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    Ming-Lo
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    Salams sheena! Kudos to oyu for having the courage to tell your family, I haven't been able to tell minds yet. I think I need to be more mentaly prepared and ready to answer any question they fire at me. anyway, I have been to Singapore twice! It is one of my favourite places, it is so beuatiful and so CLEAN! ;D Your lucky to live there! I have been to Jakarta and Bandung aswell (my stepmum is Indonesian.)

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      adley
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      Salaam Majidah,

      Oh yeah, I have a question. Is one of the reasons that make arabs idolize Muhammad so much because he is an arab? I get the impression that arab people take Muhammad more like a national hero, so they want him to be the best among other peoples heroes (ReadOther non-arab prophets).

      Hmmm... that is a possibility. But it is even more wondrous why non-Arabs (read my fellow countrymen) also idolize him so much. Sometimes even greater than our national heroes. ;D

      =adley=

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        adley
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        Salaam Ming-Lo,

        I have been to Jakarta and Bandung aswell (my stepmum is Indonesian.)

        So, do you speak Indonesian or Malay? ;D

        =adley=

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          peace sheena,

          All my love and support is yours. I know exactly what you are going through you are definately not alone in this struggle as many here will tell you. You may email me anytime if you are feeling down, or isolated or just want to get things off your chest. I recommend keep turning to the quran and remembering Allah much.

          love and peace xxx

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            Alen
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            I just registered today.
            I have been raised a sunni & have now began reading the Quran & turning slowly into a Quranic only believer.
            Unfortunately my family members & friends have labelled & shunned me.
            They called me a kafeer.
            I am just seeking solace from friends out there sharing the same fate.
            At least I do not feel alone.

            **** I have repeatedly tried getting in touch with Zakaria - the so called Spore coordinator but
            I am not getting any reply from him.

            Can somebody just talk to me?

            As salamu alaykum.
            Respectfully.

            You must stay patient.
            Patience is a good virtue of every believer.
            I know it's hard but rely on God and you'll succeed.

            As salamu alaykum.

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              unknownuser
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              salam alaykum

              i wasnt raised muslim but christian and i do know how it feels to leave your families ideal of what the right way is

              i too know how it feels to be labeled as one who is in the wrong way and misguided and oging to hell by there standards

              you are not alone i understand here is somehting i have learned throught time

              u cant change hearts, no matter how close u r to a person, u can't make them see what u see, make them learn what u learn... u have to wait patiently for them to learn through their individually prescribed destinies"

              hope that helps

              amanda

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                Isis
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                Salam ~

                Twist of fate (absent mindedness) I am now Isis ~ though I am Sheena the lady who started this. Seemed to have forgotten even my Id and password ~

                Thanks for being very supportive of me.

                At present, I really have nothing construe to say(type). but God willing, I shall post more in future (take this as my blog page) laughs

                group

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                  Isis
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                  The Arab Conspiracy

                  Salamz ~

                  When I was first introduced to the Koranic-only ideology, I was scared to death. Every waking moment, I asked God for forgiveness and I felt that I have betrayed theProphet ~ Mohammed.
                  At the same time I prayed that God will show me the Right Way and if Koranic- only is the Way then the Lord will tweak my heart to embrace passionately.
                  I read "The Arab Conspiracy" with so much despair. Although I found some truth in "The Arab Conspiracy" deep down I was still scared.Maybe scared to face the truth? Nevertheless, I put everything aside to finish the book meaning that I put all other emotions ~ I took it that I am just reading.......after I finished reading the book, I was like
                  Wow!
                  After that, I look at everything at a different angle and Boy! did I had a good laugh ...... looking back at so many things that I deemed the truth.
                  My advise to all first timers reading "The Arab Conspiracy" to look at the book openly and With God's Grace your heart and mind will see the truth ~
                  Yes, people around me have seen the change in me ~ I no longer don the "tudung" or headscarf (tts on the physical side)
                  Although, I am not one to preach the Koran incessantly ~ I do have people telling me that although I am a "walking Koran" ~ I do not preach what I say?! .......... whatever that means laff
                  I do not care what people think of me now ~ because at the end of the Day, The Lord shall judge me not them!

                  And before I make my way out ~ there is something that I would like to share with the world & and its something that I intend to do everytime I post something here (I hope I dun get sued for nothing) Here goes ~~

                  ~ LAST NOTES ~

                  Always Respond To A Greeting

                  "And if you are greeted with a greeting, then return an even better greeting or return the same. God is Reckoning over all things." (Quran 486)

                  smiles thats taken off Chapter 6 under "Social Responsibility" (page 42) from "The Natural Republic".

                  You may be wondering ~ "What that gotta do with my page" laffs

                  Those are the Words of God ! and every single Word of God touches us because it is our Way of Life !

                  Isis out

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                    TheNabi
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                    Peace Isis

                    Welcome to the forum. Nice to see that Aidid has had an encouraging influence on you.

                    I do not preach what I say?!

                    Do you mean 'preach what you do'?

                    Joe

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                      Isis
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                      Although, I am not one to preach the Koran incessantly ~ I do have people telling me that although I am a "walking Koran" ~ I do not preach what I say?! .......... whatever that means laff

                      oops what I intended to type was "practise what I preach" yeah

                      Isis out ~

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                        Alen
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                        As salamu alaykum.
                        Respectfully.

                        Trust me Isis, you're much more courageous then me. If i told my parents that i'm a quran-alone muslim, i'd sleeping outdoors.
                        My mother made an exit from Islam and that's why i got deported from the States - i hurried and made a mistake.

                        As salamu alaykum.

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                          splatter
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                          Hi Isis,

                          I'm from Singapore too. Like you, I was raised a Sunni Muslim but I renounced the religion and became a weak atheist (no belief in god) ten years ago. The decision was intellectual. Recently I'm convinced that there is a god and now I subbscribe to the God Alone philosophy.

                          Hope we can share our views over teh tarik.

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                            Alen
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                            Hi Isis,

                            I'm from Singapore too. Like you, I was raised a Sunni Muslim but I renounced the religion and became a weak atheist (no belief in god) ten years ago. The decision was intellectual. Recently I'm convinced that there is a god and now I subbscribe to the God Alone philosophy.

                            Hope we can share our views over teh tarik. )

                            As salamu alaykum.
                            Respectfully.

                            Welcome to the forum and be grateful to Allah for guiding you to the Right Path.

                            As salamu alaykum.

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                              Isis
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                              SalamZ ~ Alen

                              I really think tt it is not a matter of "verbal". I mean we do not have to go ard telling ppl, tt "hey, I no longer am practising what YOU are practising".
                              Its a matter of belonging I guess tts making us feel alone ~

                              I remember then when every Eid, we, the whole family will flock to the nearest field to perform the Eid prayers, it was so joyful......I really feel tt you are part of a society. Now, I no longer perfrom the Eid prayers (ritual) ..... the first year tt I did not perform the Eid prayers ..... I felt so "empty" ..... but I don't anymore cos I understand the meaning of "sholat" and Eid prayers simply a ritual.

                              Alen, all you really need is Blessing from the Lord..... You are not alone in this and may the Lord shower you with all his Grace and Blessings ....

                              Isis ~ out

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                                Isis
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                                SalamZ ~ splatter (tts a pretty interesting nick!)

                                Over a cup of tea tarik be interesting ~

                                Mayb u wanna gimme ur contacts so tt we can have our gathering and basically talk! laughs

                                I really wish tt free-minds start a chatroom where we can log in and chat and talk abt our insecurities ~ Tt way we can be more spot on abt matters ..... Imagine all of us chatting and giving our views at the same time ~ wouldn't tt save alot of time ~ and nites when we cannot sleep we can just be with friends online!

                                Not only tt, look on the positive side, we will be reaching out to a lot of ppl out there ! Of cos, there will be prowlers and trouble makers (isn't tt a norm. in chatrooms) .....

                                Anyway, hope tt it will come true one day ..... or mayb there is an existing free-minds chatroom tt I am not aware of ..... slaps forehead

                                I really think tt there are a million ways to reach out ..... its just a matter of how we do it !

                                Last notes ~
                                All we want is the truth , to serve the Lord , if what we are doing is wrong then please advise what is right ! (tts directed to those reading the posts!)

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                                  splatter
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                                  Peace,

                                  Isis, please check your private message inbox. I've sent you my contact. )

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                                    Alen
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                                    As salamu alaykum.
                                    Respectfully.

                                    Thanks Isis.
                                    I use to always go to the mosque to pray with others, especially on fridays. But then they started putting photos of Mecca, then i learned about their mentioning Muhammad's name in the prayer so i stopped going there.

                                    Now i pray in the house.
                                    As salamu alaykum. sun

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                                      Isis
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                                      SalamZ Alen,

                                      Just a thought ...... isn't "prayers" a ritual too?

                                      Mecca ~ the pilgramage an ancient ritual too?

                                      Just a thought to ponder and seek ~

                                      Isis ~ out

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                                        Alen
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                                        As salamu alaykum.
                                        Respectfully.

                                        Yeah, i was just saying that things have changed. Now they put photos of Mecca in mosques and praying houses, they changed azaan, they mention Muhammad's name in the prayer .... sad.

                                        As salamu alakyum.

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                                          Isis
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                                          SalamZ,

                                          With God's description, the gracious, the merciful

                                          "Do read to contradict and refute only base on the Quran alone,
                                          Do not believe and take it for granted,
                                          but to weigh and consider."

                                          According to this Ayah ~ we have witnessed the Lord even before we were BORN ~

                                          7172 Wa-ith akhatha rabbuka min banee adama min thuhoorihim thurriyyatahum waashhadahum AAala anfusihim alastu birabbikum qaloo bala shahidna an taqooloo yawma alqiyamati inna kunna AAan hatha ghafileena
                                          7172 And when thy Lord took from the Children of Adam, from their loins, their seed, and made them testify touching themselves, 'Am I not your Lord?' They said, 'Yes, we testify'-- lest you should say on the Day of Resurrection, 'As for us, we were heedless of this,'

                                          7173 Aw taqooloo innama ashraka abaona min qablu wakunna thurriyyatan min baAAdihim afatuhlikuna bima faAAala almubtiloona
                                          7173 Nor can you say, "It was our parents who practiced idolatry, and we simply followed in their footsteps. Will You punish us because of what others have innovated?"

                                          Let us reflect what Iblis promised the Lord ..... based on this Ayah ......

                                          716 Qala fabima aghwaytanee laaqAAudanna lahum sirataka almustaqeema

                                          716 Said he, 'Now, for Thy perverting me, I shall surely sit in ambush for them on Thy straight path;

                                          He will divert all human from God?s straight path?

                                          Moslems all over this world chants this very Ayah, every time they perform their 5 daily rituals physical ?solats?, but unfortunately they do not know what is ?straight path??based on the Koran alone.

                                          Isis ~ out

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