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Ok .. i need help !
theres this girl who doenst talk to me or wanna know me and the werid thing is that she doesnt have any reason .. it started 6-7 months back .. we talked bout it before the xmas holidays and she said she-ll sort herself out but shes still teh same .. i mean shes alright with everyone else apart from me .. yday i sent her a sms saying i wanted to chat to her face to face again but she didnt even text back .. she told her other friends whose my good friend that she doenst wanna chat face to face .. man how could u be pissed at seomone without any reason ?
i dot know what to do .. i tried my best to become friends with her but it didnt work .. !!!
i m not the type of the person whose gonna shout at someone and embrass them on the spot.. i m pretty nice n all .. cant really shout at someone .. haha friends mostly !!
my good friend said that i should ust leave her and tel her i habve better ppl to deail with and i m wasting my time on heer ..
now what should i do ? any advice ?
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lol the serious advice leave her alone. There are plenty of girls who I am sure will accept you as friend just look around. I believe that you are trying to hook up with this girl through internet chat. Not good idea. Try to meet people in real life not in cyberspace.
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my good friend said that i should ust leave her
thats good advice
and tel her i habve better ppl to deail with and i m wasting my time on heer ..
thats not good advice - dont get drawn into conflict or insults.
If she doesn't reply to your sms and ignores you then clearly she doesn't want to talk with you. You might not like that but you should respect it imo. So ignore her back with dignity and honour.
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You tried to talk things out. You sent her a message that she ignored.
Maybe you should explain her in another message (email) what you think about the whole thing. How you thought it over and can't figure out what you did wrong and why she's so mad at you. Then ingore it.At least SHE will get an explanation about why YOU are ignoring her. It seems fair to me. D
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Ammarb instead of getting lost in emotions you should accept the fact that she don't want to be your friend even not want to talk to you. She might have her reasons for not friendly with you, just accept the fact and move on. Respect her decision leave her alone.
What part of the world you are located? If you are in North American or in Europe than there are plenty of places you can meet girls and make friends. Shopping Malls, food courts, coffee shops etc........
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thats the problem man, her friend says that she doenst have a reason! thats whats bugging me .. i mean ok if she had a reason then oh well but if she doesnt then why is doing all this crap ??
I dont know ..Salaam,
I hate to tell you this, but she's just not that into you. Take the hint and move on.
I'm not trying to sound cruel, but you must understand that if someone is ignoring you and not responding to your messages. it's best to move on. Why waste your time with someone who doesn't care to talk to you? It's pointless. wink -
Peace,
Here's my thought on this topic Why bother wasting your time over some school girl who obviously does not give a damn about you??? Instead of wasting time figuring out what you've done "wrong", try to study those hours, remember God, help your parents, do something helpful for your community, donate blood, shovel the snow off an old lady's driveway, feed a poor bird that's been searching for bird seeds in your yard...there are so many things you can do instead to please God and that is exactly the reason we are here...not to worry as to why some oblivious girl is ignoring you.
I sound so old don't I? Let's get a life