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    jonny_k
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    Peace "sawtooth",

    That's all I needed to knw. so again, why would god condemn someone to this "sinful way" ?

    JK- There maybe various reasons for this. Many people are born with deformities, allergies, chronical diseases, etc. Many people are born into corrupt societies causing them to become corrupt and murderers as well. Why would GOD condemn them? I believe in original sin not the christian way but that each indivdual once of us has sinned otherwise it makes no sense why we should be here and not with GOD like the angels. Anyways GOD says in the Quran that He never burdens a soul beyond that which it can bear so everyone can control it. And if someone is born with hs feelings, then out of fear of GOD controls them he may receive a multitude of the normal reward for abstaining for such behaviour. So GOD has His ways and Hes never unjust. He knows while you do not. GOD Bless!

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      bmbmm
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      Hi,

      Something wrong and unatural will always be opposed. It is the law of the Universe. However, I do not stigmatize your views. If you think its OK, keep it that way, but saying that homosexuals are alright, as a scientist i do not agree with that. We need to help these people. I know in Judaism, christianity and Islam oppose it, well its God command. The creator is right after all.

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        ichephren
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        i only joined this forum yesterday, and since i moved to the US, i've been questioning certain issues that never came in my mind before.
        i was just curious if this god alone movement would have better perspective on gay people, but i guess it's just like christianity, judaism, and traditional islam.
        another thing that i don't agree is that when it was mentioned that homosexual people are mostly talented in certain areas because it's satan plot. it's just very absurd to me to hear this kind of thing. if heterosexual people are gifted and talented then it's from god, and if it happens to homosexual people then it's from satan?
        this sounds very much like anti-semitism, when muslim and christian nuts would say that many jewis people are talented and powerful because it's part of satan plot.
        i believe that god is the most merciful, and he gives anyone a talent if he wills, doesn't matter if he's muslim or not, heterosexual or not.

        rotfl I love it when people claim things are satanic plots and refuse to look at the underlying reasons. However...

        Something wrong and unatural will always be opposed. It is the law of the Universe. However, I do not stigmatize your views. If you think its OK, keep it that way, but saying that homosexuals are alright, as a scientist i do not agree with that. We need to help these people. I know in Judaism, christianity and Islam oppose it, well its God command. The creator is right after all.

        I do agree with you, something that is wrong is never allowed and it is natural law for it to be this way. Even if no religion opposes it, it is still wrong. I also do not see why those who claim to believe in the quran can defend homosexuality when it clearly says that it is wrong. The quran is not talking about violence, it is talking about men sleeping together as they would with women...and it is wrong. This discussion does not need to be so polarized. Even if we can all agree that homosexuality is natural, well it is still wrong as incest is wrong.

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          bmbmm
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          All the wrong is from us and satan and his army does do their part in this. Although we need to find the reason behind this. If someone kill you dad for no reason, I think I will say it from satan, because the satan does suggest these things. There is nothing wrong by saying that

          because it's satan plot. it's just very absurd to me to hear this kind of thing. if heterosexual people are gifted and talented then it's from god, and if it happens to homosexual people then it's from satan?
          this sounds very much like anti-semitism, when muslim and christian nuts would say that many jewis people are talented and powerful because it's part of satan plot.

          Ye if they are gifted and talented it is from god. But if they start practising anal sex with other man, I do not think it is from God, doesn't it make sense idea

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            Hi Zenje,

            I should say ur topic seems to have generated quite a lot of interest here that it has had more than 60 posts in about 18 hrs. Is that a record of some kind?
            Not really, it's almost predictable, every once in a while there's one of these threads popping up...

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3561

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3458

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2652

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1565

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=568

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=751

            http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=692

            PS - Check out the second one from the top and see how many pages that generated.

            That one had about 234 posts in 10 days.............which is roughly........23 posts per day.

            And out here, current score is 76 posts in just one day.

            Woo Hoo! This must be a record wink

            Peace!

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              bmbmm
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              wow bingo.

              I hope someone can clarify this. Lots of people know deep inside its wrong and also the Quran say it is wrong but seems not able to say it.

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                unknownuser
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                Peace be upon you,

                shock Wow, i've only been gone since yesterday!

                Listen brothers and sisters, we are talking about SEX, nothing more.

                Forget about "Love", "Marriage", "equal rigts", etc etc, these are all emotional strings that are pulled to bring sympaty to this topic. It is a smoke screen. And no matter how many times one saya that Homosexuals should not be tormented but treated with respect, its like it goes in one ear and out the other.

                The topic is SEX, thats why they are called "HomoSEXuals". But then you see he tricks of phrases like "Gay american" and that nonsense.

                Topo, you asked why I compared it to child molestation, I did so because we are talking about sexual perversion, whta else would I compare it to except beastiality, I did not want to take it to that level.

                But while marriage has bee brougt up, lets discuss the purpose of marriage, the purpose is to have two spiritually minded people come together to help each other stay on the path and to CREATE A CHILD that they can raise as a spiritual being. Its not about getting tax breaks and goverment treats and all that.

                Further, people are talking about this "trying out" nonsense. Its clear from that that this is a mental issue as MOST things are.

                Genetics? Homosexuals cant have kids, so how is it passed down?

                I will conclude this message in the same manner as I have been, it is not the PERSON that I reject, it is the ACT. I treat HUMANS with respect and offer peace to all, but I do not condone nor promote that which is CLEARLY WRONG, especially when I have a 11 year old daughter who has to watch all this foolish behavior on every TV show and radio nowadays, which is why it is getting bigger and bigger. The same way kids emulate everything else on TV.

                Enough is enough

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                  unknownuser
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                  Hi idolfree1,

                  Peace be upon you,
                  shock Wow, i've only been gone since yesterday!

                  Thats exactly what I meant )

                  But while marriage has bee brougt up, lets discuss the purpose of marriage, the purpose is to have two spiritually minded people come together to help each other stay on the path and to CREATE A CHILD that they can raise as a spiritual being. Its not about getting tax breaks and goverment treats and all that.

                  Well, would u say that two like minded heterosexual people(or like u say, spiritually minded people) who also happen to be infertile shouldnt get married since their marriage wont create a child?

                  What if the two heterosexual partners are fertile but yet choose not to have a child and instead decide to adopt? Should they not get married since they dont intend to create a child?

                  Peace!

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                    zenje
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                    Listen brothers and sisters, we are talking about SEX, nothing more.
                    Thank you brother.

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                      sawtooth
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                      and sex (outside of procreation) is nothing more that an act of personal pleasure. So who cares what OTHERS want to do. I am sure they an be told they are headed to hell in a hand basket, and I am also sure most if not all, don't give a hoot. So what does it matter?

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                        topo
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                        i just checked some other threads on homosexuality on this forum, and i got more insight about this matter.
                        it's been quite interesting to see different opinions and views from people here, i must admit that i wouldn't even think to post this subject matter on any muslim forums. i just thought that this forum would be more open minded and think out of the box. i would've been kicked out if i dared enough to post it on traditional muslim forums. in certain degrees, this god alone movement is much more progressive than those of its 'competitors', at least it allows self-critics to the scripture, debating it openly and not depend on certain scholars or mullahs to interpret it.
                        but, i think the issue of homosexuality is still very much stuck, and i guess it will stay this way for many years to come.
                        i was growing up being taught that homosexuality was wrong, and even now i still think that it's still not natural. but the more i get to know more about gay people, the more i realize that they just can't escape their sexuality. and i'm pretty much stuck in the middle, between what the scriptures say about them and the facts about their unstoppable sexual orientation.
                        and i completely don't agree when people comparing homosexuality with other forms of perversion.
                        incest is horrendous sexual crime, and it's not something that can be compared to homosexuality. it's horrible sexual act for both heterosexual and homosexual people.
                        if heterosexual are not supposed to conduct sexual intercourse with animals, family members, children, or people outside their marriage, neither are homosexual people. so the norm is the same, it's just that the couple got the same gender.
                        to me, marriage is a form of taking legal responsibilities in relationship with someone else, based on mutual respects and love.
                        it's been believed for so long time that children can only be born within heterosexual relationship, so when the idea of gay couple adopting children or even human cloning came up, it freaked the religious folks out.
                        is everything that against the nature wrong? it's very absurd that religious nuts consider everything that people do or invent that is against the nature as against god's will. that is only why catholics and some fundamentalist muslim oppose birth control because they think it's against god's will to create children.
                        to me, human souls can be brought to world in many different ways, if science can do that. why think that it's challenging god's will? why not just think the other way around? that it proves that god has created the biological world so amazingly that all those science invention can happen. but i think it's another subject matter -B
                        but anyway, when it comes to sexual relationship, i don't see gender as a problem anymore, because some people were born transexual or with two private parts anyway. i think it just shows that god doesn't actually care about people's gender, we are free souls, genderless. there are girls who are boyish, so are boys who are girlish, but who cares? in some regards, this kind of awareness makes people more egalitarian.

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                          TheNabi
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                          Peace

                          I think being girlish or boyish is a cultural more. Being genetically female or genetically male is a different matter.

                          Joe

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                            unknownuser
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                            Peace be upon you peaceful musilm,

                            Well, would u say that two like minded heterosexual people(or like u say, spiritually minded people) who also happen to be infertile shouldnt get married since their marriage wont create a child?

                            Before I continue down this line of marriage, please list the reasons besides raising a peaceful, submitting child, that two would have for getting married. I just want to open this up a bit so we can see clearly.

                            What if the two heterosexual partners are fertile but yet choose not to have a child and instead decide to adopt?

                            Great! They will be good role models , showing the child how yin and yang complement each other in ALL of the universe.

                            Should they not get married since they dont intend to create a child?

                            Yes, they should get married and take up the responsibilty that two others failed to do.

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                              unknownuser
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                              Peace be upon you Sawtooth,

                              So who cares what OTHERS want to do

                              Ahhhhhh, this is the deadliest question! This is a question that is devlish in nature ( I am not calling you devlish). It is opposit to the concept of UNITY that is most important in spirituality. We MUST care what others do, we MUST! It is the NOT CARING that is causing the world to go to hell.

                              An example that is given in my culture is that a child used to get reprimanded by ANYONE in the neighborhood when they got out of line, but nowadays, no one cares, so the youth have gotten out of hand in in many cases have taken over the neighborhoods and the Older people are scared to say anything.

                              What if someone wants to sit outside and masturbate in your neighborhood? Should we say "Who cares?"

                              What if they want to sit on the corner, in full view of young children and smoke crack? Should we make laws for them and give them thier own cable station and represent them on every TV show and Radio show and give them thier own flag?

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                                ichephren
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                                topo said

                                and i completely don't agree when people comparing homosexuality with other forms of perversion.
                                incest is horrendous sexual crime, and it's not something that can be compared to homosexuality. it's horrible sexual act for both heterosexual and homosexual people.
                                if heterosexual are not supposed to conduct sexual intercourse with animals, family members, children, or people outside their marriage, neither are homosexual people. so the norm is the same, it's just that the couple got the same gender.

                                Why is incest a horrendous sexual crime? Why can it not be compared to homosexuality? Is it b/c you have simply decided that homosexuality is ok while incest is not? Please educate us on why incest is still wrong while we can be free to have homosexual sex. I also was not comparing the acts of heteros to homos, obviously I do not think that anyone should be engaged in incest...but the idea that incest is wrong as a matter of fact can be justified with the same arguments that prove that homosexuality is wrong. The problem is that there is no talk of incestual couples falling in love and wanting to get married. There aren't TV shows that allow them to portray a "normal" incestual couple so that it would seem normal. There aren't organizations for the acceptance of incest. SO, Please explain to me why incest is wrong while homosexuality is ok simply b/c homosexuals love each other!

                                is everything that against the nature wrong? it's very absurd that religious nuts consider everything that people do or invent that is against the nature as against god's will. that is only why catholics and some fundamentalist muslim oppose birth control because they think it's against god's will to create children.

                                Yes, everything that is against nature will cause bad things. For example, using birth control for some women will cause heart attacks, increase cancer rates, etc. There are varying degrees of wrongness as well. I can say that borth control is bad, but I wouldn't call it evil since it doesn't cause great harm for most people. But social ills like cloning and homosexuality are pervasive and can really harm society if uncontrolled.

                                but anyway, when it comes to sexual relationship, i don't see gender as a problem anymore, because some people were born transexual or with two private parts anyway. i think it just shows that god doesn't actually care about people's gender, we are free souls, genderless. there are girls who are boyish, so are boys who are girlish, but who cares? in some regards, this kind of awareness makes people more egalitarian.

                                How are some people born transexual? I do know some people are born with both genitals or no genitals. However, they usually lean to one side, or one side is more dominant than the other. And we all pretty much know that these are genetic abnormalities. Nobody claims that these events are normal, else we would all have multiple genitals. I do agree that human beings are genderless, but that is not really the point. The point is sex and sexuality, which is very different from gender.

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                                  Andya_Primanda
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                                  Peace everyone,
                                  Please read this article

                                  ...the social implications of evolutionary thinking. Now, I am not saying that if one holds to evolution he necessarily supports homosexuality. I am saying, however, that nearly all-homosexual leaders are evolutionists, and when pressed for justification of their homosexual life style and behavior, homosexual leaders almost always refer to evolution.

                                  "We are descended from animals," they say; "we have certain animal desires that must be satisfied. Few animals mate for life. And many times animals of the same sex interact sexually. And didn?t all bisexual animals evolve from asexual animals?"

                                  More sophisticated homosexuals would call the homosexual condition a "beneficial mutation." They are "born gay." Others point to certain animal groups, which lessen their reproduction rate when the population fills the ecological niche. "This is a way to fulfill one?s sexual needs without overpopulation; this is natural selection in action." The Bible calls such behavior "reprobate," and homosexual justifications such as are normally given must deny the Biblical mindset, which is founded in the creation of all things by a holy God, who created mankind male and female, in His image, with proper function in a marriage relationship.

                                  Excerpt taken from http//www.icr.org/index.php?module=articles&action=view&ID=1081
                                  GOD Bless!

                                  Oi! Keep evolution out of this. Those homo's who use evolution as an excuse to justify their behaviour is also committing the naturalistic fallacy. Just because one's born with it doesn't mean it's morally right.

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                                    Why isn't there anything about homosexuality in the Quran? It's obvious that homosexuality did exist in the time of the prophets, but still there isn't any kind of verse that just simply says that homosexuality is forbidden. Is it forbidden?
                                    "You practice sex with the men, instead of the women. Indeed, you are a transgressing people." 781, 2755 and 2929

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                                      Zehra
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                                      Have already posted this under the thread "Homosexuality" but thought I'd post it here too. Homosexuality is wrong. Consider Lot's people.

                                      Even though scientific studies these days claim that some people are born with homosexual tendencies (I don't know how far that's true), it is the act that counts. Take adultery, for example. Someone may be tempted to commit adultery but what counts is his refraining from carrying out the act. Similarly, even if a person has homosexual feelings and is tempted to act out on them, what counts is his refraining from carrying out the act. If people can avoid committing adultery, I'm certain they can also avoid committing homosexual acts.

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                                        Fahad1
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                                        salam .
                                        i quote M. Asadi here(copied from rationalreality.com)

                                        HOMOSEXUALITY THE SCIENTIFIC PERSPECTIVE

                                        Of all topics most popular in today's media, issues concerning homosexuals and homosexuality in general top the list. Homosexuality is generally defined as a sexual relationship between partners of the same sex. Debate concerning its causes and consequences has been going on for many centuries and almost in every period in human history. However, never before in human history has it been granted such wide scale acceptance in western society as it has now.

                                        The question that I seek to answer in this paper is whether such wide scale acceptance should in fact be granted to homosexual behavior? Is such behavior rational, scientifically functional or is it actually detrimental to society in which we live?

                                        HOW ABOUT READING THIS

                                        CLICK HERE HOMOSEXUALITY THE TRUTH & SOCIETY

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                                          topo
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                                          first of all, i only visited this website and joined the forum out of curiosity of what the people in this forum think about homosexuality. and obviously, many don't agree with it -B but i noticed that some are still exploring other possibilities to interpret the story of lot. whatever it is, i just hope that people in this forum will not justify violence, either direct or indirect, towards gay people. a shooting and stabbing at gay bar in new bedford just happened, and this kind of violence that is just similar how fundamentalist muslims justify themselves to kill people and destroy facilities that they think are against their teachings.
                                          maybe you all denounce homosexuality, and i respect that, but to take any legal rights away from gay community such as marriage right is not fair at all.
                                          secondly, i'm not trying to educate anyone at all, i know you guys have way much more knowledge than i do. i just posted my opinions, and i respect your opinions on this matter too.
                                          as far as incest is concerned, i think it's different from homosexuality because homosexual relationship involves two adult with full consent and informed decision. while most of incest cases, it's the parents or other relatives who molested the children in the family, which means that there is manipulation of the adults towards the children, and it makes it worse because the children would have mixed feelings, they got angry and scared but at the same time it's their family who did it to them, so many incest cases ended up unreported because the victims feel too ashamed that their own family would do something like that to them.
                                          relationships in the family, is a type of relationship that doesn't involve sex, the children respect the parents, and the parents nurture the children, so do between brothers and sisters. if sex is involved in the relatinship between parents and children, or brother and sister, it will be psychologically conflicting, plus they are biologically related. which is very different from common homosexual relationships that happen between people outside family, that they are not biologically related.
                                          as far as the birth control is concerned, i hope that you guys won't consider it as religiously unlawful, because it's better to plan the family ahead than having many children but not able to raise them properly.
                                          anyway, my argument might not be enough for everyone in this forum, and you guys might have better position in the eyes of god's, but i just hope that tolerance will not be forgotten when living in this diverse society.

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