Wife Beatgin
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Peace Ahmed
My response was my dissagreement with your belief. I did not say what you wrote was fact either. I just said that I do not agree with Ahmed regarding what he wrote.
Joe
Peace Joe
ok at least you agree with some?
anyway my response regarding full desretion was only to support Jaxal understanding because it made sense to me and I provided a simple logic to explain it, however if you read my first comment you will see that I have only one option in my book to deal with a non god fearing wife, which is the highway, no beating no insults no desertion and she can have half of my money as well, there are heaps of God fearing women out there
peace Joe
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How come no one has mentioned that only a good and righteous muslim man would have this right to hit his wife lightly not one who probably sleeps around with half the town himself.
Then again iv'e seen women who can be so mouthy and spoilt that they keep provoking till the poor man can take no more and has to hit her to shut her up. Believe me when i mean provoking i mean PROVOKING. They will pick a issue and keep at it for days and days on end.
I could give a few examples but would rather not.
I think people keep forgetting that this was one of the reasons divorce was allowed , that when your partner becomes unbearable to live with for whatever reason instead of becoming a monster yourself just walk away.
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How come no one has mentioned that only a good and righteous muslim man would have this right to hit his wife lightly not one who probably sleeps around with half the town himself.
Then again iv'e seen women who can be so mouthy and spoilt that they keep provoking till the poor man can take no more and has to hit her to shut her up. Believe me when i mean provoking i mean PROVOKING. They will pick a issue and keep at it for days and days on end.
I could give a few examples but would rather not.
I think people keep forgetting that this was one of the reasons divorce was allowed , that when your partner becomes unbearable to live with for whatever reason instead of becoming a monster yourself just walk away.
Very well said sister
thanks for reminding us
can't agree more with what you said
peace be with you
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SalaM Tahira
Then again iv'e seen women who can be so mouthy and spoilt that they keep provoking till the poor man can take no more and has to hit her to shut her up.
Oh i know some women like that x . And sometimes slapping them across the face IS the only way to shut them up. But then they turn around and call us women abusers.
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Well, given the strength of a man over a woman, it is far more likely that a man will seriously injure a woman which is, I believe, why it would be considered sin in most any culture to HIT a woman.
Whether it be intelligence, money, physical strength or word, when one has power over anyone else, they also carry a responsibility never to use that power to harm.
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I am not saying they are not, but men have the responsibility to restrain themselves. Because of his strength and man should NEVER under any circumstance, lay an aggressive hand on a women. There is NO justification for it. The man can hold the woman back should she attack, but nine times out of ten the man will be twice as strong as the woman.
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. But some women are just asking for it. TRUST ME!
Really? And u have the right to beat them becoz......?
These are the times, when I wish women were physically stronger than men,
so that we could beat the crap out of people who say such stuffIf a woman bothers u so much...leave her.
Thats what women do when a man gets on her nerves, isnt it?
Peace!
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Im just saying. Some women are just asking for it.
And Jaxal, some men dont ask for it? Comeon........Who are we kidding?
There are faults with both the sexes.And anyways, Thank God, u didnt suggest shooting the women who supposedly ASk FOR IT. lol Just kidding!
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SaLaM PM
OFCOURSE! i agree. SOme men are also asking for it. And women DO beat up their husbands. HAve you heard anyone woman being called a husband beater? No. Its only the men who have to go through that. So in that aspect, its a bit unfair. But regardless, no one should be hitting the wife or the husband. There are other ways to deal with that stuff.
And anyways, Thank God, u didnt suggest shooting the women who supposedly ASk FOR IT.
Loooll . If my wife ever cheats on me, i will shoot her. IF she betrays me, i will shoot her. So its a good thing that i have decided NOT to marry. I am doing some women a great favour
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Actualy there are cases, although rare, where women are incarcerated for abusing their husbands. It is rare for two reasons. Rarely are women strong enough to physically hurt their male counter part (though they can verbally assault better than most) and men face a stigma for confessing that a woman hurt them.
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Hi all,
And women DO beat up their husbands. HAve you heard anyone woman being called a husband beater? No. Its only the men who have to go through that. So in that aspect, its a bit unfair.
unfair? how many incidents of physical abuse by women over men as opposed to men over women can u quote and how severe? roll
Loooll . If my wife ever cheats on me, i will shoot her. IF she betrays me, i will shoot her. So its a good thing that i have decided NOT to marry. I am doing some women a great favour
O boy! do u have some obsession with shooting?
And btw, please do take the trouble of mentioning this vital info to any girl u intend to marry, any time, coz, trust me, she would definitely be glad to know beforehand winkActualy there are cases, although rare, where women are incarcerated for abusing their husbands. It is rare for two reasons. Rarely are women strong enough to physically hurt their male counter part (though they can verbally assault better than most) and men face a stigma for confessing that a woman hurt them.
verbal abuse........... shut ur ears or leave the place or if gets worse......... leave her
physical abuse by women........... well, how common is this? those women should be body builders of some kind to be able to physically fight and win over a man. winkPeace!
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SaLaM PM
unfair? how many incidents of physical abuse by women over men as opposed to men over women can u quote?
I cant quote becoz men dont report them. There is no "men internation for abused husbands". But it doesnt mean that its not happening. it happens in all countries.
And btw, please do take the trouble of mentioning this vital info to any girl u intend to marry, any time, coz, trust me, she would definitely be glad to know beforehand
I have done this. Loooll. I was quite honest about it.
those women should be body builders of some kind to be able to physically fight and win over a man.
Not neccessarily. Some men are just submissive by nature.
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Women who abuse their husbands are generally the same ones that abuse their children. It is a type of person. Men and women are both subject to emotional vulnerabilities that make us all subject to varioous for of abuse. The techniques of the abusers may be different but the reasons for staying are generally the same.
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Peace Jaxal,
If my wife ever cheats on me, i will shoot her. IF she betrays me, i will shoot her. So its a good thing that i have decided NOT to marry. I am doing some women a great favour D
Is there a difference between 'cheat' and 'betray'!?
Why would you shoot her if she did this or did that?
Do you really not intend to marry, ever!?