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    TellMeTheTruth
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    What? What?

    Where have you learnt your Arabic, qura'nic grammar. Look at it again. That is the most basic stuff. If you take that there is no use in going into anything further.

    And just as a side note if they are nisaa' they cannot be orphans, nisaa' are ful grown women, not minor girls.

    This is just a sample of how it has been made a travesti of Qur'an.

    I am too shocked that anybody could come up with that seriously. Never mind. Just look at the grammar if you really care, if not of course, pick whatver suits you. Most people always do that, particularly where Qur'an s concerned. Just like a supermarket.

    Salaam

    Salam sister!
    I do not understand why are you shocked. Below is the translation of 4127
    4127

    And, (O Prophet,) people ask about your edict on matters concerning (orphan) women . Say ?Allah ordains you in their case and the commandment (already) being communicated to you in the holy Book (also) pertains to those orphan women whom you deny (the rights) which have been prescribed for themAnd (in order to take their assets into possession) you want to marry themIn addition to that, there is (also a decree) on affairs concerning helpless minor children, that stick to justice in matters of orphansAnd whatever good you do, Allah is indeed Well Aware of that.

    web.analyzequran.com/explorer/4127
    Peace!

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      huruf
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      You do seem to manahe somhow with Arabic, look into the Arabic, the trnaslation is an arrangement so that ny hook or crook it fits certain previous assumptions of the translator, go to the Arabic.

      You have been asking about the Arabic so why do you now bring me as proof a translation in english. I know there are some translations like tht but it only goes to show the depths of disdain for Qur'an where it does not fit previous assumptions, that even the most plain, beginners grammar is trampled on. It is hard to believe, but it is so.

      Salaam

      Salaam

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        TellMeTheTruth
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        Salam sister huruf!
        Please excuse but I still am confused. However I will put this ayah in Arabic section and see what is wong with my understanding.
        Peace!

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          SleepySoul
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          Nowhere in the Qur'an is a prohibition of poligamy, eithe masculine or feminine.

          BUT

          it is clear from the whole of qur'an and more particularly from aya 24.32 that marriage, common marriage, is monogamous. But poligamy is not prohibited, may be to leave some leeway to societies where demography is badley unbalanced for whatever reasons, or may be particular circumstances make more humane to not enforce stingently monogamy, be it masculine or feminine.

          As to 4.3. There is nothing in it commending any number of simultaneous wives, rather it is not talking about wives but about marriages. It is addressin believers as a society, it is telling them to make it possible marriage for the mothers of orphans, but it is not telling any particular man to marry more than one wife at time, but rather the whole community to make it possible for those who may want to marry the mothers of orphans, but might lack the means, to make it possible as many marriages as it can afford, one, two, three, not of the same man but of any man willing to marry any such woman with orphan children.

          That was what was done and covered all over the world with lies in Ghaza some time ago. A collective marriage took place of more than a hundred lone mothers with children arranged through common effort. There was a picture distributed by islamophobes, where the bridegrooms were shown hand by hand with girl children and it was discriebed as a pedophile wedding. The truth was it was a collective marriage of adult women, -so much adult that they already had their own children with different ages- with adult men.

          Unfortunately, muslims of different views still cling to fairy tales and clishees making a circus of qur'anic injunctions and wisdom. Islamophobia is wrong an rampan, but the aid it is given by some "muslims" is not negligible. May be the world does not deserve the Qur'an nor "muslims" deserve it. What they do with it many times is utterly depressing. There is the temptation of asking why should God bother with such self-pittying and lazy lot?

          That is not to say that islamophobes are not just as bad or worse lot. Actually it does not matter, they strive for the same thing to hell with truth!

          Salaam

          Salaam Huruf,

          http//quransmessage.com/forum/index.php?topic=795.0

          Here's another one from Joseph Islam where he answers a question and explains the impermissibility of a woman having more than one husband at a time.

          Why do you think the verse is about mothers of orphans and not the orphans themselves? Could it be interpreted as women from the orphans? Or would that be grammatically incorrect?

          Allah knows best.

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            Noon_waalqalami
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            Why do you think the verse is about mothers of orphans and not the orphans themselves?

            peace -- definition is to the age of marriage; then no longer considered as such.

            46 and test ye of l-yatm/the bereaved (orphaned) until when reach they of the marriage so if perceive you among them rational of so deliver ye of to them wealth theirs ...

            then at marriageable age referred thus ...

            1813 fit'yatun/young men

            2433 fatayatikum/maidens yours

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              SleepySoul
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              peace -- definition is to the age of marriage; then no longer considered as such.

              46 وابتلوا and test ye of الىتمى l-yatāmā/the bereaved (orphaned) حتى until اذا when بلغوا reach they of النكاح the marriage فان so if انستم perceive you منهم among them رشدا rational of فادفعوا so deliver ye of الىهم to them امولهم wealth theirs ...

              Yes but I mean the women from within the orphans. Would that make sense?

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                Noon_waalqalami
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                Yes but I mean the women from within the orphans. Would that make sense?

                which verse? it's bereaved includes fatherless children with/without mother; cannot marry underage.

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                  SleepySoul
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                  which verse? it's bereaved includes fatherless children with/without mother; cannot marry underage.

                  Verse 43. Does the word for orphans only include orphan children or can it include orphan women/men?

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                    Noon_waalqalami
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                    Verse 43. Does the word for orphans only include orphan children or can it include orphan women/men?

                    43 l-yatm/the bereaved (mothers with underage children i.e. boys and/or girls)

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                      SleepySoul
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                      43 الىتمى l-yatāmā/the bereaved (mothers with underage children i.e. boys and/or girls)

                      Okay, thanks )

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                        TellMeTheTruth
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                        Okay, thanks )

                        Salam!
                        See the word to word translation and other translations here
                        https//www.islamawakened.com/quran/4/3/default.htm
                        Peace!

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                          TellMeTheTruth
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                          peace -- definition is to the age of marriage; then no longer considered as such.

                          46 and test ye of l-yatm/the bereaved (orphaned) until when reach they of the marriage so if perceive you among them rational of so deliver ye of to them wealth theirs ...

                          then at marriageable age referred thus ...

                          1813 fit'yatun/young men

                          2433 fatayatikum/maidens yours

                          Salam!
                          Isn't plural of ? And what about your view about = womenfolk (3+)?
                          Peace!

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                            SleepySoul
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                            Salam!
                            See the word to word translation and other translations here
                            https//www.islamawakened.com/quran/4/3/default.htm
                            Peace!

                            Thanks.
                            Could you please state your view clearly? What do you think about the article I posted?

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                              huruf
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                              Salam sister huruf!
                              Please excuse but I still am confused. However I will put this ayah in Arabic section and see what is wong with my understanding.
                              Peace!

                              The translation he gives for 4.24 is totally ungrammatical, contrived and very much arranging for a meaning that the word rendered as married does nto have and in fact the word occurs another seven times and it is not so translated. That word and the words of the same root are in fact a casualty in the war to subvert the Qur'an and make it fit the delusions of the misguided.

                              So in this case nothing unexpected.

                              Who would want feminine poligamy? I surely would run away to Mars if something like that threatened me, but I am not all women exactly the same as all those men who cling to the monopoly of poligamy under whiever pretext are not all men.

                              The fact is, as Joseph Islam himself acknowledges, that the Qur'an does not forbid it, except where it is so arranged by interpreters and translators.

                              As to the other argument, absolutely flimsy an not even ingenious. Prohibition on demand for you.

                              Salaam

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                                SleepySoul
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                                Who's "he"?

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                                  huruf
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                                  The author, it seems joseph islam.

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                                    Noon_waalqalami
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                                    Isn't plural of ? And what about your view about = womenfolk (3+)?

                                    singular
                                    6152 l-yatmi (underage fatherless person)

                                    dual
                                    1882 for boys (underage) two yatimayni/bereaved two

                                    plural
                                    4127 yatm (includes the bereaved mothers with children)

                                    l-nisi/the womenfolk (plural any age, use context); see below ties to females in general.

                                    4176 and if be they of siblings menfolk of wanisan/and womenfolk (3+)
                                    so to the male (gender) similitude apportion l-unthayayni/the two (females)

                                    e.g. 2/3 four sisters (1/6 each), 1/3 two brothers (1/6 each)
                                    i.e. 1/3 to male gender equals exactly 1/3 the two females

                                    likewise, always use context cross reference everything as to circumstances for the meaning.

                                    peace

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                                      Mahdi_Ibrahim
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                                      no polygamy but only in a very exceptional cases..

                                      • ..but IF you fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly, then only one, or that your right hands possess (43)
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                                      And never will you be able to deal justly between women even if you desired . (4129)
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                                      O Prophet! Indeed, We have made lawful (vs unlawful / zina) to you your wives (to) whom you have given their bridal money and whom you rightfully possess from those (whom) Allah has given to you, and (the) daughters (of) your paternal uncles and (the) daughters (of) your paternal aunts and (the) daughters (of) your maternal uncles and (the) daughters (of) your maternal aunts who emigrated with you, and a woman believing if she gives herself to the Prophet if wishes the Prophet to marry her - only for you, excluding the believers. Certainly, We know what We have made obligatory upon them concerning their wives and whom they rightfully possess, that not should be on you any discomfort. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (3350)
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                                      • IF any of you do not have the means to marry free women who are muminun, you may marry slavegirls (425)

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                                        SleepySoul
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                                        The author, it seems joseph islam.

                                        You should debate him then.

                                        The fact is, as Joseph Islam himself acknowledges, that the Qur'an does not forbid it, except where it is so arranged by interpreters and translators.

                                        Where did you read this?

                                        Who would want feminine poligamy? I surely would run away to Mars if something like that threatened me, but I am not all women exactly the same as all those men who cling to the monopoly of poligamy under whiever pretext are not all men.

                                        Yep, not all men are the same and not all women are the same.

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                                          SleepySoul
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                                          no polygamy but only in a very exceptional cases..

                                          • ..but IF you fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly, then only one, or that your right hands possess (43)
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                                          You will not be able to be completely fair between your wives, however hard you try. (4129)
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                                          O Prophet! Indeed, We have made lawful (vs unlawful / zina) to you your wives (to) whom you have given their bridal money and whom you rightfully possess from those (whom) Allah has given to you, and (the) daughters (of) your paternal uncles and (the) daughters (of) your paternal aunts and (the) daughters (of) your maternal uncles and (the) daughters (of) your maternal aunts who emigrated with you, and a woman believing if she gives herself to the Prophet if wishes the Prophet to marry her - only for you, excluding the believers. Certainly, We know what We have made obligatory upon them concerning their wives and whom they rightfully possess, that not should be on you any discomfort. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (3350)
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                                          • IF any of you do not have the means to marry free women who are muminun, you may marry slavegirls (425)

                                          Thanks for the response.
                                          Did you read the article I posted? Do you have a refutation for it?

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