Mingling with the opposite sex ????
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Nowhere it says that they would NOT be recognized. The ayat says that they would be recognized
3360 O prophet, tell your wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they should lengthen upon themselves their outer garments (jalabeeb). That is better so that they would be recognized and not harmed. God is Forgiver, Merciful.
Some more translations
Shakir O Prophet! say to your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers that they let down upon them their over-garments; this will be more proper, that they may be known, and thus they will not be given trouble; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
Khalifa O prophet, tell your wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they shall lengthen their garments. Thus, they will be recognized (as righteous women) and avoid being insulted. GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.Jilbab is a loose outer garment like a gown or a cloak worn over the regular clothes. It has nothing to do with the face or head. When a believing woman wears a long loose outer garment she will immediately be recognized as a pious or righteous person and will not be treated like a piece of meat by indecent or immoral people.
Cloak \Cloak\ (?; 110), n.
- A loose outer garment, extending from the neck downwards,
and commonly without sleeves. It is longer than a cape,
and is worn both by men and by women.
Gown \Gown, n. n; cf. OF. gone, prob. of the
same origin.]- A loose, flowing upper garment; especially
(a) The ordinary outer dress of a woman; as, a calico or
silk gown.
(b) The official robe of certain professional men and
scholars, as university students and officers,
barristers, judges, etc.; hence, the dress of peace;
the dress of civil officers, in distinction from
military.
He Mars deposed, and arms to gowns made yield.
--Dryden.
(c) A loose wrapper worn by gentlemen within doors; a
dressing gown. - A loose outer garment, extending from the neck downwards,
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2234 And there is no sin upon you if you openly propose marriage to these women, or you keep it between yourselves. God knows that you will be thinking of them, but do not meet them secretly, unless you have something righteous to say.
what does this mean? ....u cant hang out with girls if ur a guy n vice versa?
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ok .. so do ya guys think these kinda tops r alright in the pics ?
http//www.pakstop.com/pmforums/showthread.php?t=7203salam ammar .
what if men were wearing lesser clothing , like the tops in the pics . what is ur opinion . would it look alright ? what do u think ? -
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong and I think all of them are wearing very decent dress.
And what is decency ? is it in the dress or in a persons attitude ?
Imagine a girl wearing veil but very rude in her behavior....would you call her a decent person ?
It all depends on how you see it. Its all in the intension.
The Dress thing evolved for our comfort. And also the definition of comfort can vary from person to person.
I think we are so paranoid about dress when it comes to religion cause we humans have become so much materialistic that when ever we see some skin or short dress, instantly we associate it with some negativity.
But if can learn to take everything normally than you will find life more enjoyable, easy and peaceful.
Peace
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ok .. so do ya guys think these kinda tops r alright in the pics ?
http//www.pakstop.com/pmforums/showthread.php?t=7203salam ammar .
what if men were wearing lesser clothing , like the tops in the pics . what is ur opinion . would it look alright ? what do u think ?Well if guys wore lesser clothing it would look Gay .. hehehe but it wouldnt really be bad ...
Shamsul I really like ur argument .. I think there is nuthing wrong but when Allah said cover ur bosoms then He did mean cover ur bosoms .. dont u think ?
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2234 And there is no sin upon you if you openly propose marriage to these women, or you keep it between yourselves. God knows that you will be thinking of them, but do not meet them secretly, unless you have something righteous to say.
What does this mean ? Does it mean that one girl and a boy cant be alone ? ....
Btw i have also noticed that some girls who wear the Hijab and the Jilbaba are very rude in behaviour .. especially to guys !! Not generalising though
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ok .. so do ya guys think these kinda tops r alright in the pics ?
http//www.pakstop.com/pmforums/showthread.php?t=7203salam ammar .
what if men were wearing lesser clothing , like the tops in the pics . what is ur opinion . would it look alright ? what do u think ?Well if guys wore lesser clothing it would look Gay .. hehehe but it wouldnt really be bad ...
and men exposing their curves ? of their private parts like females are supposed to . is that ok ? also checkout http//www.geocities.com/rationalreality/women.htm
salam.
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ok .. so do ya guys think these kinda tops r alright in the pics ?
http//www.pakstop.com/pmforums/showthread.php?t=7203salam ammar .
what if men were wearing lesser clothing , like the tops in the pics . what is ur opinion . would it look alright ? what do u think ?Well if guys wore lesser clothing it would look Gay .. hehehe but it wouldnt really be bad ...
Shamsul I really like ur argument .. I think there is nuthing wrong but when Allah said cover ur bosoms then He did mean cover ur bosoms .. dont u think ?
arent they covering their bosom in the pic ? I think they are...)
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I have studied in Film and I hope to become a Film producer/director in future. Those are who are really in to art, they dont see any nude body as harmful object. Its natural, this is how God created us. The beauty of creation is in its details. Every single being in this universe is naked. We humans are born naked, nature is also naked.
Do you see animals fighting over dress code ?
We humans have developed all these complicated definition of decency based of how you look rather than how you behave has cause enough problem for our society and pushed each other far away.
We have learned to hate God's creation based on appearance rather than appreciating the beauty of it.
May be we should learn to loosen up a bit and try to get the "don?t care" attitude in this dress code complicacy.
Peace
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haha they are they are but what bout cleavage ?
what is next after covering the cleavage ? I am sure you will find something else as long as you have the intension to look for such things.... where do you draw the lines ? where is the limit ? Who defines it ?
I hope you get my point ..
peace
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yea but ALlah has specified in the Quran that we should dress in a certain way ? How can we just ignore His words ?
No, God did not specify all those we desire. God gave some abstract limits.
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Cover your bosom.
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Lengthen the garments ( doesnt mention how long)
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Lower your gaze ( can mean to be decent/appreciative/positive in behavior)
Now where did you find those details of how much curve, how much cloth, how much tight, Should it be body hugging or loose and all those details that we humans fight over ? Can these detailed be found in Quran. I dont think so ..
Those who have negativity in their mind will come up with so much of complexity just because they cant control their mind. This is how life starts to get more complicated and problematic.
Peace
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true life is getting a bit problematic for me .. I mean this trivial things are always going in my mind and i m getting sick of it .. dont know how to stop it !!
just relax and try to see the good things rather than all those negativity. You should learn to appreciate the beauty of creation rather than finding a way to hate it. Be natural.
As long as you don?t harm others and help ppl around you than...there is nothing to fear.
Be true to yourself..) Don?t get in to showing off; If you do than, you will fall in the cycle of negativity.
Peace
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hehe thanx for the advice man .... yah i do appreciate beauty !
goodluck bro... hey! can I get a free ticket of your hit movies ??D