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Peace Amra,
Besides getting married to this gentleman, what are some of your goals in the nearest future?
Are you going to school? What are you studying? What do you want to become?
Like Cerberus said, keep your mind focused on yourself primarily. We are not saying break up with the guy and move on. We are saying give it time, fulfill your near future goals and aspirations. Finishing school and earning an education is so important, it might not be as easy to do once you're fully invested in a committed relationship or marriage. Therefore, focus on your immediate priorities, establish yourself. God forbid but relationships can get sour even among believers. No one is perfect. What will you have to fall back upon if you do not have an education, degree or career?Neptin gave the best advice keep steadfast to your salat and indulge in sadaqqat Our Lord is Ever Near.
Do not despair and remain patient