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Dating and Kissing. Holding Hands

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    unknownuser
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    But choose your partner chap!!! OK!!!

    Ohh!! no problem on that..they wont choose for me unless I tell them to ..and I am totally against arranged marriage...

    Thats great!!!

    Kissing isn't BAD (you either Kiss Good or really terribly!!!!)

    wouldnt know if I am good or bad..LOL didnt get the chance yet...

    Thats hard to believe for a good looking guy like you!!! and with a talent for snake charming perhaps !!!! -) wink

    But perhaps you waiting to kiss a true beauty instead of any old dog that comes to you wink

    hmmmm.....well I am an artist..so I am sure there wont be anything less of creativity.. haha
    peace

    Yes, creativity involved when holding a hand of a beautiful gal!!! especially in the dark when you fumbling to find the right place
    just kiddin -)

    Regards,

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      Wakas
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      peace,

      Well I can't find it. Could you please give me the Surah?

      I'm not sure what method you were using to look but I typed "dating and quran" into www.google.com and the following site was amongst the list of sites. It is reasonable, and with references

      http//www.submission.org/teenagers/dating.html

      There is no "surah" (chapter) on dating, as far as I'm aware. The above article references "ayatin" (signs).

      You may wish to read it together with general etiquette discussed in al-quran (the reading). Al-Quran is very clear on this issue but on this particular issue, people tend to see what they want to see.

      Wakas

      All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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        Jaxal
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        SaLaM Taj

        Does dating have to involve these things?

        DAting CAN involve these kinds of things and its ok. Holding hands is definately ok. And so is kissing. WE always assume when we think of kissing that maybe its going to be that deep tounge twisting down your throat kind of kissing. That is not what i am talking about. Im talking about when you end a date, and its time to bid goodnight, we (the guys) hold her hand and kiss it to bid goodnight. How can that be sex? If i came to you and kissed your hands tht way, do you think we just had sex?

        even wants me to get married..

        Join the club brother loooolll

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          mquran
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          WakasYou may wish to read it together with general etiquette discussed in al-quran (the reading). Al-Quran is very clear on this issue but on this particular issue, people tend to see what they want to see.

          Very correct. Sadly, people have began to use the banner of 'quran alone' to legitimise thier opinion. While it's true that al-quraan has quantitatively less rules than sunnism, its rebellion against these liberal notions is pretty clear. Therefore the 'quran alone' preached by some is nothing more than secularism in disguise. Interesting malaise, I never saw this in the early days but these days, its common. The good thing is, we can always refer to the book itself. That never fails and people who project false opinions will be exposed. The lack of verse-quoting in this thread is a clear proof of this irreverence.

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            shamsul-arefin
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            Yes, creativity involved when holding a hand of a beautiful gal!!! especially in the dark when you fumbling to find the right place
            just kiddin -)

            Regards,

            turban quite imaginative u r.......!! trance

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              unknownuser
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              Yes, creativity involved when holding a hand of a beautiful gal!!! especially in the dark when you fumbling to find the right place
              just kiddin -)

              Regards,

              turban quite imaginative u r.......!! trance

              Not as imaginitive as you are perhaps with you being able to draw nudes. But I do my best with words wink

              Regards,

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                shamsul-arefin
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                Thats hard to believe for a good looking guy like you!!! and with a talent for snake charming perhaps !!!! -) wink

                me GOODLOOKIN...!!! ?? sighhhhh...... I hope gal from ma place could feel that. wah ...they never understood ma charm!!! sun

                peace

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                  shamsul-arefin
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                  Not as imaginitive as you are perhaps with you being able to draw nudes. But I do my best with words wink

                  Regards,

                  heheeh.....I feel ya..wink well I dont draw nudes..P but I have no problem with it..hehe.....My works are mostly towards manipulation.. rif

                  have you seen any of ma work..? U can say I am a digital artist..P

                  shanti

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                    shamsul-arefin
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                    Join the club brother loooolll

                    O I was always in the club..!! U neva seen me before ??? OO kekeke

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                      unknownuser
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                      me GOODLOOKIN...!!! ?? sighhhhh...... I hope gal from ma place could feel that. wah ...they never understood ma charm!!! sun
                      peace

                      A Honest a reliable FEMALE has said that you were "HOT" and good looking. But perhaps she meant that you live in a hot country wink

                      Regards,

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                        unknownuser
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                        heheeh.....I feel ya..wink well I dont draw nudes..P but I have no problem with it..hehe.....My works are mostly towards manipulation.. rif
                        have you seen any of ma work..? U can say I am a digital artist..P
                        shanti

                        Not draw nudes? I thought you did. OK must have misunderstood...

                        I have seen Khalils Work and they are great...

                        Would not mind seeing your work too -)

                        Regards,

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                          shamsul-arefin
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                          me GOODLOOKIN...!!! ?? sighhhhh...... I hope gal from ma place could feel that. wah ...they never understood ma charm!!! sun
                          peace

                          A Honest a reliable FEMALE has said that you were "HOT" and good looking. But perhaps she meant that you live in a hot country wink

                          Regards,

                          appreciating good things abt others is really cool...wink

                          shanti

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                            shamsul-arefin
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                            heheeh.....I feel ya..wink well I dont draw nudes..P but I have no problem with it..hehe.....My works are mostly towards manipulation.. rif
                            have you seen any of ma work..? U can say I am a digital artist..P
                            shanti

                            Not draw nudes? I thought you did. OK must have misunderstood...

                            I have seen Khalils Work and they are great...

                            Would not mind seeing your work too -)

                            Regards,

                            this is ma gallery..P hope u like them..D

                            http//attar-khoje.deviantart.com/gallery/

                            shanti

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                              Vizard
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                              Eh? I guess the actions are what you make out to be. I thought in some Muslim countries, the males kiss each other hello and goodbye. Do they get turned on by that? Is kissing so bad? lol In regards to a lady, I guess if you are respecting her in your decent treament with her, you are respecting God as well.

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                                SwedenMajidah
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                                A Honest a reliable FEMALE has said that you were "HOT" and good looking. But perhaps she meant that you live in a hot country

                                LOL Lote oops oops oops

                                But He is a charming man he he.

                                Peace Sis Majidah

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                                  unknownuser
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                                  Is kissing so bad?

                                  Yes, its disgusting if you do it BADLY!!! wink

                                  Regards,

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                                    Prince
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                                    Is kissing so bad? lol In regards to a lady, I guess if you are respecting her in your decent treament with her,

                                    I guess if you aint a good kisser then you will be disrespecting her and not giving her a decent treatment. wink lol lol

                                    PEACE

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                                      SwedenMajidah
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                                      A BIG LOL lol lol

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                                        Wakas
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                                        peace,

                                        Sadly, people have began to use the banner of 'quran alone' to legitimise thier opinion. While it's true that al-quraan has quantitatively less rules than sunnism, its rebellion against these liberal notions is pretty clear. Therefore the 'quran alone' preached by some is nothing more than secularism in disguise. Interesting malaise, I never saw this in the early days but these days, its common. The good thing is, we can always refer to the book itself. That never fails and people who project false opinions will be exposed. The lack of verse-quoting in this thread is a clear proof of this irreverence.

                                        True.

                                        All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                          Tahira
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                                          Does this mean its ok for married couples to hold hands and kiss in public?
                                          Keeping in mind that married couples do get intimate.

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