We all know God forbids things that are harmfull. Why than...?
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God forbids things he forbids for a reason. He is Most High and Wise. He wants us to happier and healthier. However, why is it such a sin if two adults mutually agree to live or have romantic relationship with each other? How is this harmful?
I don't have the luxury of marrying someone. However I feel so lonely because I'm missing a companion. And I know if I get a girlfriend before marriage that would make me a talk among the people in town.
(Great minds talk about ideas and future, Avarage minds talk about news, and below avarage minds talk about each other)
So my question is to you, my beautiful intellectuals. How is this harmful?
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I'm no beautiful intellect but I think that is not the right question. Answering this as it is would be spoiling you. In my opinion. May you develop more on what is harmful ?
• What is not harmful ?
• Harmful as harmful the loud speakers are to your ears ?
• Why do you think you feel so lonely ?
• What makes you think you need a companion to "not-feel-lonely" ?
• What is your thought on hooking up with prostitutes ? Is it harmful ?
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What is your point? I live together with a woman in marriage. You say it is a sin?
You can meet a woman and you decide to live together and this is automatically a marriage union. On the other hand you cannot leave the union easily without a sin.
In God's eyes you are engaged when you tell each other so and you are consummated in marriage when you copulate, with or without a formal ceremony which is a man made practice.
Be well
Amenuel -
Peace hansolo.
What can I say to you brother.?
This may serve as a reminder1295
They said, "By God, you are still in your old confusion."I have some optimism about you though.
GOD bless you.
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What is your point? I live together with a woman in marriage. You say it is a sin?
You can meet a woman and you decide to live together and this is automatically a marriage union. On the other hand you cannot leave the union easily without a sin.
In God's eyes you are engaged when you tell each other so and you are consummated in marriage when you copulate, with or without a formal ceremony which is a man made practice.
Be well
AmenuelThat is it and tht is what is wrong with those questions about sex outside marriage. Sex is marriage, and the papers is only a guarantee for the sincere person not to be taken for a ride, and if he or she is then to have some defence from it.
Sex may be a pleasure, but it is not a passtime.
Harmful? cheating yourself is not harmful? Ginvig away your intimacey debasing it to a passtime is not harmful?
Those are questions nobody can answer for somebody else. One oneself should ask her or himself what is expected of their doings and what consequences it may have morally, emotionally, philosophically... We are not beasts, we are no protected by instinct of everything harm we may get in. Dogs do not have any danger because in front of urges their instinct is their best protection they can have. Humans have memory, thought foresight emotions and attachments which are of a different kind than animals... Of course the end of the world won't come because of that, but each one of us has its own "end of the world" and many little catastrophes short of the end of the world which should warn us.
And one last thing Has any one hear dof a trade exression called "lost profits". Must it always be "what harm"? Why not ask about the improvement we may loose, the opportunities for nowing ourselves better and doing better in our return to God?
Avoiding harm may be good but procurring good is better. And while we are busy procurin good we avoid automatically harm.
Salaam
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God forbids things he forbids for a reason. He is Most High and Wise. He wants us to happier and healthier. However, why is it such a sin if two adults mutually agree to live or have romantic relationship with each other? How is this harmful?
I don't have the luxury of marrying someone. However I feel so lonely because I'm missing a companion. And I know if I get a girlfriend before marriage that would make me a talk among the people in town.
(Great minds talk about ideas and future, Avarage minds talk about news, and below avarage minds talk about each other)
So my question is to you, my beautiful intellectuals. How is this harmful?
Salam,
Be patient and wait until God grants you something. Turn to Him.
And God has told the believers not to marry the rejecters and the polytheists. A believer for a believer.
Salam
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That is it and tht is what is wrong with those questions about sex outside marriage. Sex is marriage, and the papers is only a guarantee for the sincere person not to be taken for a ride, and if he or she is then to have some defence from it.
Sex may be a pleasure, but it is not a passtime.
Harmful? cheating yourself is not harmful? Ginvig away your intimacey debasing it to a passtime is not harmful?
Those are questions nobody can answer for somebody else. One oneself should ask her or himself what is expected of their doings and what consequences it may have morally, emotionally, philosophically... We are not beasts, we are no protected by instinct of everything harm we may get in. Dogs do not have any danger because in front of urges their instinct is their best protection they can have. Humans have memory, thought foresight emotions and attachments which are of a different kind than animals... Of course the end of the world won't come because of that, but each one of us has its own "end of the world" and many little catastrophes short of the end of the world which should warn us.
And one last thing Has any one hear dof a trade exression called "lost profits". Must it always be "what harm"? Why not ask about the improvement we may loose, the opportunities for nowing ourselves better and doing better in our return to God?
Avoiding harm may be good but procurring good is better. And while we are busy procurin good we avoid automatically harm.
Salaam
It is the hurting of another which is the most harmful thing.