Marriage to a non Muslim
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With my own. Evidently.
Well don't do that.
You don't get to just make up your own laws.
That's the exact opposite of a Muslimin who has submitted to God.
He decides who we should marry.
It is all prescribed in the Quran.
People seem to continuously forget that this is a forum for discussing Quran and True Islam.
Furthermore the OP Requested help as a Muslimin
Where does Quran say that Muslimin should marry who they want.
Vile words you speak which contradict your Lord's Words and TruthYou have no authority to tell the people that which is in contradiction to God's Way,
Without any evidence or supportDo you even Quran?
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@ hp tech..
God/quran never impose something forcefully on somebody ...
this book give advises.. marriage is not religious discussion, its a choice .. same like we choose what to wear what to eat , where to live...
so its appears to me , quran never forbidding anybody for getting married with anybody but for our own Good .. it gives us advises to marry the one who think same like you...most importantly the faith of God alone what we call beleivers...
a beleiving women is good for a beleving man
same a disbeleiving women is good for disbeleiving man...if you mix them it will not give you good results , results i mean there is further confusion in kids what faith they are going to follow... so thats just an advice of God.. the ones who listen this advise will get benefit from it...
but i see lot of marriages in which both are from different religion but they spend their marriage life very happily...
love is the only thing that make person blind lol , there is no doubt so much power and attraction in love -
@ hp tech..
God/quran never impose something forcefully on somebody ...
this book give advises.. marriage is not religious discussion, its a choice .. same like we choose what to wear what to eat , where to live...
so its appears to me , quran never forbidding anybody for getting married with anybody but for our own Good .. it gives us advises to marry the one who think same like you...most importantly the faith of God alone what we call beleivers...
a beleiving women is good for a beleving man
same a disbeleiving women is good for disbeleiving man...if you mix them it will not give you good results , results i mean there is further confusion in kids what faith they are going to follow... so thats just an advice of God.. the ones who listen this advise will get benefit from it...
but i see lot of marriages in which both are from different religion but they spend their marriage life very happily...
love is the only thing that make person blind lol , there is no doubt so much power and attraction in loveYou are plainly and utterly wrong Imran
Marriage is a huge part of the deen
I am a bit disappointed in you
Its as if you speak out of lack of knowledge of the Book
God's Words cannot be compromised
Yes you have a choice but not whoever you want period. You have the capacity to marry a believer of your choosing and within the prescribed limits of course.
One cannot simply marry their sister or aunt etc..
Please refrain from speaking absurdities people
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You are plainly and utterly wrong Imran
Marriage is a huge part of the deen
I am a bit disappointed in you
Its as if you speak out of lack of knowledge of the Book
God's Words cannot be compromised
Yes you have a choice but not whoever you want period. You have the capacity to marry a believer of your choosing and within the prescribed limits of course.
One cannot simply marry their sister or aunt etc..
Please refrain from speaking absurdities people
brother who told you marriage is the huge part of deen?
yes about mother and sister along with other haram/prohibted relations one cannot marry ...
but apart from prohibted relation one can marry to whoever he/she wish...
but if you look properly what i said in my post and then after that you read the verses in which book is advising us to marry with the one who is similar in thinking with you , then marriage will be in your favor... thats what all i said...
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brother who told you marriage is the huge part of deen?
yes about mother and sister along with other haram/prohibted relations one cannot marry ...
but apart from prohibted relation one can marry to whoever he/she wish...
but if you look properly what i said in my post and then after that you read the verses in which book is advising us to marry with the one who is similar in thinking with you , then marriage will be in your favor... thats what all i said...
I thought when es said marry who you want she was attempting to disregard the limits set up
But in terms of preference of course it is if each individual choosing -
I thought when es said marry who you want she was attempting to disregard the limits set up
But in terms of preference of course it is if each individual choosingwe need to see in from different lens...
i feel to share something with you... look just if you want to find your partner a God alone partner it takes ages... even throughut the globe you will find just very few of them...
then we will proceed to sunni/shia ...
but a problem for a person like me , the country where i am living is just 4 % muslim population .. and its not that easy...
now my age is droping down.. my desires are uncontrolleable... so what should a person in my position do...?
shall i just marry with christian ? becoz its better than illegal sex...
so my situation and your situation and everybody situation is different thats why God cannot forbid what he already know
marraige has nothing to do with deen...its the need of society... a journey to walk together...
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brother who told you marriage is the huge part of deen?
I don't know about brother HP_TECH, but halfourdeen.com told me.
;D
I think marriage is important, and of course it is mentioned well in the Qur'an, but I think the aspect of marriage that is companionship is most important. We all need someone, or more than one. Some people find this in a partner, in marriage. Others find it in their family or friends. Or even in their children. But for the most part we all have that one person/group of people who are there for us and support us, and we are there for them in return.
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I think the aspect of marriage that is companionship is most important. We all need someone, or more than one. Some people find this in a partner, in marriage. Others find it in their family or friends. Or even in their children. But for the most part we all have that one person/group of people who are there for us and support us, and we are there for them in return.
But really the true companion is God only, one should spend his life time building and maintaining this companionship of God, to the point that walking alone no longer means walking alone but walking with everything. Now to go through life, at any stage of life, it would be foolish to seek help and support from one who can't help and can't support his/her own self.
It's quiet ironic that God is the closest self existing Being to our existence, the parable of the proximity of God to us is "closer than the jugular vein",yet people forget about this closeness of God to us and become content of the abstract idea of God; But really God is the closest One and I believe all the magic begins when one fully realizes this (I think 'mutaqqeen' means this state)
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God is not companion but also a force that drive everything in the nature...
its lovely to talk with him, but he did not answer ...
its lovely to spend time with him , but he did not visible
its lovely to fight with him too, but he did not replied to the fight..
its lovely to share feelings with him, but we are not sure , he really care about feelings or no...
its lovely to listen him... what he wanted to tell us... but our ears have not that frequency...only silence ,silence and silence everytime....
yes i /we / everybody need a partner who can walk along with us in this painful shit life... either a loving mother or a loving wife...
God is not a partner he owned us... he is master , and infront of him we are nothing , we are like small filthy insects ...
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What's wrong with the silence ? turn down the noise (of life) and listen to the silence. I think that's true "prayer"
The rest of what you said is weak, what happens when God takes your loving wife or mother from you ? Will you cry like a baby because there is no one to walk with you in your painful "shit" life ? It's a pathetic view, but God is the closest One. Why not seek God? -
Peace Cerberus.
You and me should head to the mountain ,away from all the hassle and noise and people and...On second thought each should head towards a different mountain so you can be totally alone ( Well just you and The GOD).
Brother, I understand where you are coming from - Even though you may be heading towards solitude ( You know towards that mountain on your own!)-.Happy meditation. I shall be heading towards the other mountain.
GOD bless you.
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What's wrong with the silence ? turn down the noise (of life) and listen to the silence. I think that's true "prayer"
The rest of what you said is weak, what happens when God takes your loving wife or mother from you ? Will you cry like a baby because there is no one to walk with you in your painful "shit" life ? It's a pathetic view, but God is the closest One. Why not seek God?brother , if you did not understand what i actually said then its not my fault...
the very own creator is telling you everybody want to live in communites even animals...
why did a mother is in life? wife ? kids children? grandchildren? brothers sisters uncles aunty ...
i m talking about physical world not a spirtual world...i want to add , when God take my mother/wife/kids from me same thing happen with me , nobody is immortal , i know this.. but i also know this alone life is not good...
its six years i m alone , first four years i was busy in studies and job.. didnt realise it much,, from last two years i m feeling like i m in a prison... God was with me before he is with me right now... he will b with me wherever i will go... but this is not what i m on about...
in this journey God cannot b a partner ... he is the master of the journey...
my view is pathetic only if you look it literally... how will you feel if i put you in prison for lifetime ... then ask you to spend your rest of the life with your "loving God"... then i will see how you differentiate between material and immaterial...
we are based on material our wishes are materialistic... our reality is materialistic... our rewards are materialistic....
thats why we are unable to percieved immaterial/spirtuality....