read my posts closely and paid attention to what I was saying he would have caught that. Instead he is still looking at my posts and looking for something by which he can prove me wrong and win an argument.

                              So, to be clear and to make sure I am understood, the gender of the VERBS performed by a group of people is determined by the gender make up of the people. The verb will be a feminine verb ONLY if the entire group of people are all females. If the group of people is either all males or a mixed group of males and females then the verb will always be masculine. But, the PRONOUNS will be feminine pronouns if the group of people is going by a "collective/group name" even if the collective noun is "intrinsically" all male. "Grammatically" all collective nouns (whether they be intrinsically masculine or intrinsically feminine) will be referred to with the feminine plural pronouns. It will always be plural and never singular (based on my studies of Arabic). The Singular plural is used for plural words that refer to non human things. This is what I meant when I said in a couple of my earlier posts that An-Nisaa is Collective/Group of people and I made it a point to emphasize "Collective" and the "Group" aspect of it and I did say that this was important and that it will be expounded upon later in my discussion I was having with Wakas.

                              Even though he ducked and dodged many of my questions (which all can see just be re-reading this thread from the beginning) I believe I still accomplished the things that I wanted to accomplish. I showed that he is hanging on to a traditional idea merely because of some sort of emotional or sentimental attachment to that view. I exposed his debating style and his tactics for all to see. I showed that he holds on to views and beliefs that he cannot linguistically validate (and him dodging certain questions was his attempt at keeping this from being exposed). I also showed that he does not know even half of what he thinks he knows of The Quran but some people may think he knows because of him always dismissing other peoples arguments as (oh God, do I even want to say it?) "Logical Fallacies" (I think I'm going to puke now ). I hope I have also shown you guys that he may appear to know The Quran because most people debating with him tire of his shenanigans and leave the debate altogether giving him the image of winning a debate. I'm wondering if some people here are also intimidated and/or impressed with him being a moderator (which means absolutely nothing to me). And I also hope that it is realized that he holds an illogical, dishonest and linguistically invalid understanding of 4/3 (and even 4/34) and he probably does so because he still views women as being ideologically inferior to men and men have all of the perks of Islamic practice. I do believe that it takes a chauvinist attitude to believe his view of 4/3 especially when it is being revealed to him more and more that his views are just...Plain...WRONG!!!

                              I find this needless needling of Wakas in a response to a member who hasn't asked about Wakas' motivations and their own 'feelings' towards him, unfair to the discussion now, and to the members. I'm sure the above could've been written without any reference to someone that is stated as being ignored previously in a 'final statement'. Just stick to the subject (i.e. not Wakas, i.e. a new interpretation of 43/nisa)...and apparently the glorious revolution that 'aastana' whatever that is, is bringing to the world. Thanks.

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                                I find this needless needling of Wakas in a response to a member who hasn't asked about Wakas' motivations and their own 'feelings' towards him, unfair to the discussion now, and to the members. I'm sure the above could've been written without any reference to someone that is stated as being ignored previously in a 'final statement'.

                                What I posted is something that I deem necessary to be said and it was the behavior and tactics of that person during our Discussion which is the reason that it HAD to be said. It was something I intended to say all along once my discussion with him came to an end. I meant what I had posted and regret none of it. None of my remarks were threatening towards him and neither did I call him any names. My words about him were merely based on my observations of him and I expressed what I had observed.

                                Just stick to the subject (i.e. not Wakas, i.e. a new interpretation of 43/nisa)...and apparently the glorious revolution that 'aastana' whatever that is, is bringing to the world. Thanks.

                                You can utter such sarcastic remarks even though you have yet to step in and refute my position or offer something better.

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                                  What I posted is something that I deem necessary to be said and it was the behavior and tactics of that person during our Discussion which is the reason that it HAD to be said. It was something I intended to say all along once my discussion with him came to an end. I meant what I had posted and regret none of it. None of my remarks were threatening towards him and neither did I call him any names. My words about him were merely based on my observations of him and I expressed what I had observed.
                                  Your behaviour and tactics come into play here as well then. The issue with making statements about someone in a discussion that should be about nisa and 43 is irrelevant to the outcome/goal which should be about nisa and 43. Unless part of the goal is also to muse about members personally and try to make them out to be some kind of 'monster in today's day and age' (which he might be and not in the way you say he is, but I'd much rather read about nisa/43 and not him) e.g. and he probably does so because he still views women as being ideologically inferior to men and men have all of the perks of Islamic practice., it's best to stick to the subject and not the members themselves.

                                  You can utter such sarcastic remarks even though you have yet to step in and refute my position or offer something better.

                                  Not the first time your 'behaviour and tactics' of coming out guns blazing at members on this thread who you think criticise you/your interpretation/aastana (whatever that is)...huruf was treated to it in reply #54 when she didn't even have an offensive 'tone'... so calm your excitement the heck down and don't get bent out of shape. I'm not here to 'refute' your position or 'offer something better'...I'm here to read the discussion on 43 and the meaning of nisa and not 'the many wondrous traits and true motivations of wakas the mod and the man according to damon the self appointed wakas slayer of all time'.

                                  I suggest you keep to the subject of the thread at this point especially when the 'discussion' with Wakas the mod and the man is over and it's final.

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                                    About the messages from Downgorgeous and subsequent on the question of the understanding of the Qur'an, I agree that it is not a matter of gthe Arabic, but of the human traits of appropriating anything that will further their purposes when these cannot be upheld by themselves. Those who want perquisites and power will catch and hold to anything that furthers their passion for perquisites and power. Religion happens to be an outstanding weapon for that, precisely because people need it.

                                    So, yes, let us calm down, let us be cool, because, almandulil-lah, we are not in a fight against anybody but we are in a jihad for ourselves, our souls and our brothers and sisters.

                                    Undrstanding, cleaning up the accretions on the Qur'an, bring its dimmed light is a jihad. As such we must try to be loyal and keep to the point. We must also be patient. We all may feel that we are treated unfairly at some time and we have the right to state so and try to avoid further occurrences, but let us not allow that to derail us.

                                    I think this discussion is very important.

                                    My provisional opinion is that the Qur'an injunction of taking from the Qur'an the best meaning, or understanding is not idle. It has a purpose and a gigantic wisdom behind it. That is the self rnewing clause of the revelation, which is not paralized or dead. It si self renewing, because the people renew and they have the fitra to look for the best, to search, and that in the world of contingency which is the materil world means change. What was the best meaning for somebody in a set of circumstances, may be inadmissible in another set of circumstances. The Qur'an is a pregnant book, let us allow it to bring out all the children that we are capable of sustaining in our time and place.

                                    I am very hopeful of this debate and I thank all those who have put their best efforts in it. In sha Allah, we will benefit, in sha' Allah.

                                    Salaam

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                                      These MANY different TYPES OF PEOPLE coupled with the existence of Politics Between People are what create the conditions that will dictate that Some People (male and female) will be a strong group of people who are able to move about and affect society and the course of history. These are the Rijaal. These TYPES OF PEOPLE couples with the existence of Politics Between People will ALSO create the conditions that will affect another group of people who are NOT able to move about to affect any change in their own conditions or the course of history. They are ignored, forsaken and dismissed by many people who are considered to be among the Rijaal. This group of people (male and female) are the Nisaa'.
                                      This is just idiotic jugglery of words.

                                      If somebody is weak, opressed, it will not change his or her genitals. Sex will remain the same, men and women.

                                      laugh laugh laugh LOL!!

                                      Well it is painfully obvious that one of the posters here totally miscomprehended my post. ;D Either he has a Reading problem or a Comprehension problem. Or BOTH!! D And it's amazing how he totally mixed up being "WEAK" with being "IGNORED/DISMISSED". O0

                                      And this show of stupidity by someone who tries to impress others with his makeshift Harvard Language. laugh

                                      Now it is like a Joker. Qur'aan has answers for all stupids who might play with its words, be it Shirely or Astana.
                                      Ignore and dismissed people retain their genitals. An Nisa means AnNisa even if she is dismissed and ignored altogether.

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                                        Salaam all,

                                        huruf,
                                        Re reply #270. Thanks for clarifying.
                                        There is a difference in saying "women" and "your women", with the latter being something more specific, which context will help us determine.
                                        Whilst I agree that the morphology question is important, at the end of the day whatever root or meaning is assigned to "nisa" will still have to be plugged into Quran to see if it works. If a logical/practical impossibility or contradiction occurs, this will help us determine what meaning is meant or works best etc. I did not see such a thing from the verses you, nor others, brought forth. However, it might be handy for you/others to highlight the most problematic verses WITH reasons/evidence. We could then tackle them one by one.

                                        Released,
                                        Re reply #296. I didn't mean all of Quran, but this would have to be explored also. I primarily meant 2431. I didn't see why you were singling out "nisa" for ownership because of "their" without applying the same approach to the rest of categories named with "their". Applying a consistent and robust methodology will help us determine the truth.
                                        If you feel certain verses are problematic, please cite your strongest examples.

                                        savage carrot,
                                        I too would like to stick to an evidence based discussion, however, if someone has little evidence they will of course resort to ad-hominen, superfluous commentary etc.

                                        Damon claims

                                        So, to be clear and to make sure I am understood, the gender of the VERBS performed by a group of people is determined by the gender make up of the people. The verb will be a feminine verb ONLY if the entire group of people are all females. If the group of people is either all males or a mixed group of males and females then the verb will always be masculine. But, the PRONOUNS will be feminine pronouns if the group of people is going by a "collective/group name" even if the collective noun is "intrinsically" all male. "Grammatically" all collective nouns (whether they be intrinsically masculine or intrinsically feminine) will be referred to with the feminine plural pronouns. It will always be plural and never singular (based on my studies of Arabic).

                                        1. A reference would be nice.
                                        2. According to Damon et al 43 is the only example they can bring wherein "nisa" are the doers of a masculine verb. "nisa" occurs 59 times in Quran, along with verbs. Damon et al fail to explain why this one usage in 43 is different. He even admits if the verb is feminine that means all of the group will be feminine, but makes no mention of having applied this to the occurrences of "nisa" in Quran and seeing what results.
                                        3. Damon claims the pronouns of collective nouns are always feminine, yet http//youpuncturedtheark.wordpress.com/2010/10/07/ahlahlebayt-a-collective-noun-and-its-usage/

                                        Unanswered questions by Damon et al include
                                        http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9604721.msg315351#msg315351
                                        http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9604721.msg315671#msg315671

                                        And with regards to aastana, for background reading, see
                                        http//www.scribd.com/doc/65842903/Critique-of-Dr-Qamar-Zaman-of-aastana-wudhu-ablution-verses
                                        http//www.scribd.com/doc/63347625/az-vs-qz-on-saum

                                        To sum up, in 43 - an explanation was given for the masculine verb usage taba which has had no objection thus far. Thus, the example of 43 shows little to no evidence for an alternative meaning of "nisa".

                                        All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                          Not the first time your 'behaviour and tactics' of coming out guns blazing at members on this thread who you think criticise you/your interpretation/aastana (whatever that is)...huruf was treated to it in reply #54

                                          Nadia, this is NOT true. Instead of referring to reply # 54 you should have just posted the quote you are speaking of. And I DID NOT pull out any blazing guns towards Huruf. It became obvious to the both of us that we had a minor misunderstanding. Huruf and I are not sharing ideas with another in a mutual and calm dialogue so why are you bringing our misunderstanding up now?

                                          so calm your excitement the heck down and don't get bent out of shape.

                                          I'm not the least bit bent out of shape. Not even close so it appears that you are the one who needs to calm your excitement the heck down.

                                          .I'm here to read the discussion on 43 and the meaning of nisa and not 'the many wondrous traits and true motivations of wakas the mod and the man according to damon the self appointed wakas slayer of all time'.

                                          Whatever Nadia. I'm through with this conversation with you because I can see that no good can come out of it.

                                          I suggest you keep to the subject of the thread at this point especially when the 'discussion' with Wakas the mod and the man is over and it's final.

                                          It's final because I already said what I needed to say and there was a reason for saying it. But you should know this forum is just another typical internet forum. This is not my place of employment or a courthouse where I stand to lose something by not being moved with your words of it's final.

                                          So now who is the one with her guns blazing?

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