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Quran 9:71 and talking to women

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    MUNZIR_ALI
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    I need something other than that verse because I'll here some people tell me that it means "believing men seperate to women", I need something solid in quranic verse terms that states that people are allowed to talk to another.

    What's wrong with it... is that it requires more answers. I'm sure wakas uses yahoo answer.

    So are you saying that we are forbidden to talk to each other if it's not in the Koran?

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      SarahY
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      Far

      Where does the Quran say women and men need to be segregated? If you?re talking to traditionalists tell them women talked to the prophet and the companions, did they commit sin is this wrong?

      How about this verse

      2235 (Asad) But you will incur no sin if you give a hint of marriage-offer to these women, or if you conceive such an intention without making it obvious God knows that you intend to ask them in marriage. Do not, however, plight your troth with them in secret, but speak only in a decent manner; and do not proceed with tying the marriage-knot ere the ordained has come to its end. And know that God knows what is in your minds, and therefore remain conscious of Him; and know, too, that God is much-forgiving, forbearing.

      I didn't read your link my internet is capped so takes to long to load.

      Salam.

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        satisfaction
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        I need something solid in quranic verse terms that states that people are allowed to talk to another.

        Well the problem here is that you're looking to find a verse that states that you are allowed to do something. Generally- you're allowed to do something unless the Quran FORBIDS it. Otherwise you could ask countless questions like "I need to find something solid that states I'm allowed to go skydiving", "I need to find something solid that states that I can pet my dog"- not to belittle you but of course men and women can talk to each other because it is not forbidden. And if it were then believe me the human race wouldn't have survived.

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          Mazhar
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          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/024.%20An%20Noor/24.61f.gif
          or in those houses the keys of which are in your possession or houses of your close friends,
          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/024.%20An%20Noor/24.61g.gif
          There is no harm and embarrassment for you people that you eat together or separately {Refer 2461]

          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/024.%20An%20Noor/024.%20E%20An%20Noor.htm

          And read the text of oath to be taken from believing women which includes these words "they will not indulge in consented sexual intercourse", in 6012.

          How women should converse with other men? This is the advice
          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/033.%20Al%20Ahzaab/33.32.gif
          O you the Wives of Elevated and Chosen One! You all are not like even a single one from whole of the women .
          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/033.%20Al%20Ahzaab/33.32a.gif
          Since you have remained mindful and cautious avoiding unrestrained conduct therefore you also do not let your speech be soft/limber
          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/033.%20Al%20Ahzaab/33.32b.gif
          lest the one is moved in whose heart is a disease
          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/033.%20Al%20Ahzaab/33.32c.gif
          and you speak a sentence/statement in words of recognized unambiguous import;

          http//haqeeqat.org.pk/English%20Tafsir%20e%20Haqeeqat/00.Arabic%20Text/033.%20Al%20Ahzaab/033.%20B%20Al%20Ahzaab.htm

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            Edip_Yuksel
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            Can any of you muslimahs help a brother out?

            http//answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An0dic4tV2jkHkqoOhuAMUjty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100122181847AAEAmQR

            Muslimahs (female) Would you expect a muslim (male) to talk to you?

            Since writing is like talking, and I am not sure whether you are male or female, my niece, a Muslimah (female), asked me to convey your Muslim (male) friend the following response

            No. A big Muslimah (female) NO! We, the Sunni and Shiite females, are not supposed to be talked to. We are expected to live inside black sacks, without communicating with men. When we reach age 9, our fathers start looking for good Muslim (male) husbands. Our fathers will find suitable men who have not talked to us nor have seen our faces, and they will marry us without even our presence. A group of Muslims (males) will do the nikah on our behalves followed by segregated wedding feasts.

            According to our mazhab, Prophet Muhammad, Peace Be Upon Him, did not talk to women and women hid themselves from him. Though the Quran talks about Muhammad's (pbuh) making a covenant with women, according to our ulama it was through their fathers, husbands or behind a banana tree. Though the Quran mentions about possibility of Muhammad being attracted to the beauty of women, according to our ulama, it is not about their physical beauty but the beauty of the veil covering their faces and blacks sack covering their bodies from head to toe.

            We are sinful and dirty. Don't be misled by the Quran (which cannot guide us without hadith, sunna, ijma, qiyas and ijtihad of the mazhabs), the great majority of the leading opponents of the messengers were not men, but women. Women will constitute the majority of hell. They are fitnah (see? even fitnah is a female word, like hurayrah). When we pass in-front of a praying man we nullify his prayer like a pig and a dog. (FYI, black dogs should be killed, since they are devils). If the body of our husbands were covered with puss we could not pay our debt to them by licking it. If other than God we were allowed to worship it would be our husbands. A man can marry four of us as virgins. I am not talking about virgin olive oil, I am talking about virgin women starting at age nine! In Shia, a man can marry us temporarily to satisfy his sexual desire.

            We are deficient in religion and intellect. So, why men should talk to us? We are no more than their concubines! They can do only one thing with us.

            Reported by Adib Abu Yahya bin Sadreddin al-Bitlisi bin Tahir al-Kurdi al-Adilcevazi

            Peace

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              MUNZIR_ALI
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              Since writing is like talking, and I am not sure whether you are male or female, my niece, a Muslimah (female), asked me to convey your Muslim (male) friend the following response

              No. A big Muslimah (female) NO! We, the Sunni and Shiite females, are not supposed to be talked to. We are expected to live inside black sacks, without communicating with men. When we reach age 9, our fathers start looking for good Muslim (male) husbands. Our fathers will find suitable men who have not talked to us nor have seen our faces, and they will marry us without even our presence. A group of Muslims (males) will do the nikah on our behalves followed by segregated wedding feasts.

              According to our mazhab, Prophet Muhammad, Peace Be Upon Him, did not talk to women and women hid themselves from him. Though the Quran talks about Muhammad's (pbuh) making a covenant with women, according to our ulama it was through their fathers, husbands or behind a banana tree. Though the Quran mentions about possibility of Muhammad being attracted to the beauty of women, according to our ulama, it is not about their physical beauty but the beauty of the veil covering their faces and blacks sack covering their bodies from head to toe.

              We are sinful and dirty. Don't be misled by the Quran (which cannot guide us without hadith, sunna, ijma, qiyas and ijtihad of the mazhabs), the great majority of the leading opponents of the messengers were not men, but women. Women will constitute the majority of hell. They are fitnah (see? even fitnah is a female word, like hurayrah). When we pass in-front of a praying man we nullify his prayer like a pig and a dog. (FYI, black dogs should be killed, since they are devils). If the body of our husbands were covered with puss we could not pay our debt to them by licking it. If other than God we were allowed to worship it would be our husbands. A man can marry four of us as virgins. I am not talking about virgin olive oil, I am talking about virgin women starting at age nine! In Shia, a man can marry us temporarily to satisfy his sexual desire.

              We are deficient in religion and intellect. So, why men should talk to us? We are no more than their concubines! They can do only one thing with us.

              Reported by Adib Abu Yahya bin Sadreddin al-Bitlisi bin Tahir al-Kurdi al-Adilcevazi

              Peace

              rotfl lol, I like your sarcastic responses.

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                afridi220
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                Since writing is like talking, and I am not sure whether you are male or female, my niece, a Muslimah (female), asked me to convey your Muslim (male) friend the following response

                No. A big Muslimah (female) NO! We, the Sunni and Shiite females, are not supposed to be talked to. We are expected to live inside black sacks, without communicating with men. When we reach age 9, our fathers start looking for good Muslim (male) husbands. Our fathers will find suitable men who have not talked to us nor have seen our faces, and they will marry us without even our presence. A group of Muslims (males) will do the nikah on our behalves followed by segregated wedding feasts.

                According to our mazhab, Prophet Muhammad, Peace Be Upon Him, did not talk to women and women hid themselves from him. Though the Quran talks about Muhammad's (pbuh) making a covenant with women, according to our ulama it was through their fathers, husbands or behind a banana tree. Though the Quran mentions about possibility of Muhammad being attracted to the beauty of women, according to our ulama, it is not about their physical beauty but the beauty of the veil covering their faces and blacks sack covering their bodies from head to toe.

                We are sinful and dirty. Don't be misled by the Quran (which cannot guide us without hadith, sunna, ijma, qiyas and ijtihad of the mazhabs), the great majority of the leading opponents of the messengers were not men, but women. Women will constitute the majority of hell. They are fitnah (see? even fitnah is a female word, like hurayrah). When we pass in-front of a praying man we nullify his prayer like a pig and a dog. (FYI, black dogs should be killed, since they are devils). If the body of our husbands were covered with puss we could not pay our debt to them by licking it. If other than God we were allowed to worship it would be our husbands. A man can marry four of us as virgins. I am not talking about virgin olive oil, I am talking about virgin women starting at age nine! In Shia, a man can marry us temporarily to satisfy his sexual desire.

                We are deficient in religion and intellect. So, why men should talk to us? We are no more than their concubines! They can do only one thing with us.

                Reported by Adib Abu Yahya bin Sadreddin al-Bitlisi bin Tahir al-Kurdi al-Adilcevazi

                Peace

                Good one laugh

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                  Edip_Yuksel
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                  rotfl lol, I like your sarcastic responses. )

                  Munzir, you are lucky at this age for appreciating sarcastic, yet serious criticism. Unfortunately, there are adults who miss my sarcasm. You might have missed it. It was on February 20, 2010, 030009 PM

                  MAZHAR Have you ever counted that they are really 19? If so please give 19 letters in serial seperately to cross verify the claim. Thanks.
                  EDIP No Mazhar. I just parrot someone else's findings, like all Sunnis and Shiites do. It is very difficult for me to count 19 letters! I am not a genius. Peace.

                  And here is what the Sunni Mazhar came back with

                  MAZHAR When you say parrot then how can you use the word "findings". May be that was a deceptive statement by a liar. You quote and count numbers in trillions and yet say difficult for me to count 19. If you really dont think in the heart of your heart that RK and his 19 is merely a fraud, please count the letters of first verse to see, are they 19.

                  Let me add one more sentence that I wanted to put in the end of my response, that I auto censured. But, I decided to post it here

                  We are deficient in religion and intellect. So, why men should talk to us? We are no more than their concubines! They can do only one thing with us It rhymes with talking, but it is halaal, like halaal meat!

                  Peace,
                  Edip

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                    FAR
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                    rotfl lol, I like your sarcastic responses. &nbsp

                    If that was sarcasm from him, then I believe that disqualifies him from being a believer of the quran (242, 371, 541, 542, 634, 657, 7152, 7173, 1150, 1317... )

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                      MUNZIR_ALI
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                      Munzir, you are lucky at this age for appreciating sarcastic, yet serious criticism. Unfortunately, there are adults who miss my sarcasm. You might have missed it. It was on February 20, 2010, 030009 PM

                      MAZHAR Have you ever counted that they are really 19? If so please give 19 letters in serial seperately to cross verify the claim. Thanks.
                      EDIP No Mazhar. I just parrot someone else's findings, like all Sunnis and Shiites do. It is very difficult for me to count 19 letters! I am not a genius. Peace.

                      And here is what the Sunni Mazhar came back with

                      MAZHAR When you say parrot then how can you use the word "findings". May be that was a deceptive statement by a liar. You quote and count numbers in trillions and yet say difficult for me to count 19. If you really dont think in the heart of your heart that RK and his 19 is merely a fraud, please count the letters of first verse to see, are they 19.

                      Let me add one more sentence that I wanted to put in the end of my response, that I auto censured. But, I decided to post it here

                      We are deficient in religion and intellect. So, why men should talk to us? We are no more than their concubines! They can do only one thing with us It rhymes with talking, but it is halaal, like halaal meat!

                      Peace,
                      Edip

                      I read it bro. Well, I like the way you use sentences to prove a point. They are funny, a bit offensive and informative. D ;D Well, but I do not agree with Mahzar being sunni. I know that it is sarcastic yet again, but I think that it will offend him. )

                      I have a question for you.

                      1)What will happen to a person who has a weak belief in code 19 but can't verify it due to lack of knowledge. Would that be blind faith? (a person like me)

                      Sarcastic responses would be most welcome D

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