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    sushi1992
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    Based on what i can see, people need to try and be more MORE polite and less insulting... like telling people to get a job... like wth??!!!

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      Man_of_Faith
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      Peace,

      The quota ought to speak for itself and how everything is designed.

      God bless you

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        Momeen
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        Based on what i can see, people need to try and be more MORE polite and less insulting... like telling people to get a job... like wth??!!!

        most online warriors like huruf are jobless lazy people who hardly earn any thing or holds any position in real world but when they get key board they think they are prophets and have rights to utter lies against any one.

        I told him to call me and verify and he dont even have 5 $ to stand on his claim.

        so there is no wrong to advice him to first get a simple JOB and then act like a online warrior.

        Masalaam

        this picture will sum up every thing about this forum and the people we have here.....

        http//my.jetscreenshot.com/10477/20140110-gekb-44kb

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          Momeen
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          Peace,

          The quota ought to speak for itself and how everything is designed.

          God bless you

          correct thanx.

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            es
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            well I got married in 2013 and we are really happy with each other, but I look forward for a big family with many kids and few wives in my possession

            confused Okay, this chappie was also propositioning me via PM. Supposedly he is also "in possession" of a friend who I could get hitched to. Let's hope by "friend", he doesn't mean himself! &

            peace

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              Bender
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              most online warriors like huruf are jobless lazy people who hardly earn any thing or holds any position in real world but when they get key board they think they are prophets and have rights to utter lies against any one.

              I told him to call me and verify and he dont even have 5 $ to stand on his claim.

              so there is no wrong to advice him to first get a simple JOB and then act like a online warrior.

              Masalaam

              this picture will sum up every thing about this forum and the people we have here.....

              http//my.jetscreenshot.com/10477/20140110-gekb-44kb

              Salaam,

              Maybe the he who you are talking about is a woman who is wise enough not to engage in such childish behaviour, just my guess.

              Salaam,
              Bender

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                Momeen
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                Salaam,

                Maybe the he who you are talking about is a woman who is wise enough not to engage in such childish behaviour, just my guess.

                Salaam,
                Bender

                yes but he/she is stupid enough to blame others for no reason.

                Wasalaam

                ALI

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                  Momeen
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                  confused Okay, this chappie was also propositioning me via PM. Supposedly he is also "in possession" of a friend who I could get hitched to. Let's hope by "friend", he doesn't mean himself! &

                  peace

                  its a shame you think this, but any ways this is my friend number and you can call to confirm, he is in London.

                  0447440611024

                  Honestly, it was wrong to even think to help any one here.

                  I generously thought I can help some muslim sister, but here I get insult and lies in return.

                  its a shame.

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                    Salaam,

                    its a shame you think this, but any ways this is my friend number and you can call to confirm, he is in London.

                    0447440611024

                    Honestly, it was wrong to even think to help any one here.

                    The way you was begging to get a man and get married, I generously thought I can help some muslim sister, but here I get insult and lies in return.

                    its a shame.

                    its a shame you think this, but any ways this is my friend number and you can call to confirm, he is in London.

                    0447440611024

                    Honestly, it was wrong to even think to help any one here.

                    The way you was begging to get a man and get married, I generously thought I can help some muslim sister, but here I get insult and lies in return.

                    its a shame.

                    its a shame you think this, but any ways this is my friend number and you can call to confirm, he is in London.

                    0447440611024

                    Honestly, it was wrong to even think to help any one here.

                    The way you was begging to get a man and get married, I generously thought I can help some muslim sister, but here I get insult and lies in return.

                    its a shame.

                    I was actually going to apologise to you but you're far too uncouth to deserve an apology. I retract my previous apology.

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                      Momeen
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                      I'm sorry, brother, some of your posts did make me wonder. I have been in this situation at least four times before. I have a lot of married men contacting me pretending to be something else and really they are something else. Why do you think I stopped looking for a husband on this website. You will probably notice I have not done any direct recent posts advertising for a post. Sorry, Brither. It was wrong of me. I didn't mean to mock you.

                      if some body cheated you, it doesnt mean you doubt every one here.

                      any ways I was here with good intention but seems its not worth.

                      Good luck.

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                        Momeen
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                        I found my wife online, so I understand how important it is to be truthful no matter if its online or offline.

                        only thing my wife loved in me is my honesty and straightforwardness.

                        and I am proud to maintain this all my life.

                        I am out of here and wont reply to any one now.

                        GOOD LUCK ALL

                        this has gone so far and I dont like to insult any one, but people do insist this, any ways MODS DELETE THIS THREAD.

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                          diamantinehoneybunch
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                          I found my wife online, so I understand how important it is to be truthful no matter if its online or offline.

                          only thing my wife loved in me is my honesty and understand forwardness.

                          and I am proud to maintain this all my life.

                          I am out of here and wont reply to any one now.

                          GOOD LUCK ALL

                          this has gone so far and I dont like to insult any one, but people do insist this, any ways MODS DELETE THIS THREAD.

                          Insult?
                          You don't know the difference between insult and criticism? LOL.
                          If you have more than one wife, most normal people will have little to no respect for you. Except some extreme Islamists of course.
                          I know it coz I'm living in an Islamic country and polygamists do not earn respect from normal people including moderate Muslims except from Islamists and mullahs.
                          You whined about getting "insults" but just re-read your posts. You insulted huruf by asking her to get a job and you insulted me because of my age like I don't deserve for freedom of speech because I'm too "young".

                          You also do not seem to understand what Man of Faith meant in his post. He was not saying that polygamy is normal.

                          True love between a male soulmate and female soulmate is faithfulness, trust, commitment, honesty and kindness.

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                            Momeen
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                            Insult?
                            You don't know the difference between insult and criticism? LOL.
                            If you have more than one wife, most normal people will have little to no respect for you. Except some extreme Islamists of course.
                            I know it coz I'm living in an Islamic country and polygamists do not earn respect from normal people including moderate Muslims except from Islamists and mullahs.
                            You whined about getting "insults" but just re-read your posts. You insulted huruf by asking her to get a job and you insulted me because of my age like I don't deserve for freedom of speech because I'm too "young".

                            You also do not seem to understand what Man of Faith meant in his post. He was not saying that polygamy is normal.

                            True love between a male soulmate and female soulmate is faithfulness, trust, commitment, honesty and kindness.

                            I can happily live with that. yeah respect and zillat is in ALLAH hands, and if I have respect near ALLAH, I dont care any thing else.

                            btw have you complete your school lessons? if not better finish it off first, and let this topic for adults.

                            I dont wish to continue on this thread, but kids keep coming up with silly comments so cant resist replying them back rotfl

                            peace Salaam hail

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                              diamantinehoneybunch
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                              I can happily live with that.

                              btw have you complete your school lessons? if not better finish it off first, and let this topic for adults.

                              You can't bear criticism and you want me to get out? LOL. If you use your brain and rationality often, you wouldn't use someone's age as hominem attack against him/her.

                              Read again #11.
                              The type of polygamy that you are dreaming of is making women as personal sex dolls and birth machine. That's why I view it as insult against female gender.

                              If you want to have more children, go adopt needy and poor orphans instead of having more children by selfish attitude and by not contributing anything to society.

                              I have already finished school and am going to be 18 a week later.

                              Unfortunately your mind is not fully mature because you want someone who seems "inferior" to you to get out because of her age to get out of this discussion.
                              This is FREE MINDS, not adult forum.

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                                diamantinehoneybunch
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                                I can happily live with that. yeah respect and zillat is in ALLAH hands, and if I have respect near ALLAH, I dont care any thing else.

                                btw have you complete your school lessons? if not better finish it off first, and let this topic for adults.

                                I dont wish to continue on this thread, but kids keep coming up with silly comments so cant resist replying them back rotfl

                                peace Salaam hail

                                Again you are insulting me because of my age.
                                Make ad hominem attack instead of have valid arguments.

                                GOD will respect people who make women as personal sex dolls and birth machine?
                                LOL.

                                I think you are the one who are making nasty comments and are also have very disgusting dreams.

                                And rational people will not use their opponents' age, background, race to discredit them in arguments / debates. Stop acting immaturely.

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                                  Momeen
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                                  You can't bear criticism and you want me to get out? LOL. If you use your brain and rationality often, you wouldn't use someone's age as hominem attack against him/her.

                                  Read again #11.
                                  The type of polygamy that you are dreaming of is making women as personal sex dolls and birth machine. That's why I view it as insult against female gender.

                                  If you want to have more children, go adopt needy and poor orphans instead of having more children by selfish attitude and by not contributing anything to society.

                                  I have already finished school and am going to be 18 a week later.

                                  Unfortunately your mind is not fully mature because you want someone who seems "inferior" to you to get out because of her age to get out of this discussion.
                                  This is FREE MINDS, not adult forum.

                                  well yes good points, worth to ponder.... tempt

                                  Salaam

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                                    Momeen
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                                    Again you are insulting me because of my age.
                                    Make ad hominem attack instead of have valid arguments.

                                    GOD will respect people who make women as personal sex dolls and birth machine?
                                    LOL.

                                    I think you are the one who are making nasty comments and are also have very disgusting dreams.

                                    And rational people will not use their opponents' age, background, race to discredit them in arguments / debates. Stop acting immaturely.

                                    I am not talking about prostitution here, but a valid marriage and respect, seems your head is too much corrupt, get free from dirt in your brain, then you might understand this thread in much better way.

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                                      diamantinehoneybunch
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                                      I am not talking about prostitution here, but a valid marriage and respect, seems your head is too much corrupt, get free from dirt in your brain, then you might understand this thread in much better way.

                                      Read the word "PERSONAL" sex dolls again. Read the word "BIRTH MACHINE" again. And I was talking about the type of POLYGAMOUS marriage that you are dreaming of. Not prostitution.

                                      It still doesn't change the truth that you see you wives-to-be as personal sex dolls and birth machines in the so-called marriage.

                                      You think 43 is about marriage to make women as things that satisfy your lusts and birth machines? And you expect God to respect men who misuse marriage as making women as personal dolls and birth machines? You are the one who is having dirt in your mind.

                                      If you want more children, go adopt needy and poor orphans instead of making this world more overpopulated.

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                                        Momeen
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                                        Read the word "PERSONAL" sex dolls again. Read the word "BIRTH MACHINE" again. And I was talking about the type of POLYGAMOUS marriage that you are dreaming of. Not prostitution.

                                        It still doesn't change the truth that you see you wives-to-be as personal sex dolls and birth machines in the so-called marriage.

                                        You think 43 is about marriage to make women as things that satisfy your lusts and birth machines? And you expect God to respect men who misuse marriage as making women as personal dolls and birth machines? You are the one who is having dirt in your mind.

                                        If you want more children, go adopt needy and poor orphans instead of making this world more overpopulated.

                                        not just prophet Muhammed(s) even other prophets had multiple wives, are you saying all of those prophets treated their wives as slaves and sex machines? and GOD dont respect them?

                                        sister please use your common sense and control your verbal attacks on prophets and Quraan.

                                        your state of mind and thoughts are really questionable. '( , specially when it is coming from a female.

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                                          diamantinehoneybunch
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                                          not just prophet Muhammed(s) even other prophets had multiple wives, are you saying all of those prophets treated there wives as slaves and sex machines?

                                          According to hadiths that are invented by crazy men such as Bukhari etc, Mohammed married a six-year-old Aisha. Thank God the Qur'an doesn't say so. Instead, in verse 3350, the commandment in verse 3350 is only for the prophet.
                                          Which other Prophets had multiple wives according to Quran? Or are you following Bible which says that Solomon slept with 300 wives and 700 concubines? Or hadiths that say Solomon had 70 wives?

                                          sister please use your common sense and control your verbal attacks on prophets and Quraan.

                                          Use common sense? So according to you having many kids by having four wives is sensible? nope
                                          Verbal attacks on Quran? Which verse? 43? Does the verse say to make women as personal *** dolls and birth machines? NO! And I think you are too lazy to read reply #11. Most translations translate the verse as permission of polygamy but a few translate the verse as suggestion to marry OFF. But even if the majority is true, it still doesn't change the fact that the verse is only about being fair to orphans, not to make women as birth machines and personal *** dolls under the guise of marriage.

                                          your state of mind and thoughts are really questionable. '( , specially when it is coming from a female.

                                          What? Because I am AGAINST the attitude of polygamy for making women as birth machines and personal *** dolls then my thought is questionable? Yes, it is questionable by mullahs, Islamists, Talibans who can't see women being respected.

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