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Bringing my parents to REAL Islam

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    Wakas
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    peace,

    I recommend starting off with small things. For example, if any day to day topic of conversation or news item comes up, try and give the Quranic viewpoint. But more so than specific points, try and emphasise the Quranic method. Appeal to their inquisitve/questioning nature, inner compass etc, just make them think more.... you do not necessarily have to adopt a Q&A format.

    It is very important to take it gradually in my opinion. For example, if someone told me back then the things that I think now about "Islam" there is almost zero chance I would accept it.

    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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      Thanks, I plan to start with my mother, seeing as she is more open to ideas,
      any more input from others would be greatly appreciated.

      If your mother trusts her husband over herself, then that's a mistake. You should always start with the father, as per the prophet Ibrahim. Or in the case of that film, both of them together.

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        peace,

        I recommend starting off with small things. For example, if any day to day topic of conversation or news item comes up, try and give the Quranic viewpoint. But more so than specific points, try and emphasise the Quranic method. Appeal to their inquisitive/questioning nature, inner compass etc, just make them think more. You do not necessarily have to adopt a Q&A format.

        It is very important to take it gradually in my opinion. For example, if someone told me back then the things that I think now about "Islam" there is almost zero chance I would accept it.

        Salaam
        And how about future parents bringing them to learn to teach through Quran so they know they have fulfilled their duty as Luqman did. The other day I made my sons recite surah 31 and while reading I realised that if only we taught this kind of wisdom to our children it would cover all aspects of edcution which the single surah coverd from the law of gravity to discipline etc.
        ! Maybe we can explore this in Friday Khtubah

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          Salaam
          And how about future parents bringing them to learn to teach through Quran so they know they have fulfilled their duty as Luqman did. The other day I made my sons recite surah 31 and while reading I realised that if only we taught this kind of wisdom to our children it would cover all aspects of edcution which the single surah coverd from the law of gravity to discipline etc.
          ! Maybe we can explore this in Friday Khtubah

          hmm you are becoming wise day by day !

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            farida
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            hmm you are becoming wise day by day !

            Because wisdom comes with age kid hmm

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              Because wisdom comes with age kid hmm

              elektro ;D

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                age doesn't always bring wisdom, sometimes it comes alone.

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                  Rev_John
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                  Salam fellow forum goers,

                  I've been contemplating trying to convert my mother and father to Islam and to distance themselves from Sunnism. My mother and father were both brought up with the system and adhere to its ridiculous rules and regulations. brickwall

                  The good thing is that they are both resonable and intelligent people and I believe that if I can throw some facts and rational their way, that they might see things from a new perspective. By facts and rational, I mean to explain why their views are unislamic and why they shouldnt follow them.

                  Any suggestions, I'd like a unified family! group

                  How is it going, have you tried yet?

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                    farida
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                    age doesn't always bring wisdom, sometimes it comes alone.

                    But wisdom comes with age yes

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                      But wisdom comes with age yes

                      Wisdom does not come with age. Wisdom comes with experience.

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                        farida
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                        Wisdom does not come with age. Wisdom comes with experience.

                        And experience comes with age and learn from the yr mistakes you become wise

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                          And experience comes with age and learn from the yr mistakes you become wise

                          A 20 year old person who goes out into the world and takes notice of what is going on is much more wise than a 50 year old person who stays at home dreaming all there lives

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                            But wisdom comes with age yes

                            how old are you?

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                              how old are you?

                              Old! '(

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                                farida
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                                how old are you?

                                Remember kid never ask this to a woman elektro

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                                  farida
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                                  Old! '(

                                  nope

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                                    Rev_John
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                                    Remember kid never ask this to a woman elektro

                                    I'm not a woman

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                                      farida
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                                      I'm not a woman

                                      and ur not farida either yeah

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                                        Remember kid never ask this to a woman elektro

                                        don't call me kid, it reminds me "The Reader" laugh

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                                          don't call me kid, it reminds me "The Reader" laugh

                                          I remember that kid
                                          ohh sorry with ages goes memory too

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