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Punishment for the unchaste:lashes,confinement or 4giveness?

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    agentxxx
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    peace noprogressive,
    you wrote

    You are taking one aspect of that verse. You are forggeitng about the "or Allah ordain for them some (other) way.".... that obviously is hte forgiveness part (416) which applies to both men and women.

    oops oops thanks for reminding me )
    peace.

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      unknownuser
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      Well, step of your high horses guys & gals

      I know a lot of women who also beat their husbands

      we are even lol

      also if in the middle east women are abused, in the western countries men are bloody more abused

      you see if I work all my life and my wife was just sitting on her bum delivering an army of children, if we want divorce she will take all what I have made and worked hard all my life

      far out this is the most horendous abuse men can get, starting again from zero

      Conclusion

      Men and Women are bloody abused by each other in differnt ways

      Well done Satan, never fail to impress me

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        unknownuser
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        Peace Ahmed,

        now for me I see it as lawfull for the husband who still love his ill conducted wife and wants to keep her as a wife

        yeah, hitting her, very loving act... shock

        Peace Elena

        I guess so if done properly, i presume fathers and mothers also hit their ill conduct children

        or you never did that?

        peace

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          unknownuser
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          Hi AhmedBahgat,

          you see if I work all my life and my wife was just sitting on her bum delivering an army of children, if we want divorce she will take all what I have made and worked hard all my life

          shock Giving birth to children and taking care of them is a HUGE responsibility.
          And I am sure, she does chores at home too. And for all that she does for u, she really deserves something.

          Well, anyways, peace.
          I am assuming u said all that only to make an amusing statement and to call it truce. )

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            unknownuser
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            peace ahmed

            howeverI wave that right for me and if my wife commit ill conduct and insist on it after I exhaust the first two options mentioned in the verse, then my third option will be the highway for her and will be replaced with a better and respectful woman

            sage decision!

            btw,my name is elke, even though most people pronounce elka (since i've lived in egypt actually they did everything to me elk, elkee, ilka ellaka,... - and that's where you come from isn't it ?) wink

            and here is the link
            http//www.free-minds.org/women/beating.htm

            peace lk

            sorry for spelling your name wrong sister "i will call you sister better"

            yes I'm an egyptian and also walk like egyptians

            peace

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              unknownuser
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              Hi AhmedBahgat,

              you see if I work all my life and my wife was just sitting on her bum delivering an army of children, if we want divorce she will take all what I have made and worked hard all my life

              shock Giving birth to children and taking care of them is a HUGE responsibility.
              And I am sure, she does chores at home too. And for all that she does for u, she really deserves something.

              Well, anyways, peace.
              I am assuming u said all that only to make an amusing statement and to call it truce. )

              that is what happened to my very rich brother in law

              his aussie wife took evertything because she had 4 kids from him and he started from under zero again

              peace

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                Fahad1
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                please note that verse 416 is talking about a man and a woman, NOT and I stress NOT 2 men

                salam.
                415 is about women(lesbians) and 416 about men(gays). they commit lewdness , what the people of Lut used to commit .

                my 2 cents .

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                  unknownuser
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                  please note that verse 416 is talking about a man and a woman, NOT and I stress NOT 2 men

                  salam.
                  415 is about women(lesbians) and 416 about men(gays). they commit lewdness , what the people of Lut used to commit .

                  my 2 cents .

                  thanks a lot for correcting me I will check it out

                  peace

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                    unknownuser
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                    Ok mate I accept your logic for 416 but not for 415

                    we can see that 416 talks about a male couples, but 415 talks about a group of women unless you mean more that 2 women involved in an orgi lol

                    Peace bro

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                      Fahad1
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                      Ok mate I accept your logic for 416 but not for 415

                      we can see that 416 talks about a male couples, but 415 talks about a group of women unless you mean more that 2 women involved in an orgi lol

                      i dont get it . whats wrong with more than two ?

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                        unknownuser
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                        Ok mate I accept your logic for 416 but not for 415

                        we can see that 416 talks about a male couples, but 415 talks about a group of women unless you mean more that 2 women involved in an orgi lol

                        i dont get it . whats wrong with more than two ?

                        I don't know, I don't think women were involved in orgies back then, i reckon women started to become lesbians after the many males converting to the queers religion, or what do you think?

                        peace

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                          Fahad1
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                          I don't know, I don't think women were involved in orgies back then, i reckon women started to become lesbians after the many males converting to the queers religion, or what do you think?

                          well , i dont think it is so unlikely . if men can be involved with women and men , then women can also be involved in lewdness with both men and women . and by the way , men were commiting lewdness among themselves since the time of Lut . that would be way back in time .
                          and if 415 says "women" then ofcourse women would be involved in lewdness back then . koran is the criterion . thats what i think .

                          as 415 says if women(not men) commit lewdness punish them ,
                          and 416 says if men(not women) commit lewdness , punish them too .

                          salam.

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                            unknownuser
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                            Ok do you think "Fahesha" covers homsexuality?

                            i really don't know

                            peace

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                              Fahad1
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                              Ok do you think "Fahesha" covers homsexuality?

                              i really don't know

                              peace

                              yes . 415 tells us that it does cover homosexuality .
                              the people of Lut were homosexuals , they also commited fahesha.

                              peace .

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                                wildguest1956
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                                An interesting ressource
                                http//www.islamicperspectives.com/Stoning5.htm#Chapter5

                                Extract

                                In summary 242 and 415-16 should be read together and not as one abrogating the other. The first passage, 24;2, gives the punishment for zina` understood as natural sex between a man and a woman not married to each other a maximum of 100 lashes. The second passage, 415-16, prescribes the punishment for other forms of fahishah including homosexuality house confinement in case of women and any type of effective punishment for men. This punishment is aimed at reform of the culprit and should cease as soon as clear signs of reform are visible.

                                This is that simple, clear teaching given by God that some Muslims in earlier times changed by turning to sources other than his word, importing death penalty for every type of fahishah, and giving their views the authority of the Prophet by fabricating ahadith. And unfortunately many Muslims in later generations followed them in their errors. May the Most Gracious One bring us all closer to his word and the authentic sunnah of his Messenger and have the courage to reject the errors or lies of some earlier Muslims.

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                                  Jaxal
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                                  SaLaM agent

                                  I would go for the lashes. But that is just my personal opinion. If i found out my wife is cheating on me.... she has it comming.. and she has it comming bad. Likewise, i expect the same for myself. If i cheat on my wife, i do not expect an OUNCE of mercy from her.

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                                    jonny_k
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                                    SaLaM agent

                                    I would go for the lashes. But that is just my personal opinion. If i found out my wife is cheating on me.... she has it comming.. and she has it comming bad. Likewise, i expect the same for myself. If i cheat on my wife, i do not expect an OUNCE of mercy from her.

                                    Khi- Salam. Absolutely correct but remeber even if your wife has mercy on you that would in no way take you away from the punishment since having pre marital sex is a crime against the children which may be born out of wedlock and in the long run a crime aginst humanity, not merely aginst your wife. People make a moral issue out of this and forget the terribe after effects. GOD Bless!

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                                      Jaxal
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                                      SaLaM idmkhizar

                                      Im glad you understood me )

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                                        agentxxx
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                                        peace jaxal,
                                        you wrote

                                        I would go for the lashes. But that is just my personal opinion. If i found out my wife is cheating on me.... she has it comming.. and she has it comming bad. Likewise, i expect the same for myself. If i cheat on my wife, i do not expect an OUNCE of mercy from her.

                                        brother you are great lol thats equality and justice.
                                        regards.

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