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Why so boring now?

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    Wakas
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    peace,

    There are likely multiple reasons, but I think the most common ones would be

    1. MANY subjects and verses have been discussed in detail throughout the years on this forum, so members are less likely to engage in discussing them once again. This is perhaps more true for longterm members. I estimate that about 90% of subjects/questions asked have already been discussed.

    2. Many members only use certain sites, such as this one, for their needs. Needs change. If you have a question about XYZ, you ask it, it gets answered or resolved to your satisfaction, no need to stick around.

    3. Member drop-out, which is natural and happens in all forums. Ebb and flow etc.

    In terms of online forums for Quran based islam, free-minds.org/forum is easily one of the best in my opinion. I do recommend spreading one's wings however, and frequenting other sites etc. And especially books (<--- click), as they tend to have some great insights also.

    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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      unknownuser
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      Salamun Alaykum,

      Thanks for that short essay Jafar, it was very helpful, but I did not see how it relates to the topic of this post, am I missing something?

      Love what you wrote regarding patience supportpeacenotwar

      And Wakas, same to you, I believe now I know why I felt its boring, it was kind of disturbing, thanks for helping me solve the problem )

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        Jafar
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        Salamun Alaykum,

        Thanks for that short essay Jafar, it was very helpful, but I did not see how it relates to the topic of this post, am I missing something?

        When it's simple it become boring...

        When it's complex and ridiculous thus full of controversies then it become exciting..

        Example Let's discuss basic algebra, and let's see how 'exciting' the discussion will be..

        Salam / Peace

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          Noon_waalqalami
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          Those who are boring usually complain the most about being bored. laugh

          The mind is its own place and in itself, can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.
          John Milton -- Paradise Lost

          Peace

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            unknownuser
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            When it's simple it become boring...

            When it's complex and ridiculous thus full of controversies then it become exciting..

            Example Let's discuss basic algebra, and let's see how 'exciting' the discussion will be..

            Salam / Peace

            Salam,

            Oh, now I get it

            Those who are boring usually complain the most about being bored. laugh

            The mind is its own place and in itself, can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.
            John Milton -- Paradise Lost

            Peace

            Peace,

            lol ;D I guess your right, I am known in real life to be a boring personality. Nice quote btw

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              supportpeacenotwar
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              Love what you wrote regarding patience supportpeacenotwar

              Thanks, brother! I really have been finding and emphasis on a relaxed approach and live and let live philosophy in the Quran.

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                unknownuser
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                Salamun Alaykum,

                No offense to anyone, but this forum is not as interesting as it used to be for some reason. I mean, there were times where I spent hours and hours studying posts etc. but now I feel that there is a lack of interesting discussions here. Is it just me, or does someone else feel the same?

                Peace be upon you Fallen Angel

                I think it is because you have improved your understanding of islam. You have reached a higher level. You have expanded your mind. Hence, the forum might not seem as interesting as it was for you in the past.

                Another reason why the forum might seem less interesting to you, is because some of the members with deep knowledge, that used to participate in this forum in the past, are no longer posting in this forum. Those heavyweighters wrote many great posts. But unfortunately they left the forum.

                I am not sure exactly why those members who wrote great posts have left the forum, but perhaps it was because they felt that they can spread the message of the Quran and contribute to Islamic reform in a deeper way through writing articles and books. Many people think that forums can make them stagnate, instead of making them grow. Perhaps that's why they prefer to spread the message of the Quran and contribute to Islamic reform outside of forums. It seems that many forums have a lot of members that are talkers instead of walkers (doers), and participating in forums can demand a lot of people's time. So I can understand why many people leave forums. But personally I don't think a forum will hinder a man/woman from growing and developing himself/herself, if he/she use it wisely. A forum is a tool that can be used to build our skills up, or destroy us. In other words it can be used positively or negatively. Even water can kill. But most importantly, water can heal. We are the ones who are responsible, and we are the ones who have to make the right decisions.

                I think forums are great tools, and personally I have learned a lot from reading the posts of different members in FM. Sometimes I have read posts here that have inspired me. Sometimes I have read posts here that have comforted me when I was sad. And sometimes I have read posts here that gave me hope when was hopeless. I am here to share my thoughts and views on different topics, especially Islam and Quran, and I am looking forward to read the posts of my fellow brothers and sisters who are sincerely seeking for the truth.

                Brother, I believe this forum is a place where you literally can change lives. If it had not been for this forum, I would probably have many unanswered questions when it comes to monotheism and Quranic Islam. This forum is a place where we can contribute tremendously to our brothers and sister by gaining knowledge about the Quran and islam and sharing it with them. If you think that this forum is not as interesting as it used to be, why don't you do something about it? There is a saying "Be the change you want to see in the world". You have no idea what kind of impact your words might have on other people. Your words can touch their souls. Your words can lift them up and give them the strength they need to go where they wanna go and to be what they want to be.

                I must admit that I agree with you, this forum is not as interesting as it used to be. So let's do something about it. I will gladly participate in this forum to make it more interesting. But I can't do it alone. If other members that are knowledgeable about islam and the Quran share their knowledge, we can all make this forum highly interesting and perhaps even bring it back to the heights of greatness.

                Last but not least, the most important thing in our lives is not to make a forum more interesting. But the most important thing in our lives is to strive to make this world a better place. We should work for the greater good. By doing many good deeds, even dough each good deed might be small, like raindrops, all of them mixed together will become a vast ocean. An ocean that will wash away the dirt of all the negativity that we see around the world.

                From a Quranic perspective, the best servants of God are those who spread the message of the Quran, contribute to Islamic reform, do good deeds and have surrendered themselves to the creator of the whole universe.

                4133
                And who is better in saying than one who invites to God, and does good works, and says "I am one of those who have submitted."

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                  Peace be upon you Fallen Angel

                  I think it is because you have improved your understanding of islam. You have reached a higher level. You have expanded your mind. Hence, the forum might not seem as interesting as it was for you in the past.

                  Another reason why the forum might seem less interesting to you, is because some of the members with deep knowledge, that used to participate in this forum in the past, are no longer posting in this forum. Those heavyweighters wrote many great posts. But unfortunately they left the forum.

                  I am not sure exactly why those members who wrote great posts have left the forum, but perhaps it was because they felt that they can spread the message of the Quran and contribute to Islamic reform in a deeper way through writing articles and books. Many people think that forums can make them stagnate, instead of making them grow. Perhaps that's why they prefer to spread the message of the Quran and contribute to Islamic reform outside of forums. It seems that many forums have a lot of members that are talkers instead of walkers (doers), and participating in forums can demand a lot of people's time. So I can understand why many people leave forums. But personally I don't think a forum will hinder a man/woman from growing and developing himself/herself, if he/she use it wisely. A forum is a tool that can be used to build our skills up, or destroy us. In other words it can be used positively or negatively. Even water can kill. But most importantly, water can heal. We are the ones who are responsible, and we are the ones who have to make the right decisions.

                  I think forums are great tools, and personally I have learned a lot from reading the posts of different members in FM. Sometimes I have read posts here that have inspired me. Sometimes I have read posts here that have comforted me when I was sad. And sometimes I have read posts here that gave me hope when was hopeless. I am here to share my thoughts and views on different topics, especially Islam and Quran, and I am looking forward to read the posts of my fellow brothers and sisters who are sincerely seeking for the truth.

                  Brother, I believe this forum is a place where you literally can change lives. If it had not been for this forum, I would probably have many unanswered questions when it comes to monotheism and Quranic Islam. This forum is a place where we can contribute tremendously to our brothers and sister by gaining knowledge about the Quran and islam and sharing it with them. If you think that this forum is not as interesting as it used to be, why don't you do something about it? There is a saying "Be the change you want to see in the world". You have no idea what kind of impact your words might have on other people. Your words can touch their souls. Your words can lift them up and give them the strength they need to go where they wanna go and to be what they want to be.

                  I must admit that I agree with you, this forum is not as interesting as it used to be. So let's do something about it. I will gladly participate in this forum to make it more interesting. But I can't do it alone. If other members that are knowledgeable about islam and the Quran share their knowledge, we can all make this forum highly interesting and perhaps even bring it back to the heights of greatness.

                  Last but not least, the most important thing in our lives is not to make a forum more interesting. But the most important thing in our lives is to strive to make this world a better place. We should work for the greater good. By doing many good deeds, even dough each good deed might be small, like raindrops, all of them mixed together will become a vast ocean. An ocean that will wash away the dirt of all the negativity that we see around the world.

                  From a Quranic perspective, the best servants of God are those who spread the message of the Quran, contribute to Islamic reform, do good deeds and have surrendered themselves to the creator of the whole universe.

                  4133
                  And who is better in saying than one who invites to God, and does good works, and says "I am one of those who have submitted."

                  Peace be upon you brother Mario,

                  I have only one thing to do in reply bravo bravo bravo bravo bravo

                  Everything you said is so true, epic reply.

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                    Bender
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                    Salamun Alaykum,

                    No offense to anyone, but this forum is not as interesting as it used to be for some reason. I mean, there were times where I spent hours and hours studying posts etc. but now I feel that there is a lack of interesting discussions here. Is it just me, or does someone else feel the same?

                    Salaamun alayka,

                    Maybe you should take a look at this thread click.
                    But don't participate in it before you can control your emotions and your emoticons.

                    Salaam,
                    Bender

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                      Indelwyn
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                      Love that info Richard posted.

                      All of you make great points. I love this forum, I don't post often as I am absorbing. I am not as knowledgeable as most here. I can start posting my questions and areas of interest.

                      I do have to speak at a women's conference at my masjid... you guys can help me prepare..lol That can make it interesting. ) I was surprised to be asked.. some know my thoughts on traditions and hadiths. But then they asked me to talk about the constitution. I had written a letter to the editor about a story staying our country is a Judeo Christian nation and the constitution was based on that. I can post it. I want to use some quran quotes within the topic. InshaAllah I will post it later.

                      Great points.

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                        unknownuser
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                        Salaamun alayka,

                        Maybe you should take a look at this thread click.
                        But don't participate in it before you can control your emotions and your emoticons.

                        Salaam,
                        Bender

                        lol, this one is quite interesting

                        Salamun Alayka

                        Love that info Richard posted.

                        All of you make great points. I love this forum, I don't post often as I am absorbing. I am not as knowledgeable as most here. I can start posting my questions and areas of interest.

                        I do have to speak at a women's conference at my masjid... you guys can help me prepare..lol That can make it interesting. ) I was surprised to be asked.. some know my thoughts on traditions and hadiths. But then they asked me to talk about the constitution. I had written a letter to the editor about a story staying our country is a Judeo Christian nation and the constitution was based on that. I can post it. I want to use some quran quotes within the topic. InshaAllah I will post it later.

                        Great points.

                        That seems interesting, I'll wait for your post

                        Salam

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