Are 2 nikahs with the same person allowed?
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i would like to know if two nikah with the same person are allowed and in what conditions a nikah is accepted like the father's agreement from the girl's side
is hugging, kissing allowed b4 marriage... is meeting secretly a major sin?whenever i n my bf meet v get a bit outta limits but v kinda feel bad abt it ltr thinking that allah mite get angry with us... v cant disscuss it with our parents cuz in my case this isnt a right time n this mite create probs in da house... dats y i'm avoidin to get this matter infront of my parents... i n my bf decided to get our nikah done without our parents knowledge n whn the rite time for our marriage comes n inshallah after our parents agree then v get get da nikah done again... so i just wanted to know whether in such a case a nikah is allowed or not?
i'm a sunni muslim so anyone regardin knwledge abt this matter are requested to reply my post
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Peace Sister
firstly you can meet your boyfriend in secret AS LONG AS NO TOUCHING or any inappropriate conversation take place, i guess you went too far beyond the limits with your own admission "most young people do that anyway, but Allah is most forgiving if we repent and stop doing it"
there is no such thing called 2 Nikah, it is only one and a condition of it that it has to be publically known, i.e. it can't be a secret
I guess your only option is to marry him right now to protect your modesty and stop committing major sins that you must give account for, this account that you will give will be on your own, your bf and your parents will not be with you then, if you marry him now, it will allow you to start a family at young age (I assumed that both of yuo are young), if you know how to handle a family at young age then marrying early is a very good thing to do
Peace
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Hi Sumra,
in what conditions a nikah is accepted like the father's agreement from the girl's side
I dont think a Nikkah is only valid with the bride's father's agreement.
All u will need for a registered marriage, will be 2 witnessess. But then the procedure of civil marriage will depend on the country where u r residing.is hugging, kissing allowed b4 marriage... is meeting secretly a major sin?
Sex before marriage is prohibited. So, any physical intimacy that is likely to lead to sex is best avoided.
whenever i n my bf meet v get a bit outta limits but v kinda feel bad abt it ltr thinking that allah mite get angry with us...
U might wish to reconsider this coz, Life or even the relationship is not all about sex or just physical attraction.
v cant disscuss it with our parents cuz in my case this isnt a right time n this mite create probs in da house... dats y i'm avoidin to get this matter infront of my parents...
How old are you? And how old is ur bf?
i n my bf decided to get our nikah done without our parents knowledge n whn the rite time for our marriage comes n inshallah after our parents agree then v get get da nikah done again... so i just wanted to know whether in such a case a nikah is allowed or not?
A civil marriage is allowed by law, in the presence of 2 witnessess. So, u will be legally married if u have a civil marriage. But if u r thinking of hiding the marriage from ur folks, u should think again coz its bound to cause problems at ur place when they find out. Why dont u just wait until the time is right or u r old enough? Why live a lie?
If u want to fool ur parents, and remarry him again in their presence later, it will be simply ''fooling them''. U might do better by being honest with them.
To be honest, I think U should think over all of it again.
-Why are u in a hurry to get married? What are ur reasons?
U have not cited that ur parents will not accept this person as ur groom. All u have said is 'they would say this is not the right time'. So, is this the right time?Peace!