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Wife beating in islam? The Quran strikes back

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    Wakas
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    The_Chimp,
    I see you talk much but evidence little. Feel free to refute (with evidence) the understanding of www.Quran434.com

    Perhaps then we can see which option is more Quran based.

    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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      The_Chimp,
      I see you talk much but evidence little. Feel free to refute (with evidence) the understanding of www.Quran434.com

      Perhaps then we can see which option is more Quran based.

      This is forum - by its type one doesn't write realms.

      Also - know one really takes things seriously - hence the silly and often ridiculous arguments - resorting to childish name calling.


      I am still waiting for the Prayer debate! What happened to that?

      Then there was your awkward fumble - at refuting 5 prayers, by pointing to a document showing Muslims did not pray before the order of 5 prayers came along!

      So there isn't that much point of making long rambling refutations . . .


      The point is general - the motivation of such interpretation is having a different "morality" . . . some people never reconcile and become non-Muslims.

      If you are in UK - Sarfraz Manzoor

      http//www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b03jb3n5


      If that is your article

      You were ALWAYS going to find that Daraba in 434 did not mean "beat".

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        Why not, Mr. Chimp?

        Peace

        Why not - what?

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          peace all,

          I have updated the work to include

          1. requires the insertion of "from" making this the only DRB example of this kind in The Quran, even though the preposition "AAn /from" is used with DRB in 435 in a very similar usage as being suggested here for 434.

          Please see the following, taken from http//quransmessage.com/articles/does%20the%20quran%20sanction%20wife%20beating%20FM3.htm

          However, it appears from certain Arabic lexicons that the phrase 'Idribohunna' does not necessarily require the preposition 'an' to make the rendition 'shun - turn away from' operative. Therefore, the word 'Idribohunna' in the Quran can still retain the meaning to 'turn away from - shun' without necessitating the requirement of the preposition 'an'.

          Please see the example in the following excerpt below.

          http//s16.postimg.org/6bc8zpfet/a_deep1.jpg

          Source LANE. E.W, Edward Lanes Lexicon, Williams and Norgate 1863; Librairie du Liban Beirut-Lebanon 1968, Volume 5, Page 1779

          This rendering also finds support with the overarching philosophy depicted by the Quran which underscores how marriage institutions should be managed in kindness, respect and without causing harm to one another.

          Other authors have also sought support from trusted Arabic lexicons to make a similar case.

          "Nevertheless, narrowing its meaning in a given instance is not as difficult as it may first seem, because in Arabic verbs acquire various connotations only in combination with specific prepositions. For instance daraba acquires the meaning of "to separate" in combination with baina, and the meaning of "to turn away from," "to leave," "to avoid," and "to shun" in combination with 'an. In the passage in question, daraba is not combined with either of these prepositions. Yet Lane points out that the command form of the verb, udribu, with or without 'an, can mean "ignore," "pay no attention to," or "turn away from," as well as "hit," "beat," or "strike." Hence, udribu-hunna, could mean, "beat them" or "strike them," or alternatively, "turn them away," "ignore them," or "shun them."

          Source LANG. J, Losing My Religion A Call for Help, Amana Publications, First Edition, Page 429 Author Reference Edward Lane, Arabic-English Lexicon, Fredrick Unger Publishing (1956), page 1779, first column, two-thirds down the page.

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            @Aqua

            Take this to anyone with expertise in Arabic - the quote is incorrect and the person has made a mistake

            However, it appears from certain Arabic lexicons that the phrase 'Idribohunna' does not necessarily require the preposition 'an' to make the rendition 'shun - turn away from' operative. Therefore, the word 'Idribohunna' in the Quran can still retain the meaning to 'turn away from - shun' without necessitating the requirement of the preposition 'an'.

            As the dictionary points out - the additional particle is necessary. It is right there in the illustration provided.

            Da Ra Ba require the particle 'An.

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              434 Men are supporters of wives because God gave some of them an advantage over others and because they spent of their wealth. So the females, ones in accord with morality are the females, ones who are morally obligated and the females, ones who guard the unseen of what God kept safe. And those females whose resistance you fear, then admonish them (f) and abandon them (f) in their sleeping places and go away from them (f). Then if they (f) obeyed you, then look not for any way against them (f). Truly, God had been Lofty, Great. (Laleh Bakhtiar)

              I notice a reduplication.

              Red word (abandon) in Arabic is hajara/ahjuru.
              Blue word (go away) in Arabib is daraba.

              If we translate DRB as "go away" then it's just a reduplication of HJR, since this word also means leave, relinquish.

              There is no difference between go away and abandon.

              DRB can be mean hit, war and go out, this is a homonym.

              In FM, DRB translated into "separate", but it's the plausible one even it's not the literal meaning

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                @Aqua

                Take this to anyone with expertise in Arabic - the quote is incorrect and the person has made a mistake

                As the dictionary points out - the additional particle is necessary. It is right there in the illustration provided.

                Da Ra Ba require the particle 'An.

                In the illustration provided, notice the in brackets (it's circled in red) signifying that the word may be used with OR without 'An for that meaning.

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                  In the illustration provided, notice the in brackets (it's circled in red) signifying that the word may be used with OR without 'An for that meaning.

                  No. Please look at the illustration again . . .

                  It says or = to turn away from

                  And the verb Adraba with additional Alif - is a different class of verb.

                  In Western Classification it is verb from IV .

                  More details

                  http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arabic_verbs
                  http//arabic.desert-sky.net/g_vforms.html

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                    No. Please look at the illustration again . . .

                    It says or = to turn away from

                    And the verb Adraba with additional Alif - is a different class of verb.

                    In Western Classification it is verb from IV .

                    More details

                    http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arabic_verbs
                    http//arabic.desert-sky.net/g_vforms.html

                    Well, the verse does use the verb WITH the Alif, so you have no point

                    http//s23.postimg.org/qrixvd43f/4_34.png

                    Are you just arguing for the sake of arguing? The truth is that if you want to beat your wife, you would beat your wife no matter what, you wouldn't care what the Qur'an says.

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                      Peace,

                      Who cares? Who would beat his wife anyway?

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                        Peace,

                        Who cares? Who would beat his wife anyway?

                        Unfortunately many men do, and there are even those hypocrites who try to justify it using the Qur'an.

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                          Well, the verse does use the verb WITH the Alif, so you have no point

                          http//s23.postimg.org/qrixvd43f/4_34.png

                          Are you just arguing for the sake of arguing? The truth is that if you want to beat your wife, you would beat your wife no matter what, you wouldn't care what the Qur'an says.

                          I have degree in Arabic have studied the subject extensively. . . so don't ask me - if I am arguing for the sake of arguing. Try not to get "tetchy" - and then blame even that one me.

                          Note I am not being rude or making personal remarks about you.

                          Now back to the issue

                          The illustration you provide . . . that is using the Arabic Verb Form I in the imperative form. Look this up at the same website . Whereas, the dictionary is pointing to the standard verb in the fourth form .

                          As I originally pointed out - you do not have to take my word for it - please do verify it with someone who know Arabic.

                          I recommend

                          http//forum.wordreference.com/forumdisplay.php?f=41

                          It is impartial language forum and there are several people very good at Arabic.

                          I have also checked the better and simply formatted Hans Wehr - it too equates Verb Form I with 'An - to the verb form IV.

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                            I have degree in Arabic have studied the subject extensively. . . so don't ask me - if I am arguing for the sake of arguing. Try not to get "tetchy" - and then blame even that one me.

                            Note I am not being rude or making personal remarks about you.

                            Now back to the issue

                            The illustration you provide . . . that is using the Arabic Verb Form I in the imperative form. Look this up at the same website . Whereas, the dictionary is pointing to the standard verb in the fourth form .

                            As I originally pointed out - you do not have to take my word for it - please do verify it with someone who know Arabic.

                            I recommend

                            http//forum.wordreference.com/forumdisplay.php?f=41

                            It is impartial language forum and there are several people very good at Arabic.

                            I have also checked the better and simply formatted Hans Wehr - it too equates Verb Form I with 'An - to the verb form IV.

                            All the sources I have seen including the links you provided show that Verb Form 4 requires a Hamza symbol above the Alif like this , but the dictionary does not make use of this symbol in the definition. Hence, the illustration is not necessarily referring to Verb Form 4. This is not just an incidental omission because Lane's dictionary does make use of Hamza on Alif elsewhere in other definitions.

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                              All the sources I have seen including the links you provided show that Verb Form 4 requires a Hamza symbol above the Alif like this , but the dictionary does not make use of this symbol in the definition. Hence, the illustration is not necessarily referring to Verb Form 4. This is not just an incidental omission because Lane's dictionary does make use of Hamza on Alif elsewhere in other definitions.

                              And if you review the illustration you provided - then notice it too carries the Hamzah Walsi sign on top for the imperative command verb.

                              As to the Lane's dictionary - it do not talk about Imperative Verbs - that is Form IV - see the dictionary Hans Wehr - it too omits the Hamza sign and simply uses the Alif.


                              Imperative form of the verb is a derived form - it makes absolutely no sense for the command form not to carry the same particles - this does not happen in Arabic


                              Take this link

                              http//arabic.desert-sky.net/g_vforms.html

                              Now for the form 4 - this uses the word Kharaja - Akhraja.

                              Then check this on Lane's. You will notice the dictionary's use of the Hamaza Wasl is erratic - it uses it on some words and not the others - yet the discussion is still about the same word in form 4.


                              Also - go back to Da Ra Ba root in the Lane's Lexicon. There look up the Form 4 for this verb - again - you will notice Lane's is erratic regarding the little Hamza sign - on some it is there on some it isn't.


                              This is not just an incidental omission because Lane's dictionary does make use of Hamza on Alif elsewhere in other definitions.

                              Simply not true.

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                                The_Chimp,

                                I am still waiting for the Prayer debate! What happened to that?

                                I was waiting for people to join in, as I clearly said. Updated http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9606088.msg346685#msg346685

                                ...by pointing to a document showing Muslims did not pray before the order of 5 prayers came along!

                                The above is a lie against me. See forum rule 3, and please correct it
                                http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8177.0

                                All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                  The_Chimp
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                                  The_Chimp,

                                  I was waiting for people to join in, as I clearly said. Updated http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9606088.msg346685#msg346685

                                  The above is a lie against me. See forum rule 3, and please correct it
                                  http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8177.0

                                  It is not a lie - but a mistake in that I meant to say - "did not pray 5" - Hence

                                  ...by pointing to a document showing Muslims did not pray 5 before the order of 5 prayers came along!


                                  As to pointing out rule 3!

                                  Jeez! I get a lot of abuse . . . far stronger . . . I hope you are "as" diligent when I put a complaint in.

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                                    And if you review the illustration you provided - then notice it too carries the Hamzah Walsi sign on top for the imperative command verb.

                                    As to the Lane's dictionary - it do not talk about Imperative Verbs - that is Form IV - see the dictionary Hans Wehr - it too omits the Hamza sign and simply uses the Alif.

                                    Imperative form of the verb is a derived form - it makes absolutely no sense for the command form not to carry the same particles - this does not happen in Arabic

                                    Take this link

                                    http//arabic.desert-sky.net/g_vforms.html

                                    Now for the form 4 - this uses the word Kharaja - Akhraja.

                                    Then check this on Lane's. You will notice the dictionary's use of the Hamaza Wasl is erratic - it uses it on some words and not the others - yet the discussion is still about the same word in form 4.

                                    Also - go back to Da Ra Ba root in the Lane's Lexicon. There look up the Form 4 for this verb - again - you will notice Lane's is erratic regarding the little Hamza sign - on some it is there on some it isn't.

                                    A very strong refutation to your 'Verb Grammar' argument is the following. It shows how the meaning of 'leave / separate' in the Lexicon can apply here even if it is referring to the 4th Form Verb

                                    We have to remember that the first written versions of the Quran had no
                                    vocalisation, in other words, they left out short vowels and other signs
                                    that tell us how to read the letters that are written. Arabic verbs have
                                    many forms with different meanings, like the English verbs press -
                                    repress depress pressurize.

                                    One of the things that is used to mark
                                    these forms is a letter alif at the beginning, which marks the 4th form of
                                    the verb. You can think of the alif as a standard suffix, like English re-
                                    or de-

                                    But heres the crunch the aleph at the beginning is also the marker
                                    for the imperative (and of the interrogative, but that is not relevant
                                    here), so in a text without the short vowels written, an imperative looks
                                    the same as the 4th form of the verb, and also the same as the imperative
                                    of the 4th form (because the alif is not doubled, one alif does both
                                    jobs).

                                    The verb in this case is d-r-b. Daraba means he beat. So the meaning of
                                    the first form is beat, while one of the meanings of the 4th form is
                                    leave.

                                    The form in this verse of the Quran is | D r b

                                    This could mean, you must beat (imperative of first form). Or it
                                    could mean you leave or it could mean you must leave

                                    If we take it as an imperative of the 4th form, it would be
                                    pronounced ad.ribuu-hunna and the translation would be you (masculine
                                    plural you&#8217 shall withdraw from them.

                                    Sequentially he tells them first to admonish their wives, then
                                    refuse to share their beds, then withdraw from them, then (next
                                    verse) appoint arbiters from the families. That is a logical
                                    progression.

                                    Source http//senmcglinn.wordpress.com/email-archive/beat-your-wives/

                                    Undoubtedly you will now claim that your Arabic knowledge is better and that the above is incorrect. But religious obstinacy can make a person persist in falsehood no matter how much they are proven wrong.

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                                      A very strong refutation to your 'Verb Grammar' argument is the following. It shows how the meaning of 'leave / separate' in the Lexicon can apply here even if it is referring to the 4th Form Verb

                                      Read this back to yourself . . . it is somewhat contradictory. On one hand - you admit I am right to point out that and on the other you attempt, dogmatically, to hold on to your former position. Result? The above contradictory statement.

                                      The question regarding the verb is simple. I even gave you means to verify it by an impartial Arabic language forum.

                                      Undoubtedly you will now claim that your Arabic knowledge is better and that the above is incorrect. But religious obstinancy can make a person persist in falsehood no matter how much they are proven wrong.

                                      Such statements are disingenuous by type. Why don't you wait for my response? What it shows is that you fear my Arabic actually is better and if you do bring forth another reply, which, if like others, is proven to be incorrect - then - that will leave you in dilemma.

                                      Are you saying by above that it does not matter what I reply . . . you are going to carry on believing whatever you fee like?

                                      But religious obstinancy can make a person persist in falsehood no matter how much they are proven wrong.

                                      Could you point out in what you have proven me wrong? How deceptive! Look at the previous exchange. What is it I am wrong about?

                                      Please do explain.

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                                        Could you point out in what you have proven me wrong? How deceptive! Look at the previous exchange. What is it I am wrong about?

                                        You claimed that since the dictionaries refer to 4th Form Verb, this makes it impossible to apply that meaning to verse 434. I showed you how grammatically it is possible to apply a 4th Form Verb to verse 434. You made a misinformed point about the grammar in the Qur'an.

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                                          peace, brothers and sisters,

                                          After a lot of research into 434 of The Quran and the meaning of DaRaBa, I have finally finished a 1st draft of my study

                                          Please take your time to review it, as it is over 40 pages in length. There are a few minor points within it that still need verified/clarified, these are in purple font. As a side note, it was a very interesting journey completing this work, something which I did not initially intend to write, but as my discoveries mounted up, it soon became something that I simply had to write and publish.

                                          All feedback is welcome, especially any corrections.

                                          Once it has been reviewed, a dedicated site and promotional tools will accompany it.

                                          EDIT above link does not work now, website is www.Quran434.com

                                          Good effort and good work Wakas. Probably the most comprehensive analysis of a single topic I have seen.

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