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    Take a break muslims. I am disgusted by it and what made you believe otherwise? It is because it is an abnormality and not according to the design and we feel disgusted by the image of it.

    Nevertheless I try to have empathy for those who were born this way or has it as a mental illness that they cannot help being homosexual.

    I said that homosexuality is against the design and you know it, but the phenomenon undeniably occurs still and in which way it could be considered "natural". Of course the term "natural" can be slightly inaccurate and must be taken to the context, but it refers to a phenomenon which occurs biologically not in an unnatural way. It is difficult to say that an animal with a lesser mind can get a psychological disorder that they copulate with same sex partners, so the logical conclusion is that it is biological.

    We can control certain abnormal behavior thanks to our developed brain, but we still suffer from the instincts, take the sex drive for example. Many people have trouble abstaining from certain behavior because of the instincts.

    Peace

    Salam

    That's my point, and I believe it is "unnatural for the Deen of Islam" to misplace what have God intended it to be.

    It is okay to be empathy but it is not the truth in Islam.

    The truth is what in the Qur'an.

    We cannot distort the rules simply because we feel empathy, right? Is it?

    What is the logical connection between "empathy" and "truth"?

    Peace.

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      Peace

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        Peace

        The rules relating to "empathy or hate" (feelings) vs. "be just"

        O you who have believed
        be persistently standing firm for Allah
        witnesses in justice
        and do not let the hatred of a people <- feelings, "empathy or hate"
        prevent you from being just
        Be just; that is nearer to righteousness
        And fear Allah
        indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do
        (5

        Salam

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          Greetings and Peace, all group

          ?Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.?
          Oscar Wilde

          Heh, reminds me of an anagram!

          Quote by Oscar Wilde
          There is only one thing worse than being talked about and that is not being talked about. =
          Wilde died broken, beaten 'n' total nut. Hate being sunk in that rotten gaol. Shh, gay is taboo.
          (by Larry Brash)

          http//www.wordsmith.org/anagram/hof.html

          peace

          ~Abdul-Hadi

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            Greetings and Peace, all group

            Peace

            The rules relating to "empathy or hate" (feelings) vs. "be just"

            O you who have believed
            be persistently standing firm for Allah
            witnesses in justice
            and do not let the hatred of a people <- feelings, "empathy or hate"
            prevent you from being just
            Be just; that is nearer to righteousness
            And fear Allah
            indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do
            (5

            Salam

            I'm not sure that hatred relates in any way to empathy!

            Perhaps a better example of empathy would be the following

            3159 It was a mercy from GOD that you were soft towards them; had you been harsh and mean hearted, they would have dispersed from you; so pardon them and ask forgiveness for them, and consult them in the matter; but when you are convinced, then put your trust in GOD; for GOD loves those who put their trust.

            peace

            ~Abdul-Hadi

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              Greetings and Peace, all group

              I'm not sure that hatred relates in any way to empathy!

              Perhaps a better example of empathy would be the following

              3159 It was a mercy from GOD that you were soft towards them; had you been harsh and mean hearted, they would have dispersed from you; so pardon them and ask forgiveness for them, and consult them in the matter; but when you are convinced, then put your trust in GOD; for GOD loves those who put their trust.

              peace

              ~Abdul-Hadi

              Salam

              Is there any problem?

              Both ayats about "being just", right?

              Peace

              p.s. RED Actually your ayat is more about the "mercy of Allah", which is out of context. )

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                Salaam,

                Most of God's system has a lot of do with being humble, understanding and loving and not so much harshness and coldness except being able to stand up for your rights and defend yourself. I do not agree that emotions are forbidden and a sign of weakness. It is this kind of thinking Shaytaan wants to inflict in man. I am fascinated that people extract this kind of behavior from Qur'an.

                If you can understand the situation of those who are homosexual even if you do not sympathize with them you can empathize and make their condition bearable, you have reached far into God's realm. You should be able to be kind or at least respectable even towards those who sin. And who does not sin anyway?

                God bless you

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                  Greetings and Peace, all group

                  Salam

                  Is there any problem?

                  Both ayats about "being just", right?

                  Peace

                  handshake

                  I agree that both verses are about being just (and kind)...just pointing out that hatred is not even distantly related to empathy.

                  Empathy is recognizing emotions that another person is feeling--"putting yourself in their shoes."

                  Empathy is related to the Golden Rule...the Golden Rule is in AQ both in the positive, and the negative (Silver Rule).

                  Positive form

                  2422 And let not those among you who have been blessed by abundance refuse to give to the relatives, and the needy, and those who have immigrated in the cause of GOD. Let them pardon and forgive. Would you not like GOD to forgive you? And GOD is Forgiving, Merciful.

                  Negative form

                  2267 O you who believe, spend from the good things that you have earned, and from what We have brought forth from the earth. And do not select the rotten out of it to give, while you would not take it yourselves unless you closed your eyes regarding it. And know that God is Rich, Praiseworthy.

                  peace

                  ~Abdul-Hadi

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                    Salam

                    I believe both of you must be very confused.

                    Read from the start and there is not a single person who is talking or supporting the ideas of Muslim should oppress homosexual.

                    All are agreed that there should be no oppression, respect them as human beings, and are talking about "What is the rule in the Qur'an?".

                    Issue of this thread

                    I wanted to ask if a person can be gay and Muslim?

                    (the statements thereafter are the "supporting statements" suggesting the importance of this issue, and why the Sunni and Shia should treat them as a Muslim and human beings - which is not necessary since many here are not Sunni or Shia, and are not supporting any oppression)

                    ie. the issue of whether gay is a muslim or non-muslim?

                    if a muslim, why? which ayat? (refer here)

                    if a non-muslim, why? which ayat? (refer here)

                    and if relating to a statement that can be a muslim because of "feelings" (refer here) or "natural" (refer here).. then the issue whether these factors or elements can change God's rules? (refer here and here)

                    and what is the rule relating to homosexuality? (refer here, which no one is willing to answer, and rather wish to treat as if it is never existed in the Qur'an)

                    http//www.themarketingbit.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/head-in-sand.jpg

                    Same question.. from the start.

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg340673#msg340673

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg340574#msg340574

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg340409#msg340409

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg340242#msg340242

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg339941#msg339941

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg340013#msg340013

                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg339984#msg339984

                    Peace group

                    But as I pointed out, there is no reason for any society not to allow

                    I believe this will involve different issues, ie. "Whether gay is a public offence or private offence?". Why it is an offence when it is private between two individuals? Why prostitution is an offence?

                    (**Is it a private offence? It involves two parties and can be considered as a public offence, an offering to the public to join the offeror committing an offence, harming the other party and exposing them to various infections or diseases to the other, their family and relatives (+humiliation) and the society at large; cf. abettors, non-payment of taxes or zakat, and punishment for adultery, ie. it is a public sentence. Private is related to one single entity, you alone and without contacts with two or more persons, eg. leaving prayers.)

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                      May peace and blessings of God be on you ,

                      I think that first we have to make it clear that is being a Gay something which is predetermined , which can not be controlled by an individual or is it a choice or nurture or mixture of both.

                      There are certain genes that increases the predisposition for a particular disease or behavior of a person.
                      for example certain genes makes a person prone for Lung cancer , however refraining from smoking ( which is due to his nurture, life style and free decisions) will not led to development of Lung cancer in his life.

                      We know that some individual has an urge to get attracted towards the same sex which he can not control but at the same time we know that many a times Identical twins (monozygotic) having same DNA and genes are not both Homosexual. so i think that it is possible that some Genes may be responsible for predisposing a person towards a Homosexual attitude but at the same time nurture and proper raising of a child can change him.

                      Quran does not wants us to be a Homosexual but it does not prescribes any punishment for homosexuality from other Human beings , Punishment of Homosexuality ( and other associated crimes ) is from God , not Humans.

                      Allah Knows Best . these were my views.

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                        Salaam Adil Husain,

                        I think it might be a test of tolerance and respect the whole homosexuality thing.

                        God bless you

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                          May peace and blessings of God be on you ,

                          I think that first we have to make it clear that is being a Gay something which is predetermined , which can not be controlled by an individual or is it a choice or nurture or mixture of both.

                          There are certain genes that increases the predisposition for a particular disease or behavior of a person.
                          for example certain genes makes a person prone for Lung cancer , however refraining from smoking ( which is due to his nurture, life style and free decisions) will not led to development of Lung cancer in his life.

                          We know that some individual has an urge to get attracted towards the same sex which he can not control but at the same time we know that many a times Identical twins (monozygotic) having same DNA and genes are not both Homosexual. so i think that it is possible that some Genes may be responsible for predisposing a person towards a Homosexual attitude but at the same time nurture and proper raising of a child can change him.

                          Quran does not wants us to be a Homosexual but it does not prescribes any punishment for homosexuality from other Human beings , Punishment of Homosexuality ( and other associated crimes ) is from God , not Humans.

                          Allah Knows Best . these were my views.

                          EXACTLY!
                          sun

                          If you can understand the situation of those who are homosexual even if you do not sympathize with them you can empathize and make their condition bearable, you have reached far into God's realm. You should be able to be kind or at least respectable even towards those who sin. And who does not sin anyway?

                          Well said.

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                            Salam

                            Similarly, we need a hadith to amend these rules from the Qur'an, and make it fit with new influences and satisfy sexual needs. yes

                            And those who guard their private parts
                            Except from their wives <- is referring to marriage
                            (7029-31)

                            Guide us to the straight path
                            The path of those upon whom You have bestowed favor
                            not of those who have evoked anger
                            or of those who are astray
                            (al-Fatihah 6-7)

                            Indeed, you approach men with desire
                            instead of women
                            Rather, you are a transgressing people."
                            (781)

                            Relevant ayats (415-16)

                            a surah
                            which We have sent down
                            and made obligatory
                            and revealed therein verses of clear evidence
                            that you might remember
                            The woman
                            or man
                            found guilty of <- nature of offence - "sexual intercourse" - guilty
                            sexual intercourse <- Comparison - (7029-31) above - Can gay commit sexual intercourse?
                            lash each one of them with a hundred lashes
                            and do not be taken by pity for them
                            in the deen of Allah
                            if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day
                            And let a group of the believers witness their punishment
                            (241-2)

                            (refer here)

                            Comparison

                            (2011 Edition)
                            And the two men who commit it from amongst you, then you shall annoy them. If they repent and amend, then leave them alone. God is Redeemer, Merciful.

                            Dr. Kamal Omar
                            And the two males who come in this (homosexuality) from amongst you, punish those two. Then if they both amended and both reformed (themselves) then you people leave those two (free). Surely Allah is Oft-Returning, continuously Merciful.

                            And if two of your men commit themselves to the same evil line of conduct (homosexuality) do punish them both. But if they repent and abandon wrong-doing, then disregard their past act and do not reproach them to induce mental pain; Allah has always accepted true repentance and the atonement made by the people; He has always been Tawabun (Relenting) and Rahimun.

                            Yusuf Ali (Saudi Rev. 1985)
                            If two men among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both. If they repent and amend, Leave them alone; for Allah is Oft-returning, Most Merciful.

                            Yusuf Ali (Orig. 193
                            If two men among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both. If they repent and amend, Leave them alone; for God is Oft-returning, Most Merciful.

                            Wahiduddin Khan
                            If two men commit a like abomination, punish them both. If they repent and mend their ways, leave them alone. God is forgiving and merciful.

                            Abdel Haleem
                            If two men commit a lewd act, punish them both; if they repent and mend their ways, leave them alone- God is always ready to accept repentance, He is full of mercy.

                            Ahmed Ali
                            If two (men) among you are guilty of such acts then punish both of them. But if they repent and reform, let them be, for God accepts repentance and is merciful.

                            Aisha Bewley
                            If two men commit a like abomination, punish them. If they make tawba and reform, leave them alone. Allah is Ever-Returning, Most Merciful.

                            Talal A. Itani (new translation)
                            If two men among you commit it, punish them both. But if they repent and reform, leave them alone. God is Redeemer, Full of Mercy.

                            Bilal Muhammad (2013 Edition)
                            If two men among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both. If they repent and change, leave them alone, for God is Oft-Returning, the Merciful Redeemer.

                            Amatul Rahman Omar
                            And if two of your males commit the same (act of indecency), then punish them both, so if they repent and amend (keeping their conduct good) then turn aside from them, verily Allah is Oft-Returning (with compassion), Ever Merciful.

                            Muhammad Asad
                            And punish both of the guilty parties; but if they both repent and mend their ways, leave them alone for, behold, God is an acceptor of repentance, a dispenser of grace.

                            M. M. Pickthall
                            And as for the two of you who are guilty thereof, punish them both. And if they repent and improve, then let them be. Lo! Allah is ever relenting, Merciful.

                            Shakir
                            And as for the two who are guilty of indecency from among you, give them both a punishment; then if they repent and amend, turn aside from them; surely Allah is Oft-returning (to mercy), the Merciful.

                            Dr. Laleh Bakhtiar
                            And those two who among you approach that, then penalize them both. Then, if they repented and made things right, then, turn aside from them. Truly, God had been Accepter of Repentance, Compassionate.

                            T.B.Irving
                            If two of you should indulge in it, trounce them both. If they repent and reform, then ostracize them both. God is Relenting, Merciful.

                            Abdul Majid Daryabadi
                            And as for those twain of you who commit it, hurt them both; then, if they repent and amend, turn away from them; verily Allah is Relenting, Merciful.

                            Ali ?nal
                            When two from among you have committed it, then punish them both by scolding and beating; but if they are remorseful and repent, and make amends, then withdraw from them. Assuredly, God is He Who accepts repentance and returns it with liberal forgiveness, All-Compassionate.

                            Ali Quli Qara'i
                            Should two among you commit it, chastise them both; but if they repent and reform, let them alone. Indeed Allah is all-clement, all-merciful.

                            Hamid S. Aziz
                            And if two of you commit it, then punish them both; but if they repent and amend, leave them alone, verily, Allah is easily Relenting, Merciful.

                            Muhammad Mahmoud Ghali
                            And (as for) the two of you who come up with (an obscenity), then hurt them both. Yet, in case they (both) repent and act righteously, then veer away from them (both); surely Allah has been Superbly Relenting, Ever-Merciful.

                            Muhammad Sarwar
                            If any two people commit fornication, punish them. If they repent and reform, let them go. God is All-forgiving and All-merciful.

                            Muhammad Taqi Usmani
                            Those two of you who commit it, chastise both of them. However, if they repent and make amends, then, overlook them. Surely, Allah is Most- Relenting, Very-Merciful.

                            Shabbir Ahmed
                            If a couple spreads such immorality or lewdness in the society, both of them shall be punished by the appropriate court of law. If they repent and amend, leave them alone. Allah is the Acceptor of repentance, Merciful.

                            Syed Vickar Ahamed
                            And the two persons among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both; And if they repent and improve, leave them alone; Surely, Allah Forgives and Accepts repentance (Tawwab), Most Merciful (Raheem).

                            Umm Muhammad (Sahih International)
                            And the two who commit it among you, dishonor them both. But if they repent and correct themselves, leave them alone. Indeed, Allah is ever Accepting of repentance and Merciful.

                            Farook Malik
                            And the two, whether married or unmarried, who are guilty of this offense, punish them both. If they repent and mend their ways, leave them alone. Surely Allah is the Acceptor of Repentance, Merciful.

                            Dr. Munir Munshey
                            Punish those of you _ both, man and woman _ who commit (such a deed). If they (relent and) repent and mend their ways, then leave them alone. Of course, Allah accepts repentance! He is the most Merciful!

                            Dr. Mohammad Tahir-ul-Qadri
                            And the two persons who commit adultery from amongst you, punish them both. Then, if they repent and mend (their) ways, refrain from punishing them. Indeed, Allah is Most Forgiving, Ever-Merciful.

                            Maududi
                            Punish both of those among you who are guilty of this sin, then if they repent and mend their ways, leave them alone. For Allah is always ready to accept repentance. He is All-Compassionate.

                            (2013 Edition)
                            And the two men who commit it from among you, you shall trouble them. If they repent and amend, then leave them alone. God is Redeemer, Merciful.

                            Bijan Moeinian
                            As far as two among you found guilty of indecency, punish them. If they repent, leave them alone as God is the Most Merciful and He accepts people?s repentance.

                            Faridul Haque
                            And punish them both, the man and the woman, whoever are guilty of it (adultery); then if they repent and become pious, leave them; indeed Allah is the Most Acceptor Of Repentance, Most Merciful.

                            Hasan Al-Fatih Qaribullah
                            If two among you commit it punish them both. If they repent and make amends, leave them alone. Allah is the Relenter, the Merciful.

                            Maulana Muhammad Ali
                            And as for the two of you who are guilty of it, give them both a slight punishment; then if they repent and amend, turn aside from them. Surely Allah is ever Oft-returning (to mercy), the Merciful.

                            Muhammad Ahmed - Samira
                            And those who (B/M), they both come/do/commit it from you, so harm them (B), so if they (B) repented, and they (B) corrected, so turn away from them, that God was/is forgiving, merciful.

                            Sher Ali
                            And if two from among you are guilty of it, punish them both. And if they repent and amend, then leave them alone; surely ALLAH is Oft-Returning with compassion and is ever Merciful.

                            Rashad Khalifa
                            The couple who commits adultery shall be punished. If they repent and reform, you shall leave them alone. GOD is Redeemer, Most Merciful.

                            Ahmed Raza Khan (Barelvi)
                            And punish them both, the man and the woman, whoever are guilty of it (adultery); then if they repent and become pious, leave them; indeed Allah is the Most Acceptor Of Repentance, Most Merciful.

                            Muhsin Khan & Muhammad al-Hilali
                            And the two persons (man and woman) among you who commit illegal sexual intercourse, punish them both. And if they repent (promise Allah that they will never repeat, i.e. commit illegal sexual intercourse and other similar sins) and do righteous good deeds, leave them alone. Surely, Allah is Ever the One Who accepts repentance, (and He is) Most Merciful.

                            N J Dawood
                            420 If two men among you commit a lewd act, punish them both. If they repent and mend their ways, let them be. God is forgiving and merciful.

                            Sayyid Qutb
                            And the two from among you who are guilty of the same, punish them both. If they repent and mend their ways, then leave them alone. God is the One who accepts repentance, the Merciful.

                            Sayyed Abbas Sadr-Ameli
                            And when two of you commit it (lewdness) punish them both, but if they repent and amend, then turn aside from them. Verily Allah is Oft-returning (to mercy) , the Merciful.

                            Non-Muslim and/or Orientalist works

                            Arthur John Arberry
                            And when two of you commit indecency, punish them both; but if they repent and make amends, then suffer them to be; God turns, and is All-compassionate.

                            Edward Henry Palmer
                            And if two of you commit it, then hurt them both; but if they turn again and amend, leave them alone, verily, God is easily turned, compassionate.

                            George Sale
                            And if two of you commit the like wickedness, punish them both But if they repent and amend, let them both alone; for God is easy to be reconciled and merciful.

                            John Medows Rodwell
                            And if two men among you commit the same crime, then punish them both; but if they turn and amend, then let them be for God is He who turneth, Merciful!

                            Peace all peace

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                              continue..

                              It is clear that Allah is lenient with homosexual, PROVIDED, they reform and restrain themselves.

                              If they repent and amend, then leave them alone.

                              otherwise, I believe they must be punished with the same punishment in (241-2), ie. based on the "NATURE OF OFFENCE" - "Sexual Intercourse".

                              found guilty of <- nature of offence - "sexual intercourse" - guilty
                              sexual intercourse <- Comparison - (7029-31) above - Can gay commit sexual intercourse?

                              Guilty for "what you did", not for "who you are".

                              (e.g. punishments for unintentional murder or accidental death)

                              This is similar in any criminal prosecution or any principle of jurisprudence (including Islamic Jurisprudence), ie. prosecution based on the "nature of offence", not based on the "offenders". Under normal circumstances, the offenders are irrelevant to any criminal prosecution, even if you are so and so influential person or celebrities.

                              Therefore, regardless of straight or homosexual and as long it is the offence of "sexual intercourse", sura (415-16) says punish them, and sura (241-2) says what is their punishment; "... a Book whose verses are perfected and then presented in detail..." (111)

                              and made obligatory

                              lash each one of them with a hundred lashes
                              and DO NOT be taken by pity for them
                              in the deen of Allah
                              if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day

                              AND logically....

                              How come sexual intercourse between man and woman is grievous, and sexual intercourse between man and man is okay, natural or blessed? hmm

                              "what you did" = same offence, ie. sexual intercourse
                              "who you are" = men and women = guilty, men and men = not guilty?

                              I don't understand your logic... nope

                              Allah Knows Best . These were my views.

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                                Greetings and Peace, all group

                                continue..

                                It is clear that Allah is lenient with homosexual, PROVIDED, they reform and restrain themselves.

                                otherwise, I believe they must be punished with the same punishment in (241-2), ie. based on the "NATURE OF OFFENCE" - "Sexual Intercourse".

                                Guilty for "what you did", not for "who you are".

                                (e.g. punishments for unintentional murder or accidental death)

                                This is similar in any criminal prosecution or any principle of jurisprudence (including Islamic Jurisprudence), ie. prosecution based on the "nature of offence", not based on the "offenders". Under normal circumstances, the offenders are irrelevant to any criminal prosecution, even if you are so and so influential person or celebrities.

                                Therefore, regardless of straight or homosexual and as long it is the offence of "sexual intercourse", sura (415-16) says punish them, and sura (241-2) says what is their punishment; "... a Book whose verses are perfected and then presented in detail..." (111)

                                AND logically....

                                How come sexual intercourse between man and woman is grievous, and sexual intercourse between man and man is okay, natural or blessed? hmm

                                "what you did" = same offence, ie. sexual intercourse
                                "who you are" = men and women = guilty, men and men = not guilty?

                                I don't understand your logic... nope

                                Allah Knows Best . These were my views.

                                When the entire verses are read in context, more becomes clear.

                                415 talks about having at least four witnesses; a witness is someone who observes with their own senses. What is private has no decreed temporal punishment.

                                242 is talking about the punishment for adultery--extramarital sex for one who is married. 246 makes it clear that the people are married, otherwise how can one spouse accuse the other? hmm

                                Let's take a closer look at 415 and 416.

                                415 And those of your women who commit lewdness , you shall bring four witnesses over them from among you; if they bear witness, then you shall restrict them in the homes until death terminates their lives, or GOD makes for them a way out.

                                2419 As for those who enjoy that lewdness spreads among those who have believed, they will have a painful retribution in the world and the Hereafter. And GOD knows while you do not know.

                                In all seriousness, if the lewdness referred to in 415 is homosexuality or even homosexual acts, is this something that spreads? It sounds like lewdness is an STD!

                                416 And the two men who commit it from among you, you shall trouble them. If they repent and amend , then leave them alone. GOD is Redeemer, Merciful.

                                472 And those who believe and do good works, and believe in what was sent down to Mohammed, for it is the truth from their Lord, He cancels for them their sins, and relieves their concern.

                                Perhaps the word that makes the most sense is improve. Note that this word limits the possible meanings of 416.

                                ALLAH knows best.

                                peace

                                ~Abdul-Hadi

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                                  If they repent and amend , then leave them alone. GOD is Redeemer, Merciful. .

                                  Perhaps the word that makes the most sense is improve.

                                  Salam

                                  Okay, I don't understand why you are quoting my post and explaining the issue of translation relating to "amend " when the post is explaining about the "punishment for sexual intercourse and homosexual in the Qur'an".

                                  How does it relate? Completely two different and separate topics.

                                  Peace peace

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                                    I admire your ability to make the Qur'an say whatever you have in mind (with the help of wrong translations too) and not what the Qur'an says.

                                    4.15 speaks about prostitutes and orders to take them off the street and give them shelter in the houses, not about punishment.

                                    And 4.16 is not necessarily about two men, it can be a man and a woman, for instance a prostitute and her client.

                                    Salaam

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                                      Salam

                                      No need for further comments, the facts speak for itself.

                                      4.15 speaks about prostitutes and orders to take them off the street and give them shelter in the houses, not about punishment.

                                      Those who commit
                                      unlawful sexual intercourse
                                      of your women <- it is about prostitution? "your" women?
                                      bring against them four from among you <- is this a trial?
                                      And if they testify Is there a sentence in a trial?
                                      confine the guilty women to houses until death takes them <- it is not about punishment?
                                      or Allah ordains for them way <- compare (241-2)
                                      (415)

                                      (Principles of Islamic jurisprudence, ie. deterrent, retributive, preventive and reformative etc.)

                                      You should admire yourself.

                                      I admire your ability to make the Qur'an say whatever you have in mind (with the help of wrong translations too) and not what the Qur'an says.

                                      Secondly,

                                      And 4.16 is not necessarily about two men, it can be a man and a woman, for instance a prostitute and her client.

                                      Similarly, no further comment since it is not the real issue in my post. I'm discussing about the punishment for "sexual intercourse" and homosexual, not about man with woman or prostitution. In addition, you've said it, "not necessarily". Do you understand what it means? nope

                                      and

                                      Sex is Marriage? Marriage is Sex? yeah

                                      It is clear that Allah is explaining "the practice of marrying slave girls", when, who, what, how it is allowed and prohibited. Allah is explaining "how to select slave girls for wife". Allah has prohibited to marry "slave girl that commit unlawful intercourse randomly or who take lovers". Allah is not explaining about sex, or "marriage is sex, and sex is marriage".

                                      Please explain how the above ayat is explaining your conclusion that "marriage is sex, and sex is marriage". hmm

                                      Do you mind.. please refer me to the ayat rather than jumping from one issue to the other, ignoring all questions with blank denials or personal opinions. You have answered none from the Qur'an, and none from my counter arguments.

                                      We all here just want to hear your reasons, from the Qur'an.

                                      Conclusion...

                                      I don't understand your logic or "sexual" fantasies. A totally different world. (refer here, here and here) hypno

                                      Peace.

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                                        I wanted to ask if a person can be gay and Muslim?

                                        Salam ,

                                        ***The act of the people of lut was considered as doing al-fahishah

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                                        And Lot when he said to his people, "Do you commit al-fahishah as no one has preceded you with from among the worlds ?

                                        ***How The act of al-fahishah is considered in al-qur'an

                                        1690 = allah strictly forbid and ask muslims to avoid al-fahsha / al-fahishah
                                        728 = allah strictly constructed Muhammad his messenger to tell people that allaah do not order al-fahsha / al-fahishah , because there are some poeple who said and they still said that till this days that allaah ask , order , tolerate poeple to do al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        2945 = the salah strictly forbid al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        2268 = satan / al-shaytan ask strictly to act and to do al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        2421 = If someone follow the the foot steep of satan / al-shaytan then he will realize and discover that satan / al-shaytan ask , order , tolerate , instruct his people to act and do the al-fahsha / al-fahishah .

                                        2419 = the ones who like that al-fahsha / al-fahishah spread among the believers will be hardly punished in this life and the hereafter

                                        ***The people who commit that act are described in the quran as people who act ignorantly

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                                        2755(What! do you indeed approach men with desire rather than women? Nay, you are a people who act ignorantly.)

                                        ***They act Ignorantly , al-jaahilyin , you can find out more here about who are the people who act ignortley

                                        2563 = the opposite of the servant of allaah are the people who act ignortley

                                        3664 = the people who serve others then allaah are the people who act ignortley

                                        7138 = the people who prostrate/worship to the stone status are people acting ignortley

                                        1129 and 4623 = the people who rejected the messenger Hud are people acting ignortley

                                        2 67 = Moses the messenger seek refuge by allaah to not be among the people who act ignortley

                                        635 = allah instructing Muhammad the messenger of allaah to not be like the people who act ignortley

                                        1146 = allah instructing Nuh the messenger of allaah to not be like the people who act ignortley

                                        1233 = Yusuf the messenger of allaah asking allaah to turn away their snare from him to not act like the people who act ignortley

                                        2855 = the people who argue with lies about everything are the people who act ignortley

                                        ***The people who commit that act are also described in the quran as people who act Extravagantly

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                                        781(Indeed, you approach men with desire, instead of women. Rather, you are a people who act Extravagantly.&quot

                                        ***They act Extravagantly , al-Musrifyin , you can find out more here about who are the people who act Extravagantly

                                        6141 = allaah do not love the people who act extravagantly

                                        731 = allaah do not love the people who act extravagantly

                                        4043 = the people who act extravagantly are the people who will go to the fire

                                        1083 and 4431 = the act of Faro/Fir3awn is described as a act of extravagant , you know the destination of Faro

                                        219 = All the people who rejected the messengers and transgressed was acting extravagantly and was destroyed indeed

                                        26151 = the people who act extravagantly shouldn't be listened to and he should be ignored

                                        Conclusion

                                        ***Can you choose between this two cases Do you want to be among case n?1 or Case N?2

                                        Case N?1

                                        --They do not approach al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        --al-salah do not tolerate al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        --allaah forbid do not order the act of al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        --allaah instruct his messengers to not be among the people who act ignorantly

                                        --allaah do not love the people who act extravagantly

                                        Case N?2

                                        --They do al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        --Satan / al-shaytaan tolerate and he do order the act of al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        --If someone follow the foot steep of Satan / al-shaytaan he will see that he order , ask , tolerate al-fahsha / al-fahishah

                                        --The ones who like that al-fahsha / al-fahishah spread among the believers will be hardly punished in this life and the hereafter

                                        --The people who do the al-fahsha / al-fahishah are people who act ignorantly

                                        --The people who do the al-fahsha / al-fahishah are people who act extravagantly

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                                          Greetings and Peace, all group

                                          Salam

                                          Okay, I don't understand why you are quoting my post and explaining the issue of translation relating to "amend " when the post is explaining about the "punishment for sexual intercourse and homosexual in the Qur'an".

                                          How does it relate? Completely two different and separate topics.

                                          Peace peace

                                          So sorry, you quote your own posts so much, I didn't realize that there was a shyness.

                                          Here is the explanation in even more basic terms. As a necessity, explanation at this level is pretty blunt.

                                          The verses can't mean what you think they mean, as demonstrated by the exact same words used in other places in AQ.

                                          Amend and improve are synonymous, but the word "improve" fits in all places and is a tad clearer.

                                          Even if the words did mean what you think (try substituting your definition in all places where the word occurs, lol), no punishment is applied without four witnesses! Do you dispute about the witnesses?

                                          Homosexuality is not something that can spread--for that matter, neither is fornication. Do you dispute this?

                                          Homosexuality is not something that can be improved/bettered/cured. Do you dispute this?

                                          So then...where is this "homosexuality" that you are referring to coming from--a preconceived notion?

                                          ALLAH knows best.

                                          peace

                                          ~Abdul-Hadi

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