Why I'm so weird and shy? I see people become friends...
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Peace to everyone
Brothers and sisters, Everywhere I go, be it the school or a picnic, I see people naturally get along. But it looks like something so simple, is yet so complicated for me. I just can't make friends. When people introduce me, the only thing they all say about me is this "well, he is such a Nice guy"
They dont say he is smart or strong or any other praiseworthy quality. But they just say that I'm Nice. Like a little kitten.I don't know what's wrong. Why people around me see me as weird. To the counturary, I believe I always try to be nice to everyone and help everyone and yet nobody accepts me.
Peace
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When people introduce me, the only thing they all say about me is this "well, he is such a Nice guy"
They dont say he is smart or strong or any other praiseworthy quality.That should make you happy, my dear brother/friend, Hansolo,
because "All-Praise is absolutely and only to AL-LAH" (=28/70)If someone starts to praise me how smart or strong or handsome or even nice I am yay
that person can never be my real friend, because he/she is a liar peace
I seek not the liars. (=9/119)...........
I don't know what's wrong. Why people around me see me as weird.
To the counturary, I believe I always try to be nice to everyone and help everyone and yet nobody accepts me.Peace
Perhaps, that may be what makes you seem a little bit "weird," ) my dear Brother/Friend,
because perhaps, you should not always try to be so "nice" to everyone,
instead just be yourself, be truthful, sincere, honest, and sometimes bluntly truthful (when it is necessary),
but always absolutely sincere, compassionate, loving in your heart every human-being --(because all of us are created by AL-LAH)--
then we may have lots of good/reliable/honest/truthful friends, hopefully, inshaAL-LAH.group
(=QURAN TESTAMENT 9/119 & 4/86, 114 & 60/8 & 13/15 & .........)
Remain in peace/salaam.
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Peace to everyone
Brothers and sisters, Everywhere I go, be it the school or a picnic, I see people naturally get along. But it looks like something so simple, is yet so complicated for me. I just can't make friends. When people introduce me, the only thing they all say about me is this "well, he is such a Nice guy"
They dont say he is smart or strong or any other praiseworthy quality. But they just say that I'm Nice. Like a little kitten.I don't know what's wrong. Why people around me see me as weird. To the counturary, I believe I always try to be nice to everyone and help everyone and yet nobody accepts me.
Peace
Peace
How old are you brother?
With time you'll care less and less what others opinion about you is and their acceptance.What kind of friends are you trying to make, maybe Allah is protecting from relationships that may affect your deeds and Iman.
Sound a lot like me when I was younger... Maybe you're not hanging or meeting with the right people.
Be patient if it's companionship you seek, you know Who to ask.
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Peace Brothers and Sisters
I'm 20 and yeah I kinda feel like I lost my True self. The one I was when I was 10 and younger.
But from 10 and older it went Downhill. By trying to fit in I lost contact to my true self.
Hopefully I'll Reagain myself 100%What about you Brithers and Sisters? Have you felt that you stopped being True to yourself?
Peace to you
We are all counsious, Thus we all are alive
We all are alive to learn, To learn to loveI love you all group
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brother you are just 20 , its just a start... dnt worry i think you did not find any match yet.. thats y you are saying this... but dnt giveup on anything try and try hard...
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Peace to everyone
Brothers and sisters, Everywhere I go, be it the school or a picnic, I see people naturally get along. But it looks like something so simple, is yet so complicated for me. I just can't make friends. When people introduce me, the only thing they all say about me is this "well, he is such a Nice guy"
They dont say he is smart or strong or any other praiseworthy quality. But they just say that I'm Nice. Like a little kitten.I don't know what's wrong. Why people around me see me as weird. To the counturary, I believe I always try to be nice to everyone and help everyone and yet nobody accepts me.
Peace
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Peace,
I second what es said. Do you feel good enough to be your own friend? If you were another person, would you befriend yourself?
If you are confident, strong, and feeling good about your own self and your own place in the world, you may find yourself caring less about others and friends will, Insha'Allah, come easier for you.
As the saying goes, "Love only finds you when you stop looking."
Peace Brothers and Sisters
I'm 20 and yeah I kinda feel like I lost my True self. The one I was when I was 10 and younger.
But from 10 and older it went Downhill. By trying to fit in I lost contact to my true self.
Hopefully I'll Reagain myself 100%What about you Brithers and Sisters? Have you felt that you stopped being True to yourself?
Peace to you
We are all counsious, Thus we all are alive
We all are alive to learn, To learn to loveI love you all group
You shouldn't dwell on the past or a past version of yourself. Especially when that past version was 10+ years ago.
Focus on building your CURRENT self, because that's all you have to work with right now. You can become much better at 20 than you were at 10, I'm sure!
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"Nice guy" means that you are goodly by the standards of the community you live in, i.e. you match the stereotype of a "nice guy". What do you mean by accepting?
Be well
Amenuel