Why are some people Attractive and Tall while others are stuck ugly and short?
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Imran I'm speaking from My heart here. O0
This is no joke. If I had Brad Pitts face and was built like an Olympic swimmer would my life change ?
Of course. Would I be more respected and loved? Sure!We as humans love beauty. Be it in the music or in the nature. The same goes for our bodies.
Even when I'm in a forum, I see that most of the people set something beautiful looking as their Profile picture. Be it a beautiful animal or scenery or a beautiful girl or a boy etc.
No one wants to be associated with ugliness.
But when you are stuck in a ugly body, there is nowhere to run. And the only choice that's left is to embrace it.Shakespeare was right, we are no mere than just bunch of actors playing our roles.
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Imran I'm speaking from My heart here. O0
This is no joke. If I had Brad Pitts face and was built like an Olympic swimmer would my life change ?
Of course. Would I be more respected and loved? Sure!We as humans love beauty. Be it in the music or in the nature. The same goes for our bodies.
Even when I'm in a forum, I see that most of the people set something beautiful looking as their Profile picture. Be it a beautiful animal or scenery or a beautiful girl or a boy etc.
No one wants to be associated with ugliness.
But when you are stuck in a ugly body, there is nowhere to run. And the only choice that's left is to embrace it.Shakespeare was right, we are no mere than just bunch of actors playing our roles.
brother you are thinking wrong actually,,, about brad pitt... i know lot of people more handsome than bradpitt but they all are not stars...
whats about morgon freeman, michal jackson ... although michal change his color with the help of money... but this life is not whart we think...
celeberity life looks good only i movies they are much puzzle in their ego and sometimes they get crazy... they always feel like they are in prison when they show themselves up.. media , and fans are after them due to this they avoid going outside ... they wanted to mix in general public but due to the fear of scandal they avoid.. it , just money cannnot give you what you want for your satisfaction..
and moreover why fell in the trick of worldy life... this body , blood color, finger prints , dna all is for the wordly life and a test ...
real self is real perosn , if you have ugly short body, dnt worry about it, if you are poor dnt worry about it...
becoz on the day of judgement God wil not ask you how much you earn, how much cars you own, how much followers you make, how much fans you make...
God will ask what you do with your load ... in righteous manner... all people brad pitt , angeleina joilie michal jackson, and lot of other people will be in the same line of deeds... and that life is the not illusion ,, a real life created for real self...
think about it from this angle...i still understand if we born as some less qualities we are not well appreciated in this worldy life which is full of illusion ...
but honestly if you got something which is unreal and somebody fell in trap , what would you prefer, do you like to find a love of somebody who just oove you coz you are handsome or money maker... or do you wish for the perosn who love you not for money for body but for your nature or real self... thats called spirit matched with spirit...
i honestly go for a girl who have nice nature than beauty... i already havea big balnder in my life when my accounts finish then i realise what i was thinking love it was the atttraction of my money.. thansk God i did not earn much in life otherwise i was still in the trap of thaat thing.. this time i will take a decision of real self , i kknow its diifficult to find but , i beleive there are still some people living out there who love real self not fake things...
peace
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As we all know being attractive and Tall has wide range of personal advantages. From private life to Bussines life and many other aspects of life. Would Brad Pitt who he is, if he was no so Attractive? What about Anjelina Jolie? You got the idea.
So does it mean that some people get life on Easy mode while others have life on Hard mode?
Even "Brad Pitt" or "Angeline Jolie" has their own difficulties and tears, you just don't know about it..
Appreciate your life as it is happening, be at peace with you, around you and yourselves and also your past and your future..
That's what islam is all about.. (islam the attitude and not Islam the religion) -
So my purpose in life is to always be with peace within myself?
yes exactly within yourself as well with other people around you...
Is this my ultimate goal ?
your ultimate Goal is to submit yourself to the universal lord.. for the purpose he created you look around it why you are here who need you... what benefit you can give to this planet as a caretaker...
So my sufferings purpose is to be always pleased ?
everybody is suffering in different situations of life nobody is tenshn free. the king of pop like michal jackson was not even satisfied with his life...
Dont understand me wrong. Im thankful to God for everything. But the question remains.
Peace
we should always thankful to God what he hs given us... he will not do any unjust with anybody he will deal everybody what he provided to them,,
example the test of rich perosn will be harder than poor...
poor will not even asked about his money as he exempt from the requirement for spending in God way..on the other hand rich will encounter some serious difficulties trust me...
on that day everybody wish alas we were poor... think always according to the both sides of picture...
dnt you see people dnt have hands, some of them dnt have legs... some of them get birth as disablilty...
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Peace all,
We should always strive to be at peace with ourselves at much as possible. Only when we accept ourselves as we are now can we ever be satisfied with ourselves and each of our respective positions in life.
Hansolo, I'm sure you will be just fine in the romantic world. Have confidence and courage, and others will see that in you and hopefully take you more seriously if they aren't already. Also remember that looks and physical attraction are not everything. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For some women (I can't speak for men), physical attraction may also be able to develop and grow intensely if there is a strong mental bond connecting two people together.
Celebrities will always look amazing. They are in the spotlight! They need to have the best hair/clothes/makeup/body! But that doesn't mean they reflect ordinary life, people, and dating choices. I wouldn't worry about it too much.
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So my purpose in life is to always be with peace within myself?
Is this my ultimate goal ?
So my sufferings purpose is to be always pleased ?
Dont understand me wrong. Im thankful to God for everything. But the question remains.
Your purpose in this life is for you find it out yourselves..
Everyone and everything, each has their own purpose...
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Your purpose in this life is for you find it out yourselves..
Everyone and everything, each has their own purpose...
But what if you know your purpose and your dream. But the only thing holding you back is yourself. Your own body literally.
Im not handsome enough to be an actor. To play the heroes. Even if I would get roles, I most probably get to play the villain. Its just the way I look.
And nothing can be done about it. When we imagine Jesus or any other positive character, most of us imagine them being handsome and majestic looking. When we imagine angels we imagine them being really beautiful. Why? Because it is a blessing from God. -
Do you know how hard it is to be a short male? When even your female classmates won't and can't take you serious when you look like a child next to them?
Come to California. Girls here don't care about man's height.
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie came from two big families. Their success is connected to who they know and of course, marketing. There are thousands of men and women far better looking than them. That said, in showbiz, face plays a very important role. Its what brings money home. Height also is not so important here. Think about the following people
Michael J Fox 5 4
Elijah wood 5 6
Lil Wayne 5 6
Danny Devito 5'
Dustin Hoffman 5 5
Kevin Hart 5 2
Daniel Radcliffe 5 5
Seth Green 5 4 -
hansolo make money as much as you can... 90 % women just see money and qualification in men.. nothing else...
in real life you will be recognise by the wealth not by beauty... beauty suits to women... lol
if you are rich but have small height /ugly face its not a big deal to get a girl
if you are handsome more than brad pitt and have no money even the ugliest girl will not accept you...
bitter but reality speacially with respect to modern thinking of people...
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hansolo make money as much as you can... 90 % women just see money and qualification in men.. nothing else...
in real life you will be recognise by the wealth not by beauty... beauty suits to women... lol
if you are rich but have small height /ugly face its not a big deal to get a girl
if you are handsome more than brad pitt and have no money even the ugliest girl will not accept you...
bitter but reality speacially with respect to modern thinking of people...
Do not blame them, it is their instinctive programming.
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Actually, it might be better to be less attractive... because you won't attract all those who only look for surface/beauty/body. You may save yourself alot of wasted time and heartache that way.
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The older you get, the less the physical beauty will matter (if you mature normally that is). "Classmates" sound like people at a rather young age, and hence not so mature.
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Ask yourself why playing the role of the handsome hero is the most important thing for you to do in life. Perhaps you will find more meaningful things, even within acting. Don't limit yourself. The world is so much more amazing than we think. God has deep pockets and many things up his sleeve, in all good senses.
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Don't limit yourself. Prayer done correctly (with feeling/emotion, clarity and selflessness) can change life. It is happiness you want, not a certain body. You think you want a certain body, because you think it will give you happiness. But it is the happiness you actually want. Later you'll understand it is actually a certain type of peace you want. You can reach joy/peace/happiness in millions of ways in life, and you haven't seen those ways yet. Let God surprise you.
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Some people are not happy with their looks/height. Other have other problems. Some are paralyzed, some cannot have children, some have lost their whole family, some are victims of bonded labor or prostitution...
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This world is gear towards the physical and superficial. It's hard to live like that if you want more depth and quality. But there is also lots of deep/genuine people and stuff in life. We just have to come across them ourselves... because they are not in mainstream media. It's easy to be fooled about what is important in life. Flesh is not important, in comparison to mental peace.
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sun
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Do not blame them, it is their instinctive programming.
lol i m not blaming them, i m telling whats going on in our society... even the parents of kid dnt llike to get their daughter married with a poor perosn.. once i ask a same question from one of my family member he replied me very strange way..
i ask him sir you are getting ur daughter married with a person full of money thats the only qualification he have thats what you see? he replied me when you wil become afather of daughter then i will ask you same question , right now you will not be able to understand...
basically he told me money is the real beauty of males.. rest of the things no body care...
here i disagree with system and with myself... sometimes i get crazy... i also replied him a manner which i never wanted to..
i say to him and all the people , if you just go for money and in near future he encounter a loss and somehow his money finished by some accident , then what policy should womens take... will they gona left that person..? thats what logic say..
or who knows a poor person once get rich suddenly with the grace of God... ?
so why we give preference to status... its our own mistake of self which is full of material and greed...
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@ zulf your points are nice indirectly i m saying same thing...
the realtionship depends on real nature that would be long lasting and happy/relax/chiiled..
on the other hand the relation that based on beauty, fame money ,status will not long laster...
i learn a lesson of my life due to this thing... the only practical mistake of my life that change my whole thinking of love beauty and attraction... lol