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Is This A Sin - part 2

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    jonny_k
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    Peace,
    Well the Quran says
    Do not come CLOSE(taqrabu) to adultery; it is a gross sin, and an evil behaviour/path.
    So things which can make one come close to this or cause sexual arousals are to be avoided. But we all, except a few, tend to do this at a young age. That is one reson why i believe GOD in His infinite Mercy has given us 40 yrs to repent and reform. GOD Bless!

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      ammarb87
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      So what do you mean? Is it a sin to watch people kissing? Kissing is a natural thing

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        jonny_k
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        Peace "ammar",

        So what do you mean? Is it a sin to watch people kissing? Kissing is a natural thing

        JK- I will not comment futher on this. Consider the above verse i quoted and make out your own opinion. GOD Bless!

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          matinbhagat
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          Salam,

          i know watching people naked cannot be allowed according to the quran as God asks us to lower our gaze even in the presence of clothed women.Hence,it is obvious about naked women.No matter how right something might seem to our human intellect,we have to trust the supreme intellect as God knows the psychological effects porn/nudity could have on our minds,better than our own judgements based on limited knowledge.Peace.It is a sin to watch naked people is my opinion,of course if it suddenly flashes and you catch a glimpse you are not to be blamed,as God looks at our innermost intentions.But once it comes on screen our duty is to lower our gaze then.

          Peace.

          ANd God knows best!

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            arnoldyasin
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            Peace,

            The solution would be real married couples as actors.

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              Alen
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              Salam.

              Thanks, this is really helpful.
              I guess i'm gonna think of that when i start writing new scripts.

              Thanks and may Allah s.w.t. helps us all.
              Salam.

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                unknownuser
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                Salam.

                Thanks, this is really helpful.
                I guess i'm gonna think of that when i start writing new scripts.

                Thanks and may Allah s.w.t. helps us all.
                Salam.

                Peace mate

                The problem though, is it ok for the married couples to show themselves to the piublic while hugging and kissing, possibly making love as well, "i guess the movie must have some sort of making love, right?"

                cheers

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                  nadeem
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                  Hi brothers and sisters!

                  I believe that Aymans views on Zinah might help in this case. I'll try to find the link.

                  Nadeem

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                    arnoldyasin
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                    Salam.

                    Thanks, this is really helpful.
                    I guess i'm gonna think of that when i start writing new scripts.

                    Thanks and may Allah s.w.t. helps us all.
                    Salam.

                    Peace mate

                    The problem though, is it ok for the married couples to show themselves to the piublic while hugging and kissing, possibly making love as well, "i guess the movie must have some sort of making love, right?"

                    cheers

                    I wouldn't go beyong kissing and hugging. And there is a big difference between two people showing love and two people showing lust. So the first is the too show which i believe is nothing wrong with..

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                      unknownuser
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                      Salam.

                      Thanks, this is really helpful.
                      I guess i'm gonna think of that when i start writing new scripts.

                      Thanks and may Allah s.w.t. helps us all.
                      Salam.

                      Peace mate

                      The problem though, is it ok for the married couples to show themselves to the piublic while hugging and kissing, possibly making love as well, "i guess the movie must have some sort of making love, right?"

                      cheers

                      Salam AhmedBahgat, all,

                      My understanding is there is a difference between intimacy and being affectionate and I think you agree that there is a difference between kisses to greet and kisses for pleasure, the same with hugs etc. While the first may be acceptable the second is not and therefore even a married couple should not publicly display their intimacy. My understanding is based on the verse in Quran- beside those on lowering our gaze already posted-- that stresses the importance even for children to ask permission to enter at three specific times of "3awratt" or when we relax our clothes, in other words, to make sure we do not share with others our intimate/private time whether we are doing something or not.
                      And Godthe All-Mighty knows best. Peace. Myr

                      I know the verse you are talking about sister and I totally agree with you

                      Cheers

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                        unknownuser
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                        Salam.

                        Thanks, this is really helpful.
                        I guess i'm gonna think of that when i start writing new scripts.

                        Thanks and may Allah s.w.t. helps us all.
                        Salam.

                        Peace mate

                        The problem though, is it ok for the married couples to show themselves to the piublic while hugging and kissing, possibly making love as well, "i guess the movie must have some sort of making love, right?"

                        cheers

                        I wouldn't go beyong kissing and hugging. And there is a big difference between two people showing love and two people showing lust. So the first is the too show which i believe is nothing wrong with..

                        Well, I have to say yes I do kiss my wife in public but the normal "Hi" not really intimate, and I still do but again, I think according to the Quran and not according to my low desires, it has to be an act that should be avoided

                        salam

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                          ammarb87
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                          I wouldn't go beyong kissing and hugging. And there is a big difference between two people showing love and two people showing lust. So the first is the too show which i believe is nothing wrong with..

                          So you think theres nothing wrong with kissing then ?

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                            lovelymoslems
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                            Kisses between wife and husband are not prohibiten, else are prohibiten

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