Another Sinful Act.
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As salamu alaykum.
Respectfully.Is masturbation a sin? Because if it is, then we're all in big trouble. I believe that seed in the male organism was meant to be ejected and it is impossible to be kept inside for such a long time as "when you get married".
So, would i be correct, if i said that masturbation is allowed in order to avoid the bigger sin - fornication or even rape? ??? ???
May Allah Most Merciful forgive me for such questions and i hope that this question won't make me look like abad guy in the eyes of the members of this forum. If this is a rude topic, i'll remove it within 24 hours. -[ -[ -[
As salamu alaykum. jedi
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Peace,
Alen you first have to learn the understanding of ithm in the Quran. Sin is a wrong baseless word. Every law of God has to do if it helps you or society, if it doesn't benefit your growth, then it is waste of God's gift, the wasting is already the punishment.
The point is, if you let yourself be driven by the sexual emotions, then it doesn't benefit your growth, but if you control your emotions and lust, you can make them work for you. So if it relieves you, then it doesn't harm your growth, it even helps you to stay in balance, but if your lusts are controlling you that you have to do it everyday, then it takes away the growth.
So it doesn't harm you to do it sometimes, but if it is your main occupation in your mind, then it does take away your growth.
Peace
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As salamu alaykum.
Respectfully. peaceThanks brother Arnold. handshake
It doesn't occupy my mind all the time, maybe once a week, because i read Qur'an every day. Reading Qur'an is hard for me because i love reading it and yet i have to hide it from my mother but i manage, thank Allah Most Merciful.I would love to get married, as i have already said so many times on this forum, but it is kinds impossible here because the women in Slovenia want to have "fun" before the marriage, a they put it. They want to fornicate prior to marriage and then get serious at the age of 30 and get married.
To me this is unacceptable. That's why, i want to get married and now that i have been deported and still want to get married, it looks like i wanna get married for the green card.
I'm avoid this sinful act as much as humanly possible and i stay in the apartment for as long as humanly possible but sometimes i have to go to the city or to the mall and thank God Most High that i pray otherwise the satan would convinced me. ut i rely on Allah Most Powerful and i Know that only He will and can protect me.
I can understand why muslims in the Mid-East marry their sons and daughters at an eraly age. I totally understand them, while these muslims here don't even care, if they kids fornicate, in fact they even support it. brickwall brickwall
Thanks for explanation.
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Peace arnoldyasin. Excellent post mister... bravo
Its all about whether our actions are harmful or beneficial in the long and short term...
Look at our deeds in how they affect our positive development and that of others...
How can something be a sin if nobody or nothing is harmed in the long or short term.....?