If "Only Allah", then "Allah Alone" is our watchword
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My personal doctor is a good doctor and I trust him. He is not only a submitter but also a believer. When he treats me and my family, the first verse he would use is "in the name of ALLAH, MOST GRACIOUS, MOST MERCIFUL".
There is an observation to be made here. Your family doctor is a good doctor for he is a submitter to and a believer in Allah alone; so Allah has blessed the doctor with certain curative power from Him; and this is a Sign not only unto your family doctor but unto you too from Allah; and the blessed doctor remembers Allah while he is treating his patients, invoking Allah's Names such as Rahman and Rahim. At the end of the successful treatment the doctor would have definitely praised Allah, All glory be to Him and Him alone.
You will know Allah has blessed your doctor as a Sign for others that they believe too in Allah alone; and has not blessed the EBOO medicine and the therapeutic procedure of man. If Allah has blessed the EBOO therapy, then any man could successfully have used it, be he a believer or a non believer. Allah is needless to have a help in man invented procedure to cure you; therein is a test for the believers - as Allah keenly watches, if one is glorifying Allah alone or EBOO therapy too along with.
As for O3, in EBOO theraphy, it is use to cleanse the blood by means of dialysis type of procedure. O3 is used to cleanse the blood before infuse back into the body. I have done it for almost 10 years. PRAISE BE TO ALLAH, I am in good condition.
Allah purifies whom He will; if we say O3 like dialysis type of treatment cleanses us, it is our faulty recognition; if you see in the above narration, you take EBOO to the front, before praising Allah. Strike off EBOO and bring Allah's Praise to the fore. You will be much better off in the days to come till the end of your life. And you claim to have lived for 10 years because of EBOO, then secondarily you Praise Allah, while Allah has kept you hale and hearty all along. Try praising Allah first, then the EBOO automatically vanishes into oblivion.
My self and my family and thousands of individuals, many with their families who believed and praise Allah alone in this way are living a great life for more than 15 years or so. I have been out of medicines since 35 years; my son, daughter and my wife 30 years now, are free of medicines and without a disease; by Allah, we do not know or we had forgotten what a disease would be like.
And I have disowned my doctors' profession though it was earning me quite a fortune. Then I became a pauper; yet Allah saved me from all misfortunes. "O Allah help me and the people who believed with me to rely on You alone more than ever before."
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There is an observation to be made here. Your family doctor is a good doctor for he is a submitter to and a believer in Allah alone; so Allah has blessed the doctor with certain curative power from Him; and this is a Sign not only unto your family doctor but unto you too from Allah; and the blessed doctor remembers Allah while he is treating his patients, invoking Allah's Names such as Rahman and Rahim. At the end of the successful treatment the doctor would have definitely praised Allah, All glory be to Him and Him alone.
You will know Allah has blessed your doctor as a Sign for others that they believe too in Allah alone; and has not blessed the EBOO medicine and the therapeutic procedure of man. If Allah has blessed the EBOO therapy, then any man could successfully have used it, be he a believer or a non believer. Allah is needless to have a help in man invented procedure to cure you; therein is a test for the believers - as Allah keenly watches, if one is glorifying Allah alone or EBOO therapy too along with.
My self and my family and thousands of individuals, many with their families who believed and praise Allah alone in this way are living a great life for more than 15 years or so. I have been out of medicines since 35 years; my son, daughter and my wife 30 years now, are free of medicines and without a disease; by Allah, we do not know or we had forgotten what a disease would be like.
And I have disowned my doctors' profession though it was earning me quite a fortune. Then I became a pauper; yet Allah saved me from all misfortunes. "O Allah help me and the people who believed with me to rely on You alone more than ever before."
The Quran 9605 - Taught man that which he knew not.
The medical knowledge that you earn is a gift from ALLAH. HE taught you all that you know as being a Doctor. And you threw away all? Why not use it for the benefit of others, by saving lives.
What happen if someone you know was shot in front of you and still alive bleeding. As a doctor what will you do. Let him die? Or you will do what you were taught to stop the bleeding? If you save one life is as though you save all human being...The Quran 0532
....and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people.
Allah purifies whom He will; if we say O3 like dialysis type of treatment cleanses us, it is our faulty recognition; if you see in the above narration, you take EBOO to the front, before praising Allah. Strike off EBOO and bring Allah's Praise to the fore. You will be much better off in the days to come till the end of your life. And you claim to have lived for 10 years because of EBOO, then secondarily you Praise Allah, while Allah has kept you hale and hearty all along. Try praising Allah first, then the EBOO automatically vanishes into oblivion.
Is it not I praise my ALLAH first? I praise ALLAH for everything he has given me. EBOO comes from ALLAH. I praise ALLAH for the tremendous knowledge that is with HIM. HE IS A PHYSICIAN, A SURGEON, A CIVIL & SRUCTURAL ENGINEER, AN ELECTRICAL ENGINEER, A MECHANICAL ENGINEER, A METALURGY, A NUCLEAR ENGINEER.....ETC, ETC, ETC
They said, "Exalted are YOU; we have no knowledge except what YOU have taught us. Indeed, it is YOU who is the Knowing, the Wise."
Mankind are nothing. If one artery is cut off in a man's body, everything about him goes haywire! Every knowledge that a man process comes from HIM. HE gave it to us so that we can do good to others.
You are a doctor but you threw away the knowledge that HE has given. What I see is arrogance and defiance. I don't see anything humble about you. You and all those people that you mislead will be answerable to ALLAH!
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The Quran 9605 - Taught man that which he knew not.
Allah teaches man further than, and farther than, and greater than that which he knows and grant man a higher wisdom that he knew not thus far. Let him then believe in Allah's wisdom alone is what Allah means by the above ayat. I do not know what you mean to convey by pasting this ayat here.
The medical knowledge that you earn is a gift from ALLAH. HE taught you all that you know as being a Doctor. And you threw away all? Why not use it for the benefit of others, by saving lives.You are a doctor but you threw away the knowledge that HE has given. What I see is arrogance and defiance. I don't see anything humble about you. You and all those people that you mislead will be answerable to ALLAH!
But is it not the same thing you had done with the entire medical profession while your wife asked the lady with cancer to do away with the doctors and follow only 'eboo' treatment with your good family doctor? Are not the doctors of the medical profession whom you abandoned also having the same god endowed gift as your family doctor? Can you give me an answer why you made the lady to avoid the doctors endowed with god's gift?
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Allah teaches man further than, and farther than, and greater than that which he knows and grant man a higher wisdom that he knew not thus far. Let him then believe in Allah's wisdom alone is what Allah means by the above ayat. I do not know what you mean to convey by pasting this ayat here.
Exactly as what you have written. You are one of them in case you don't know. I envy you for being a doctor. Do you know that in my country, its not easy to be one! My son had just completed his studies in Medical Science @ Diploma level. He score 3.8 out of 4 GPA. Unfortunately, he cannot enrol into the local university to further his studies in Medicine. The only way is to get in a foreign university. That is going to cause me a bomb! ALLAH has given the knowledge and you threw it back at HIM! If you think that you are right than so be it. I have no more argument with you. No offence Dr Fazl, appreciate if you drop your title as a Doctor. Just call yourself Mr Fazl. That will be nicer.
But is it not the same thing you had done with the entire medical profession while your wife asked the lady with cancer to do away with the doctors and follow only 'eboo' treatment with your good family doctor? Are not the doctors of the medical profession whom you abandoned also having the same god endowed gift as your family doctor? Can you give me an answer why you made the lady to avoid the doctors endowed with god's gift?
Did I say lady with cancer? Anyway, two different things,
1] People who call themselves doctors but did not perform what they are suppose to as a doctor. What they did is only for the money. they don't bother whether you get well or not. Let me tell you of one example of a friend of mine who was operated on because of heart attack. At that time he was 51 years old. The choke to his arteries is because of cholesterol. The doctor who attended to him, has no other ways except insist on performing a by pass even after the pain to his chest has reduce due to a drug the doctor prescribed by putting it under his tongue. I am not sure what is the name of that drug. That operation cause him between $50,000 to $70000
2] People who call themselves doctors and they perform their job sincerely in the name of ALLAH. Yes they make some money because they need to survive. Their medical charges is not high. Their main concern is to save lives. Another friend of mine, also in his fifties, same problem as the above, when he saw my doctor, immediately the doctor carried out EBOO. One treatment cause him $200. My friend need to go twice a month for 6 months. After that, he just need to go twice a year as "maintenance" to his body system.
Salam Dr Fazl,
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The Quran 9605 - Taught man that which he knew not.
The medical knowledge that you earn is a gift from ALLAH. HE taught you all that you know as being a Doctor. And you threw away all? Why not use it for the benefit of others, by saving lives.
peace Hizbullah,
drfazl left allopathy profession after practicing for 8 years after having known there is nothing but evil in it. as a staunch believer he by the leave of Allah then learnt and practiced homeopathy because it seemed superior to allopathy; then left that for, he was not fully satisfied with that too; then he by the leave of Allah practiced acupuncture in a unique way, the world never knew 965 as taught by Allah curing tens of thousands freeing the patients from allopathy totally. he also taught this method of treatment to thousands of patients who came to him free of cost because his only aim was that allopathy cannot fit to be a curative treatment for mankind especially. those who learnt acupuncture from him are successful in their profession. later, when patients started talking about him to others as god by which they themselves committed shirk, fearing Allah he left acupuncture totally to free himself from the practitioners of acupuncture. and by Allah's grace further, he started teaching them how to get healed by the leave of Allah. now, again innumerable people with their families are leading a life without medicines and doctors.
he threw away his medical profession and is helping many to lead a life without any kind of medical system, believing only in Allah. his way of life inspired many medical doctors too and made them understand the truth about the modern medicine. some of the inspired doctors who came for treatment from him are following the path of Allah as a Curer along with their families. his signature http//foolproofcure.net will give you further details how he is inspiring many in the path of God.
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So what do you do if you get poisoned by a brown recluse spider? You don't go to the doctor?
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peace Hizbullah,
drfazl left allopathy profession after practicing for 8 years after having known there is nothing but evil in it. as a staunch believer he by the leave of Allah then learnt and practiced homeopathy because it seemed superior to allopathy; then left that for, he was not fully satisfied with that too; then he by the leave of Allah practiced acupuncture in a unique way, the world never knew 965 as taught by Allah curing tens of thousands freeing the patients from allopathy totally. he also taught this method of treatment to thousands of patients who came to him free of cost because his only aim was that allopathy cannot fit to be a curative treatment for mankind especially. those who learnt acupuncture from him are successful in their profession. later, when patients started talking about him to others as god by which they themselves committed shirk, fearing Allah he left acupuncture totally to free himself from the practitioners of acupuncture. and by Allah's grace further, he started teaching them how to get healed by the leave of Allah. now, again innumerable people with their families are leading a life without medicines and doctors.
he threw away his medical profession and is helping many to lead a life without any kind of medical system, believing only in Allah. his way of life inspired many medical doctors too and made them understand the truth about the modern medicine. some of the inspired doctors who came for treatment from him are following the path of Allah as a Curer along with their families. his signature http//foolproofcure.net will give you further details how he is inspiring many in the path of God.
Salaam DrGM,
Thank you brother for sharing this.
bravo bravo to brother Dr.FazlMay Allah shower His blessing upon all of us and guide us on His path pr
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Here is a problem of one of our brothers, whose identity I am not revealing because it is a pm. Yet it is important how to judge a situation in the light of Quran, it should be a situational effort to apply the Quran and the essence of its verses with reference to the context of the people involved. Here is the situation
Assalamu alaykum,
I have a personal problem and I would really appreciate if you could give me some advice. I tried to know as to what to do but cannot do it on my own. My sister-in-law had extramarital affair for a year. This happened two years ago. Her husband threw her out for this and that's how we the family came to know about it. We told him that if he wants a divorce she has to stay in his house for three periods according to the Quran (222. But he took her back when she repented and fasted for two complete months as a punishment (although in Quran this is for accidental murder not adultery but it was her choice). They now live peacefully and even have another baby together.
Answer What your brother did was perfect according to Quran; and what your sister-in-law did observing two months fasting with repentance, as a salvation to her sin is absolutely beautiful in the eyes of Allah. Your sister in law decided to fast for two consecutive months because she understood the pain she had inflicted to her husband?s heart and that she had almost killed her husband. Allah is most Forgiving, Merciful. Allah has forgiven the couple, has given peaceful life from Him, and also Allah had blessed them with another baby as a Sign from Him and of His Grace.
My problem is I don't know how to act towards her - we are being kind to her but I am thinking that maybe we are wrong in doing so (in the ayat about adultery it says we shouldn't have pity if we believe in Allah - but I'm not sure what this ayat means and how are we suppose to follow it). Someone said that maybe there weren't believers around and that's why the punishment never took place so does this mean I am not a believer?
Answer You shall have no problem at all when Allah has Himself Forgiven them by His Mercy; and do not entertain your mind regarding this, that too after one year of their happiest living, only by His leave. Extend your fairness and pleasantness toward your sister in law; Allah will absolve you from your future sins. And here is the warning from Allah
24.14 And now, and forever, had it not been for the grace and mercy of Allah, a severe punishment would have seized you because of your mental involvement in this affair.
I don't want to be rude and judge people - she repented and it is between her and Allah...Whenever she wants to visit I have this trouble and think that I should leave the house until she goes away or not accept her in.
Answer You have no business in the life of the blessed couple; nor you will set out of your house to nowhere. You will accept the blessed couple.
What is your advice? Did we do the right thing in accepting her with her mistakes after she repented, or we mistaken for not being little more harsh towards her (in the light of Quran)?
Thank you for your time.
Answer I think you know the answer by now.
If brothers here in this forum extend your views too, it would be of much help to the brother who had asked this questionnaire. He might choose what seems best and clear to his heart.
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So what do you do if you get poisoned by a brown recluse spider? You don't go to the doctor?
Problem with many of us is we are seeing Allah out of his creation, He is everything here, guiding us through His mercy and goodness for ever. But we are week, minute, powerless, knowledge-less compared to HIM who is 100%. We accept this and at times of sufferings we seek for his blessings and guidance, He will show his mercy through a good Doctor, Friend or the Malaikkahs(nature) and many more of his other creations.
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Ummul KitabThe Pre-determined Book
13.39 Allah effaces what He will and establishes what He will; and with Him is the ?predetermined Book?@.
@ He is Allah who is watchful of everything each one earns. And they are on a clear record, the Book of witness to each one?s deeds, the mother of all Books. In it is the prescription for a term as to his redemption and reward for his repentance and allegiance 5/39; or a decree for his disobedience at the end of the term 29/21, specific for each individual. In 57/22 Allah says Whatever that occurs in the earth and in you does not happen without a decree, pre-determined before it happens.
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Salaam drfazl,
As per your friend/brother's case, I would like to add the following.
Please study 2568, 69 and 70 carefully. It includes zina and also forgiveness when one repents.
This is purely between her and Allah and when Allah wanted to forgive such people who are we to interfere and go against it.
May Allah increase our knowledge and guide us on His path pr
mmKhan -
Problem with many of us is we are seeing Allah out of his creation, He is everything here, guiding us through His mercy and goodness for ever. But we are week, minute, powerless, knowledge-less compared to HIM who is 100%. We accept this and at times of sufferings we seek for his blessings and guidance, He will show his mercy through a good Doctor, Friend or the Malaikkahs(nature) and many more of his other creations.
Indeed.
Salaam
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False HistoriesAgainst True Incidents?
14.9 Have not the news about the people of Nuh, Aad, Samud who went before and that of the people who followed them, come to you? None shall know about them except Allah@; and their messengers brought to them clear proof; but they took their hands to their mouths and said, ?We certainly deny that which you are sent with; and we are in serious doubt concerning to what you call us.?
@ Apart from every messenger and prophet and their communities said in the Book, there are a great many number of people, communities and nations not mentioned in it. Allah says all the News about those people should have come to you, directly from Allah, had you asked about them from Allah, without seeking to invent stories and wanton documentation of the lies as histories about them. Allah says none but He has the truth@ about that which you invented and preserved as histories. If we are believers in the All Knowing, All Encompassing, let us turn to Him for the truth about the histories as enshrined in the Book.
The lesson Keep off from all Hadiths of all people's historical evidences. God only knows the real conflict between the Germans and the Jews.
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Salaam brother mmkhan,
Surely they 25 68, 69 and 70 and 71 add to the Truthful Sign of Allah that we have no business in others' matters for all affairs return to Allah and Allah is Oft Relenting, Most Merciful. Thanks a lot brother.
Salaam brother drfazl,
AlhamduliAllah!
You are very welcome handshakeMay Allah increase our knowledge and guide us on His path pr
mmKhan -
Here is a problem of one of our brothers
They now live peacefully and even have another baby together.Answer What your brother did was perfect according to Quran
; and what your sister-in-law did observing two months fasting with repentance, as a salvation to her sin
is absolutely beautiful in the eyes of Allah.
because she understood the pain she had inflicted
Allah has forgiven the couple
Allah had blessed them with another baby as a Sign from Him and of His Grace.
(in the ayat about adultery it says we shouldn't have pity if we believe in Allah - but I'm not sure what this ayat means and how are we suppose to follow it).
so does this mean I am not a believer?
Answer You shall have no problem at all when Allah has Himself Forgiven them by His Mercy; and do not entertain your mind regarding this
Allah will absolve you from your future sins.
would have seized you because of your mental involvement in this affair.
Answer You have no business in the life of the blessed couple; nor you will set out of your house to nowhere. You will accept the blessed couple.
or we mistaken for not being little more harsh towards her (in the light of Quran)?
Answer I think you know the answer by now.
If brothers here in this forum extend your views too, it would be of much help to the brother who had asked this questionnaire. He might choose what seems best and clear to his heart.
To his heart? Does the heart provide the right answers always? What then of the "diseased" hearts that are spoken of so often?
Besides your other blasphemies, you've added to your list here by speaking on behalf of Allah as if you have some secret knowledge regarding what Allah thinks, when even Jesus said he does not know what is in the thoughts of Allah. Really, look at how you have no hesitation to pronounce things as if you know. Would a believer, who should fear Allah, speak on Allah's behalf as you have here? To top it off, instead of showing what the Qur'an says on the matter, you make up your own rules. Why are you such a huge blasphemer in every regard? Should anyone follow your advice? Remember what is supposed to be the case of those who followed Pharoah? They are said to continue to follow him, and he takes them to a watering hole in hell. I'm not saying you're going to hell, I don't know where you are going or even where you are now, but I can say out of my gross compassion for you (I could just leave you without warning you at all so that you increase in your sins as you seem to anyway) that you should beware of the way you are talking.
I posted what you said boldly and dangerously above.
It is considered a grave sin by the standards mentioned in the Qur'an to make statements on behalf of Allah when Allah has not given you any such position to do so. All I've said before (which you seemed to reject) was that Allah alone has all the power, there is no other power but Allah (that is the essence of all Islam) but what you did is different, you pronounced your own little proclamations of what Allah is thinking and has done. You have no right to do so, people are supposed to be punished horribly in the afterlife for less than that. It annoys me to even try to help you, but it is more important for me to speak rightly, also so that the other people notice and can be aware and correct themselves and stay away from the mode of speech which you used here in making bold proclamations of what Allah is thinking and doing.
If the Brother is viewing this, and he probably isn't (so if someone can show him what I wrote, and he can email me at [email protected]), his doubts and concerns are because he is genuinely concerned it seems, whereas for drfazl its easy to just say what Allah is thinking or whatever apparently.
Look at this blasphemy
"What your brother did is perfect according to the Quran" he said. What? It is perfect according to the Quran to disobey what the Qur'an says explicitly? The Qur'an says to punish them, and not to have compassion or pity in the matter. He had compassion in the matter and she was not punished. I too would have probably not punished her, but that doesn't mean it is "perfect according to the Quran", not at all, the Qur'an has given explicit instructions on this matter.
Next blasphemy from the one who tells people to harm their bodies and perpetuate disease
There is no guarantee whatsoever her fasting counted for anything, it is for Allah to decide, not "drfazl" who knows nothing at all and is an extraordinary blasphemer and leader towards harm.
It may count for something, but drfazl doesn't know for certain, nor does anyone but Allah. This is the correct way to think of the matter, not in bold lies to yourself.
Then the blasphemer said "absolutely beautiful in the eyes of Allah". What do you know about the sight of Allah and how Allah views any of it? What if Allah views what she did as horrific and her avoidance of the punishment and her fasting even to be an unrighteous effort? Allah knows, and you do not not know, so how dare you say what is "absolutely beautiful in the eyes of Allah"? Huh? Cease and desist, or continue your blasphemy and see what comes of it. You, like many of those before you, might be given a long and happy rein in this life, lots of rope in your trespasses, so that you say "I must be right, look at how I am not harmed while the others suffer".
There is no guarantee she has been "saved" by her fasting or anything else. Abraham never stopped asking that his prayers be accepted, they all continued to ask for forgiveness, there is no guarantee, even when Allah has said a thing, it is up to Allah to make it so or not, and Allah has not said to you "she is forgiven" and even if you heard a voice in your head say that, there is no guarantee that is true or not.
You have no knowledge of what Allah is doing or if Allah has forgiven her or accepted her efforts or any of that, her efforts may be fraud, she may still be evil, Allah knows, you don't know. The angels don't even know, but drfazl can make proclamations and say what Allah is thinking and doing?
"Because she understood the pain she caused" oh really? Was that on her mind when she was cheating? She understood the pain so she simply didn't eat much as if she did an accidental murder? The penalty for deliberate murder can be death. She didn't do an accidental murder, she did a deliberate and conscious crime, and she did not receive the punishment mentioned in the Qur'an, so where do you come in announcing that "Allah has forgiven the couple". Who says? drfazl says? You have no knowledge of that, Judgment day has not occurred even, but you know even less as you don't even know these people!
Then you say "Allah had blessed them with another baby as a Sign from Him and of His Grace."
Haha, what? You are announcing this is necessarily a good sign? Again, what do you know?
Do you remember this verse in the Qur'an?
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O ye who believe! Truly, among your wives and your children are (some that are) enemies to yourselves so beware of them! But if ye forgive and overlook, and cover up (their faults), verily Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.It doesn't say "Allah surely forgives those you forgive", but it does say that even the children can be enemies or a test or even a cause of suffering. There is nothing about all children being a necessarily good thing. It has further bound him to this adultress too, there could be many angles to this, and what the bottom line comes to is you and I don't know. drfazl does not know, can you comprehend that? Let me say it again so that you get it through your free-mind, drfazl does not know, drfazl does not know anything much at all.
Is that hard for you to swallow after your blasphemous proclamations above? I'm offering you a gift, of right thinking in regard to religion, will you refuse it? What is the gift? The gift is this "drfazl does not know, Allah knows, drfazl does not know". Take the gift, and absorb the understanding that you do not know, so can't make proclamations like you have. Will you cease in your crimes? I doubt it, but I don't know, maybe you will, if Allah wants you to stop blaspheming and start thinking right, but calling you is like calling someone far away, the fog in between us is caused by the gas that puffs you up into thinking it is perfectly fine to make proclamations like you have here "Allah forgives them" "Allah thinks this is beautiful" what in the world are you talking about?
Even the brother who is foolishly asking advice from you, you who is among the worst of the evildoers on this website for aforementioned reasons (leading people to harming themselves potentially and the perpetuation of diseases, among many other great crimes and blasphemies, a genuine evildoer and criminal for doing that, really, really bad even though you might be doing it out of some skewed sense of piety without any regard to the implications involved, then boldly proclaiming things on behalf of Allah to complete the package of a thoroughly bad character), even that brother had more knowledge than you when he remembered the verse in the Qur'an mentioning no pity in the matter of punishment for this (for logical reasons too).
I feel bad even telling you how bad you are because you're probably some elderly fellow, it hurts my feelings to be so harsh with you, but you are honestly a terrible, evil person for what you are doing. Evil means "harmful" and what you are doing is indeed very clearly "harmful". Please stop. I wish I didn't even have this much mercy to try to correct you, but everyone should see what is wrong, so just like Pharoah is used as an example in the Qur'an, drfazl can be used as an example too, though maybe you can have a better story by correcting your habits, it only takes a small adjustment of being more wary in your speech regarding Allah's views. Just know you can not speak as if you are speaking on behalf of Allah, saying that Allah has forgiven, Allah views this or that as beautiful, or whatever. This is a particular case, and you don't know what Allah's views are on anything ever. Even if the Qur'an says something, you can only say "The Qur'an says such and such here" but you can't say what it definitely means or what Allah meant by it for certain or how it definitely applies to this case either. You can bring up points, you can say "maybe", but you never know if Allah has put something there for this reason or that reason. Just reduce that boldness for your own sake.
The brother asked "so does this mean I am not a believer?". Look, this guy is genuinely concerned, and that concern indicates to me that he seems to be more afraid than you, drfazl the fearless, and should seek advice from someone better than you and less bold and prone to blurting out things they have no knowledge of whatsoever in a fashion that indicates you have some knowledge regarding Allah's views on this matter.
So if someone can tell the brother to look at what I've said here. He should know in his case that behaving decently is fine for him, but he should be reserved too and if he fears that Allah will view him badly and that it would be better he is not around when she visits, then he might be best served by doing that, but I don't think anything like that is mentioned in the Qur'an really. This case was about your brother forgiving his wife and taking her back and her not being punished. Luckily this woman is not your wife or anything, so I would think the best way is just to behave normally and decently, whatever you think is most noble and dignified on your part when dealing with believers or disbelievers, and a good guiding factor is also to consider how you might want to be treated and forgiven. The rest is up to the husband and Allah, I don't think this is a matter really pertaining the other relatives necessarily, and there is no indication in the Qur'an that says you need to be the one to whip her butt over this issue. She is a disgusting human being, but there are many disgusting human beings in this world, many of whom might visit this website. You are more likely to do wrong by being rude or harmful towards her than in being decent and reserved, so take the path that is safest and least daring, and Allah knows, and you do not know, and whenever you see her or remember, ask for your own forgiveness and to be saved from evil and evil actions (and you can include to be saved from being like drfazl, because he is an example of some of the worst qualities that can come about).
drfazl goes way too far, as he tends to, by calling them "the blessed couple" and then saying "you will" do this or that. drfazl has no knowledge if they are truly "blessed" or not, they may be "cursed" for all he knows, he knows nothing much, nor is he in a position to command what you will do, nor does he know what you will do.
"I think you know the answer by now" which is that drfazl knows very little, and is far too bold in his statements, exaggerating and making claims he has no knowledge of regarding Allah's views or what Allah is doing.
Finally, he mentions the "heart", and remember that the "heart" is not at all a guide to right action whatsoever, because it is the same thing that the Qur'an calls "diseased" in many people, and many people say "my heart tells me to do this" and they are wrong or they say "my heart says Jesus is the son of God" and they are exaggerators and liars, similar perhaps to drfazl.
drfazl, I told you what makes me angry, why don't you make me happy for once by responding by correcting your habits and simply saying "I have heeded the warning, I will try to correct my speech patterns" you can even throw in "my intentions were good", because I do think your intentions at least probably are good, but what you do, regardless of any intentions you may have, is fully evil. Haha the song I'm listening even is saying right now "there is an evil inside" and mentions a "darkness in the mind" which is what I'm talking about.
If it is unclear what I am telling you, I am telling you and everyone here you should be careful not to say "Allah views it this way" "Allah has forgiven such and such" or any such other things of which you have no knowledge.
Furthermore, cease and desist with your criminal activities, such as leading people to potentially harming themselves or their family members by not receiving medical help which if received fast enough may prevent further damage to the body in some cases, and is part of the fight against the perpetuation of disease. Do not continue your disease spreading, backwards talk, leading people to harm, understand the implications. I've even shown you so much from the Qur'an which you basically ignored or considered irrelevent.
Remember, I strongly dislike you, because you are a very bad person (because of what you say and how you say it too).
I'm more tolerant of other members here because they are just mentally deficient or whatever, but they don't go around telling people to genuinely harm themselves potentially in ways that might damage their bodies, then topping that off with uttering shirk as your justification for the ideas, then topping even that off by making bold proclamations saying that Allah has forgiven such and such and whatever.
Get it under control if you can. You probably won't be able to though, as you may be crazy or something.
The Qur'an basically uses the term "mentally ill" more than any other religious book it seems, since the "heart" seems to refer to the "understanding" of people, the place of their thoughts and comprehension, and then calls it "diseased" in many cases, so literally saying "mentally ill" "diseased place of understanding" "diseased mind".
If you can't get it under control, then it may be that you're just mentally diseased, and there is perhaps no helping or saving you, but at least people can see what is written here and be wary of following the same path.