Confused a lil bit regarding porn
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Salaam Alaykum.
I need to know what is the stand of Quran(Islam) on
1.Masturbation
2.Watching Porn..
Are these permissible?or Not...my friend is a Hadith follower,he says these r not allowed.
I need complete reference in favor or against it. Plz help me out here.
thankyou- The topic of Masturbation is nowhere to be found on the Quran.
- There weren't any porn during the time when the Quran was written, even the word "Porn" itself was not yet invented.
And here's the data based on a survey.
Percentages of Males and Females Reporting Masturbation in the Past Month and Past Year, Ages 14 - 70+.
PAST MONTH PAST YEAR
AGE MALE FEMALE MALE FEMALE
14-15 42.9 24.1 62.1 40.4
16-17 58.0 25.5 74.8 44.8
18-19 61.6 26.0 80.6 60.0
20-24 62.8 43.7 82.7 64.3
25-29 68.6 51.7 83.6 71.5
30-39 66.4 38.6 80.1 62.9
40-49 60.1 38.5 76.0 64.9
50-59 55.7 28.3 72.1 54.1
60-69 42.3 21.5 61.2 46.5
70+ 27.9 11.5 46.4 32.8 -
Some think it's better to watch people doing it instead of actually committing the sin yourself based on verse 431 "If you avoid the major sins that you are prohibited against, then We will cancel your existing sins and admit you to a generous entrance."
But still, watching porn can destroy relationships and marriages.. Something like that can only be from the devil, our sworn enemy. Because of porn, many people have a false idea of love and how a healthy relationship is and often lose intimacy with their partner.
Hollywood actor Terry Crews actually made a short video about his porn addiction to warn people
http//www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3461279/Terry-Crews-reveals-pornography-addiction-bad-went-rehab-wife-threatened-leave.html -
Peace,
Are you promoting it?
I seek refuge in Allah for the same pr
Ask your inner self and see what will be the answer, is it good or bad.
If you get the answer it is bad then it applies in all conditions.
Instead of following Allah's law and getting married in time, running behind money and getting involved in all this fahesh is surely not recommended and against alQuraan.If you get marry in time you don't need all these ways of shaitaan.
And if you need more after getting married, then you are surely crossing the limits.May Allah protect us all from the foot steps of shaitaan pr
mmKhanmy brother i m not promoting it , and when i ask from inside i always feel it bad , but truth is truth, one cannot get rid of it if he/she single. they need to discharge their desire annyway so, doing sex with girls outside the marriage is confirm sin , but about masturbution you did not harm anybody , so catagory of sin i cannot say it by my own , i have no authority , thats why i ask the suggestions from different people, and yeh the marriage is the only solution for this, but sometimes due to lack of money or due to some other circumstances its not reallly possible to get married early. and person left no option apart from mastubution but again after , discharging he feel embarrrased/tensed/feel sorry as well that he just waste his time and energy for no reason.
thats what i was on about,God bless you .
peacepeace.
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Salaam Alaykum
Thanks a lot Camrox,Imrankhawaja nd Jafar...i m reading the links.you always welcome my brother,
these are just views, there is nothing quranic in it. i just represent my views with respect to human nature and my views are just views. so decide whatever you think best. as far i concern i suggest young guys who have resources to get married in required time its best solution so far, mmkhan also suggest what i suggest . i agree with him on marriage thingie.
peace.
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- The topic of Masturbation is nowhere to be found on the Quran.
- There weren't any porn during the time when the Quran was written, even the word "Porn" itself was not yet invented.
And here's the data based on a survey.
Percentages of Males and Females Reporting Masturbation in the Past Month and Past Year, Ages 14 - 70+.
PAST MONTH PAST YEAR
AGE MALE FEMALE MALE FEMALE
14-15 42.9 24.1 62.1 40.4
16-17 58.0 25.5 74.8 44.8
18-19 61.6 26.0 80.6 60.0
20-24 62.8 43.7 82.7 64.3
25-29 68.6 51.7 83.6 71.5
30-39 66.4 38.6 80.1 62.9
40-49 60.1 38.5 76.0 64.9
50-59 55.7 28.3 72.1 54.1
60-69 42.3 21.5 61.2 46.5
70+ 27.9 11.5 46.4 32.8jafar peace.
70 + thingie making me laugh i cant beleive it, lol rotfl
they dnt have any shit to waste. what the hell they gona do watching these movies and waste their treasure ,what they already lost. just analysis. lol where did you get that percentage my brother?
God bless you
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I'm not going to report you Imran but please stop cursing. The four letter "s" word you continuously use is offensive
do you really think its something to be reporten , i m just talking generally or the word s do u have any alternate for it, in the dictionary , and shall i report you for harrasing me for no reason, lol ,, rotfl
HP tech dnt always try to create trouble , Allah dnt llike trouble makers, u diddnt learnt anything from ban i think, adsvise for you be friendly and one more thing who i curse i dnt remeber cursing anybody inn the life if u did not understand english properlyy or the subbject of topic then its not my fault , peace
God bless you
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it is haram
what is haram ?
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do you really think its something to be reporten , i m just talking generally or the word s do u have any alternate for it, in the dictionary , and shall i report you for harrasing me for no reason, lol ,, rotfl
Yes poo, poop, excrement, dung, droppings, waste as you have used, stool, turd etc... not the "s" word. But to be constantly using these four letter words is totally unnecessary and not proper for this forum nor a God fearing Muslimin....
HP tech dnt always try to create trouble , Allah dnt llike trouble makers, u diddnt learnt anything from ban i think, adsvise for you be friendly and one more thing who i curse i dnt remeber cursing anybody inn the life if u did not understand english properlyy or the subbject of topic then its not my fault , peace
God bless you
If someone else was offended they could easily click report then repercussions will be made. I am not creating trouble but actually looking out for you so that you can think twice next time before using such words that is all. I think mentioning my ban is of spiteful nature and uncalled for.
Have a good day
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Yes poo, poop, excrement, dung, droppings, waste as you have used, stool, turd etc... not the "s" word. But to be constantly using these four letter words is totally unnecessary and not proper for this forum nor a God fearing Muslimin....
but the word sperm is best used in anywhere i remeber my biology book of eight standard use that word too, and on the other hand i havnt any found any word yet as a altternate of sperm , but these words you refer are synonyms, or meanings you can say.
If someone else was offended they could easily click report then repercussions will be made. I am not creating trouble but actually looking out for you so that you can think twice next time before using such words that is all. I think mentioning my ban is of spiteful nature and uncalled for.
Have a good day
brother i did not insult anybody or curse anyboody , you blame me for no reason thats y i say you these things, if you feel bad i m sorry for it, sorry for your feelings, but what i say i m not sorry for that. i always think about my words. can you please go again on my post and see what was the basic subject there. i use atlleast four words regarding the human biology , and these same words used by dictionaries and books.
and have a good day to you too, and thans for taking care for me and for your nice feelings i appreciate that, btw its first time i m sharing my views on these type of threads, and this thread itself started with harsh word PORN
sometimes we need to understand about the nature of thread not about the nature of words.
God bless you,
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Salaam Alaykum.
I need to know what is the stand of Quran(Islam) on
1.Masturbation
2.Watching Porn..
Are these permissible?or Not...my friend is a Hadith follower,he says these r not allowed.
I need complete reference in favor or against it. Plz help me out here.
thankyouPeace.
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Say "Come, I will rehearse what Allah hath (really) prohibited you from" Join not anything as equal with Him; be good to your parents; kill not your children on a plea of want;- We provide sustenance for you and for them;- come not nigh to shameful deeds. Whether open or secret; take not life, which Allah hath made sacred, except by way of justice and law thus doth He command you, that ye may learn wisdom.Shakir
Say Come I will recite what your Lord has forbidden to you-- (remember) that you do not associate anything with Him and show kindness to your parents, and do not slay your children for (fear of) poverty-- We provide for you and for them-- and do not draw nigh to indecencies, those of them which are apparent and those which are concealed, and do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden except for the requirements of justice; this He has enjoined you with that you may understand.Pickthall
Say Come, I will recite unto you that which your Lord hath made a sacred duty for you That ye ascribe no thing as partner unto Him and that ye do good to parents, and that ye slay not your children because of penury - We provide for you and for them - and that ye draw not nigh to lewd things whether open or concealed. And that ye slay not the life which Allah hath made sacred, save in the course of justice. This He hath command you, in order that ye may discern.Muhsin Khan
Say (O Muhammad SAW) "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited you from Join not anything in worship with Him; be good and dutiful to your parents; kill not your children because of poverty - We provide sustenance for you and for them; come not near to Al-Fawahish (shameful sins, illegal sexual intercourse, etc.) whether committed openly or secretly, and kill not anyone whom Allah has forbidden, except for a just cause (according to Islamic law). This He has commanded you that you may understand.Sahih International
Say, "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited to you. that you not associate anything with Him, and to parents, good treatment, and do not kill your children out of poverty; We will provide for you and them. And do not approach immoralities - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden except by right. This has He instructed you that you may use reason."Dr. Ghali
Say, "Come (so that) I may recite what your Lord has prohibited you that you do not associate anything with Him, and to show fairest (companionship) to (your) parents; and do not kill your children (out) of want. We provide for you and for them too. And do not draw near obscenities (i.e., irregular sexual intercourse; shameful) whatever (of these) is outward and whatever inward; and do not kill the self that Allah has prohibited, except with the truth (i.e., by right, in the course of justice). That He has enjoined you with, that possibly you would consider. -
Following any desire will lead one astray.
Masturbation and pornography are an epithet of desire.
The transgression is manifold1)When you watch pornography you are supporting the porn industry.
The industry is responsible for dehumanizing women, objectifying women, creating misconceptions about intimacy, destroying marriage and relationships and much worse.
The more views a porn site or video gets the more money they pay.
I see some porn actresses as prostitutes stuck with no other means known to them to make money other than selling their body.
That is what we are supporting every time we watch a porn video.
2)When you masturbate, you undoubtedly, undeniably are thinking or fantasizing of other persons whom your right hands do not possess.Porn and masturbation are a desire, fight against such desire, it is difficult but strive through patience, prayer and perseverance!
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Following any desire will lead one astray.
Masturbation and pornography are an epithet of desire.
The transgression is manifold1)When you watch pornography you are supporting the porn industry.
The industry is responsible for dehumanizing women, objectifying women, creating misconceptions about intimacy, destroying marriage and relationships and much worse.
The more views a porn site or video gets the more money they pay.
I see some porn actresses as prostitutes stuck with no other means known to them to make money other than selling their body.
That is what we are supporting every time we watch a porn video.
2)When you masturbate, you undoubtedly, undeniably are thinking or fantasizing of other persons whom your right hands do not possess.Porn and masturbation are a desire, fight against such desire, it is difficult but strive through patience, prayer and perseverance!
best way to get rid of these things is to get marriage when you feel you need something or you cannot control urself.
but now a days marriage is also like business, its not really easy to take a decison of marriage due to lot of things what we all are suffering in this era.
again these are all tests and all tests are always very difficult we should stay away from all these things as much as we can. peace
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We have to use our minds as we told to.
So, if our sex drive reaches a degree that blocking our self control mechanism and prevents us from making right decisions, it is entirely logical to discharge it deliberately instead of waiting for an uncertain "wet dream". Because our self control mechanism is much much important than our sexual desire. Zina/fornication is haram in Quran but masturbation is not. Therefore, if masturbation is going to help to keep ourselves away from zina, it is entirely sensible to do it without condemning one of biggest sins. But one exception avoiding excessive masturbation like many other excessive things we have to avoid.
Regards.