sex is private
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young women are taught to eschew marriage, remain "independent" and to seek satisfaction in careers.
Women have worked very hard to achieve their independence. They went from powerlessness in Sufragettes Movement to become Prime Ministers and Presidents of nations. This is a great achievement. We should all celebrate this achievement instead of undermining it...
Regards,
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young women are taught to eschew marriage, remain "independent" and to seek satisfaction in careers.
Women have worked very hard to achieve their independence. They went from powerlessness in Sufragettes Movement to become Prime Ministers and Presidents of nations. This is a great achievement. We should all celebrate this achievement instead of undermining it...
Regards,
Oh Yes, we should celebrate and make women more and more a "Market Product" and strip her. Right?
Every precious thing in this universe is in manifold.
Diamonds are hidden in rocks.
Pearls are found in deep deep shells in the sea.So what if God made women to be precious and to stay in manifolds? Are you jealous of it?
And what is the great need to liberate women? Liberation from what? Ethical Norms? Liberation from cloths?
Is it essential that women show their body and breast to progress? Cant they progress without being exposed?DO THE MEN HAVE TO SHOW THEIR HIDDEN PARTS TO PROGRESS AND LIBERATE? DO THEY SHOW THEIR SEX ORGANS?
A WOMEN SHOWING HER BODY VS A WOMEN HIDING HER BODY,,,WHICH ONE IS MORE CHEAPER LOOKING?
VE
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Salaam virtual eye,
by answering lote in this manner you're just assuming...
he speaks of the best achieved by the fight for equality and you speak of the worst of 'women liberation' which really is just a new slavery...for men and women alike BTW - there's just no common ground
lk
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young women are taught to eschew marriage, remain "independent" and to seek satisfaction in careers.
Women have worked very hard to achieve their independence. They went from powerlessness in Sufragettes Movement to become Prime Ministers and Presidents of nations. This is a great achievement. We should all celebrate this achievement instead of undermining it...
Regards,
Oh Yes, we should celebrate and make women more and more a "Market Product" and strip her. Right?
Every precious thing in this universe is in manifold.
Diamonds are hidden in rocks.
Pearls are found in deep deep shells in the sea.Reducing Women to inanimate objects like Diamonds and Pearls is stripping Women of their human dignity!
Virtual Eye women are NOT diamonds and pearls - they are human beings. They too have dreams and aspirations. They too yearn to be free and not be subservient to a man!Regards,
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peace lotetree,
Reducing Women to inanimate objects like Diamonds and Pearls is stripping Women of their human dignity!
Virtual Eye women are NOT diamonds and pearls - they are human beings. They too have dreams and aspirations. They too yearn to be free and not be subservient to a man!i agree with you LT ;D.
peace.
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young women are taught to eschew marriage, remain "independent" and to seek satisfaction in careers.
Women have worked very hard to achieve their independence. They went from powerlessness in Sufragettes Movement to become Prime Ministers and Presidents of nations. This is a great achievement. We should all celebrate this achievement instead of undermining it...
Regards,
Oh Yes, we should celebrate and make women more and more a "Market Product" and strip her. Right?
Every precious thing in this universe is in manifold.
Diamonds are hidden in rocks.
Pearls are found in deep deep shells in the sea.Reducing Women to inanimate objects like Diamonds and Pearls is stripping Women of their human dignity!
Virtual Eye women are NOT diamonds and pearls - they are human beings. They too have dreams and aspirations. They too yearn to be free and not be subservient to a man!Regards,
Its metaphorically. Otherwise who told you that women should be used to make jewlery and should be close in small boxes?
Consider two twins sisters so same beauty.
One is wearing mini skirt and short dress etc. and one is wearing complete decent dress while hiding her all body. Both are walking down the street.
Now there is immoral person looking for some victim at the corner of street. What do you think , will he be attracted and make target? The girl who is already sexy looking in shorts? or the girl who is decently hiding her body and her private parts?Ofcourse the girl who is looking a "Babe" will have much more probabilty of being teased or staired at, while making people horny.
I hope you undersand now, (I can just hope).
VE
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Peace,
The Quran gives a couple of easy rules
1.women and men must cover their private parts.(cover is, that they are not seen from the outside, so not to tight we can every detail)
The women may relax (their dress code) around their fathers, their sons, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, the other women, and their (female) servants. They shall reverence GOD. GOD witnesses all things.
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Tell the believing men to lower their eyes and guard their private parts. There is for them goodness in this. God is aware of what they do.
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Tell the believing women to lower their eyes, guard their private parts, and not display their charms except what is apparent outwardly, and cover their bosoms(this word refers to parts of the body with 'holes' in it, except the face, if i'm correct) with their veils and not to show their finery except to their husbands or their fathers or fathers-in-law, their sons or step-sons, brothers, or their brothers' and sisters' sons, or their women attendants or captives, or male attendants who do not have any need (for women), or boys not yet aware of sex. They should not walk stamping their feet lest they make known what they hide of their Ornaments. O believers, turn to God, every one of you, so that you may be successful.
2.women are directed to lengthen their clothes, so no short clothing.(no open belly button, no supershorts and no short skirts)
O prophet, tell your wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they shall lengthen their garments. Thus, they will be recognized (as righteous women) and avoid being insulted. GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.
3.men and women are both directed to not stare at the opposite sex, so they don't get quickly arroused and learn people are humans, not objects. 2430 and 2431
4.women are restricted of not moving/dancing in public to reveal what was ordered to be concealed. 2431
The elderly women who do not expect to get married commit nothing wrong by relaxing their dress code, provided they do not reveal too much of their bodies. To maintain modesty is better for them. GOD is Hearer, Knower.
These rules are easy and detailed enough to tell exactly what to do with the question, so everybody shut up! ;D
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Peace arnold
...and shut up yourself ;D
where do you get that 24.31 is about dancing ? i'd rather refer to these ladies that walk likes ships on a rough see
and the suras are intelligent enough to be adapted to different times and societies - when does a skirt become too short ? The limit is different in saudia and america for sure
lk
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Peace,
The length depends on its culture, and place of use. Also you can read the persons intentions on the way they dress, but we all know what is meant here with these verses. And you have different forms of dances, here it only refers to real exposing dancing of course.... My dad used to say;"the shorter the skirt, the smaller the self-respect and brain."(he was only joking people, but i still like it.... )
And no, you shut up ;D
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Every precious thing in this universe is in manifold.
You cannot make that a rule. There are countless precious things of Allah's creations that are within reach..Have you not noticed any!?Diamonds are hidden in rocks.
And so? What makes diamonds precious in the first place? Just the fact that they are hidden? And so because diamonds are hard to get so they become precious!?
Do you know what was the mahar of Fatmah Al Zahra'a (pbuh)? How precious was it?Pearls are found in deep deep shells in the sea.
Why are pearls so precious (I suppose you mean the natural one)? Is it because that their price is the lives of poor human beings? Or those divers who would make it back to the ship only to get the price of their meal as their pay? Is that what make pearls precious?
Your analogy is not right. Women are not stones (diamonds) or grains of sand inside a shell (pearls). -
Peace all )
You know what bothers me very much?
All the time people with a certain identity are talking about other people, defining them, speaking for them.
Men do that for women, rich whites do that for poor blacks, heterosexuals do that for queers, feminist Westerners do that for traditional Arab women, traditional Arab women do that for feminist Westerners etc. etc. etc..
They all talk about others, whose experiences they haven?t shared, whose feelings they haven?t explored.
And all it shows is only one thing
The establishment of a power relation!As I mentioned, how does that Mr. Makow know what a woman wants more than anything?
And the same applies to this silly pearls and diamonds rhetoric that has been repeated over and over in the recent decades, mostly by traditional sunnis.
Women don?t need men to tell them that they are pearls and diamonds.
We don?t take this as a compliment when it is used to restrict OUR behaviour and to define us from an outside position.There are many many parts of modern feminism that I dont like. Partly it has replaced the demonization of the independent woman by a demonization of the woman who wants to belong.
This is wrong. Personal likes should be considered in both cases and personal interactions with men as well.
However, the modern conception of being a woman has achieved one thing that is very much to be appreciated
That women can talk for themselves, say themselves how they feel like, what they want and how they want to be valued.Regards,
Leyla
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Ofcourse the girl who is looking a "Babe" will have much more probabilty of being teased or staired at, while making people horny.
So a "babe" makes a guy "horny" therefore that gives you the right to strip all women of their human dignity and subjugate them under the power of men and make them into men's property - into Diamonds and Pearls so that they can be hidden away in hareems and black cloaks? Virtual Eye try to see women as human beings then you might realise that diamonds and pearls argument was invented by men to keep women under subjugation, to deny them their rights as human beings, to deny their freedom to be human being!
Regards,
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All the time people with a certain identity are talking about other people, defining them, speaking for them.
Men do that for women, rich whites do that for poor blacks, heterosexuals do that for queers, feminist Westerners do that for traditional Arab women, traditional Arab women do that for feminist Westerners etc. etc. etc..
They all talk about others, whose experiences they haven?t shared, whose feelings they haven?t explored.
And all it shows is only one thingThe establishment of a power relation!I don't understand your comments above of people speaking for other people. Slavery was not abolished by slaves talking for themselves. It was usually ordinary people and former slave owners that came to realise that Evil of Slavery and worked towards emancipationg the slaves. We don't have to experience injustice to speak against injustice.
Regards,
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Peace Lote Tree
Please read my post again, more carefully, also in context as an answer to the posts of virtualeye and the article by Mr. Makow who both tried to speak for women and define them.
I think you misunderstood my point.
I did not write about speaking for justice.
I wrote about defining others from an outsider`s position.As an addition
I guess slaves realized much earlier than the "ordinary people" the evils of slavery and tried to do much earlier something against it.
The list of historically documented tries of slave rebellions etc. is pretty long.
I guess that was because they experienced directly what those evils were about.
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Please read my post again, more carefully, also in context as an answer to the posts of virtualeye and the article by Mr. Makow who both tried to speak for women and define them.
I too spoke for women but from the point view of individuals. Thats why your comments where bit confusing.
I guess slaves realized much earlier than the "ordinary people" the evils of slavery and tried to do much earlier something against it. The list of historically documented tries of slave rebellions etc. is pretty long.
How nice that finally after centuries some from the class in power joined them!All these things too. But changed was brought about by those that were not slaves themselves, those that have not experienced slavery.
Regards,
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I too spoke for women but from the point view of individuals. Thats why your comments where bit confusing.
A, ok, I see. You thought I was answering you? No. I thought the context was clear.
All these things too. But changed was brought about by those that were not slaves themselves, those that have not experienced slavery
Which is a pitty. It even more enforces the power relationship.
There are theories that there are really good indications that the true reason why in the end the powerful decided to abolish slavery was just simply econmical.
The problem with slavery
Ok, you can treat slaves as without rights but still you need to feed them and take care of them so that they are still strong enough to work for you.
And that can become expensive with time ....It?s like with colonializm which was probably not abolished because of great men like Gandhi but simply because to have to care for your colonies is in the end more expensive than just putting your industry there through globalization.
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Ofcourse the girl who is looking a "Babe" will have much more probabilty of being teased or staired at, while making people horny.
So a "babe" makes a guy "horny" therefore that gives you the right to strip all women of their human dignity and subjugate them under the power of men and make them into men's property - into Diamonds and Pearls so that they can be hidden away in hareems and black cloaks? Virtual Eye try to see women as human beings then you might realise that diamonds and pearls argument was invented by men to keep women under subjugation, to deny them their rights as human beings, to deny their freedom to be human being!
Regards,
YOU GO PREACH THIS HUMAN BEING IDEOLOGY TO AMERICANS,,,,WHERE THEY HAVE HIGHEST RATE OF RAPES IN THE WORLD. THE COUNTRIES HAVING MORE NUDITY MEANS THEY PROVOKE THEIR MALES MORE. EVEN A STUPID CAN UNDERSTAND THE PROBABILTY OF MORE SEXUAL CRIME IN THE EXPLICIT ENVIRONMENT AS COMPARED TO THE ENVIRONMTN WHERE WOMEN COVER THEIR BODY BETTER.
In America a rape is that sexual activity which is done against the will of women AND is reported also. Other wise their must be several times more cases where women dont report. And there must be huge number of cases where both parteners in sex are willing.
So go preach all those nations that why do they become more violate when women use short dress, after all they should be seen as human. Right?
And I think you dont have balls, otherwise God has given this natural ability to MALES that they feel attraction for women (and its a test for our modesty).
VE.
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In America a rape is that sexual activity which is done against the will of women AND is reported also.
I see so you have defined rape as an sexual activity done against the WILL of WOMEN. Good. By that definition then millions of rapes are being committed daily in Middle East, Pakistan, India, Bangladesh etc. because women there have no will of their own they are the property of men! Diamonds and Pearls! And men there carry out these rapes within the safety of so called "marriage" and get away with it!!
And I think you dont have balls, otherwise God has given this natural ability to MALES that they feel attraction for women (and its a test for our modesty).
There you have your thinking. The DIVINE sanction to treat women like cattle!!
Regards,
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I too spoke for women but from the point view of individuals. Thats why your comments where bit confusing.
A, ok, I see. You thought I was answering you? No. I thought the context was clear.
Yes beause you wrote
They all talk about others, whose experiences they haven?t shared, whose feelings they haven?t explored.
I will never know what it is like to be a women because I will never be able to experience this. But I can speak against injustice done to women by men...
All these things too. But changed was brought about by those that were not slaves themselves, those that have not experienced slavery
Which is a pitty. It even more enforces the power relationship.
There are theories that there are really good indications that the true reason why in the end the powerful decided to abolish slavery was just simply econmical.
The problem with slavery
Ok, you can treat slaves as without rights but still you need to feed them and take care of them so that they are still strong enough to work for you.
And that can become expensive with time ....It?s like with colonializm which was probably not abolished because of great men like Gandhi but simply because to have to care for your colonies is in the end more expensive than just putting your industry there through globalization.
There have been compassionate people who have worked to get rid of slavery not because of economy but out of compassion...
Regards,