Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Users
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Free Minds Forum Icon
  1. Home
  2. General Issues / Questions
  3. General Issues / Questions
  4. Can we have 4 wives?

Can we have 4 wives?

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved General Issues / Questions
14 Posts 10 Posters 169 Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • B Offline
    B Offline
    bmbmm
    wrote on last edited by
    #1

    I do not personally believe that a man can have four wives, and nither do my wife. I think according to the Quran this is only allowed under some circumstances, such as war. Why these fat Shakhs marry 4 woman?

    Please make your comment. I believe that with support we can help those ladies who have been supressed by the people who due to their selfishness been trying to alter our understanding of the Quran. I also believe that it is not the nature of a woman to see her man with another women, same is true with the man. Allah would neven have commanded something which is against the nature of women.

    Peace...

    1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • U Offline
      U Offline
      unknownuser
      wrote on last edited by
      #2

      Hi bmbmm,

      Has been discussed/debated here
      http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4317

      Also, on this issue is this article
      http//www.free-minds.org/women/polygamy1.htm

      Peace!

      1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • F Offline
        F Offline
        Fahad1
        wrote on last edited by
        #3

        salam.
        check this out

        Quran and Polygamy The Facts
        http//members.aol.com/silence004/gamy.html

        .

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • Z Offline
          Z Offline
          zenje
          wrote on last edited by
          #4

          And when you're done with all those links, take some time out and relax with this guy... Saudi man with 58 wives stirs polygamy debate

          )>-

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • N Offline
            N Offline
            newwizard3253
            wrote on last edited by
            #5

            58 wives??? shock God forbid, that's a personal harem! Poor women, this guy must be a Saudi Hugh Heffner wannabe. He must be filthy rich as well to support such an household. I can't imagine how many children he must have.... ?

            1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • U Offline
              U Offline
              unknownuser
              wrote on last edited by
              #6

              And when you're done with all those links, take some time out and relax with this guy... Saudi man with 58 wives stirs polygamy debate

              Such ''so called muslim men'' who dont get even the basic idea of what Allah tells in Quran, have made Islam a joke!

              Its sad that God's pure and just path is being so abused. (

              Wearing a hood doesnt make one a muslim! Its the living!

              Peace!

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • Z Offline
                Z Offline
                zenje
                wrote on last edited by
                #7

                Peace Mustaf

                Apparently it's an accumulation of his marriages over 50 years. He started when he was 14. And now, at 64...

                His latest marriage ? and at 10,000 guests his most sumptuous ? was to a 14-year-old girl nine months ago. She was the perfect age, he said.
                roll

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • J Offline
                  J Offline
                  Jaxal
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #8

                  SaLaM bmbmm

                  Why these fat Shakhs marry 4 woman?

                  Becoz they are self proclaimed muslims who give more attention to hadiths than the Quran.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • N Offline
                    N Offline
                    NoProgressive
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #9

                    As SAlaam Alaikum,

                    He doesn't even make his marriage public and known which is clearly haraam! Allah clearly tells us to marry our spouses so we wont live in shame (i.e. in secretness).

                    And on another note, for his kids sake, I'm sure he knows how many kids he has... maybe I am just saying that for my own conscious of fear of child neglect. lol.

                    And wow, it's the fourth one who is usually replaced? Wow, what are these families thinking?! Obivously he is only breaking virgins in (such as that 14 yr old girl) and throwing them back out where there is the strong chance of them not being worth anything becuase of loss of virginity (i say strong chance becuase I don't want to be too stereotypical and I like to keep hope alive, but sadly alot of us really know the truth).

                    And the thread starter (yes, we've forgotten about you for a minute, lol),

                    Uhh polygany is really a sticky issue. It really is. There are so many interperations, rules, etc, etc to it. I don't know. Hopefully someone can give you a more detailed response.

                    salaam

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • B Offline
                      B Offline
                      bmbmm
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #10

                      Salam peacefulmuslim,

                      I agree with you.. What sort of muslims are these?

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • K Offline
                        K Offline
                        Kashif
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #11

                        And when you're done with all those links, take some time out and relax with this guy... Saudi man with 58 wives stirs polygamy debate

                        WOW An true Hislamic Pimp in disguise of islamic sharia. A way to go pimp.

                        From Article

                        Al-Sayeri said he will keep on marrying until the number of wives he has acquired equals the number of years he has lived.

                        A New world Record. Finally Muslim are competing in world records.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        0
                        • S Offline
                          S Offline
                          sawtooth
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #12

                          And here I thought that guy was an urban legend. I would hate to be in that house when all the wives end up on the same cycle. UGLY!!!!! shock

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • T Offline
                            T Offline
                            TAJ
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #13

                            And when you're done with all those links, take some time out and relax with this guy... Saudi man with 58 wives stirs polygamy debate

                            )>-

                            It is really ugly I can't say enough, but not uncommon here. Poor families, and there are many, fall for that and just sell their daughters for few pennies.

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • Z Offline
                              Z Offline
                              zenje
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #14

                              Peace TAJ,

                              See that's the thing, I can totally see the guy/s doing this kinda stuff. But what blows me away is the parents who give away their 14 year old daughter to this guy! shock As you said, they sell her for a miserable price... just like the guys who sold Yusuf, I guess.

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              Reply
                              • Reply as topic
                              Log in to reply
                              • Oldest to Newest
                              • Newest to Oldest
                              • Most Votes


                              • Login

                              • Don't have an account? Register

                              • Login or register to search.
                              • First post
                                Last post
                              0
                              • Categories
                              • Recent
                              • Users