a few questions about heaven pls help
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Salam
I have questions about jannah where i can't find any answers to. Any help would be appreciated.
- Will we able to see our loved ones (like our family) in jannah?
- Allah is going to wed us with the hoors in heaven, then if let's say my wife in this world (i ain't got but i'm talking hypothetically) goes to heaven and if i see her with one, won't I be jealous?
- What if someone i like more than anything goes to hell. How can I be happy when he/she is suffering?
Please help me these questions are troubling my mind.
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Peace Soldier
This is my opinion on heaven, perhaps it will be of help to your questions. My understanding of Heaven is that it is here and it is now, it is not something you only experience after your body becomes a carcass. In the Quran (or the book we call the QUran-from what I'm coming to understand) I've become aware that heaven is nearness to God, there are 7 heavens and 7 hells, hell must be the opposite of near then. I feel that as we intigrate constructive rather than destructive aspirations into our daily lifes and stick by them we are becoming closer to God, thus we have begun to climb the heavens (1,2,3,4...) . AS we become destructive we descend into the hells (1,2,3,4,...) , and the lowest of all positions is the hypocrite (If I am not mistaken). It is our actions right nowthat allow heaven or hell to enter us right now.
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Can you see your family right now? If so then bring heaven into your life and you will be able to see them in heaven.
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Please define a hoor (sp?) and your definition of wedding. Is jealousie constructive or destructive.
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Please defin hell. What is causing them to suffer (hypothetically)? "... perhaps you may dislike something and God makes in it much good." (419)
pz
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Salaam SoLDieR_Of_ALLAH,
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Will we able to see our loved ones (like our family) in jannah?
When you get to go to Jannah you will be granted all that you wish depending on your level there which depends on your work on this Earth. -
Allah is going to wed us with the hoors in heaven, then if let's say my wife in this world (i ain't got but i'm talking hypothetically) goes to heaven and if i see her with one, won't I be jealous?
There is no jealousy in Jannah. Those who will get to reach Jannah must have dealt with jealousy during their life on Earth. -
What if someone i like more than anything goes to hell. How can I be happy when he/she is suffering?
You won't be in Jannah until you have accepted Allah's Judgment. Allah is All Just. How can you love someone who consciously insists on disobeying Allah?
Thou wilt not find any people who believe in ALLAH and the Last Day and yet they love those who oppose ALLAH and His Messenger, even though they be their fathers, or their sons, or their brethren, or their kindred. These are they in whose hearts ALLAH has inscribed true faith and whom HE has strengthened with inspiration from Himself. And HE will admit them into Gardens through which streams flow. Therein they will abide; ALLAH is well-pleased with them and they are well-pleased with HIM. They are ALLAH's party. Hearken! it is ALLAH's party who are the successful.
And since you have called yourself SoLDieR_Of_ALLAH, I believe that all your fears will just dissipate as you grow stronger in your faith.
Taj
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Peace be upon you Soldier,
- Will we able to see our loved ones (like our family) in jannah?
As brother Khalil stated, the "garden" and the "fire" are allegorical states that start, rather, have started as soon as you were created. Being near to the God (Being God-like) is a state of the garden, where you are conscious of the seeds you plant and are near to reap the benefits of the fruits. Being far away from the God (Satan - like) is a state of the fire. Where things are destroyed, where there is desperation. When I think of the example of "fire", I call to mind the event that the United States have programmed into all of its citizens (and perhaps the whole world, I am not sure as I live in US), which is the destruction of the World Trade Center towers. We see that the allegory of fire is very effective because what else could be so devastating, so conducive to desperation as fire, which caused people to leap from the tallest building in U.S. to thier certain death?
Our bodies are just vehicles for the true mind/spirit, the body is only a house. Eternity has already begun. We only move through different phases of eternity. We have to take control of ourselves, not sit and wait for the "old man in the sky" image to hold a giant court proceeding after death. We have to begin taking control, which is why the word used for the forces that we must use to do this are called "malaika", from the root word M-L-K (control).
- Allah is going to wed us with the hoors in heaven, then if let's say my wife in this world (i ain't got but i'm talking hypothetically) goes to heaven and if i see her with one, won't I be jealous?
I am not sure how anyone can know anything like the above statement, but regarding jealousy, that is a product of the emotions, you must rid yoursewlf of those negative emotions of you won't even see the "garden". The Garden is a place where only the NATURAL emotion is manifest, that is the emotion of PEACE, or NO EMOTIONS. Everything is in a state of REST, Hindus call it NIRVANA (not moving). Unless you are one that seperates science from spirituality, we canlook at the state of the universe before the big bang, before the MOVING FORCE brought everything to be, we were AT REST (PEACE). Jealousy cannot come to be in such a state. I cannot speak on any marriages, I have no knowledge of such a thing at this time.
- What if someone i like more than anything goes to hell. How can I be happy when he/she is suffering?
See above response regarding PEACE.
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Salam soldier,
there has been an important philological (linguistic) research work done by a german professor going by the pseudo of Christoph Luxenberg.
According to his research, what is nowadays understood as "hoor al ain" with all the sexual implications is in reality only "pure white raisin". That is , at least for me, the only possible explanation with the allegorical one. Do some of you guys really still believe that heaven is a whorehouse ??? lolAnd if it was - what would be there for us girls ??? oops
Elke
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Salaam Elke,
there has been an important philological (linguistic) research work done by a german professor going by the pseudo of Christoph Luxenberg.
Are you really convinced that a German individual could know Arabic more than Arab Arabic scholars?
Hoor a description of the beautiful eyes.
El 3een eyes.Maybe, just maybe, some grapes that are exceptional in their design and color, long with a special glow as if they looked like an eye, maybe they were named hoor el3een because of that resemblance. And this happens even in other cultures. Don't you have some kind of sweets that is called Lady's fingers? Here we call marshmallows girls? cheeks!
According to his research, what is nowadays understood as "hoor al ain" with all the sexual implications is in reality only "pure white raisin".
So I believe that the opposite is true.
And what is wrong with having company? It doesn't have to be sexual you know. We are social beings, so nothing would be fun if we were alone, not even in Jannah.Do some of you guys really still believe that heaven is a whorehouse ???
I disagree with those words.
what would be there for us girls ??? oops
We will have our fair share, no doubt wink
Taj
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Salaam SoLDieR_Of_ALLAH,
And welcome to the forum. )
Will we able to see our loved ones (like our family) in jannah?
I'm sure we will see them. But where they will be is another matter. I tend not to concern myself with these issues right now. It's simple, you can work hard to get there and encourage your family to do the same. No good will come out of worrying about it. Believe in God, do good and deter from evil. Be happy.Chapter 84
6. O man, you will be returning to your Lord with your actions and meeting Him.
7. So whoever is given his record in his right.
8. He will then receive an easy reckoning.
9. And he will return to his family in joy!
10. And as for he who is given his record behind his back.
11. He will invoke his destruction.
12. And he will enter a blazing Fire.
13. He was with his people in joy!
14. He thought he would not be returned.
15. No, He is ever seeing of him.- And instruct your family with the contact-method, and be patient for it. We do not ask you for provision, for We provide for you. And the good end is for the righteous.
Peace!
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Salam Taj,
I must admit, the one word I used might not have been appropriate.
But unfortunately many people believe heaven to be that way and specially in the arab world. And I know, I live here and I talk to people...
Now about the German professor He's a professor of semitic languages and has consecrated his life to hebrew, arama?c, arab language so in his specific case i think he has got more competence than the average arab.
I have his book (exist only in german for the time being as far as I know) and it does make a lot of sens to me!. But I'm sure you can search on the net using his name to find out more about his theory which I think very interesting - even though I don't follow him at all on the purpose of his research which is in a way to incorporate islam and the coran in christianity....tending to say that coran is just another christian liturgic book because of the many similarities with the bible...
Similarities which for me come just from the fact that Gods message has always been the same - coran being the last and purest except for misinterpretations...
Elke
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Salaam Elke,
I must admit, the one word I used might not have been appropriate.
But unfortunately many people believe heaven to be that way and specially in the arab world. And I know, I live here and I talk to people...The more appealing the Reward, the harder the men would work for it!
If the Reward were to be women-lacking, how many men will you see striving for Jannah?About the German professor, I did hear about him and also about his grapes theory, but I am not surprised. These things just come and go like the waves of the sea but the ocean remains!
Taj
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Peace all,
Who goes to hell and who goes to heaven is in God's Hands. Abraham loved his father but God made it very clear to Abraham that he should NOT appeal to God on behalf of his father because he was an idol worshipper. I don't know where his father is, but I think its a safe guess to say his father belongs with the rest of the idol worshippers.
As for the virgins of paradise, that's something I myself need to understand upon.
Taj, if the Quran says the men would be married to these virgins and you admit this
The more appealing the Reward, the harder the men would work for it!
If the Reward were to be women-lacking, how many men will you see striving for Jannah?Then, how does this fit in?
And what is wrong with having company? It doesn't have to be sexual you know.
I don't understand as to why God had to give sexual references to men alone to appeal to the believers. Besides there's another verse that says you'll enter paradise with the rigteous among your spouses, parents, children...then if that's the case, you are entering paradise with your spouses, then why do you want virgins on the side?
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Salaam,
And if it was - what would be there for us girls ??? oops
Joe would be there for the women. I'll be the little man whore. lol
Regarding the hurun though
In the quran the word hoor (hurun is the plural form of this word) is often mistakengly interpreted as chaste virgins in heaven for dead martyrs, etc. The root for hoor is Hara.
Hara (H-W-R) ~> Be perplexed, go back, become confounded or perplexed, to return, to circle, a color, return/recoil, compete/contend for glory/superiority, wash/whiten.
Some of the derivatives used in al quran are
Hawareyyun (noun) 352, 5111-112, 6114.
Hoor (noun) 4454, 5220, 5572, 5620.
Tahawor (noun) 581
Yahaawer (verb) 1834, 37.
Yahoor (verb) 8414.
Hawareyyun = Disciples, fair ones, persons of fair or unsullied character. This word is used to describe the close allies of Jesus in the ayaat in which this word is mentioned (352, 5111-112, 6114). In other ayaat such as the ones in which yahoor is used there is a conotation of reverting from one state to another. Some definitions for these others derivatives are
Tahawor = Conversation.
Hoor = Fair ones.
Yahoor = Goes back.
Yahaawer = Converses.
From what I can tell hurun may be pure companions unsullied by vice. A possibility is that hurun are pure thoughts of the one in control of the shayteen which are the forces that cause opposition in mankind/insana.Thus the righteous (almuttaqeen) will be given this portion for their righteous acts and compliances (4451-55, 5217-20).
Joe
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Salaam,
- Will we able to see our loved ones (like our family) in jannah?
I believe the true family of the muslimeen and the mumin can only be those who are likewise muslimeen and mumin, all for Allah. Remember with Moses and the wise character he was with and how the true son was not bound by blood, but by who they were.
- Allah is going to wed us with the hoors in heaven, then if let's say my wife in this world (i ain't got but i'm talking hypothetically) goes to heaven and if i see her with one, won't I be jealous?
I'm not sure if hurun should be literally taking as beings like ourselves, but these are rather the replacements of the shayteen which we have killed through our jihad to arrived at janna.
- What if someone i like more than anything goes to hell. How can I be happy when he/she is suffering?
I think when you arrive in these gardens then you can understand more clearly the concept of justice and learn to accept that others must be rewarded according to their deeds with no hard feelings. You may simply be happy that justice is being done.
Joe
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Peace,
SoLDieR_Of_ALLAH, I know it sounds harsh but it's the truth.
- Say ?If your fathers, and your sons, and your brothers, and your wives, and your clan, and money which you have gathered, and a trade which you would fear if it declines, and homes which you find pleasing; if these are dearer to you than the god and his messenger and striving in the cause of the god, then wait until the god brings his decision. The god does not guide the wicked people.?
I believe it's a necessary condition to access the state of jannah.
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SoLDieR_Of_ALLAH
Paradise and hell are the two returns in just recompense promised by Allah for the two deeds - the right and the wrong - that we do in this life. Recompense for bad is bad, a portion of which, we are forced to taste in this life itself so that we might mend ourselves. A great portion of our sins may either be forgiven by Allah based on our sincerity to correct ourselves or stored for retribution, in the life after death. When we die as incorrigible sinners, our part and portion of sins are extended in gravity in such viciousness that every sin we leave behind without being forgiven
begets and ramifies until the Last Day, and this will be accounted in wholesomeness for your sins. The result is hell, deadly and severe; not enough until it is over which will never end but last forever!If we correct our ways in the path of righteousness, our sins will be forgiven and still the best to come is 039.035; 053
So that Allah will turn off from them the worst in their deeds and give them their reward according to the best of what they have done.
Say "O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah for Allah forgives all sins for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Thus as allah forgives our sins, the good is what we leave behind and all that it earns after our life in this world is stored in our account until the Last Day. Allah further says 006.160
He that doeth good shall have 10 times as much to his credit
We will be rewarded in plentiful without the evil touching it as we involve in its pleasures. Unending pleasures without limits! If girls are your pleasures Allah has provided abundantly that you shall praise HIM for what He had kept up as He promised. And for the girls Allah would not unjustifiedly forget to reward their pleasures in full abundance. Allah knows what we do not know. he is powerful over everything and none shall keep His promise as allah does. So be not among the doubtful. Be clear in what you want and never be fancifully allegorical in every aspect and as a result be rid off of every benefit in the end. What you wish is there with allah and never trespass in conjectures and lose yourselves. Your knowledge is different from that of the wisdom of allah. He is all powerful over everything you wish. Wish for more and get rewarded in ample measures!
Our family members if righteous will be with us in jannah, all having similar ages; An 80 year old lady will not enter the paradise as old one but as young and as beautiful that you could imagine in your best imagination. But Allah is most gracious. He will beautify you much above your imagining. He is All-Capable! All of us will be of same and in the prime of our ages, eternally. This! For the companions of the Right-hand.
For those who were the Foremost, the Shahidis - for them is the hurul ein, the most purified, long eyed - like pearls in the shells, humble and lowered in their gaze.
Mumins! Aspire to become Muslims by being pure which is possible only when you lower your gaze in humility. This will make you gain wisdom of Allah over the knowledge of erroneous, most.
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Salaam Green Leaves,
As for the virgins of paradise, that's something I myself need to understand upon.
Taj, if the Quran says the men would be married to these virgins and you admit this
The more appealing the Reward, the harder the men would work for it!
If the Reward were to be women-lacking, how many men will you see striving for Jannah?
Then, how does this fit in?
And what is wrong with having company? It doesn't have to be sexual you know.
I don't understand as to why God had to give sexual references to men alone to appeal to the believers. Besides there's another verse that says you'll enter paradise with the righteous among your spouses, parents, children...then if that's the case, you are entering paradise with your spouses, then why do you want virgins on the side?I suppose that in Jannah there would be social relationships as well as intimate relationships. Not all good men have spouses on Earth. And those who do have righteous ones on Earth and managed to reach Jannah together that does not mean, I imagine, that they won't have a choice there to change their spouses. I don't know how the intimate feelings of the Faithful would be in Jannah, but the fact that Allah is telling the men that there are beauties in Jannah, it looks to me like there are unlimited choices there with no offence to the righteous women who will also have unlimited choices as well.
But women in general don't need to be promised with a Reward of men in order to strive for Jannah. We certainly are different than men regarding what we wish and work for. Do you not agree?Taj
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Salaamayn to you, Joe,
I wonder if you can agree that all men do not think alike just like all women do not think alike
Men and people in general can't be all alike, but can you disagree that the difference in preferences between men and women is very clear?
so I would say your method of commenting on these ayaat is not paticularly the best.
Oh!
Taj
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Salaams Joe,
Actually they are not really that apparent. What is seen on the outside is usually there to conform to cultural mores.
It is very apparent to me that men's preferences are different than women's and that is because it is a physiological thing not a cultural.
I would like to see what others here think about that.
Taj
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Salam all,
Joe would be there for the women. I'll be the little man whore.
Thanks for the proposal Joe ! This really reassures me about heaven !
lol
But what I actually liked more was the rest of your post on the root word. Very interesting and acceptable to me.I must admit, I never could imagine a "sexual" heaven. Not because I'm against sex - it's natural. But I think it's for this life.
Now to Taj I don't think that men and women are really different and if they are I think it's mostly cultural, specifically concerning sex. Our personal work as muslims is to dominate and canalyse our pulsions...but in traditional (not only islamic) societies this burden is usually much harder on the girls and there is much more permissiveness for the boys - that's where the cultural differences come from.
A boy living a free sex life and not controlling his pulsions is much more acceptable (even often a kind of hero) to society than a girl who would do the same. So my idea is that the difference is not physiological, women have the same needs and cravings than men, but we are not allowed to express them (if not we would be treated "the word again" oops )and have learned, through cultural pressure to deny much.
What do you think ?
Elke