Question about polygamy
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Haha I find this amusing. Why do you state that it's rubbish women can't marry multiple men? Don't assign to Allah what Allah has NOT said. Show a verse in the Qur'an which prohibits women to marry multiple men. If you can do that then well done. If not, do not attribute to Allah what is untrue.
I'm sorry why do we have to look at the prophets so-called life? If you wish to trust hadith written hundreds of years after his death, then go for it. Equally if you reckon the Qur'an is not fully detailed and EASY to understand then also go for it and find other sources, you'll be held accountable - no one else. I don't understand how people can't understand the simplicity of it all and want to over complicate things because of their mindset that doesn't agree on certain things or their preconceived notions...
Peace
seriously?
peace good luck, I dont think I would like to reply any thing on this, because I am here to discuss what ALLAH has said, and not to discuss what ALLAH has not said.
I was not aware you guys dont believe that prophet had multiple wives, in fact I cant believe I tried to discuss this with those who have lost trust and love for prophet.
MODS please kindly delete this thread.
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ok dont kill the messenger, this is just a thought.
well I got married in 2013 and we are really happy with each other, but I look forward for a big family with many kids and few wives in my possession, and I personally dont see it wrong because Quraan supports it, and if Quraan is supporting some thing, it cant be wrong or against nature.
what are your thoughts?
is this disgusting and wrong thought?
Very disgusting man.
polygyny is indeed degrading to women especially in nowadays world where men to women ratio is almost 11. -
Very disgusting man.
polygyny is indeed degrading to women especially in nowadays world where men to women ratio is almost 11.I agree and I don't. I reckon polygamous relationships would only be in exceptional circumstances but I agree that it can be degrading to women.
Monogamous all the way!!!
Might aswell close this thread down if op doesn't want to discuss further.
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seriously?
peace good luck, I dont think I would like to reply any thing on this, because I am here to discuss what ALLAH has said, and not to discuss what ALLAH has not said.
I was not aware you guys dont believe that prophet had multiple wives, in fact I cant believe I tried to discuss this with those who have lost trust and love for prophet.
MODS please kindly delete this thread.
People here do not hate Prophet but why do freaking Sunnis and Shias keep using the Prophet's lives arguments to satisfy their lusts? If you want a big family, do it with your one wife alone.
In this modern world, there have been many technologies that can make a women easily pregnant and also get twins. Also, look at verse 3350, this verse says that the commandment in this verse is only for Prophet and not for other believers.If you want to have four wives at one time and screw them to freaking get many children, you are just insulting and degrading women by making them like birth machines and private sex dolls.
This is a non-denominational Islamic forum so do not expect us to give answers in accordance to Sunni and Shia doctrines which often degrade women as lowly creature that must cover from head to toe to honor themselves. What the heck.
It is common in Qur'an translations to translate 43 to condone polygamy. There are a few Quran translations that translate 43 to marry OFF instead of marry.
But even if the 43 is to allow polygyny, look at the first sentence. It is only to help orphans, it is not about making women as personal sex dolls and birth machines.
I hope your current wife would realise that she is having a "husband" that wants more.
Burn your male-chauvinist ego and have some respect to female gender.
"Allah" is an Arabic word for one God so please use God instead of Allah in English.
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and btw why are you posting ayat which is meant for kuffars? how is it against god to have more wife?
When a verse refers to disbelievers or hypocrites, the description of these people inform us of the qualities and behaviour that are disliked by God. Your mentality of increasing your children and growing your possession fits perfectly with the verse, so you should consider how much you are earning the anger of God. I suggest that if you are already bored with your wife having married her only a few months ago, divorce her today instead of pondering under the pretense of fair play; this will avoid worse problems in the future.
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i have the feeling that this user is a troll, that he is just here to provoque and that we may already know him under another nick. the whole thin is too stupid. a lion... under the matress.
salaam
I am a troll?
this is my mobile number +61469146135
Call me to confirm my identity.
and if you dont have balls/guts to do that, do not utter nonsense against me.
what a ****
Salaam peace
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it is my feeling you are a troll even if you do have a phone number. guts may be i have, money to squander in phone calls no.
salaam
I knew this, dont have penny in pocket yet shouts loud on online forums? better find a job mate. peace
give me your number I will call you to confirm my identity, or else just think twice before uttering ****
**** LOL
Salaam peace
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which country?
The whole world.
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The whole world.
world statistics are different then what you are learning in your school.
learn more here
http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio
and moreover man/woman ratio differs from country to country and it cant be constant every where.
Masalam
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world statistics are different then what you are learning in your school.
learn more here
http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio
and moreover man/woman ratio differs from country to country and it cant be constant every where.
Masalam
I did not learn at school, period!
According to my Sunni-centric school, women are always more than men.
In fact I learn the ratio from various sources, including Wikipedia.
And I did not say exactly 11. I said almost 11. Well even according to the source you stated, many countries, especially Muslim-majority ones have slightly more males than females and the group that often have more females than males is elderly group.
If you searched male to female ratio worldwide, the answer is always 11 or 1.11
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I did not learn at school, period!
According to my Sunni-centric school, women are always more than men.
In fact I learn the ratio from various sources, including Wikipedia.
And I did not say exactly 11. I said almost 11. Well even according to the source you stated, many countries, especially Muslim-majority ones have slightly more males than females and the group that often have more females than males is elderly group.
If you searched male to female ratio worldwide, the answer is always 11 or 1.11
again we are not talking about single woman here.
widows and divorced woman also have life and they should also be consider in this counting.
if Quraan says some thing or prescribe some thing it cant be fruitless..... period!
Masalaam
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again we are not talking about single woman here.
widows and divorced woman also have life and they should also be consider in this counting.
Masalaam
So what's the point in this post? It still doesn't make women outnumber men multiple of times worldwide.
There are also divorced men / widowers.
They should also include in the countings. -
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if Quraan says some thing or prescribe some thing it cant be fruitless..... period!
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If the phone number that you posted here is truly yours, then you are now in Australia.
Australia does not legalise polygamy so if you are too desperate of polygamy, get out of that civilized country.
Also, according to World Fact Book, in Australia men slightly outnumber women in groups that are below 65 years old. -
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If the phone number that you posted here is truly yours, then you are now in Australia.
Australia does not legalise polygamy so if you are too desperate of polygamy, get out of that civilized country.
Also, according to World Fact Book, in Australia men slightly outnumber women in groups that are below 65 years old.I am not citizen and this rule doesnt applies on me, nor I will live here forever.
I follow Quraan and this is most civilized way for me to live my life, I dont care any other civility.
any ways good night late here. BYE giveup LOL
if I knew kids will jump on this topic I would not start it at first place rotfl
good night. O0