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Is this verse applicable to todays women?

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    Samia
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    Salam (and I mean it)

    It is good that you decided to close this discussion for you, because in fact you do not discuss. You did not answer any of my questions regarding the core subject. I did not mention my native tongue out of silly pride, but it was in a context. Anybody on this board who have read some of my postings would know that I am a native speaker, but when you ignorantly wanted to explain to me that nas (aka naas) meant people, I thought maybe you didn't

    As for the labeling, that's what you wrote

    There is a problem when we try our hardest to shut our eyes and twist things .

    Who are we? Whose eyes?

    By the way, I too fell victim to trying my hardest to block the meaning of this verse out so that I can hold on to my feminist notions.

    Too? Who else?!

    I do not want to make this board a fighting ground , so please if you ever change your mind and decide to reply, just stick to answering my questions

    1. What would you understand when a woman says to you "I would like you to meet my "woman"?
    2. How would you overcome the invalidity of the argument "All men (believers or non believers, wise or stupid as long as they have money and are ready to spend it) are the guardians over all women because Allah favoured some of them over some"?
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      Peace samia

      It is good that you decided to close this discussion for you, because in fact you do not discuss. You did not answer any of my questions regarding the core subject.

      And I will not because one really needs to understand Arabic and if one of us doesn't then it will just be you continuing to repeat that Nisaa' means people and me continuing to repeat that Nisaa' means women.

      I did not mention my native tongue out of silly pride, but it was in a context. Anybody on this board who have read some of my postings would know that I am a native speaker, but when you ignorantly wanted to explain to me that nas (aka naas) meant people, I thought maybe you didn't

      Context of what exactly? Trying to make your point that Nisaa' means people? Is that the context? Again you have fallen into the trap that being a native Arabic speaker makes you knowledgable in grammatical structures of Arabic. There is no context to explain where you are from when dealing with a word in quran. Once again, this is "Arab Supremist" mentality that creates friction within Muslim communities. Ethnicity has no context in anything you were trying to explain.

      Who are we? Whose eyes?

      You assumed that I meant you. Had I wanted to say you, I have no problem using the word. I chose the word we meaning a collective unity - something that I too have fallen victim to as well as others like me which may or may not include you.

      I do not want to make this board a fighting ground , so please if you ever change your mind and decide to reply, just stick to answering my questions

      I'm above fighting so this is why I will refrain from continuing this debate. I will however defend myself.

      Peace All

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        unknownuser
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        Peace Samia

        Upon reflection of my last two posts, I'd like to apologize to you because after reading them to myself again now, I found them to be too aggressive. I don't like to show aggression towards others, but since we are all humans, I am prone to making mistakes. I hope that you accept my apology.

        We can agree to disagree on this issue... I still believe nisaa' means women though D

        My decision still remains not to debate further on this particular thread but it would be great to see a flow of more ideas come forth, and I'm afraid my harsh words may have stopped that from happening. So God-Willing we can all continue the thought process about this topic freely.

        Apologies to all for any disruption I may have caused

        Peace All

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          Samia
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          Salaam S2S

          No offense taken. I applaud your courage to own to your mistakes. I hope we can all be blessed with this quality.

          I also agree that nisaa' means women, BUT I think that it means something else, too, (not people (NAAS), though). ;D

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            Roshan
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            Are you saying the verse doesn't refer to men and women per se but rather different roles (rijaal - breadwinners, and nisaa - non-breadwinner)? Am I understanding correctly?

            If that is the case, are you implying the verse should be translated like something as follows "The who stand on their own feet are made responsible for those who do not, and God has given them certain qualities, and because they spend of their property..."

            Peace.

            Peace

            Are you so sure?

            2231

            When ye divorce women, and they fulfil the term of their ('Iddat), either take them back on equitable terms or set them free on equitable terms; but do not take them back to injure them, (or) to take undue advantage; if any one does that; He wrongs his own soul. Do not treat Allah's Signs as a jest, but solemnly rehearse Allah's favours on you, and the fact that He sent down to you the Book and Wisdom, for your instruction. And fear Allah, and know that Allah is well acquainted with all things.

            431

            If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.

            651

            O Prophet! When ye do divorce women, divorce them at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately), their prescribed periods And fear Allah your Lord and turn them not out of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case they are guilty of some open lewdness, those are limits set by Allah and any who transgresses the limits of Allah, does verily wrong his (own) soul thou knowest not if perchance Allah will bring about thereafter some new situation.

            I do not understand the Quranic justification for what mquran has said. Every verse where 'nisa' is mentioned seems to pertain to a translation of 'women' and not non-breadwinners.

            Roshan

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              Samia
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              Salaam Roshan

              No one says that "nisaa'" does not mean women. What we say is that "nisaa'" is the plural of woman AND the real plural of another word, which means "the late".

              When we look into verse 434, we find an illogical or invalid statement if we use the meaning (men and women) "All men are guardians of all women because God favoured some of them over some, and because they spend".
              The questions that may arise from such understanding are

              1. What is the relation between "all men" and "the favoured some"?
              2. Who are the "some " who are favoured over which "some"?
              3. What about the some who are not favoured? What about the "some" over whom the favoured are not favoured?

              Such invalid statement cannot come from God.
              We then look into the language and search for "rijaal" and "niisaa'".

              The root for Rijaal is (re - jeem - lam) which is also the root for "rijl leg
              Then wee find that "rajil" (the name of the doer) means on foot; (rajul) means man, but both words have rijaal as plural.

              The root for nisaa' is (nuun; seen; hamza). Nas' means the late, and its plural is nisaa'.

              Now we look into the Qur'aan, and find that it used rijaal meaning someone (irrespective of gender) on foot.

              We also find at least two verses where the word nisaa' would be meaningless if translated into women, and would better fit with (latest things; later generation), and we conclude that if we apply these meanings to this verse, it will be more meaningful and logical.

              As for the verses you cited, there is no reason why nisaa' in them does not mean women. The meaning fits well and they do not present any invalidity.

              And Allah is more knowing.

              I hope I have explained well

              Salaam

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                peace samia

                i appreciate your analysis very much.

                Others would have a much easier interpretation like a man has to spent for the woman, if not he's no good, and if she's the one that earns the money, she's no good, and her husband is not a "man"...

                .. which is still a degree better than what i often see around me here women working being the doers and having most of the responsabilities and still their men commanding them just because they are "rajl"... voodoo a new kind of slavery !

                lk

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                  Samia
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                  Thanks Elke for your kind words.

                  Women who are bread winners, and who are not arrogant because of that, are commended by Allah in the same verse as " (who are doing what they are supposed to do) , are

                  But those who do it with arrogance and gruntingly ( ), ......
                  This might lead to another heated discussion!!

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                    Peace sister samia

                    please sister if you are not strong yet in Arabic, i urge you not to provide wrong information to those who lack Arabic

                    Rajul which means "a man", its plural is "Rijal" as you know

                    now Rijl which means "a foot" its plural is "Argul"

                    did the verse say "Al Argul Qawamoon Ala Al Nissa", no it didn't, it said "Al Rigal Qawamoon Ala Al Nisa", now please look again at the plural eand you will know that the verse was talking about men

                    and please sister as you said Allah does not like the arrogant women

                    take care

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                      Samia
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                      please sister if you are not strong yet in Arabic, i urge you not to provide wrong information to those who lack Arabic

                      Thanks for the kind words!

                      The root for Rijaal is (re - jeem - lam) which is also the root for "rijl leg
                      Then we find that "rajil" (the name of the doer) means on foot; (rajul) means man, but both words have rijaal as plural.

                      Does the above has anything to do with this

                      Rajul which means "a man", its plural is "Rijal" as you know

                      now Rijl which means "a foot" its plural is "Argul"

                      Do you understand English?

                      Did you hear of the name of the doer ( )?
                      I am not going to go through the whole explanation, so if you really want to learn here and not just distribute your co-descending comments, read the thread from the beginning to know more about (another meaning for rijal is on foot). OR at least scan the word (rijaal) in the Qur'aan to see that it is also used in this sense.

                      and please sister as you said Allah does not like the arrogant women

                      But surely He likes the arrogant men, according to you!!

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                        Fine Sister Samia, I actually proved my point with your emotional commnet

                        now I dontl get emotional, what I do I expose the deception by the ignornat using the Quran

                        Rijal means men, it has nothing to do with "on foot", but thanks for the laugh, only those who knows nothing about Arabic will believe your non sense claims about the language

                        now for your english question, as I said many times, I don't really care of being good in it, what ic are about is being good in Arabic and I'm so lucky that it was my native language, therefore I have no problem with the Quran unlike those who manipulate, decieve other with absolutely non sense

                        now let me prove to everyone that Rijl, is totally something else than Rajul, it just happen that both words have similar letters, like "Peace" "Salam", and "Ladder", "Sillim"

                        Hello All

                        Here we go everyone, we will see that ?Feet? means ?Arjul?, this proves what I?m saying for almost a year now that to use the flawed root method is the weakest link to understand the Quran, and is a very wide open door for manipulations

                        I will certainly cut off your hands and your feet on opposite sides, then will I crucify you all together.

                        (124)

                        See, ?Argul? ?Feet? is the plural of ?Rijl? ?Foot?, and it has nothing to do with the word ?Rajul? which means ?Man?

                        I rest my case again

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                          Samia
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                          Rijal means men, it has nothing to do with "on foot",

                          Verse 2239
                          fa in khiftum farijaalan aw rukbaanan "and if you fear, (then perform salaat) on foot or riding"

                          Verse 2227
                          wa athina fin-naasi bil- hajji ya'tuunaka rijaalan

                          "and proclaim to people the debate; they will come to you on foot.."

                          I rest my case.

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                            unknownuser
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                            Ok public

                            of course the context in the above two verse means on foot, but that is an adjective based on another word "Rijl" which just uses the same letter as "Ragul", it is totally different tashkil

                            now in the above two verses we can see it was about a group of believers, i.e. a plural therefore the adjective describing them must be in a plural form as well, and this is the plural form of an adjective that means "on foot", IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH the word Man/Men, again this is rediculous

                            in the first verse for example, it clearly says that if we fear then we do the salat on foot, or some don't prey and stay on foot to protect those who prey, a clear cut adjective, in the other verse again a clear cut adjective, when the Hajj is called people will come on foot to do it

                            on the other hand you will see the Quran using the word Rigal as a name for men over 40 times

                            so to mix it with another word that has the same letters is a clear cut case of ignornace

                            salam

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                              Wakas
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                              This issue came up elsewhere, and sister Samia referred me to this thread, hence bringing it up again.

                              peace Samia,

                              Note AQ = al quran

                              You said
                              "Because this verse contains a law, and laws are for mu'men, so Allah should have addressed mu'men, as mquran mentioned, not the whole human kind."

                              Are you implying that whenever a law is mentioned, AQ always addresses mumin?

                              You said
                              "Some of whom? If it was men, what about the remaining men who were not favoured? Are they Qawwamoun?"

                              The criteria for being qawwamoun in 434 is

                              1. God preferred/bestowed on you
                                and
                              2. spending of their money

                              So if you are a man bestowed in a position to provide and have spent of your money (for such a purpose) then you are qawwamoun.

                              I discussed this at quran434.com

                              ""...bima (with what) faddalaAllahu (God preferred) baAAdahum (some of them) AAala (over/above/on) baAAdin* (others)..." *masculine
                              This likely refers to al rijal (the men) as indicated by keeping the same suffix reference later in the sentence, i.e. its logical and contextual flow.
                              See "baAAdahum AAala baAAdin" / "some of them above others" in 2253 and 1721, and also 653 "baAAdahum bi baAAdin" / "some of them with others", for a comparison.
                              However, there are three theoretically possible interpretations of this phrase
                              with what God preferred on some (men/women) over others (men/women)
                              OR
                              with what God preferred on some (men) over others (men)
                              OR
                              with what God preferred on some (men) over others (men/women)

                              The keyword being "some". Thus, whichever way it is translated it proves the obvious, that not all men are preferred/bestowed equally, and/or not all men are preferred/bestowed more than women. Also, the term "preferred" is general, unless made specific in context, and in this case may refer to distribution of wealth, e.g. inheritance, as mentioned by similar phrasing in 432. Since spending of wealth is mentioned separately, the preference likely refers to the fact that men do not have the physical burden of pregnancy, birth and suckling, hence are in a more favourable position to work/provide, by default.
                              It should be noted that some traditional commentators interpret this phrasing to suggest men are preferred to women with respect to various things but this is completely disproven by the Arabic itself, as the masculine plural is used in the phrase. The masculine plural in Arabic either refers to an all male group or male+female group, NEVER all female group. To add to this point, the same phrasing is used for preferring some messengers to others and some prophets to others and yet The Quran repeatedly tells us not to make distinction among them. The best person according to The Quran is whoever is the most righteous/pious/God-conscious . It should also be kept in mind that each person will be judged according to how they conducted themselves with what they have been given . In other words, with privilege comes responsibility.
                              As we can see, The Quran is not stating a fixed rule, i.e. that all men are the maintainers/supporters of women, they are only so if they fulfill the criteria and it is referring to the wider duty of care/responsibility men have as mentioned above. It is conditional."

                              Interestingly, the reasoning you give is very similar, if not identical to my own, but you choose different terms for nisa/rijal.

                              You then go on to seemingly contradict yourself, because you first said
                              "Because this verse contains a law, and laws are for mu'men, so Allah should have addressed mu'men, as mquran mentioned, not the whole human kind."

                              Then said "Then the verse narrows now to include only mu'menaat because it is now going to discuss law."

                              But the actual verse of 434 does not mention muminat, this is your assumption. You will have to clarify or retract your point.

                              Thanks.

                              All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                Samia
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                                This issue came up elsewhere, and sister Samia referred me to this thread, hence bringing it up again.

                                peace Samia,

                                Note AQ = al quran

                                You said
                                "Because this verse contains a law, and laws are for mu'men, so Allah should have addressed mu'men, as mquran mentioned, not the whole human kind."

                                Are you implying that whenever a law is mentioned, AQ always addresses mumin?

                                Salaam Wakas.
                                Thank you for bringing this up!

                                I think I did not make myself clearer and I agree with you it looks wrong. I should have explained myself better than that!
                                I was referring to the laws in the verse, where it referred to good "women" as mu'minaat (actually qantaat). But did not refer to "rijaal" who are the ones who should be modified as "mu'minuun", hence making any "man" guardian over "mu'minaat"! Which is more important to describe the giver or the receiver? Nowhere in the quraan do we see a reference to the belief of the poor and needy/receiver, or how they would react, or if this reaction requires any further steps from the giver. This is an important point in believing that these "mu'minaat" are of the "rijaal" who spend their money, not of the "nisaa'" who receive the money.

                                You said
                                "Some of whom? If it was men, what about the remaining men who were not favoured? Are they Qawwamoun?"

                                The criteria for being qawwamoun in 434 is

                                1. God preferred/bestowed on you
                                  and
                                2. spending of their money

                                So if you are a man bestowed in a position to provide and have spent of your money (for such a purpose) then you are qawwamoun.

                                I discussed this at quran434.com

                                ""...bima (with what) faddalaAllahu (God preferred) baAAdahum (some of them) AAala (over/above/on) baAAdin* (others)..." *masculine
                                This likely refers to al rijal (the men) as indicated by keeping the same suffix reference later in the sentence, i.e. its logical and contextual flow.
                                See "baAAdahum AAala baAAdin" / "some of them above others" in 2253 and 1721, and also 653 "baAAdahum bi baAAdin" / "some of them with others", for a comparison.
                                However, there are three theoretically possible interpretations of this phrase
                                with what God preferred on some (men/women) over others (men/women)
                                OR
                                with what God preferred on some (men) over others (men)
                                OR
                                with what God preferred on some (men) over others (men/women)

                                The keyword being "some". Thus, whichever way it is translated it proves the obvious, that not all men are preferred/bestowed equally, and/or not all men are preferred/bestowed more than women. Also, the term "preferred" is general, unless made specific in context, and in this case may refer to distribution of wealth, e.g. inheritance, as mentioned by similar phrasing in 432. Since spending of wealth is mentioned separately, the preference likely refers to the fact that men do not have the physical burden of pregnancy, birth and suckling, hence are in a more favourable position to work/provide, by default.
                                It should be noted that some traditional commentators interpret this phrasing to suggest men are preferred to women with respect to various things but this is completely disproven by the Arabic itself, as the masculine plural is used in the phrase. The masculine plural in Arabic either refers to an all male group or male+female group, NEVER all female group. To add to this point, the same phrasing is used for preferring some messengers to others and some prophets to others and yet The Quran repeatedly tells us not to make distinction among them. The best person according to The Quran is whoever is the most righteous/pious/God-conscious . It should also be kept in mind that each person will be judged according to how they conducted themselves with what they have been given . In other words, with privilege comes responsibility.
                                As we can see, The Quran is not stating a fixed rule, i.e. that all men are the maintainers/supporters of women, they are only so if they fulfill the criteria and it is referring to the wider duty of care/responsibility men have as mentioned above. It is conditional."

                                You speak of the criteria of beeing qawwamuun, which is correct, only if "rijaal" is not men and that we are talking of a pool of people of both sexes, then we take out of it the criteria. Otherwise we will have the contradiction you are not seeing All men are guardians over all women. It should stop here, because the "criteria" for qiwama is already set being a man.Then we do not need any further criteria. Unfortunately this is what is understood in the Muslim world, and even in the Shari3a law. Spending became a second degree, and if a man is unable to spend and his wife is the bread winner, his qualification as "man" is superior to her spending, which you see as the criteria.
                                But when we look at the whole statement as taking "people" as a pool, then it becomes clearer and the contradiction disappears
                                "Breadwinners are guardians over the needy/vulnerable, unemployed for what God bestowed on them (maybe the ability to work) and for their spending".
                                Here spending becomes really the criteria among breadwinners to be guardians. It's part of them and they are able to do it. Men, in general, are not necessarily able to spend if they are unable to work.
                                Then "some" comes perfectly right. This pool of people, men or women, God bestowed the ability to work on some of them (those who got the job and so become breadwinners) over some (those who are unable/ cannot work). And so the verse goes on into narrowing and no more "people" but behaviour of those "breadwinners - spenders", not merely gendered men and women.
                                God then gives examples of these good and bad breadwinners-spenders as two women, just as He gave us examples of two women for mu'mineen and two women for kafireen.

                                Interestingly, the reasoning you give is very similar, if not identical to my own, but you choose different terms for nisa/rijal.

                                You then go on to seemingly contradict yourself, because you first said
                                "Because this verse contains a law, and laws are for mu'men, so Allah should have addressed mu'men, as mquran mentioned, not the whole human kind."

                                Then said "Then the verse narrows now to include only mu'menaat because it is now going to discuss law."

                                But the actual verse of 434 does not mention muminat, this is your assumption. You will have to clarify or retract your point.
                                Thanks

                                I stand corrected as far as the usage of "mu'minaat" is concerned. It describes them as "quaanitaat devout", an even higher degree of "mu'minaat". (description of Ibrahim 16120; Mariam 6612; women better than the wives of the prophet 665). They are therefore "mu'minaat" by default.

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                                  b3D...b3D is a reciprocal construction, therefore 4.34 means God faddala the first element mentioned over the second and the second element over the first. That is the riyal, over the nisa' and the nisa', over the riyal, and on that count some are called to be qawwamuna and some are to keep what God kept.

                                  I do not understand why this whole line of "favoured some of them over the others" when this reciprocal construction is very common in the Quran and is as far as I have verified, it is unfailingly reciprocal.

                                  We have the same thing in 3.195, 4.21, 4.25 4.32, etc.

                                  In 4.21 both elements are clearly male on the one side, and female on the other.

                                  Is there a mistery somewhere that escapes me?

                                  Salaam

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                                    salaam Samia,

                                    Thanks for the reply.

                                    The nisa are not necessarily the receiver in this context. For example if a provider buys food, pays the electricity/gas etc the nisa are not getting any money/etc directly. One could only argue indirectly, they received something, so I do not really see this point of yours as strong or significant.

                                    Secondly, you said
                                    "Nowhere in the quraan do we see a reference to the belief of the poor and needy/receiver, or how they would react, or if this reaction requires any further steps from the giver."
                                    However, there are verses about freeing believing slaves - this mentions the belief of the receiver of freeing.
                                    Also, there is 2273 that discusses the manner the asker/receiver goes about it.

                                    But to be honest, even if this point of yours stood, I do not see it as strong or significant.

                                    You said
                                    "All men are guardians over all women. It should stop here, because the "criteria" for qiwama is already set being a man.Then we do not need any further criteria."

                                    No, it cannot stop there, because if it did it would be illogical. Simply being a man does not and cannot make one qawwamun, e.g. one could have a physical or mental disability and still be a man, and these cannot be obligated to provide. Or even if a man is ill, they cannot be obligated to provide all the time no matter what.
                                    Besides, the Arabic of Quran does not stop there. You cannot chop the statement, the statement is

                                    "The rijal are supporters/maintainers of the nisa with what God preferred/bestowed on some of them over others and with what they spent of their money"

                                    To find fault, you MUST find fault in the complete statement, not part of it.

                                    Lastly, by saying - "quaanitaat devout", an even higher degree of "mu'minaat" - you are implying whatever law is discussed in 434 it applies to an even higher degree of muminaat. Does that mean it applies to a "lower" muminaat also?

                                    In any case, the crux of the discussion is this you feel that rijal/men and nisa/women in 434 would cause a contradiction, thus it must mean something else. This is a perfectly sound position, but we have to determine if there is a contradiciton or not. So, please use the whole statement, and point out what exactly is the contradiction. You may wish to use the part I quoted from quran434.com as a guide to my view.

                                    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                      I agree with those who say that Nisaa' as well as riyal have meanings other than men or women. I do. I found the explanation some time ago given I think by Samia, that that is the meaning of the sura AnNisaa' it is not talking about women, but about those need of support by other members of society. That as far as I am concerned I find consistent.

                                      However, in this aya, and unless anybody shows me how this b3D... b3D construction in this aya is not a reciprocal one, which I am sure it is, I think that in this aya de meaning is women and men, and to me it is obvious and plain, men, in general, are free of the cares and travails of pregnancy, childbirth and, if the mother sucles the baby, also of suckling. Women are not free of that burden, that is the males advantage. But bearing children on the other hand is the women's advantage, they are in no need of anybody to have the children, it is their advantage, therefore,(somebody has mentioned that in this thread). As awlia' of one another, men, as a category must shoulder some more work than womenother than the one entailed by motherhood in society, because otherwise it would be exploitation of women. On the other hand, women must share their capability to bear children and not hide or deprive the fathers and societyn of the knowledge of their descendancy and of their closeness to the children. That is what I understand by "hafidhat lil ghaib bi ma hafidha Allah". And that is as specific groups. In this part of the aya it is not talking about husbands and wives, but about riyal and nisaa'. It is obvious that not all women have children and not all men are able to work, but specifically what no man is going to do is get pregnant and bear. And women in general do have a burden, even if it is only, at the minimum, that of the excpectations regarding motherhood. Those are the relative advantages of each sex over the other. Other advantages, like some say strength or as some say Psychological and the rest, are individual or non fundamental if there are, and in a sense overcomable, like strength. Development of humanity has made less and less of physical strength and more and more of ability and resourcefulness, and women are not physically weaker except that strength in males and females is differently distributed.

                                      The real difference and what makes of a person a man or a woman are the reproductive functions, not some hypothetical psychological make up, which by the way, the Qur'an does not sacknowledge.

                                      Salaam

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                                        However, in this aya, and unless anybody shows me how this b3D... b3D construction in this aya is not a reciprocal one, which I am sure it is, I think that in this aya de meaning is women and men, and to me it is obvious and plain, men, in general, are free of the cares and travails of pregnancy, childbirth and, if the mother sucles the baby, also of suckling. Salaam

                                        Salaam huruf,

                                        Can you please explain what you mean with "b3D construction"?

                                        I have also a feeling that "rijaal" and "nisa" may mean something else then men and women. In some verses it looks strange to translate them as men/women. But I still have not found a satisfactory definition.

                                        Salaam,
                                        Bender

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                                          Salaam, Bender,

                                          I do not know if you mange at all in Arabic or not, but have patience with me, I am useless for organizing this kind of thing, as an explanation, but I will do my best. In these ayas I mention, 3.195, 4.21, 4.25 4.32, and in many others inthe Qur'an there comes this expresion which is made of two parts with a preposition in the middle. I have tried to copy it in Arabic, but I cannot, so I put it in latin alphabet and hope it helps you.

                                          baukum (preposition) bain

                                          3195 Their Lord answered them "I do not waste the work of any worker from among you, whether male or female, you are all as each other. For those who emigrated and were driven-out from their homes and were harmed in My cause, and they fought and were killed, I will forgive for them their sins and admit them to estates with rivers flowing beneath them." A recompense from God; and God has the best recompense.

                                          bau(kum) pronoun 2nd masc plural min bain
                                          each of you from (the) other.

                                          4.21 And how can you take it when you have become intimate with each other, and they have taken from you a solemn covenant.

                                          bau(kum) pronoun 2nd masc plural ilaa bain
                                          one of you to another

                                          4.25 And whoever of you cannot afford to marry the independent female believers, then from those maintained by your oaths of the believing young women. And God is more aware of your faith, some of you to each other.

                                          bau(kum) pronoun 2nd masc plural min bain
                                          You (are) from (one) another

                                          4.32 And do not envy that which God has graced some of you over others with. For the men is a portion of what they earned, and for the women is a portion of what they earned. And ask God from His grace; God is knowledgeable in all things.

                                          baa(kum) pronoun 2nd masc plural 3ala bain
                                          some of you over others

                                          You can look for more instances of this expression, which in grammars is also explained as meaning reciprocity. And ba3du by itself is "some" or "one", but where there is this expression it is about one to another or the ones to the others or whatever the preposition indicates.

                                          Salaam

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