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Arab author claims that 4:34 really means "BEAT THEM'

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    FK
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    " Man " is a shade above in degree in Wisdom over women.
    Use your Wisdom to Beat your wives' Ignorance.
    Fear Allah!

    Could you please provide any verses that tell men are more intelligent than women drfazl?

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      unknownuser
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      Could you please provide any verses that tell men are more intelligent than women drfazl?

      Peace FK,

      There is no verse in the Qur'an that tells men are more intelligent than women. We can see this with its balanced tone...

      The submitting men, the submitting women, the believing men, the believing women, the obedient men, the obedient women, the truthful men, the truthful women, the steadfast men, the steadfast women, the reverent men, the reverent women, the charitable men, the charitable women, the fasting men, the fasting women, the chaste men, the chaste women, and the men who commemorate GOD frequently, and the commemorating women; GOD has prepared for them forgiveness and a great recompense.

      The believing men and women are allies of one another. They advocate righteousness and forbid evil, they observe the Contact Prayers (Salat) and give the obligatory charity (Zakat), and they obey GOD and His messenger. These will be showered by GOD's mercy. GOD is Almighty, Most Wise.

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        marie
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        Peace all,

        1. He grants wisdom to whom He chooses, and whoever is granted wisdom, has been given much good. Only those with understanding will remember.
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          burhan
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          Please don't forget the next verse 435, there is a reason Mr ArabChristian has ignored it.

          And if you fear a split between them, then send a judge from his family and a judge from hers. If they want to reconcile, then God will bring them together. God is Knowledgeable, Expert.

          Peace.

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            drfazl
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            Man Is A Degree Above Women
            Man Equals Two Women

            " Man " is a shade above in degree in Wisdom over women. Use your Wisdom to Beat your wives' Ignorance.
            Fear Allah!

            Could you please provide any verses that tell men are more intelligent than women drfazl?

            002228
            But men have a degree over them. And Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise.

            002282
            And get two witnesses, out of your own men, and if there are not two men, then a man and two women, such as ye choose, for witnesses, so that if one of them errs, the other can remind her.

            Please reach with your wisdom to the above verses and deliver your understanding. I want you to explain also this why Allah has not chosen messengers among women.

            drfazl

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              FK
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              Peace be upon you,

              I can't believe you hold the understanding that men are better than women in understanding, testimony and overall aspects. However, I'd be very interested in finding out what others have to say about this.

              Since this thread is "hidden" here, I'll try and post a new one on the main cateogry and see the responses.

              To answer your question, though I can't go into God's thinking, this is my assumption from what I've heard/read....

              • The pharoh of Egypt had several wives (some were his own biological daughters) and in his narrow mind women were inferior to men. This was the reason that if studied ancient Egypt you'll see very few/no women as leaders. When Moses went to the Pharoh to give God's message, he ridiculded Moses and said who do you believe me or this loley one who can hardly speak. Thus, in his mind the fact that Moses had a speech impediment made Moses "inferior" to him. Imagine a woman walking up to the pharoh and saying what Moses did - he would've punished that woman severly.

              However, I've got a question for you drfazl

              I am not sure if you have any children. But lets assume you have a son and a daughter. Would you see your daughter being inferior to your son?

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                drfazl
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                Mustering Public Opinion
                Against The Verses

                http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2702
                The following is based on the thread from the above link

                I can't believe you hold the understanding that men are better than women

                It is not me but Allah's Book says so. And yet you cannot believe. I have given the quotes from the Book, if you are interested in the verses of it. So far you have not cared to submit to the ayats but interested in only chatting outside of the Book of Allah. Your position is to muster public opinion over allah's dictum. Fine! I mistook you that you will discuss quran. Nothing of that sort I find with you. Here is a sample of what you said

                To answer your question, though I can't go into God's thinking, this is my assumption from what I've heard/read....

                You cannot ponder yourself in the Way God has asked you to recite and rehearse, but assume and follow the hearsays. I made a mistake in assuming you will speak of the BOOK. I am sorry.

                • The pharoh of Egypt had several wives (some were his own biological daughters) and in his narrow mind women were inferior to men.

                Nothing to do with Quran. This is Free Minds on Islam / comments on the Quran. Worse you talk about the men written history. It is mistake I took you seriously and started quoting the ayats which you threw behind your back.

                However, I've got a question for you drfazl
                I am not sure if you have any children. But lets assume you have a son and a daughter. Would you see your daughter being inferior to your son?

                Did I ever say women are inferior?
                Men are a grade above women is what Allah says. It is not me. And I see that is true. Quran is held true over your sentimantal falsehood

                son and daughter ... son is a grade above daughter
                wife and husband ... male is a degree above
                mother and father ... father is a shade above mother.

                Will you atleast now ponder over the ayats and comeback to -> Questions/Comments on the Quran, what this section of the forum is intended for ? Instead of non quranic chat FK?

                http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2702
                Now answer the thread I am leading you to please.. If you do not wish to..

                I appreciate your position here

                I think it'd be best if I don't further communicate with you because it doesn't seem to me you have the the capability to understand what I am trying to communicate here.

                That is OK with me. It is your right to assume in your humble opinion I have no capability to understand your hearsays. But I have to remind once again this is Question / Comments on Quran forum. I think FK, you have the capability to understand. I apologise to Allah if I had posted anything wrong to whoever it may be of concern.

                drfazl

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                  Zlatan
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                  Peace wakas, all

                  Lane
                  beat, struck, smote, hit, the making a thing fall upon another thing, discipline/train, to cast forth, threw or flung it, seal/stamp, veil/curtain/cover/barrier, to point or make a sign, prohibit/hinder/prevent/witheld/restrain, collision, corrupted/disordered/disturbance/unsettled/confused, turn away, avoid, shun, fashion/mould/adapt, mention or set forth (e.g. a parable/example), explain, make a way, multiplying, go/travel, went away, it was or became long, excite/incite/urge/instigate, contend, dispose/accommodate, retract/digression/transition, to silence, tremble/shiver, share/portion.
                  Location where something is struck, wool or goat's hair separated or plucked or beaten with a mallet, sword, tent-peg, mallet.

                  "...and(thus) discipline/train them" also make sense to me....

                  though i would like to see how it was originaly cited in the dic., e.i. does this meaning requires any preposition to be used with d-r-b or d-r-b to be used in a particular stem or paradigm

                  best wishes, Zlatan

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                    unknownuser
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                    Peace be upon you,

                    It appears very simple to me. If the spouse starts to follow another path, the logical first step is to warn them,that is where the training/discipline comes in, the next step is to not sleep with them, which sounds like not having sex, the last step would be to say Peace, and seperate. That is very simple to me.

                    The male principle is a grade above the female principle because creation starts from the male principle(the seed). But both are needed to work together. The "grade above" is only to put things in ORDER. If 12 people want to climb a ldder, only one can go first, this does not limit thier status, it is only matter of order.

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                      Wakas
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                      Wow, old thread.

                      Here is my updated view, most cogent as per Quran
                      https//www.quran434.com/wife-beating-islam.html

                      All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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