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    MUNZIR_ALI
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    In about 4 or 5 centuries, the headscarf will be completely forgotten as a religious obligation.

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      In about 4 or 5 centuries, the headscarf will be completely forgotten as a religious obligation.

      quoth the Nostradamus of Maldives

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        Definitely not easy. It's a huge step and I'm not sure if I'm completely ready to make it but patience is key, in all situations. I don't want to make any hasty decisions either for the wrong reasons because then I'd be in another pickle P

        Exactly how i feel...

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          MUNZIR_ALI
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          quoth the Nostradamus of Maldives

          The Mainstream christians seem to have forgotten it 5 centuries ago. The same will happen to mainstream islam and Judaism. Their fabrications will disappear.

          And say ?The truth has come and falsehood has perished. Falsehood is always bound to perish (qur'an 1781!?

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            Sirius
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            The Mainstream christians seem to have forgotten it 5 centuries ago. The same will happen to mainstream islam and Judaism. Their fabrications will disappear.

            And say ?The truth has come and falsehood has perished. Falsehood is always bound to perish (qur'an 1781!?

            Well, to be honest, it hasn't been abandoned. Orthodox Jewish women usually cover their hair (with wigs, yeah doesn't make much sense but any who) and in Church most of the older people cover their heads (with hats). Christian women should cover their hair when praying and Jewish should always cover it. It's actually a part of their religion and their holy books. I doubt Hijab will ever leave Islam, in fact it seems to be making a significant re-emergence, particularly in the last couple of decades.

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              There was a strong re-emergence of fundamentalism in Christianity 5 centuries ago with the Reformation. It lasted about 200 years before giving way to the Enlightenment and industrial revolution.

              If we were to map the same thing onto Islam with the Wahabi/Salafi movements being the equivalent of Protestantism, they've got less than a hundred years left before losing influence. Unfortunately this parallel would also suggest the worst religious wars between muslims are still ahead of us.

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                MUNZIR_ALI
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                There was a strong re-emergence of fundamentalism in Christianity 5 centuries ago with the Reformation. It lasted about 200 years before giving way to the Enlightenment and industrial revolution.

                If we were to map the same thing onto Islam with the Wahabi/Salafi movements being the equivalent of Protestantism, they've got less than a hundred years left before losing influence. Unfortunately this parallel would also suggest the worst religious wars between muslims are still ahead of us.

                I agree.

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                  Sirius
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                  There was a strong re-emergence of fundamentalism in Christianity 5 centuries ago with the Reformation. It lasted about 200 years before giving way to the Enlightenment and industrial revolution.

                  If we were to map the same thing onto Islam with the Wahabi/Salafi movements being the equivalent of Protestantism, they've got less than a hundred years left before losing influence. Unfortunately this parallel would also suggest the worst religious wars between muslims are still ahead of us.

                  Yes, but those fundamentalists had nothing to base their practices on. This movement is well funded, extremely organised and have got controlling the masses down to a tee. Not to mention the ingenious strategy of getting Arabs to lead this movement, and thus are already in some faux esteemed position and have the advantage of 'knowing the Quran'. With the current state of affairs, I highly doubt that his movement will be short lived. They may be met with strong intellectual opposition but when did that stop anyone from propagating their motives. It's a different time and the world is different. There is a real motive now days to cling to fundie ideologies especially when the end of the world is soon

                  Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahab lived in the 18th century; We're now in the 21st century. Definitely not short lived movement it's growing tenfold now. Perhaps this is the peak but as trends are showing, it's probably just beginning.

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                    Protestant fundamentalism was pretty well organised. They had their 'Quran' in the form of the main books of the bible and their 'Hadith' in the letters of St Paul and other early Christian writings up to the Council of Nicea. They fought wars a lot more effectively than fundamentalist Muslims today. Millions died in the Catholic Vs Protestant 30 Years War and the Catholic Holy Roman Empire was brought to its knees. Protestant Fundamentalism went on to be the dominant religion of northern Europe and its empires, with witches being burned just like sunni muslims stone women today. According to wiki

                    The classical period of witchhunts in Europe falls into the Early Modern period or about 1480 to 1700, spanning the upheavals of the Reformation and the Thirty Years' War, resulting in an estimated 40,000 to 100,000 executions.

                    http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Witch-hunt

                    The weakness of wahabism and other forms of fundamentalist islam is that they rely on fear and a feeling of alienation from society. That's why they're more popular amounts muslims in western countries than they are in muslim countries, except actual war zones. So I expect over time as muslim minorities in western countries stop feeling out of place, wahabism will go into decline. I suspect this is happening quite quickly already - since America and Europe are increasingly multicultural, it is not so hard to feel one belongs. The main set back is racism and anti-muslim politicians whipping up hatred, but hopefully such people can be quickly overcome.

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                      san
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                      hi, HNF, i like that avatar of yours. nice photograph. (i wish you hadn't decided to hijab your face with your pose though laugh )

                      jedi wears hijab too jedi sometimes

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                        MUNZIR_ALI
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                        jedi wears hijab too jedi sometimes

                        lol rotfl

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                          Soraya
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                          Salam
                          I just wanted to add my personal experience for removing hijab.
                          Well to be frank I have been wearing my hijab since I was 16 years. Now I'm 20 years. A few months back I was feeling very frustrated wearing it. I coud not stand it anymore. I tried several times to view my opinions, but it was said that once you start to wear it, you can't take it off.
                          I tried to talk to my father once, and he was with me. He too doesnt agree that in the Quran, it was mentionned to cover the hair. My mother was angry and she did not speak to me for one week. But now Alhamdulilah, all's fine at my place. I am engaged, N my fiance threatened to leave me coz I wanted to remove it, but I did not let myself fall weak. I was too determined to remove it,.Well finally he agreed to let me be without it but on the condition that I have to wear it after nikah.
                          Secondly ever since I removed it, I got a lot of people saying it's wrong what I did and blabla..I really dont knw how to rufute them, coz according to them, I'm going against the Quran.
                          Anyway, just 1 more thing to highlight is that I hve got nothing against hijab, but I do not have any regrets since I removed it.
                          Soraya

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                            Kukumber
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                            Peace Soraya

                            Good to hear about your experience.

                            But still I am confused, You said all is fine, but your fiance is saying you have to start wearing it again after the Nikah. Don't mean to be so to the point, but is that what you want ? If not how is all fine ?

                            Kukumber.

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                              Soraya
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                              Peace,
                              Well what I meant was that temporarily all is fine. Atleast I am free from my frustrations, and that I am really happy.
                              Later on, I'll see what happens next, but Inshah Allah I'll get the guts to not accept his request of wearing it back.

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                                SarahY
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                                it's sad how so many people are obsessed about telling women what to wear..

                                Peace,
                                Well what I meant was that temporarily all is fine. Atleast I am free from my frustrations, and that I am really happy.
                                Later on, I'll see what happens next, but Inshah Allah I'll get the guts to not accept his request of wearing it back.

                                sounds complicated..

                                good luck with that

                                peace.

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                                  Peace,
                                  Well what I meant was that temporarily all is fine. Atleast I am free from my frustrations, and that I am really happy.
                                  Later on, I'll see what happens next, but Inshah Allah I'll get the guts to not accept his request of wearing it back.

                                  Peace Soraya,
                                  I would think that if he wants you to wear hijab - and you refuse - that it will create a lot of problems between you after you get married. Many men are adamant that their wives wear it. Just a thought ... but you of course know him - I don't. P

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                                    FAR
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                                    Nice verse but irrelevant.

                                    If showing hair is nudity, so is showing face, so is showing hand feet etc on both sexes. if you believe exposing anything is nudity well than it works both ways.

                                    hair can be an attraction on men and women. Bald men for example look at them with and without hair, a different look is perceived. beauty is subjective.

                                    Maybe you should ask your question

                                    Incorrect... http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9x5wY6hbX8 - Do you see women going deaf in front of men?

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                                      FAR
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                                      Never seen mothers jump to cover their kids eyes because a woman's hair is waving in the air.

                                      Did you never see mothers stop their kids from watching porn and resulting in "sexual bullying in schools"?

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                                        FAR
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                                        Wow at this tirade. All I can say is wow. It's just a guess but are you a man? If you can point me to the part of the Quran which instructs women to cover their hair then I'll admit my mistake and never consider taking off my Hijab again but I've been searching and searching for 3 years and I STILL haven't found it. Maybe you saw something that the whole world didn't because even the Sunni Ulema admit that hair is not instructed to be covered (they just add that bit in their parenthesis).

                                        But anyways, as far as I'm aware none of the Hijabis here have taken off their scarves and those without scarves didn't wear it in the first place so before you go all Domo Kun on us realise that it's not a superficial matter for us 'fake Muslimahs'. It's something that is obviously tearing me enough to have to even consider writing this do you think if I didn't care I would even think twice? But no, the 'real Muslimahs' (even those who believe that covering the hair is fardh) have never even considered taking off the Hijab right? The real Muslimahs have never ever done anything 'wrong' (and I'm not implying that anything in this discussion is wrong).

                                        Also, I highly doubt that a flimsy piece of cotton is going to stop those pheromones from reaching those ravaging males who can't control themselves! And what about those ones who don't really give a damn if you wear a scarf or not? Orrr how about the ones who PREFER Hijab or even Niqab?

                                        http//news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/7514567.stm
                                        http//observers.france24.com/en/content/20090414-fighting-sexual-harrassment-egypt-women-rights

                                        Quran 2430-31 - refer to the arabic if you may.
                                        http//www.islamicity.com/QuranSearch/

                                        The real muslimahs understand quran 971, and they are not sexists. http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9x5wY6hbX8

                                        And as for your links... please refer to the porn sexction here http//docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AV-t_z4hXTE3ZGNqemI3bmNfMGR6MzhtNmR2&hl=en

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                                          Well, seeing as the hair is so attractive anyway, I think I should set up my own line of mijabs, Hijabs for men

                                          Well I would purchase one of those because I am too attractive for women.

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