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    unknownuser
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    Hello everyone,

    I have a question regarding the prophet and his wives. Verse 3351 says

    "You may gently shun any one of them, and you may bring closer to you any one of them. If you reconcile with any one you had estranged, you commit no error. In this way, they will be pleased, will have no grief, and will be content with what you equitably offer to all of them. GOD knows what is in your hearts. GOD is Omniscient, Clement.".

    My question as commented by Myr is that why did God give the prophet the green light to do whatever he wanted with his wives. I am by no way disrespecting God's decision or the prophet, but if read from the point of view of today's modern person, doesn't what Myr said seem true - that God did give Muhammed the green light to do whatever he wanted with his wives? I am just wondering.

    God be praised.

    Salaams .. this exact query has been discussed further up along this thread.

    Also, this thread is about women's status in Paradise, not man / wife relationship on earth which is a very different matter from the main theme of brother al-Khidr's original article. InshAllah, if or when we may start a new thread on this subject, we could again take up this issue in still greater detail with precise Quraanic quotes from various chapters, preceding and following verse 3351.

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      lovelymoslems
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      Thats stories was not telling the next and uknown paradise, but teliing a allegoric pleasures for men in the heaven i.e. in the kingdom of god - in the earth - whereby the prophets rules the worlds.

      Zauja = is spouse not mandatory as wife but can be spouse of leader and his people.

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        unknownuser
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        Salaam

        I believe these are three beautiful verses

        Qur'aan 3021-"Among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other. He places in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are signs for people who think.

        Qur'aan 3332-"You shall not covet the qualities bestowed upon each other by Allah; the men enjoy certain qualities, and the women enjoy certain qualities. You may implore Allah to shower you with His grace. Allah is fully aware of all things.

        Qur'aan 3195-"Their Lord responded to them "I never fail to reward any worker among you for your work, be you male or female; you are EQUAL to one another...

        Salaam

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          unknownuser
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          Salaam

          I believe these are three beautiful verses

          Qur'aan 3021-"Among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other. He places in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are signs for people who think.

          Qur'aan 3332-"You shall not covet the qualities bestowed upon each other by Allah; the men enjoy certain qualities, and the women enjoy certain qualities. You may implore Allah to shower you with His grace. Allah is fully aware of all things.

          Qur'aan 3195-"Their Lord responded to them "I never fail to reward any worker among you for your work, be you male or female; you are EQUAL to one another...

          Salaam

          Wa salaam, no_shirk. Nice to see you join this thread. Yes .. indeed these verses are beautiful. Thanks ..

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            phoenix1
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            There will be no women in paradise, right?
            a soul is neutral. There aren't any differences between a man and a woman except the ones we create.

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              unknownuser
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              not that i disagree waleed, but how do you know what a soul is? have you seen it?

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                phoenix1
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                If you have bothered to read my title, given to me by the mighty queen Elke, you should know that I'm not to be messed with.

                D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D

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                  lovelymoslems
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                  If you think Paradise is a pleasant place for moslems after death, you will have endless and unsoved discussions

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                    Al_Khidr
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                    If you think Paradise is a pleasant place for moslems after death, you will have endless and unsoved discussions

                    Salaam lovelymoslems

                    Since you have made that declaration do you believe Muslims will go to hell and not Heaven?

                    Are you a non-Muslim?

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                      Elena
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                      If you have bothered to read my title, given to me by the mighty queen Elke, you should know that I'm not to be messed with.

                      D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D >D

                      D

                      Hi Phoenix, I think you misunderstood Elke, I think she meant she would change her nickname if she was you, because you change your nick frequently, not that you should change yours D

                      Anyway, Elke and that nick are incompatile, as two totally opposite things D , while it would suit much better to the author of it.

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                        unknownuser
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                        LOL so that is why phoenix1 changed his name rotfl

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                          phoenix1
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                          peace,
                          I know what Elke meant. Just thought it'd be funny.
                          peace

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                            unknownuser
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                            Peace all. What do the gay people in paradise get,men or women....?

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                              Alen
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                              Peace all. What do the gay people in paradise get,men or women....?

                              Salaam.

                              First of all, being gay is a sin in Islam.
                              Second, .... actually, there is no second.
                              Gays have experienced some trauma and that's why they're gays.

                              Sad but not for me.

                              Salaam.

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                                unknownuser
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                                Peace alen. Not for me either,but no gays in heaven then? And what trauma you referring to?
                                peace No justice for gays...? muscle handshake

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                                  Alen
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                                  Peace alen. Not for me either,but no gays in heaven then? And what trauma you referring to?
                                  peace No justice for gays...? muscle handshake

                                  Salaam.

                                  That's right, gays, lezbians are sinners, we have proof in the Qur'an.
                                  What trauma? I'm no shrink, but ask your doctor WHAT CAUSES a person that he becomes a gay or a lesbian?

                                  Being a gay/lesbian is not normal.
                                  Salaam.

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                                    unknownuser
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                                    Peace all. What do the gay people in paradise get,men or women....?

                                    Salaam.

                                    First of all, being gay is a sin in Islam.
                                    Second, .... actually, there is no second.
                                    Gays have experienced some trauma and that's why they're gays.

                                    Sad but not for me.

                                    Salaam.

                                    Wa'Salaam
                                    That's right Alen. And sinners might never enter Paradise. It's only for Allah to make the final decision.

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                                      lovelymoslems
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                                      That's right Alen. And sinners might never enter Paradise. It's only for Allah to make the final decision.

                                      Men doing rituism only not devoting his life to ad-deen, are sinners too.

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                                        unknownuser
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                                        Salaam.

                                        That's right, gays, lezbians are sinners, we have proof in the Qur'an.
                                        What trauma? I'm no shrink, but ask your doctor WHAT CAUSES a person that he becomes a gay or a lesbian?

                                        Being a gay/lesbian is not normal.
                                        Salaam.

                                        Again, very well put brother Alen. Keep up your wise perception and ignore the ignorant!

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                                          matinbhagat
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                                          Salam,

                                          Actually is being gay a sin?Maybe not totally.Some guys for examples,may like males for sexual companionship,but they dunt act upon it,they can have clean and purely friendship based relationships with other guys without trespassing the line.Hence though their inclination is homosexual they keep God's law.Am i wrong to say this?They only become sinners when they practice sex with the males instead of the females as spelled out in a verse.....

                                          Salam

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