Taking off the Hijab
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oops sorry all... i didnt mean people in this particular topic... just in general many on free-minds have a very negative attitude towards hijab
secondly i didnt mean that taking off hijab = dressing immodestly because i dont belive the hijab is found anywhere in the quran and anyone can be dressed modestly without it, but i was just giving the example of my friends (and im not judging them and i love them coz they are my friends) I didnt mean to sound judgemental so sorry if thats how my post sounded....
and i also admire those girls who have the courage to take it off because its an incredibly difficult thing to do - someone likened it in an earlier post to the first day you wear it - its the same scary feeling... so well done to those girls who have the strength of conviction to do so... maybe ill get there someday... maybe not...
I like the way you said it HNF.... there is nothing wrong with learning a lesson from covering your hair and then moving on to the next phase in your life without it ..... but taking that step isnt an easy one
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and i also admire those girls who have the courage to take it off because its an incredibly difficult thing to do - someone likened it in an earlier post to the first day you wear it - its the same scary feeling... so well done to those girls who have the strength of conviction to do so... maybe ill get there someday... maybe not...
I like the way you said it HNF.... there is nothing wrong with learning a lesson from covering your hair and then moving on to the next phase in your life without it ..... but taking that step isnt an easy one
Definitely not easy. It's a huge step and I'm not sure if I'm completely ready to make it but patience is key, in all situations. I don't want to make any hasty decisions either for the wrong reasons because then I'd be in another pickle
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In about 4 or 5 centuries, the headscarf will be completely forgotten as a religious obligation.
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Definitely not easy. It's a huge step and I'm not sure if I'm completely ready to make it but patience is key, in all situations. I don't want to make any hasty decisions either for the wrong reasons because then I'd be in another pickle P
Exactly how i feel...
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quoth the Nostradamus of Maldives
The Mainstream christians seem to have forgotten it 5 centuries ago. The same will happen to mainstream islam and Judaism. Their fabrications will disappear.
And say ?The truth has come and falsehood has perished. Falsehood is always bound to perish (qur'an 1781!?
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The Mainstream christians seem to have forgotten it 5 centuries ago. The same will happen to mainstream islam and Judaism. Their fabrications will disappear.
And say ?The truth has come and falsehood has perished. Falsehood is always bound to perish (qur'an 1781!?
Well, to be honest, it hasn't been abandoned. Orthodox Jewish women usually cover their hair (with wigs, yeah doesn't make much sense but any who) and in Church most of the older people cover their heads (with hats). Christian women should cover their hair when praying and Jewish should always cover it. It's actually a part of their religion and their holy books. I doubt Hijab will ever leave Islam, in fact it seems to be making a significant re-emergence, particularly in the last couple of decades.
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There was a strong re-emergence of fundamentalism in Christianity 5 centuries ago with the Reformation. It lasted about 200 years before giving way to the Enlightenment and industrial revolution.
If we were to map the same thing onto Islam with the Wahabi/Salafi movements being the equivalent of Protestantism, they've got less than a hundred years left before losing influence. Unfortunately this parallel would also suggest the worst religious wars between muslims are still ahead of us.
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There was a strong re-emergence of fundamentalism in Christianity 5 centuries ago with the Reformation. It lasted about 200 years before giving way to the Enlightenment and industrial revolution.
If we were to map the same thing onto Islam with the Wahabi/Salafi movements being the equivalent of Protestantism, they've got less than a hundred years left before losing influence. Unfortunately this parallel would also suggest the worst religious wars between muslims are still ahead of us.
I agree.
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There was a strong re-emergence of fundamentalism in Christianity 5 centuries ago with the Reformation. It lasted about 200 years before giving way to the Enlightenment and industrial revolution.
If we were to map the same thing onto Islam with the Wahabi/Salafi movements being the equivalent of Protestantism, they've got less than a hundred years left before losing influence. Unfortunately this parallel would also suggest the worst religious wars between muslims are still ahead of us.
Yes, but those fundamentalists had nothing to base their practices on. This movement is well funded, extremely organised and have got controlling the masses down to a tee. Not to mention the ingenious strategy of getting Arabs to lead this movement, and thus are already in some faux esteemed position and have the advantage of 'knowing the Quran'. With the current state of affairs, I highly doubt that his movement will be short lived. They may be met with strong intellectual opposition but when did that stop anyone from propagating their motives. It's a different time and the world is different. There is a real motive now days to cling to fundie ideologies especially when the end of the world is soon
Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahab lived in the 18th century; We're now in the 21st century. Definitely not short lived movement it's growing tenfold now. Perhaps this is the peak but as trends are showing, it's probably just beginning.
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Protestant fundamentalism was pretty well organised. They had their 'Quran' in the form of the main books of the bible and their 'Hadith' in the letters of St Paul and other early Christian writings up to the Council of Nicea. They fought wars a lot more effectively than fundamentalist Muslims today. Millions died in the Catholic Vs Protestant 30 Years War and the Catholic Holy Roman Empire was brought to its knees. Protestant Fundamentalism went on to be the dominant religion of northern Europe and its empires, with witches being burned just like sunni muslims stone women today. According to wiki
The classical period of witchhunts in Europe falls into the Early Modern period or about 1480 to 1700, spanning the upheavals of the Reformation and the Thirty Years' War, resulting in an estimated 40,000 to 100,000 executions.
http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Witch-hunt
The weakness of wahabism and other forms of fundamentalist islam is that they rely on fear and a feeling of alienation from society. That's why they're more popular amounts muslims in western countries than they are in muslim countries, except actual war zones. So I expect over time as muslim minorities in western countries stop feeling out of place, wahabism will go into decline. I suspect this is happening quite quickly already - since America and Europe are increasingly multicultural, it is not so hard to feel one belongs. The main set back is racism and anti-muslim politicians whipping up hatred, but hopefully such people can be quickly overcome.
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jedi wears hijab too jedi sometimes
lol rotfl
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Salam
I just wanted to add my personal experience for removing hijab.
Well to be frank I have been wearing my hijab since I was 16 years. Now I'm 20 years. A few months back I was feeling very frustrated wearing it. I coud not stand it anymore. I tried several times to view my opinions, but it was said that once you start to wear it, you can't take it off.
I tried to talk to my father once, and he was with me. He too doesnt agree that in the Quran, it was mentionned to cover the hair. My mother was angry and she did not speak to me for one week. But now Alhamdulilah, all's fine at my place. I am engaged, N my fiance threatened to leave me coz I wanted to remove it, but I did not let myself fall weak. I was too determined to remove it,.Well finally he agreed to let me be without it but on the condition that I have to wear it after nikah.
Secondly ever since I removed it, I got a lot of people saying it's wrong what I did and blabla..I really dont knw how to rufute them, coz according to them, I'm going against the Quran.
Anyway, just 1 more thing to highlight is that I hve got nothing against hijab, but I do not have any regrets since I removed it.
Soraya -
Peace Soraya
Good to hear about your experience.
But still I am confused, You said all is fine, but your fiance is saying you have to start wearing it again after the Nikah. Don't mean to be so to the point, but is that what you want ? If not how is all fine ?
Kukumber.
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it's sad how so many people are obsessed about telling women what to wear..
Peace,
Well what I meant was that temporarily all is fine. Atleast I am free from my frustrations, and that I am really happy.
Later on, I'll see what happens next, but Inshah Allah I'll get the guts to not accept his request of wearing it back.sounds complicated..
good luck with that
peace.
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Peace,
Well what I meant was that temporarily all is fine. Atleast I am free from my frustrations, and that I am really happy.
Later on, I'll see what happens next, but Inshah Allah I'll get the guts to not accept his request of wearing it back.Peace Soraya,
I would think that if he wants you to wear hijab - and you refuse - that it will create a lot of problems between you after you get married. Many men are adamant that their wives wear it. Just a thought ... but you of course know him - I don't. P -
Nice verse but irrelevant.
If showing hair is nudity, so is showing face, so is showing hand feet etc on both sexes. if you believe exposing anything is nudity well than it works both ways.
hair can be an attraction on men and women. Bald men for example look at them with and without hair, a different look is perceived. beauty is subjective.
Maybe you should ask your question
Incorrect... http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9x5wY6hbX8 - Do you see women going deaf in front of men?