Muhsinin/relationships: what does it signify? What is the pure understanding?

[IAMOP]

Peace

I am requesting your studies on what the term 'muhsinin' means e.g.

And all married women, except those you rightfully possess. This is God's decree, binding upon you. Permitted for you are those that lie outside these limits, provided you seek them in legal marriage, with gifts from your property, seeking "X"/muhsinin, not Y/"musafihin". If you wish to enjoy them, then give them their dowry-a legal obligation. You commit no error by agreeing to any change to the dowry. God is All-Knowing, Most Wise. (424 - ClearQuran http//www.clearquran.com/004.html - translations of words removed to start clearer)

If we go to 244 Those who accuse X/muhsanati women, then cannot bring four witnesses, whip them eighty lashes, and do not ever accept their testimony. For these are the immoral.

I am looking for the clearest pure understanding beyond all doubt. Cheating is forbidden absolutely, the verses prove that. What is allowed and what is haram? What is 'musafihin'?

Muhsinin are allowed to be married with by muslimeen.
Zani are forbidden to be married by muslimeen, permissible by other zani or mushrik
Akhdanin is forbidden in another verse - secret relationships (or boyfriend and girlfriend?)

What is musafihin?

I feel there are too many different perspectives all over the place each clouded by their desires, whims, lusts, pains, and jealousies and all sorts. On the one hand you have a super restrictive culture of sexually uptight peoples who are clearly miserable, and on the other you have a super loose culture of sexually loose peoples who are also clearly miserable and have to deal with children to boot.

I feel the arab culture is not in alignment with the truth. Neither is the western culture. The truth would bring perfect social order and healthy global society. Everyone will be emotionally expressive and free from sorrow and grief.

All of us have some kind of sexual trauma. This is a consequence of the Fall. The cure for this trauma is unconditional love. Glory be to the Supreme who invites to the Paradise

I am studying white tantric alchemy, the purification of the nafs from all false desires and the attainment of full God-consciousness (taqwa) by correct flow and union with the masculine and feminine principles within the human self. Then this leads to a divine union between two souls who are in union with the Supreme, whose focus of sala is first to the Supreme then to their union therefore Peace is the only condition experienced

Other people have their focus of sala to a fictional entity in their minds which represents the Supreme yet their sala is truly to the world and what they can gleam from it, not knowing that worldly desires are simply shirk or munafiq and are not the true happiness, therefore they get "married" and have a "job" and get a "house" all of which secure their role in the taghut system of usury. This is black tantra/black magic, enabling subjugation. White tantra is the alchemy of pure relationships and in fact is the highest sexuality, the highest beauty, the purest feeling. It leads to enlightenment. The Supreme invites and guides to the pure enlightenment, the nirvana, and gives us the scientific algorithms and decrees and codes which can be experimentally proven to operate with the DNA of the body and the locus of the heart, which can be verified beyond all doubt to present a healthy society free of corruption.

I am looking for a Proof by Contradiction
If X = true then Y = false by necessity of X = true
This results in a pure understanding free from shame, lust, defilement, misery and error of all kinds.
This rules out all options false explicitly
Presenting all options truth explicitly, clearly, beyond all doubt, pure freeing truth
Indeed the satan invites to the Fire and to lust while the Supreme invites to the Garden and to victory and healing and purification.

May Allah release us from sorrow, lust, pain, misery, miasm, tightness, looseness of all kinds and present us the pure truth
May all beings of planet earth find harmony in their relationships
sun

[huruf]

I can't remember the name of the thread but I did write on this, trying to decipher the term muHsana, did go into it very detailed. If you can find it, we might follow up.

Salaam

[Mazhar]

And all married women, except those you rightfully possess.

What it conveys? They are nothing but words just sprinkled on screen.

[IAMOP]

So far I found this

If both Male & Female are directed towards Supreme Pleasure (Remembrance of The Ilah/Approval from our Rabb/Sustainer) then by means of that Paradise,
Then If the Male supports the Female with wealth - Wealth meaning resources of all kinds which The Sustainer/Ar-Raziq has honoured them with
Then if they surrender to The Just
Then if they walk together to the Hereafter

Then that is fitting of the term Muhsinin

What this allows for is for both partners to work so their each waking Breath/Ruh/Spirit is for the Remembrance of The Supreme, The Divinely Just, The Solace (Al-Samad), The Refuge,
Then they are both directed in their course as Male supporting the Female and Female resting the Male every step of the way whether they are in their physical process together or away from each other environmentally
Then each Breath/Ruh/Prana earning the Remembrance of The Most High, The Elegant, leads to a Male=Female Witness - There is Union (See White Tantra/Samadhi/Inner Alchemy)
They are One Unified being, As Two Vessels, Each Whole, a Servant to the Supreme, Joined by Wholesome Unification in Surrender to the Supreme One alone who holds no associates
Then they are with each other in Spirit/Ruh, Nafs/Self, Qalb/Heart and their Witness is Eternal
Neither do their thought, word, nor deed or silence do anything but support each other to perform Acts of Service to The Deity, The Divine, The One, The Living, to Stand Forward as Conjoined Witness on the Final Day for Perfect Justice
So the Male's Living Force flows into the Female's Always
So the Female's Living Force flows into the Male's Always
There is Divine Balance - Unity between Complements, Between Mutual Pairs, Male-Female - Harmony
As there is an Information-Unified Field tether between both hearts linking them through distance it cannot be any other way, it can only be this way for Surrender
That which affects one mutually affects both, there is no separation, only dignity afforded to each
This is scientifically falsifiable and verifiable through the mapping of shapes and topology and nodes through 4D+ space (Infinite Dimensional Holographic Space/Akasha/Unified Field/Cosmic Manifold)

This then is a Perfect Relationship.

Glory be to Our Sustainer The Living Who Designs With Flawless Proportion of Perfect Symmetry, Ratios of Infinite Magnificence, Grandeur, Beauty

Reasoning
As ratio of worldly time elapsed Eternity/Unending time
Then any Breath-Time spent on worldly enjoyment => 0/False, Eternally
Where "=>" defined as 'mathematically tends towards'

As 0.99999(...)9 = 1
Then any Breath-Time spent striving to Supreme Remembrance and to The Jannah/The Heaven/The Paradise = 1/True, Eternally
https//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/0.999...

I.e. perceiving time correctly recognising this entire Universe is eternal even though it will cease altogether it will be present in the next as a trace, a vestige, then all actions are Eternal - they are Real. While all decays, our Sustainer who has witnessed all of this, Eternity before the universe, and the Universe Creation, and then the Final Day, then Eternity in the Afterlife, all is beheld in the Being - Consciousness never forgets, witnesses all it has thought
So all we do in this Life eternally influences our relationship with The Deity/The Sustainer/The One

As we are aware we are allocated a limited number of breaths or geometric seasonal cycles (1-2-3-4 repeating on every time scale - Spring/Summer/Autumn/Winter - Cradle to the Adolescence to the Peak to the Falling Away)

If people walk towards Paradise, you draw a triangle, /\ like the top of the triangle both sides point to the same place The Most High Allah calling Souls to return
If people walk in different directions you cannot draw this triangle, because one is walking towards, one away, or both away. This triangle will not point to Allah.
So all the criteria for relationships by Absolute Decree is to be with this kept in mind

Then neither can the relationship be based on Taghut (e.g. mortgage) or any kind of usury for that is turning away from Allah and associating Iblis, Shirk, Nifaq/Munafiq/Hypocrisy - including but not limited to debt-based wealth or slave-labour. Divine Justice cannot be pick-and-choose. Breath-Time-Energy is of prime importance and all Breath-Time-Energy explicitly goes to Our Source, The Sustainer/Ar-Raziq. Then All Breath-Time-Energy-Wealth of Creation dwells eternally, it is Jannah in the dunya and Jannah in the Akhirah

These memories are Precious and Forever, Eternal

By these criteria we can rule out every kind of relationship which is not wholesome.
Proof by Contradiction.

Feel free to respond, all thoughts welcome however small or simple or insignificant, you could change a life for the better, and fruit eternally.

All Praise be to The Consciousness who is Most Excellent at Proportioning